5 Major Ways Dating has Changed in this Generation | JJ & Kait Tomlin

In this episode, Grant sits down with pastor Reward Sibanda, who brought a powerful and challenging perspective that every Western leader needs to hear. He talks about why we’ve redefined one of the most foundational disciplines of our faith and what we’ve lost in the process. Reward cuts through the noise and gets to the heart of what fasting is really about: consecration. It’s not about earning God’s favor or finding a new self-help trick; it’s about humbling ourselves to hear His voice more clearly. If you’re feeling spiritually dry or you think your ministry lacks power, this conversation will show you the simple, ancient path to a deeper walk with God. Follow Grant on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/grantskeldon Visit Grant's website: https://www.grantskeldon.com/   MORE RESOURCES:Lead "Let's Talk Mental Health" conversations with your family or small group: https://events.thinqmedia.com/mentalhealth Create a free THINQ Account and download the THINQ Media app on your smart TV to access more trusted content like this on topics from all channels of culture at https://thinqmedia.com Apply the THINQ Framework as you think through cultural topics: https://thinqmedia.com/videos/thinq-framework Attend THINQ events where you can gather with like-minded leaders, ask better questions and have conversations that lead to wisdom: https://events.thinqmedia.com/ Sign up for THINQ Summit 2025 October 2-4 in Nashville, TN: https://events.thinqmedia.com/2025summit Get more from the THINQ Podcast Network: Rhythms for Life with Rebekah and Gabe Lyons: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rhythms-for-life/id1477541494 The InFormed Parent with Suzanne Phillips: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-informed-parent-with-suzanne-phillips/id1708269607 UnderCurrent with Gabe Lyons: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/undercurrent-with-gabe-lyons/id1683005631 NeuroFaith with Curt Thompson: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/neurofaith-with-curt-thompson-md/id1613240148

In this episode, Grant sits down with Jennifer Barnett, Executive Director of Freedom Prayer. Jennifer provides a clear definition of Freedom Prayer as a personal ministry focused on identifying and resolving barriers that hinder a mature relationship with God, such as wounding, sin, ungodly beliefs, and entanglements. Drawing from her own experience overcoming crippling anxiety in her early years as a believer, she distinguishes Freedom Prayer from deliverance while emphasizing its role in spiritual formation and abiding in Christ. This episode examines five prevalent spiritual strongholds: distance from God, ungodly beliefs, deep wounds and unforgiveness, entanglements, and sin. Designed for the next generation of Christian leaders, this discussion offers practical guidance for those seeking to deepen their faith, lead with authenticity, and experience greater freedom in their walk with God. Catch Jennifer's workshop titled "Responsible Deliverance" at the upcoming THINQ Summit in Nashville, October 2-4. Register today: thinqsummit.com Check out Freedom Prayer here: https://freedomprayer.org/ Follow Grant on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/grantskeldon Visit Grant's website: https://www.grantskeldon.com/   MORE RESOURCES: Lead "Let's Talk Mental Health" conversations with your family or small group: https://events.thinqmedia.com/mentalhealth Create a free THINQ Account and download the THINQ Media app on your smart TV to access more trusted content like this on topics from all channels of culture at https://thinqmedia.com Apply the THINQ Framework as you think through cultural topics: https://thinqmedia.com/videos/thinq-framework Attend THINQ events where you can gather with like-minded leaders, ask better questions and have conversations that lead to wisdom: https://events.thinqmedia.com/ Sign up for THINQ Summit 2025 October 2-4 in Nashville, TN: https://events.thinqmedia.com/2025summit   Get more from the THINQ Podcast Network:   Rhythms for Life with Rebekah and Gabe Lyons: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rhythms-for-life/id1477541494 The InFormed Parent with Suzanne Phillips: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-informed-parent-with-suzanne-phillips/id1708269607 UnderCurrent with Gabe Lyons: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/undercurrent-with-gabe-lyons/id1683005631 NeuroFaith with Curt Thompson: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/neurofaith-with-curt-thompson-md/id1613240148

In this powerful episode, Grant sits down with author and spiritual strategist Tailah Scroggins to unpack the subtle ways New Age spirituality is seeping into the church today—and how Christian leaders can respond with wisdom and discernment. From understanding the dangers behind the Enneagram, yoga, and manifestation to the importance of deepening intimacy with Jesus, Grant and Tailah dive into practical insights for navigating these cultural currents without losing focus on what truly matters: a vibrant, Spirit-led life. If you're serious about leading well through the gray areas of belief and practice, this conversation will give you clarity, truth, and encouragement to stay grounded. Get Breaking Demonic Chains: https://www.amazon.com/Breaking-Demonic-Chains-Deliverance-Witchcraft/dp/0800773128/ Check out Tailah's website: https://www.tailah.com/ Subscribe to her on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TailahOfficial/ Follow her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tailahofficial/ and on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tailahofficial/ Follow Grant on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/grantskeldon Visit Grant's website: https://www.grantskeldon.com/ MORE RESOURCES: Lead "Let's Talk Mental Health" conversations with your family or small group: https://events.thinqmedia.com/mentalhealth Create a free THINQ Account and download the THINQ Media app on your smart TV to access more trusted content like this on topics from all channels of culture at https://thinqmedia.com Apply the THINQ Framework as you think through cultural topics: https://thinqmedia.com/videos/thinq-framework Attend THINQ events where you can gather with like-minded leaders, ask better questions and have conversations that lead to wisdom: https://events.thinqmedia.com/ Sign up for THINQ Summit 2025 October 2-4 in Nashville, TN: https://events.thinqmedia.com/2025summit   Get more from the THINQ Podcast Network: Rhythms for Life with Rebekah and Gabe Lyons: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rhythms-for-life/id1477541494 The InFormed Parent with Suzanne Phillips: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-informed-parent-with-suzanne-phillips/id1708269607 UnderCurrent with Gabe Lyons: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/undercurrent-with-gabe-lyons/id1683005631 NeuroFaith with Curt Thompson: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/neurofaith-with-curt-thompson-md/id1613240148

In this episode, Grant sits down with pastor and speaker Martin Sedra to tackle the real reasons young Christian leaders are feeling afraid to speak up today—and how fear, culture, and compromise are holding us back from true boldness. From personal stories of courage in Egypt to the biblical call for Elijah-like bravery, this conversation is a must-watch for anyone serious about leading with conviction in a passive culture. If you're ready to stand firm and lead courageously, this is for you. Let’s push back against the noise and get back to biblical truth and fearless leadership. Follow Martin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/martinsedra/ and on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/martinsedra98/   Follow Grant on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/grantskeldon Visit Grant's website: https://www.grantskeldon.com/   MORE RESOURCES: Lead "Let's Talk Mental Health" conversations with your family or small group: https://events.thinqmedia.com/mentalhealth Create a free THINQ Account and download the THINQ Media app on your smart TV to access more trusted content like this on topics from all channels of culture at https://thinqmedia.com Apply the THINQ Framework as you think through cultural topics: https://thinqmedia.com/videos/thinq-framework Attend THINQ events where you can gather with like-minded leaders, ask better questions and have conversations that lead to wisdom: https://events.thinqmedia.com/ Sign up for THINQ Summit 2025 October 2-4 in Nashville, TN: https://events.thinqmedia.com/2025summit Get more from the THINQ Podcast Network: Rhythms for Life with Rebekah and Gabe Lyons: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rhythms-for-life/id1477541494 The InFormed Parent with Suzanne Phillips: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-informed-parent-with-suzanne-phillips/id1708269607 UnderCurrent with Gabe Lyons: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/undercurrent-with-gabe-lyons/id1683005631 NeuroFaith with Curt Thompson: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/neurofaith-with-curt-thompson-md/id1613240148

In this episode, Grant sits down with author and entrepreneur Alan Hirsch to talk about why the Church has suppressed the language of the five-fold ministry—the apostle, prophet, evangelist, shepherd, and teacher—and why rediscovering it is the key to unlocking the potential of the next generation. If you’ve ever felt like a misfit in the church, like you have an angst or a passion that doesn’t quite fit the mold, this conversation is for you! Watch as Alan breaks down these callings as a direct extension of the ministry of Jesus himself and helps you understand your own unique wiring so you can move from feeling like a rebel to becoming the healthy, effective leader God created you to be. This isn't just another personality test; this is about activating the full potential of the body of Christ! Check out Alan Hirsch's website: https://www.alanhirsch.org// Follow Grant on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/grantskeldon Visit Grant's website: https://www.grantskeldon.com/ MORE RESOURCES: Lead "Let's Talk Mental Health" conversations with your family or small group: https://events.thinqmedia.com/mentalhealth Create a free THINQ Account and download the THINQ Media app on your smart TV to access more trusted content like this on topics from all channels of culture at https://thinqmedia.com Apply the THINQ Framework as you think through cultural topics: https://thinqmedia.com/videos/thinq-framework Attend THINQ events where you can gather with like-minded leaders, ask better questions and have conversations that lead to wisdom: https://events.thinqmedia.com/ Sign up for THINQ Summit 2025 October 2-4 in Nashville, TN: https://events.thinqmedia.com/2025summit Get more from the THINQ Podcast Network: Rhythms for Life with Rebekah and Gabe Lyons: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rhythms-for-life/id1477541494 The InFormed Parent with Suzanne Phillips: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-informed-parent-with-suzanne-phillips/id1708269607 UnderCurrent with Gabe Lyons: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/undercurrent-with-gabe-lyons/id1683005631 NeuroFaith with Curt Thompson: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/neurofaith-with-curt-thompson-md/id1613240148

Special Note: This episode addresses the subject of suicide and suicide prevention. If you are struggling with thoughts of suicide or would just like someone to talk to, please call or text 988 to speak to a counselor. The 988 Lifeline is free, confidential, and available 24/7/365. — In this heavy episode, Grant sits down with Jacob Coyne, the founder of the incredible "Stay Here" movement. He shares the powerful story of how a conversation in Dallas led to a partnership with 57 NFL quarterbacks for a suicide prevention campaign that reached over 200 million people. Jacob debunks the #1 myth that holds most leaders back from helping those who are struggling. He gets practical about what to do and say when someone you know uses language like, "I don't want to be here anymore." This isn't just about awareness; it's about action. It's about having the courage to be direct and the compassion to build communities where people can actually find healing. If you're a pastor, a youth leader, or just someone who wants to know how to love people who are struggling well, this is for you. For suicide help or prevention resources visit https://988lifeline.org/ Check out Stay Here: https://www.stayhere.live/ Follow Jacob on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jacobcoyne/ Visit Jacob's website: https://www.jacob-coyne.com/ Follow Grant on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/grantskeldon Visit Grant's website: https://www.grantskeldon.com/   MORE RESOURCES: Lead "Let's Talk Mental Health" conversations with your family or small group: https://events.thinqmedia.com/mentalhealth Create a free THINQ Account and download the THINQ Media app on your smart TV to access more trusted content like this on topics from all channels of culture at https://thinqmedia.com Apply the THINQ Framework as you think through cultural topics: https://thinqmedia.com/videos/thinq-framework Attend THINQ events where you can gather with like-minded leaders, ask better questions and have conversations that lead to wisdom: https://events.thinqmedia.com/ Sign up for THINQ Summit 2025 October 2-4 in Nashville, TN: https://events.thinqmedia.com/2025summit   Get more from the THINQ Podcast Network: Rhythms for Life with Rebekah and Gabe Lyons: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rhythms-for-life/id1477541494 The InFormed Parent with Suzanne Phillips: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-informed-parent-with-suzanne-phillips/id1708269607 UnderCurrent with Gabe Lyons: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/undercurrent-with-gabe-lyons/id1683005631 NeuroFaith with Curt Thompson: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/neurofaith-with-curt-thompson-md/id1613240148

In this episode, Grant sits down with JJ and Kait Tomlin for a deep dive into the latest trends transforming dating, singleness, and relationships in the church today. From navigating the paradox of choice, online dating, and social media, to biblical insights on singleness and community accountability—this conversation is packed with practical wisdom for next-gen leaders shaping a generation. Whether you’re leading a church, mentoring next gen, or just want to understand the cultural shifts around relationships, this episode will challenge and inspire you to steward love and singleness in a way that honors God and builds community. Let’s equip the church to love well and lead intentionally in this new era. Check out Heart of Dating: https://www.heartofdating.com/ Follow JJ on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/ Follow Kait on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kaitness/ Follow Grant on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/grantskeldon Visit Grant's website: https://www.grantskeldon.com/   MORE RESOURCES: Get more dating insights at THINQ Summit 2025 in Nashville, October 2-4! Along with a full lineup of dynamic speakers, Dr. Henry Cloud will give a keynote on The Dating Dilemma. Get your tickets today: https://events.thinqmedia.com/2025summit Create a free THINQ Account and download the THINQ Media app on your smart TV to access more trusted content like this on topics from all channels of culture at https://thinqmedia.com Apply the THINQ Framework as you think through cultural topics: https://thinqmedia.com/videos/thinq-framework Attend THINQ events where you can gather with like-minded leaders, ask better questions and have conversations that lead to wisdom: https://events.thinqmedia.com/ Lead “Let’s Talk Relationships” and "Let's Talk Mental Health" conversations with your family or small group: https://events.thinqmedia.com/relationships https://events.thinqmedia.com/mentalhealth Sign up for THINQ Summit 2025 October 2-4 in Nashville, TN: https://events.thinqmedia.com/2025summit   Get more from the THINQ Podcast Network:   Rhythms for Life with Rebekah and Gabe Lyons: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rhythms-for-life/id1477541494 The InFormed Parent with Suzanne Phillips: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-informed-parent-with-suzanne-phillips/id1708269607 UnderCurrent with Gabe Lyons: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/undercurrent-with-gabe-lyons/id1683005631 NeuroFaith with Curt Thompson: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/neurofaith-with-curt-thompson-md/id1613240148

In this conversation, Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill reveal simple, life-changing tools called "Connection Codes" to transform your relationships—whether at home, in church, or in the workplace. You'll discover how we understand, process, and connect through our emotions, and you'll learn practical strategies to foster deeper authenticity, safety, and love. Tune in and tap into your God-given design for connection and start creating relational breakthroughs today! Learn more about Connection Codes here: https://connectioncodes.co/ Follow Grant on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/grantskeldon Visit Grant's website: https://www.grantskeldon.com/   MORE RESOURCES: Create a free THINQ Account and download the THINQ Media app on your smart TV to access more trusted content like this on topics from all channels of culture at https://thinqmedia.com Apply the THINQ Framework as you think through cultural topics: https://thinqmedia.com/videos/thinq-framework Attend THINQ events where you can gather with like-minded leaders, ask better questions and have conversations that lead to wisdom: https://events.thinqmedia.com/ Lead “Let’s Talk Relationships” and "Let's Talk Mental Health" conversations with your family or small group: https://events.thinqmedia.com/relationships https://events.thinqmedia.com/mentalhealth Sign up for THINQ Summit 2025 October 2-4 in the heart of Nashville, TN: https://events.thinqmedia.com/2025summit Get more from the THINQ Podcast Network: Rhythms for Life with Rebekah and Gabe Lyons: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rhythms-for-life/id1477541494 The InFormed Parent with Suzanne Phillips: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-informed-parent-with-suzanne-phillips/id1708269607 UnderCurrent with Gabe Lyons: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/undercurrent-with-gabe-lyons/id1683005631 NeuroFaith with Curt Thompson: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/neurofaith-with-curt-thompson-md/id1613240148

In this episode, Grant sits down with friend and pastor of Legacy Church in Nashville, Lyle Phillips, as they dive deep into the misunderstood world of speaking in tongues, church planting, and the heart behind generous ministry. Lyle shares powerful stories of God's faithfulness, urban mission, and the importance of collaboration within the body of Christ. Whether you're looking to unlock biblical truth, challenge misconceptions about the Holy Spirit, or simply ignite your faith, this episode is packed with inspiring insights for the next generation of Christian leaders. Tune in now! Follow Lyle on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/lylebphillips/ and on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lylebphillips/ Follow Grant on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/grantskeldon Visit Grant's website: https://www.grantskeldon.com/   MORE RESOURCES: Create a free THINQ Account and download the THINQ Media app on your smart TV to access more trusted content like this on topics from all channels of culture at https://thinqmedia.com Apply the THINQ Framework as you think through cultural topics: https://thinqmedia.com/videos/thinq-framework Attend THINQ events where you can gather with like-minded leaders, ask better questions and have conversations that lead to wisdom: https://events.thinqmedia.com/ Lead “Let’s Talk Relationships” and "Let's Talk Mental Health" conversations with your family or small group:  https://events.thinqmedia.com/relationships https://events.thinqmedia.com/mentalhealth Sign up for THINQ Summit 2025 October 2-4 in Nashville, TN: https://events.thinqmedia.com/2025summit Get more from the THINQ Podcast Network: Rhythms for Life with Rebekah and Gabe Lyons: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rhythms-for-life/id1477541494 The InFormed Parent with Suzanne Phillips: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-informed-parent-with-suzanne-phillips/id1708269607 UnderCurrent with Gabe Lyons: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/undercurrent-with-gabe-lyons/id1683005631 NeuroFaith with Curt Thompson: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/neurofaith-with-curt-thompson-md/id1613240148

In this inspiring conversation, Grant Skeldon and Megan Fate Marshman break down the biggest lies we believe as young leaders that keep us stuck in stress and anxiety. From the misconception that growth is all on us to the myth that we need to figure everything out alone, Megan offers fresh biblical insights and practical steps to invite God into every part of our journey. Whether you're leading a team, walking through personal struggles, or just want to better align your heart with God's plans, this chat will help you see stress in a whole new light—and discover how to experience lasting peace by opening your heart to Him. Let’s move from striving alone to walking in divine response together. Get more from Megan here: https://www.meganfate.com/ Follow Megan on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/meganfate/ Follow Grant on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/grantskeldon Visit Grant's website: https://www.grantskeldon.com/ MORE RESOURCES: Create a free THINQ Account and download the THINQ Media app on your smart TV to access more trusted content like this on topics from all channels of culture at https://thinqmedia.com Apply the THINQ Framework as you think through cultural topics: https://thinqmedia.com/videos/thinq-framework Attend THINQ events where you can gather with like-minded leaders, ask better questions and have conversations that lead to wisdom: https://events.thinqmedia.com/ Lead “Let’s Talk Relationships” and "Let's Talk Mental Health" conversations with your family or small group: https://events.thinqmedia.com/relationships https://events.thinqmedia.com/mentalhealth Sign up for THINQ Summit 2025 October 2-4 in Nashville, TN: https://events.thinqmedia.com/2025summit Get more from the THINQ Podcast Network: Rhythms for Life with Rebekah and Gabe Lyons: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rhythms-for-life/id1477541494 The InFormed Parent with Suzanne Phillips: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-informed-parent-with-suzanne-phillips/id1708269607 UnderCurrent with Gabe Lyons: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/undercurrent-with-gabe-lyons/id1683005631 NeuroFaith with Curt Thompson: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/neurofaith-with-curt-thompson-md/id1613240148