the hustle sucks

If your dreams feel stuck… maybe it’s not you. Maybe it’s your world. 🌍✨ Join The Live Event Waitlist - https://www.baxbara.com/event-details/boldly-becoming-live/formIn this week’s episode of Boldly Becoming, I’m sharing how moving, meeting new people, and saying “yes” more than “maybe” completely changed my idea of what’s possible — and how you can do the same.Your results can’t outgrow your vision. Let’s stretch it.

For The Girl Who Was Told She Is Too Much.Be part of the live show: ⁠https://www.baxbara.com/event-details/boldly-becoming-live/form⁠In this episode I explore the 3 things I have learnt about the dangerous effects of jealousy caused by "overachieving" as they call it. I used to think humility meant being quiet or a less than version of myself. Now I know it just means being confident enough in God not to need to show my power.

I thought I came to Zimbali for rest, but I left with revelations.Here are 5 things this trip taught me about dreaming bigger, soft-living louder, and being fearless in the pursuit of “more.”From visualizing my future home to realizing confidence isn’t a feeling—it’s a decision.🌴 Tap in.

Pray for me to keep that holiday up!

Not because we’re a lazy generation — but because we don't romanticizeburnout, survival mode, and overworking just to feel worthy. In this episode, I’m getting real about hustle culture, why it’s not sustainable, and how to avoid playing into your inevitable demise

Becoming A Cheat Code Setbacks aren’t stop signs—they’re setups. In this episode, I’m showing you how to become your own cheat code by turning every “no,” delay, and disadvantage into an unfair advantage. If you’ve ever felt behind in life, like everyone else had a head start, or like your journey’s been nothing but setbacks—this one’s for you.We’re talking:How to break out of the victim mindsetWays to turn lack of resources into creative leverageWhy “late” doesn’t mean “less than”And how to build confidence while you’re still figuring it outThis is for the underdogs, the late bloomers, and the “start again” girls. It’s time to stop playing by rules that weren’t made for you and start building a strategy that actually gets you ahead.

They say balance is the key… but what if it’s actually holding you back? 🤔✨ In this episode of Boldly Becoming, we’re unpacking the real struggle between balance and consistency—and why trying to ‘do it all’ might be stopping you from doing what actually matters.I’m sharing my own battle with staying consistent while building my media career, relaunching this podcast (again 😅), and finally finding a system that works.If you’ve ever felt stuck between maintaining ‘balance’ and going all-in on your dreams, this one’s for you. 

The biggest excuse I gave was that "I don't have time", until I recognised that I was just complacently using that time to do OTHER things that didn't necessarily feed into my goals. Today we're going over 3 hard truths that I had to face before getting into action on an episode we're calling "Becoming Disciplined". While I may not be a professional at discipline, I definitely have made TONS of progress, and I really think you can too -- so tap in! Creator's I mentioned (let them know I love them too!): Foyin (workout inspo) - https://www.instagram.com/p/C4h3UYYN6mT/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Grace (Productivity) - https://www.instagram.com/grace._mondlana/ Leila Hormozi (Mindset & Business) - https://youtu.be/2Uyl9wOFRBM?si=p1U34IheYUnebhXQ Connect with me [email protected] https://www.instagram.com/baxbara/

Have you ever felt those nerves creeping in before a big date or an important interview? Trust me, you're not alone. In this episode of "Becoming Unshakeable," we explore practical strategies for staying calm, collected, and utterly unshakeable in high-pressure situations. From harnessing the power of mindfulness to embracing your unique strengths, we're sharing insights and personal anecdotes to help you ace those nerve-wracking moments with ease. So grab your favorite beverage, cozy up, and get ready to become unshakeable in the face of nerves. Whether you're prepping for a first date or gearing up for a job interview, this episode has got you covered. Don't let nerves hold you back – it's time to step into your confidence and own the moment!

Ever feel like a fraud, even when you're achieving amazing things? You're not alone! This episode of Boldly Becoming dives deep with South African media personality Lasizwe Dambuza as he shares his personal battles with imposter syndrome and the powerful lessons he's learned about embracing his accomplishments. Join us for an inspiring conversation that will equip you with the tools to silence your inner critic and stand tall in your success.