Chat Rooms Suck! - But you might love them...

Do you love your community and want more events?  Well, your beloved promoters may not be the event hosts you think they are.  We reveal the dirty secrets of the swinging business and how some think it's a zero-sum game. We discuss how some swinging businesses hurt swingers and our community because the drive for money takes priority over doing what's best for the community. Support the Show.Get Your Tickets to Libertine Events: Promo Code *: SwingerU at checkoutMiami Vices - May 31-June3, 2024Senses - October 11-14, 2024Our Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? Our Website - Contact us, sexy products, articles, Swinger Vacations, and a FREE Kasidie trial Twitter Instagram Facebook TikTok * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Phoebe and I have a love-hate relationship with chat rooms. Sometimes chat groups suck! Listen in as we break down all the things we hate about swinger community chats and forums, and some of the reasons why we think you might like them. If you're in swinger chat groups, or want to be, you may want to check this episode out.Be sure to join our growing Patreon community, and gain access to behind-the-scenes, and extra-sexy content. https://patreon.com/SwingerUniversity Support the Show.Get Your Tickets to Libertine Events: Promo Code *: SwingerU at checkoutMiami Vices - May 31-June3, 2024Senses - October 11-14, 2024Our Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? Our Website - Contact us, sexy products, articles, Swinger Vacations, and a FREE Kasidie trial Twitter Instagram Facebook TikTok * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

If you've never been on a swinger cruise, adults-only cruise, or only been to resorts... you owe it to yourselves to go on a lifestyle cruise! What makes Bliss Cruises one of the best adult vacations you can experience? Tune in and find out!Interested in Booking Your Own Sexy Adventure at Sea?Choose from any of the cruises we have listed here to start your own sexy high-seas adventure. Enjoy all the amenities of a vanilla cruise with as much or as little swinger sparkles on top! Do as much or as little as you want, or whoever you can connect with (assuming consent of course! 😉)https://swingeruniversity.com/vacations*These links contain affiliate links, meaning we get a commission if you decide to purchase through our links, at no cost to you.Website - https://SwingerUniversity.comSupport the Show.Get Your Tickets to Libertine Events: Promo Code *: SwingerU at checkoutMiami Vices - May 31-June3, 2024Senses - October 11-14, 2024Our Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? Our Website - Contact us, sexy products, articles, Swinger Vacations, and a FREE Kasidie trial Twitter Instagram Facebook TikTok * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

It's been a while since you've heard from us... We've been producing our Patreon episodes this whole time, but not our regular episodes. https://patreon.com/swingeruniversityWonder what happened? Where we've been? What the future holds? Then you definitely want to listen to this episode.Support the Show.Get Your Tickets to Libertine Events: Promo Code *: SwingerU at checkoutMiami Vices - May 31-June3, 2024Senses - October 11-14, 2024Our Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? Our Website - Contact us, sexy products, articles, Swinger Vacations, and a FREE Kasidie trial Twitter Instagram Facebook TikTok * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Welcome to Swinger University! In this episode, hosts Ed and Phoebe dive into the world of vulvas, challenging societal norms and embracing the diversity of colors and shapes. As vulvas gain more visibility, the Ed & Phoebe discuss the influence of media, including porn and social media, on shaping unrealistic standards. Join the conversation as they explore the reasons behind the pink vulva stereotype and the impact it has on individuals' confidence and self-perception.Discover the variety of colors that vulvas come in and the factors, from genetics to hormones, influencing their appearance. Ed, a seasoned swinger, shares insights on the diversity he has encountered in the lifestyle. The hosts address common concerns and insecurities, providing information on why labia may appear darker and the potential risks associated with attempting to alter their natural color.Uncover the truth about beauty standards and learn to love your body as it is. Ed and Phoebe discuss the importance of embracing uniqueness, challenging societal expectations, and appreciating the beauty of all vulvas, regardless of color or shape.Highlights:The Pink Standard: Explore the origins of the pink vulva standard and its prevalence in media, from porn to magazines.Diversity in the Lifestyle: Ed shares his experiences as a swinger, highlighting the range of vulva colors and shapes he has encountered.Factors Influencing Color: Learn about the various factors, including genetics, hormones, and age, that contribute to the coloration of the vulva.Insecurities and Social Media: Discuss the impact of social media on body image and the pressure to conform to unrealistic standards.Risks of Altering Appearance: Delve into the potential risks and dangers associated with using creams, chemicals, and surgeries to change vulva appearance.Natural Solutions: Explore safer alternatives, such as lifestyle changes and laser treatments, for those who wish to address concerns about vulva color.Self-Love and Acceptance: Emphasize the importance of loving and accepting your body as it is, challenging societal norms, and celebrating the uniqueness of every vulva. #LoveYourVulva #BodyPositivity #SwingerUniversity #EmbraceDiversity #SelfLove #swingerpodcast #Podcast #SexualHealth #EthicalNonMonogamSupport the Show.Get Your Tickets to Libertine Events: Promo Code *: SwingerU at checkoutMiami Vices - May 31-June3, 2024Senses - October 11-14, 2024Our Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? Our Website - Contact us, sexy products, articles, Swinger Vacations, and a FREE Kasidie trial Twitter Instagram Facebook TikTok * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

🌙✨ Welcome to Swinger University, the Slumber Party edition! Join Ed and Phoebe as they unravel the secrets of female sleep orgasms, taking you on a dreamy adventure that'll leave you wondering, "Did that just happen in my sleep?" 🌙✨🛌 In this episode, the hosts of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe, dive into the exciting world of ethical non-monogamy, sexual health, and sex education with an intellectual and sexy twist. Grab your pillows and join the conversation as they explore the intriguing topic of female sleep orgasms.💭 Discover the unique experiences of nocturnal pleasures, the causes behind them, and how they vary from person to person. From hormone fluctuations to relaxation during REM sleep, Ed and Phoebe leave no aspect untouched.📈 Key Topics Discussed:Definition of Female Sleep OrgasmsCauses and TriggersFrequency and NormalcySigns and IndicatorsInfluence of Sexual ActivityTips for Enhancing Nocturnal Orgasms🕐 Timestamps for Important Moments:05:42: Exploring the uniqueness of female sleep orgasms12:18: Factors influencing the frequency and experiences22:36: Understanding signs and indicators of nocturnal pleasures31:09: The role of sexual activity in enhancing sleep orgasms40:15: Tips for those wanting to experience or enhance their nocturnal delights🌟 Call-to-Action:Ready to explore the world of slumber sensations? Hit the like button, subscribe for more intriguing discussions, and share this episode with your friends. Don't forget to leave your thoughts in the comments below. Sweet dreams, pleasure seekers! 🌙💤✨🔗 Connect with Swinger University:Leave a voicemail at 916-538-0482 or visit swingernuniversity.com to stay connected with our community. Keep learning, growing, and keeping it sexy.#MidnightDelights #SleepOrgasms #SwingerUniversity #SexualHealth #EthicalNonMonogamy #DreamyAdventure #NocturnalPleasures #SexEducation #LikeSubscribeShareSupport the Show.Get Your Tickets to Libertine Events: Promo Code *: SwingerU at checkoutMiami Vices - May 31-June3, 2024Senses - October 11-14, 2024Our Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? Our Website - Contact us, sexy products, articles, Swinger Vacations, and a FREE Kasidie trial Twitter Instagram Facebook TikTok * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Dive into the complexities of the swinging lifestyle as we explore the controversial topic of "Taking one for the team". How do you solve the four-way connection problem? In this eye-opening episode, we share personal experiences and survey insights from a wide spectrum of lifestylers, unraveling the intricacies of consent, boundaries, and the art of saying 'no' or 'yes' in the swinging community. Key Topics:Team 'No': Unyielding standards, the evolution of preferences, and the power of saying 'no' confidently.Team 'Yes': Embracing enthusiastic and lukewarm yeses, the beauty of diverse experiences, and the flexibility of boundaries.Keeping Score: The controversial practice of tallying encounters, the potential pitfalls, and ways to navigate this delicate territory.IOUs and Obligations: Exploring the thin line between consent and obligation, the impact on relationships, and the importance of open communication.Respect and Guilt: Unpacking feelings of resentment, guilt, and the role of respect in the self, relationships, and with play partners. Call-to-Action:Explore the nuances of the swinging lifestyle with us! Like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments below. What are your experiences with Team 'No' and Team 'Yes'? Let's continue this conversation and build a community where open communication and respect thrive. #SwingingLifestyle #ConsentInSwinging #OpenCommunication #RelationshipAgreements #PodcastDiscussion Support the Show.Get Your Tickets to Libertine Events: Promo Code *: SwingerU at checkoutMiami Vices - May 31-June3, 2024Senses - October 11-14, 2024Our Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? Our Website - Contact us, sexy products, articles, Swinger Vacations, and a FREE Kasidie trial Twitter Instagram Facebook TikTok * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

There's a less than glamorous side of the Swinger lifestyle. We explore 10 common challenges Swingers face, from juggling everyday life to dealing with rude people. Discover practical solutions to enhance your Swinger journey and ensure a smoother, more enjoyable experience.Highlights: Balancing "vanilla life" with Swinger adventures.Coping with career demands and unconventional work schedules.Managing hormonal fluctuations and periods in the Swinger world.Unprogramming social conditioning to embrace non-monogamous relationships.Adapting to changing desires and boundaries in your Swinger journey.Escaping the endless cycle of online profiles and connecting in real life.Handling disrespectful behavior and setting boundaries during play.Recognizing when it's time to take a break and reassess your Swinger journey. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode to spread the knowledge and join our Patreon community for exclusive content. For questions or comments, leave us a voicemail at 916-538-0482 or visit our website at SwingerUniversity.com to connect with us. Explore the world of ethical non-monogamy with Swinger University and get ready to conquer the challenges of the Swinger lifestyle!Support the Show.Get Your Tickets to Libertine Events: Promo Code *: SwingerU at checkoutMiami Vices - May 31-June3, 2024Senses - October 11-14, 2024Our Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? Our Website - Contact us, sexy products, articles, Swinger Vacations, and a FREE Kasidie trial Twitter Instagram Facebook TikTok * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

Welcome to our latest podcast episode where we delve into the intriguing world of Locktober, a unique and captivating chastity challenge! In this episode, we discuss this self-initiated kink with Mr. Red an author of erotic stories, and an active participant in Locktober. We discuss its fascinating impact on his relationship and his personal experiences. Join us as we explore the following topics: How Mr. Red got started in chastity and swingingStories from some of his experiences with the challengeThe mental and emotional aspects of chastityThe effect on intimacy and relationshipsExpert insights into the world of Locktober Whether you're a seasoned Locktober participant or merely curious about the concept, this episode promises to provide valuable insights and ignite engaging conversations. Our special guest, Mr. Red, shares his own experiences and valuable perspective on the Locktober challenge. If you're looking to gain a deeper understanding of this captivating journey or simply interested in hearing some intriguing tales, don't miss this episode of Swinger University! Like, subscribe, and hit that notification bell to stay updated with our latest content. Join us on this enlightening and exciting exploration of Locktober and discover what it truly means to embrace the challenge. Your key to unlocking this unique episode is just a click away! Support the Show.Get Your Tickets to Libertine Events: Promo Code *: SwingerU at checkoutMiami Vices - May 31-June3, 2024Senses - October 11-14, 2024Our Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? Our Website - Contact us, sexy products, articles, Swinger Vacations, and a FREE Kasidie trial Twitter Instagram Facebook TikTok * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

🌟 Step into the exhilarating world of the Folsom Street Fair with Swinger University. Join hosts Ed and Phoebe as they take you on a journey through this celebration of sexual liberation and openness, where self-expression knows no bounds. From public displays of affection to kink demonstrations, this episode dives deep into the heart of one of the world's most unique events. Explore the no-judgment atmosphere, connect with fellow attendees, and learn how this experience can empower individuals to embrace their sexuality.📢 Discover personal accounts, witness extraordinary kinks, and gain insights from the diverse individuals Ed and Phoebe encounter. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just curious about the lifestyle, this episode sheds light on the power of sexual freedom and self-discovery.Highlights:👉 00:00 - Introduction to Folsom Street Fair and hosts Ed and Phoebe.👉 05:45 - The unique and liberating atmosphere of Folsom Street Fair.👉 11:20 - Observing the spectrum of kinks and self-expression.👉 18:12 - Interviews with attendees sharing their thoughts on the fair.👉 25:36 - A look at public sex and its acceptance at the event.👉 30:55 - Meeting sex therapist Yub Kim and discussing shame and stigma.👉 36:40 - Listener questions on introducing swinging to a partner.👉 43:20 - Tips for starting a conversation about swinging with your partner.👉 49:10 - Exploring the Swinger University YouTube channel for more resources.Join Swinger University's open-minded community, and don't forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode. Your support helps us continue breaking down stigmas and promoting sexual positivity. Share your thoughts and experiences with us at swingeruniversity.com or by leaving a voicemail at 916-538-0482. Keep learning, growing, and embracing your sexual journey with Swinger University.👍 Like, ✅ Subscribe, and 📣 Share this eye-opening episode to celebrate sexual liberation and promote open conversation!Sourceshttps://www.folsomstreet.org/https://www.thechaingang.com/blog/effective-ball-stretching-guide-for-beginners/https://getmegiddy.com/scrotum-stretching Support the Show.Get Your Tickets to Libertine Events: Promo Code *: SwingerU at checkoutMiami Vices - May 31-June3, 2024Senses - October 11-14, 2024Our Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? Our Website - Contact us, sexy products, articles, Swinger Vacations, and a FREE Kasidie trial Twitter Instagram Facebook TikTok * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.