When your child shouts "Go Away" and slams their door - with Michelle Puster

Do you ever struggle to know what to do when your child runs to their room, slams the door and shouts at you to “Go Away!”?If you're like many of my clients, you might feel confused about what to do.On the one hand, you want to respect your child's boundaries and not force yourself in when they've told you go away.But on the other hand, your child is clearly upset and you don't want to leave them alone with their upset feelings.  So what do you do?!In this episode, my fabulous client Michelle shares a really cool thing she does with her kids in those moments that I think you're going to love.This is perfect for those times when you're not in the mood to go into your chid's room and actively listen to their upset feelings, but you're still wanting to connect and help them.___________________________________________________________About Michelle PusterMichelle is a therapist and mum of 3 (including twins) who has experienced burnout, depression and anxiety.  She is grounded, authentic and has beautifully strong relationships with her children who are thriving.  You can find out more about her at www.compassionateheartmindfullife.com where you can download her FREE 4 Step Guided Pause & Regroup Meditation.___________________________________________________________About Helena Mooney💞 Helping you shout less, set limits, get more sleep AND have more fun!**DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE BOOKLET:** Shout Less, Connect More with 5 Simple GamesBook: 1:1 Mentoring SessionFollow on InstagramFollow on Facebook

Have you ever argued with your partner about parenting? Most parents have and it's one of the big topics that clients usually want to talk or vent about. This is especially an issue when you're following a different approach to the norm, and maybe you've even questioned whether it's worth implementing it if your partner is not 100% on board.In this episode I talk with fellow Aware Parenting Instructor, Joss Goulden about what you can do to create a more connected co-parenting relationship with your partner whilst staying true to your values.___________________________________________________________About Joss GouldenJoss is a Level 2 Certified Aware Parenting Instructor, who has a degree in Psychology and completed post-graduate courses in Human Communication Science and Counselling.She is the host of The Aware Parenting Stories Podcast and The Aware Parenting and Natural Learning Podcast and has created the Aware Partnering in Parenthood Online Course.Website : https://awareparenting.com.au/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/awareparentingwithjoss/___________________________________________________________About Helena MooneyI am a Certified Parenting Coach for mums who want to do "gentle parenting" but become frustrated and worried when it doesn't seem to work. I'm here to help you feel more confident as a mum, deeply connected as a family, and to all have more fun!**DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE BOOKLET:** Shout Less, Connect More with 5 Simple GamesBook: 1:1 Mentoring SessionFollow on InstagramFollow on Facebook

If you've ever tried to give your child the ideal day by throwing a birthday party or taking them on an exciting trip, only for them to have a meltdown or complain, then this episode is for you.In it, Devon Harris shares about how about a day spent doing mundane things with her son led him to declare it was "the best day ever"So what was it about that day that had such a profound impact?And how can you bring in the elements she talks about into your every day life?We also talk about her previous work with children who were in protective services and what led her to following Aware Parenting in her own parenting and becoming a Certified Instructor.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------About Devon HarrisDevon is an Aware Parenting Instructor who specialises in coaching and consulting for families with bright and gifted children. You can find out more and contact her here: www.devonharris.com.au--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------About Helena MooneyI am a Certified Parenting Coach for mums who want to do "gentle parenting" but become frustrated and confused when it doesn't work. I give you practical, respectful and effective strategies to help you feel more confident as a mum and deeply connected as a family so you all have more fun!**DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE BOOKLET:** Shout Less, Connect More with 5 Simple GamesBook: 1:1 Mentoring SessionFollow on InstagramFollow on Facebook

You are going to LOVE this episode. This is a very honest, raw and hopeful conversation with Michelle Puster, a long-term client of mine who is a therapist and Mom of 3 (including twins).Michelle opens up about how challenging life was with 3 children under 2 and the rage, shame, depression and anxiety she experienced.This difficult time led her to eventually find Hand in Hand Parenting, start working with me and discover meditation. She shares how she went from crying in the bathroom to being able to be calm and present with her children when they're having a hard time with difficult behaviour.This episode will give you hope and a pathway to turn your dark times around.----------------------------------------------------------------------About MichelleMichelle Puster M.Ed, is an online mindfulness teacher for parentsShe helps parents trapped in anger and burnout free themselves from overwhelming guilt and shame.Click here to download her FREE 5 minute Rage Break:  4 steps to pause and regroup when it's taking everything you have not to lose it with your kids.Follow her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/compassionateheartmindfullife/----------------------------------------------------------------------About Helena MooneyI am a Certified Parenting Coach for mums who want to do "gentle parenting" but become frustrated and worried when it doesn't seem to work. I'm here to help you feel more confident as a mum, deeply connected as a family, and to all have more fun!**DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE BOOKLET:** Shout Less, Connect More with 5 Simple GamesBook: 1:1 Mentoring SessionFollow on InstagramFollow on Facebook

When you first start parenting this different way, you're probably worried about how your children will turn out and whether you can trust the process.In this episode, I have a heartfelt chat with Vivian Viester about the challenges and revelations of parenting, especially with teenagers. Vivian shares her journey of discovering Aware Parenting and what she's learned, especially when things are hard. We talk about the importance of self-compassion, understanding the underlying reasons for our reactions and emotions, repairing ruptures with our children, trusting their natural learning process, healing our relationships with our own parents, and finding self acceptance. You can find out more about Vivian here: https://www.instagram.com/vivianviesterawareparenting/

Parenting is such an important job and of course you want to do it really well.But sometimes you don't know what to do when your child is being challenging. And sometimes you can focus so much on the serious things, that you lose sight of what life and parenting is actually about - which is to be enjoyed! Find out how you can bring more silliness throughout your day, and how to respond in those moments when you don't know what to do.-----Timestamps: 00:00 Parenting can be tough05:10 Lighten up, play, and be silly with kids's behaviour.06:25 Connect with your child in silly ways.14:40 Teach by example.17:57 Creating special rituals with your child.20:16 Parenting can be fun23:01 Keep being you, connecting, and looking after yourself.-----ABOUT MEI’m Helena Mooney, a Certified Parenting Coach, and I want to make parenting easier for you so that you and your child can thrive!**DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE BOOKLET:** Shout Less, Connect More with 5 Simple GamesBook: 1:1 Mentoring SessionFollow on InstagramFollow on Facebook

If your child has ever said "Nobody will play with me" you'll know how heart-wrenching it is to hear your child struggling. Especially when you remember what it was like for you at school. So in today's episode I share what I did when my son (6) said that to me and how I helped him.This episode is a powerful one because social struggles are a big reason why children don't want to go to school. And when you can help them feel more confident socially, they feel more relaxed and able to learn better.If your child is struggling with school - either because they've just started, or they just don't want to go - join me for a special interactive workshop:Overcoming School AnxietyDiscover simple, powerful & fun games to help your child become more confident away from youReceive a script of what to say Learn what to do to in the morning and when they get home each day Realise the #1 significant factor to make it easier for both of youThis is MORE than just an information workshop, YouTube video or podcast episode.  Receive personalised support Explore your own school experiences so that you can better help your child with theirs Feel more confident knowing you have practical, effective strategies that will help your child"WE SAW RESULTS INSTANTLY" (Sara)Click here to secure your spot----Helena Mooney is a Certified Parenting Coach dedicated to helping your family AND you thrive.DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE BOOKLET: Shout Less, Connect More with 5 Simple GamesBook: 1:1 Mentoring SessionFollow on InstagramFollow on Facebook

Are you having the same old New Year Resolutions such as lose weight or earn more money?They can feel a bit boring and uninspiring, don't they?Instead, how would it be to instead focus on the one thing that actually determines the quality of your life?In this episode we dive into just that. You’ll hear: What's really important to have a fulfilling lifeWhat to focus on with your childThe power of micro momentsWhy you need to embrace imperfectionand much more!Listen today!--------Helena Mooney is a Certified Parenting Coach dedicated to helping your family AND you thrive.DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE BOOKLET: Shout Less, Connect More with 5 Simple Games Book: 1:1 Mentoring SessionFollow on InstagramFollow on Facebook

Unless it's pesto pasta, fish & chips or pizza, George, 8, will complain about what I've cooked for dinner.Earlier this week, I could see that he needed to offload some big feelings he was carrying.  He'd been quick to temper for a while and so I used his refusal to eat my (delicious!) dinner to help him with his upset.I set the limit and I listened to his rage....In this episode I share about what happened:- how he reacted- what I did to set the limit- how it's different to listen now that he's 8- how I integrated play- how he was afterwardsFor respectful, playful and effective parenting strategies and 6 weeks of support, join me inside Annoying to AMAZING! This is perfect if you have a child aged 1-8 years. If you would like more personalised mentoring, join me 1:1 each fortnight for 3 months. FREE INTRO 1:1 SESSION: Click here to book

There's so much pressure to be the "perfect" mum. But, what is "perfect"? And is your desire to be perfect resulting in you feeling like a failure?This episode will dive into what most mum's feel, and how you can turn that around.Helena Mooney is a Parenting & Life Coach dedicated to helping your family AND you thrive.Book: 1:1 Mentoring SessionJoin: Annoying to AMAZING! Online program if you have a child under 9Follow on InstagramFollow on Facebook