Episode 16: Gender Dysphoria and Sexual Shyness

Kink Doctor aka therapist Dulcinea Pitagora shares her personal take on kink and how having an interest in kink is different than identifying with it culturally or as a lifestyle.  

Lorrae Bradbury, founder of Sluttygirlproblems.com joins Ian and Deren to field listeners questions on concerns such as: What can you do if your partner has trouble ejaculating?  How can a woman who was coerced into giving a blow job by a previous partner get beyond the negative experience with new partner What to do when your previously horny boyfriend doesn't want to fool around as much anymore  

We sit down with the one and only, Palagia of One Leg Up, where we discuss the ins and outs that come with the daily operations of organizing the hottest erotic events in New York City. 

Featuring Slutty Girl Problem's Larrae Bradbury, we answer a listener's letter about how many partners is too many. Spoiler alert: get freaky! Listen to find out why.         

We chat with acclaimed author and curator of erotica, Rachel Kramer Bussel. She's written about sex and sexuality for pretty much all the major publications. Listen as she schools us on this overlooked art form.

We chat with former gay porn star, LeNair Xavier, and talk about racism in the agy adult film industry as well as other challenges that performers of color face daily. 

Featuring Slutty Girl Problem's Larrae Bradbury, we answer a listener's letter with about why communication is key before embarking on threesome with your partner.         

Model, stylist, and photographer, Mica, sits down and talks to us about her experiences with love and dating as a trans woman. We talk about topics such as gender dysphoria, the fashion industry, sexual shyness, and how one navigates traditional gender roles as a trans woman.

Shibari, aka the Japanese art of rope binding. What's it all about? The lovely Kiss Me Deadly Doll, who teaches and photographs this strangely beautiful kink, sits down and offers us her insights into this world.

We sit down with clinical psychologist and author, David Ley, to discuss how men can be more conscientious consumers of porn. #EthicalPorn #HealthyConsumption