The Single Series: Shame Makes Women Settle

Flirting with the world sounds good in theory, but what happens when you feel invisible, intimidating, or too guarded to play?In Part 2, Kimberly takes on confessions about  feeling overlooked beside a magnetic friend, mistaking coldness for confidence, and learning the difference between having standards and shutting life out. Because sometimes life is not overlooking you. You just have to give it a way in.No sugar-coating. Just the truth, a little tough love, and a reminder that you’re not the only one figuring it out. Submit your own at https://richlittlebrokegirls.com/confess Related Recommendations:EP. 92 Flirt With The World Pt. 1 — Apple → [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/95-flirt-with-the-world-pt-1/id1648972716?i=1000768363711]   Spotify → [https://open.spotify.com/episode/1hVWpBdPKA5IF8A7eS5fkl?si=EFx4oM4DQZOnmZpZBtt4_w]   ✨ You’re Gonna Want to Subscribe to This:Drop us a 5-STAR review (with a compliment — we read them all: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rich-little-brokegirls/id1648972716) Follow us (@richlittlebrokegrls) on Instagram for daily clips & chaos → [https://instagram.com/richlittlebrokegrls]Join the RLBG Community for exclusive events & LIVE girl talks → [https://richlittlebrokegirls.com/join] Stalk Kim on TikTok & Instagram (@kimberlybizu) for more unfiltered hot takes → [https://instagram.com/kimberlybizu & https://tiktok.com/@kimberlybizu]Shop Kim’s favorites on ShopMy → [https://shopmy.us/kimberlybizu]💌 Submit your own Confession: https://RichLittleBrokegirls.com/confess

This week, Kimberly is bringing back the lost art of flirting. Not flirting as in chasing men, but flirting as a life skill and the ability to walk into a room and create possibility.From eye contact and compliments to community, dinner parties, married friends playing cupid, and chance encounters in the wild, Kim makes the case for getting off your phone and getting back in the room. Because your next opportunity might not be on your phone. It might be standing next to you.Kim’s biggest takeaway? Let chance have a chance.Episode Timeline & Chapters:[01:12] The Girls Forgot How To Socialize[05:57] How To Flirt In Real Life Without Being Weird[10:40] Make People Feel Good & Watch What Happens[12:32] Stop Swiping, Start Flirting In The Wild[14:45] You Need Friends Who Play Cupid[17:38] No Community, No Accountability[21:08] Storytime: Sometimes You Need Bait✨ You’re Gonna Want to Subscribe to This:Drop us a 5-STAR review (with a compliment — we read them all: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rich-little-brokegirls/id1648972716) Follow us (@richlittlebrokegrls) on Instagram for daily clips & chaos → [https://instagram.com/richlittlebrokegrls]Join the RLBG Community for exclusive events & LIVE girl talks → [https://richlittlebrokegirls.com/join] Stalk Kim on TikTok & Instagram (@kimberlybizu) for more unfiltered hot takes → [https://instagram.com/kimberlybizu & https://tiktok.com/@kimberlybizu]Shop Kim’s favorites on ShopMy → [https://shopmy.us/kimberlybizu]💌 Submit your own Confession: https://RichLittleBrokegirls.com/confess

This week, Kimberly revisits a fan-favorite conversation with shadow work coach, Kris Haraldsson, aka The Woman Whisperer, unpacking the difference between love and chaos.He’s not your twin flame — you’re just addicted to the drama.In this episode, Kim and Kris break down the signs that you’re not in love — you’re bored, unhealed, and chasing intensity. Together, they unpack why women confuse chemistry with connection, intensity with intimacy, and why the fantasy of being “chosen” can have you looking for “The One” in everyone.From sugar highs to rom-com delusion, they reflect on how we’ve been taught to crave fireworks over peace, and what it really looks like when women stop running, get still, and tell the truth.Because chaos won’t save you from yourself.Kim’s biggest takeaway? You can’t self-abandon your way into self-love.Related Recommendations:Follow Kris on TikTok - HERE [https://www.tiktok.com/@thriving_imperfectly?lang=en]Join Kris' Community: Thriving Imperfectly - HERE [https://thrivingimperfectly.com/?gi=52c4fe9fa64c00a42611ad2b3eabf6baec21ed5c] Read "Conversations on Love" by Natasha Lunn - HERE [https://www.amazon.com/Conversations-Love-Lunn-Natasha/dp/0241448743]   ✨ You’re Gonna Want to Subscribe to This:Drop us a 5-STAR review (with a compliment — we read them all: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rich-little-brokegirls/id1648972716) Follow us (@richlittlebrokegrls) on Instagram for daily clips & chaos → [https://instagram.com/richlittlebrokegrls]Join the RLBG Community for exclusive events & LIVE girl talks → [https://richlittlebrokegirls.com/join] Stalk Kim on TikTok & Instagram (@kimberlybizu) for more unfiltered hot takes → [https://instagram.com/kimberlybizu & https://tiktok.com/@kimberlybizu]Shop Kim’s favorites on ShopMy → [https://shopmy.us/kimberlybizu]

This week on The Single Series, Kimberly tackles the question: “How do I stop ending up with the same guy?”She breaks down why your exes are not just people you dated, they’re data, and argues that repeating the same relationship pattern isn’t always bad luck. Sometimes it’s a reflection of your standards, your blind spots, and the version of you doing the choosing. Before jumping into something new, Kimberly makes the case for auditing your exes so you can stop paying for the same lesson twice.✨ You’re Gonna Want to Subscribe to This:Drop us a 5-STAR review (with a compliment — we read them all: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rich-little-brokegirls/id1648972716) Follow us (@richlittlebrokegrls) on Instagram for daily clips & chaos → [https://instagram.com/richlittlebrokegrls]Join the RLBG Community for exclusive events & LIVE girl talks → [https://richlittlebrokegirls.com/join] Stalk Kim on TikTok & Instagram (@kimberlybizu) for more unfiltered hot takes → [https://instagram.com/kimberlybizu & https://tiktok.com/@kimberlybizu]Shop Kim’s favorites on ShopMy → [https://shopmy.us/kimberlybizu]

Kimberly is back with another viral-moment mini episode — this time, she’s breaking down the difference between people who talk and people who do. If your circle isn’t pushing you forward, it’s holding you back, and it’s time to reassess.Listen to the Full Episode — EP. 79: Stop Gaslighting Yourself | Decide or Stay Stuck Apple → [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/79-stop-gaslighting-yourself-decide-or-stay-stuck/id1648972716?i=1000742257326]  Spotify → [https://open.spotify.com/episode/7CZcBccRO6kl1eede1u3Rc]   ✨ You’re Gonna Want to Subscribe to This:Drop us a 5-STAR review (with a compliment — we read them all: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rich-little-brokegirls/id1648972716) Follow us (@richlittlebrokegrls) on Instagram for daily clips & chaos → [https://instagram.com/richlittlebrokegrls]Join the RLBG Community for exclusive events & LIVE girl talks → [https://richlittlebrokegirls.com/join] Stalk Kim on TikTok & Instagram (@kimberlybizu) for more unfiltered hot takes → [https://instagram.com/kimberlybizu & https://tiktok.com/@kimberlybizu]Shop Kim’s favorites on ShopMy → [https://shopmy.us/kimberlybizu]

This week on The Single Series, ⁠⁠Kimberly tackles the question: “How do I stop needing male attention and outside validation to feel okay?”She unpacks the hidden desperation that forms when your mood becomes dependent on texts, attention, timelines, or being chosen, and argues that this isn’t really about men at all — it’s about self-trust, confidence, and the moment you stop believing something outside of you holds the key to your worth.Related Episodes: Ep. 83: The Holy Book of Confidence | How To Build & Rebuild ConfidenceApple → [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/83-the-holy-book-of-confidence-how-to-build/id1648972716?i=1000747013053]   Spotify → [https://open.spotify.com/episode/6hIxGxkHpZapZ71q4RQvG5?si=1II5gAOpSvOSQ4gycMfk1g]  YouTube → [https://youtu.be/MN40qIAiO6w?si=N6z-hkfdmmsODkwk]   ✨ You’re Gonna Want to Subscribe to This:Drop us a 5-STAR review (with a compliment — we read them all: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rich-little-brokegirls/id1648972716) Follow us (@richlittlebrokegrls) on Instagram for daily clips & chaos → [https://instagram.com/richlittlebrokegrls]Join the RLBG Community for exclusive events & LIVE girl talks → [https://richlittlebrokegirls.com/join] Stalk Kim on TikTok & Instagram (@kimberlybizu) for more unfiltered hot takes → [https://instagram.com/kimberlybizu & https://tiktok.com/@kimberlybizu]Shop Kim’s favorites on ShopMy → [https://shopmy.us/kimberlybizu]

[video available on spotify & youtube] Not everyone can reach the top, so get to work.In this episode, Kim sits down with Nandi Howard, former VP of Content at ESSENCE and Editor-in-Chief, for a candid conversation on ambition, success, and what it really takes to build a career in your 20s. Nandi reflects on her journey from fashion intern to fashion executive, unpacking how she had to unlearn the need for external validation and redefine ambition from within. Together, they challenge the obsession with “being seen” and instead emphasize the power of doing the work, managing your energy, and building real value. If you’ve ever felt pressure to prove yourself or questioned whether you’re playing the game the right way, this episode is your reminder to focus less on optics and more on execution.Kim’s biggest takeaway? You create your own momentum.✨ You’re Gonna Want to Subscribe to This:Drop us a 5-STAR review (with a compliment — we read them all: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rich-little-brokegirls/id1648972716) Follow us (@richlittlebrokegrls) on Instagram for daily clips & chaos → [https://instagram.com/richlittlebrokegrls]Join the RLBG Community for exclusive events & LIVE girl talks → [https://richlittlebrokegirls.com/join] Stalk Kim on TikTok & Instagram (@kimberlybizu) for more unfiltered hot takes → [https://instagram.com/kimberlybizu & https://tiktok.com/@kimberlybizu]Shop Kim’s favorites on ShopMy → [https://shopmy.us/kimberlybizu]💌 Submit your own Confession: https://RichLittleBrokegirls.com/confess

Kim is back with a viral mini episode, officially over the “I’m a woman, hear me roar” era and ushering in the Tactical Tears Renaissance. In this episode mini, she makes a strong(and slightly unhinged) case for bringing back public tears and the lost art of playing dumb.She’s breaking down her Crybaby Theory: because sometimes, the difference between being escorted out and getting your way is a single tear. Listen to the Full Episode — Ep. 66: I’m A Woman, Watch Me Cry | Tactical Tears & The Lost Art of Playing DumbApple → [https://podcasts.apple.com/ug/podcast/66-im-a-woman-watch-me-cry-tactical-tears-the-lost/id1648972716?i=1000721486178] Spotify → [https://open.spotify.com/episode/272M0KjKRKYgJdzX4zTobW?si=Mw91KJyrSDizpw6BoWwGmA] ✨ You’re Gonna Want to Subscribe to This:Drop us a 5-STAR review (with a compliment — we read them all: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rich-little-brokegirls/id1648972716) Follow us (@richlittlebrokegrls) on Instagram for daily clips & chaos → [https://instagram.com/richlittlebrokegrls]Join the RLBG Community for exclusive events & LIVE girl talks → [https://richlittlebrokegirls.com/join] Stalk Kim on TikTok & Instagram (@kimberlybizu) for more unfiltered hot takes → [https://instagram.com/kimberlybizu & https://tiktok.com/@kimberlybizu]Shop Kim’s favorites on ShopMy → [https://shopmy.us/kimberlybizu]

This week on The Single Series, ⁠Kimberly⁠ tackles the question: “How do you stop feeling less valid just because you’re single?”She unpacks the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways single women are treated like they haven’t quite “arrived” from the assumptions to the side comments to the quiet pressure to prove your life is serious just because you don’t have a partner. Kim argues that this narrative isn’t truth — it’s projection. A reflection of a culture that struggles to imagine women whose worth isn’t tied to someone else.✨ You’re Gonna Want to Subscribe to This:Drop us a 5-STAR review (with a compliment — we read them all: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rich-little-brokegirls/id1648972716) Follow us (@richlittlebrokegrls) on Instagram for daily clips & chaos → [https://instagram.com/richlittlebrokegrls]Join the RLBG Community for exclusive events & LIVE girl talks → [https://richlittlebrokegirls.com/join] Stalk Kim on TikTok & Instagram (@kimberlybizu) for more unfiltered hot takes → [https://instagram.com/kimberlybizu & https://tiktok.com/@kimberlybizu]Shop Kim’s favorites on ShopMy → [https://shopmy.us/kimberlybizu]

Dial STAR 67… it’s time for Confession Session.This week, Kim takes on confessions about feeling behind, procrastinating your life away, letting comparison derail you, isolating yourself, and chasing a man who is not your man. No sugar-coating. Just the truth, a little tough love, and a reminder that you’re not the only one figuring it out. Submit your own at https://richlittlebrokegirls.com/confess Related Episodes: Ep. 55: The Myth of Being Chosen ft. Kris Haraldsson | Looking For “The One” in EveryoneApple → [https://podcasts.apple.com/mz/podcast/55-the-myth-of-being-chosen-ft-kris-haraldsson/id1648972716?i=1000700891377]    Spotify → [https://open.spotify.com/episode/7FQ7DgXspRCUQYXQBWaAqR]   Ep. 67: Alencia Johnson — Exposing How Perfectionism Keeps Women PowerlessApple → [https://podcasts.apple.com/tz/podcast/67-alencia-johnson-exposing-how-perfectionism-keeps/id1648972716?i=1000722483441]    Spotify → [https://open.spotify.com/episode/2KvQdEsTf8y2LBzEbjrZ2u]   ✨ You’re Gonna Want to Subscribe to This:Drop us a 5-STAR review (with a compliment — we read them all: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rich-little-brokegirls/id1648972716) Follow us (@richlittlebrokegrls) on Instagram for daily clips & chaos → [https://instagram.com/richlittlebrokegrls]Join the RLBG Community for exclusive events & LIVE girl talks → [https://richlittlebrokegirls.com/join] Stalk Kim on TikTok & Instagram (@kimberlybizu) for more unfiltered hot takes → [https://instagram.com/kimberlybizu & https://tiktok.com/@kimberlybizu]Shop Kim’s favorites on ShopMy → [https://shopmy.us/kimberlybizu]