RS387 - The FIRE movement and building a life by design with Jake Wysocki

What would it look like to design your life the way you'd design a great product - starting with the why, testing before you commit, and building towards a shared vision with the people you love? Design thinking strategist Jake Wysocki shares how intentional decision-making, the FIRE movement, and honest conversations with your partner can help you stop living by default and start living by design. Key takeaways: Stop living on autopilot: Most of us follow a paved path - school, job, ladder, retirement - without ever asking why. Jake's Intentioncraft philosophy starts with one question: what are you actually doing this for? The FIRE movement demystified: Financial independence isn't about retiring early - it's about building enough of a financial foundation that you have real choices. Jake explains the 4% rule, coast FIRE, and the concept of memory dividends from Die With Zero. State of the union sessions: Jake and his wife run structured half-day workshops three times a year to check in on life across eight pillars, align on shared goals, and make intentional decisions together - before resentment or drift sets in. Bullets before cannonballs: Inspired by Jim Collins, Jake's approach to business pivots is to test small before committing big - a principle that led him from helping millennial parents live regret-free to building five-star workshops for established experts. Excellence over perfectionism: Perfectionism assumes you'll reach a finish line that doesn't exist. Excellence is the ongoing pursuit of better - and it's what lets you ship, serve clients well, and keep improving without waiting for perfect. Book a free call to explore what building your business with more intention could look like for you - onestepoutside.com/call

Voted most likely to succeed at 17, Anna Lundberg has spent years asking what that actually meant - and whether it still matters. This episode traces the quiet question so many high-achievers carry but rarely say out loud: is this it? And reframes it not as a sign that something's gone wrong, but as evidence that something's ready to shift. "Is this it?" is a signal, not a crisis - When the life or business you've worked hard to build starts to feel like friction, that's not failure. It's evidence you've outgrown something, and it's asking you to grow in a different direction. Conventional success has a hidden cost - From Elon Musk to Arianna Huffington, the pattern holds: external achievement is rarely measured against what it costs in health, relationships, and presence. Our relationship with work is a design choice, not a natural law - From Ancient Rome to hustle culture, the way we've been taught to measure success has a history - and it can be redesigned. Success changes with the seasons of your life - Each chapter calls for a different definition. Running an old script past its sell-by date isn't loyalty, it's avoidance. The third way exists - Between pushing through and blowing everything up, there's a quieter option: pausing, examining the inherited scripts, and redesigning deliberately rather than reactively. If this episode prompted something - a quiet question you've been carrying, a chapter that no longer quite fits - book a free clarity call at onestepoutside.com/call.

Forty percent of professionals under 35 now earn from multiple income streams - and yet most people who end up with a portfolio career stumble into it by accident rather than by design. Anna Lundberg explores what a portfolio career really is, why it's rising so fast, and how to build one with the intentional architecture it needs to be both sustainable and fulfilling. Portfolio careers have a name now - and momentum: Over 63% of UK adults already have or plan to have multiple roles, but most people arrive at a portfolio by accident rather than conscious design, which is where the overwhelm starts. There's a real difference between a portfolio and just having multiple jobs: A genuine portfolio requires a coherent umbrella, deliberate architecture, and an honest view of which strands are anchoring your income, which are building your future, and which are feeding your passion. Context switching has a cost: Moving between different client worlds and problems is cognitively demanding - the solution isn't to do less, but to structure your time and identity around the portfolio model intentionally. The identity shift matters as much as the practical structure: Introducing yourself as someone with a portfolio career - not someone who "does a bit of this and a bit of that" - changes how you show up, how you make decisions, and how others see you. An audit is the place to start: Before adding anything new, label what you already have - anchor, growth, or passion layer - and decide what needs to drop to make space. Ready to bring more intention to how your work is designed? Book a free call with Anna at onestepoutside.com/call.

Most people frame leaving corporate as a binary choice - and that's exactly what keeps them stuck. This episode maps the full range of career and business models available to independent experts and career changers, from flexible employment variations to fractional work, portfolio careers, and solopreneur paths - with honest trade-offs for each so you can find the model that actually fits your life right now. The binary framing of "stay or go" is what keeps most people stuck - there's a full spectrum of options between and beyond traditional employment, and most people don't know half of them exist Freelance, independent expert, and fractional are genuinely different models with different pricing ceilings, lifestyle implications, and sustainability profiles - understanding the distinction matters for how you position and build Portfolio careers have gone mainstream, but they require active management and a coherent umbrella message to avoid creating two businesses worth of workload on top of each other The most clarifying question isn't "what do I want to do?" but "am I building something to sell one day, or building a container for my work and my life?" - the answer shapes every decision that follows You don't have to know the whole path. The next right move, given who you are and what your life looks like right now, is enough If you're mapping your options, Anna's first book Leaving the Corporate 9 to 5 is a practical starting point - and if you want support working out the model that fits your life, book a free clarity call at onestepoutside.com/call.

The conversation around women leaving corporate careers has reached a tipping point - and the numbers back it up. This International Women's Day episode unpacks the real structural reasons behind the exodus, why it isn't an ambition gap, and what women are quietly building on the other side. •       The data is clear: women aren't opting out of ambition - they're opting out of a system that consistently extracts more than it gives back, with caregiving pressures, lack of flexibility, and burnout all cited as primary drivers. •       Lower interest in promotion, as McKinsey's 2025 report flagged, is a rational response to structurally unfair conditions - not evidence of an ambition gap. •       Women are quietly building - founding businesses at record rates, designing portfolio careers, and creating models that give them genuine agency over time, income, and energy. •       Leaving corporate is only step one. The real work is building differently - not recreating the same overwork, undercharging, and boundaryless patterns in your own business. •       For those still inside organisations, the question isn't how to get women to lean back in - it's what leadership teams are genuinely willing to redesign. If you're at the beginning of this journey, Anna's book Leaving the Corporate 9 to 5 - available on Amazon - is a brilliant starting point. And if you're already building independently and want to do it with more intention, keep an eye out for something new coming very soon.

A restructure at work can feel like failure — until you use it to reset on your terms. Anna Lundberg talks with Michelle Schafer about turning restructures into opportunity by getting clear on non-negotiables, value, and what you want next. Key takeaways A restructure at work can become a reset point when you define your non-negotiables first (family, health, flexibility). Underpricing is often a confidence issue, not a competence issue — especially when you already bring decades of experience. Visibility is more sustainable (and more human) when it's rooted in contribution, relationships and conversation. Picking a lane can make it easier for the right people to find you — and trust what you're known for. A resilient business model is built around boundaries, rhythms, and proper time off — not constant availability. If this resonated, share it with someone navigating change right now.

When life is busy and your energy is low, you don't need more hustle — you need a minimum viable week. In this episode, Anna shares the three protected blocks that keep your business stable and moving forward, even in heavy delivery seasons. Key takeaways The minimum viable week is about doing the right minimum on purpose — so your business still moves in real life weeks. Protect three blocks: demand (future work), delivery (boundaried commitments), and design (decisions that simplify). If you can only do one thing for demand, prioritise momentum: follow-up and invitation that leads to conversations and sales. Design time prevents you rebuilding the same messy week repeatedly — even one decision keeps things improving. If you are building a business that's already up and running, but you can feel it needs a bit of tightening, so it's easier to sell, easier to deliver and actually fits your life, then that's the work I do. You can book a call at onestepoutside.com/call if you want to have a chat and talk through your particular goals and challenges. And if you did miss the four-hour workday workshop, then you can get the replay now. So you can go to onestepoutside.com/4hourday.

If your pipeline swings between feast and famine, it's rarely because you're "bad at marketing" — it's because you don't have a demand rhythm. In this episode, Anna breaks down a simple weekly block that creates consistent demand without living on the content hamster wheel. Key takeaways A demand rhythm is a protected weekly block that keeps your pipeline warm — even when you have limited hours. Momentum moves (follow-ups, invites, proposals) are often the missing link between visibility and paid work. Authority amplifiers help you build trust faster than "more posting", especially in a noisy market. Visibility matters, but it's not the goal — the goal is conversations with the right decision makers. Join Anna's Four-Hour Workday workshop on Thursday 12th February to map your priorities and repeatable demand moves: Sign up at onestepoutside.com/4hourday >>

If your workdays are constrained by school hours, health, or simply how you want to live, a four-hour workday isn't indulgent — it's a smart business strategy. In this episode, Anna shares how to protect your best thinking time, simplify what doesn't matter, and design a business model that works inside real life. A four-hour workday forces clarity: you protect deep work and stop low-value tasks getting to hide in "busy". If your business only works when you overwork, it's a business model issue — not a discipline issue. Time caps reveal what's unviable fast: pricing, scope, and over-custom delivery need to change. The goal isn't rigidity — it's designing around your peak hours so the rest of the day is lower-stakes by choice. If this hit home, join the Four-hour Workday workshop on 12 February at onestepoutside.com/4hourday.

If the start of the year is already showing you what feels easy — and what feels heavy or out of step — this episode will help you make sense of what you're seeing. Anna explores why the landscape feels noisier, why capacity matters more than ever, and how a simpler, more coherent business structure can create clarity, stronger boundaries, and easier demand. A noisy market and more discerning buyers make coherence more valuable than ever. Capacity is a key constraint — piling on productivity (or AI content) often adds complexity. The friction you feel is usually architectural, not personal. Simplicity and depth can be a stronger strategy than "bigger goals" and constant scaling. When design, demand and delivery align, work feels lighter and decisions get clearer. Explore next steps at intentionalexpert.com.