First Dates are MAYHEM

Did I just uncover a major inequity in the LGBTQ+ community ???

As I reflect on TTPDs birthday, it hits me that Taylor Swift is not the marketing queen she’s purported to be.

Honestly I was super disappointed it was giving Marshalls

In this episode I explore the desires of dating a himbo, an emotionally deep person, or a Matty Healy (a rat?). I saw this tiktok where it seemed like Taylor was genuinely happy, even with the cost. Why do I lowkey want that?

Ariana Grande’s deluxe version of Eternal Sunshine, a chocolate mushroom bar, and a random book I got have me thinking: am I a piece of shit? How do I show up as a good friend, coworker, and lover? Do the men I date know I GAF about them? Do I even GAF about them? Ariana Grande will help me through this 🙏🏼🙏🏼

With the cultural change post Cupcakke the rapper, we were blessed with Sabrina Carpenter, Taylor Swift, and Olivia Rodrigo stepping into their sexual dimensions. It works better for some than others, but at least they’re not Gracie Abraham Lincoln. Everyone say thank you Cupcakke!!!! Also please leave anonymous advice requests here: https://ngl.link/bryanlicious21

In this episode I rate Mayhem by Lady Gaga and crash out about first dates, how much of your wall to let down, and whether sharing your poly past is worth it.

We finally answer the age old question: does hunger drive situationships? In this episode I dive into the prime example of an ED situationship (obviously Taylor Swift and Karlie Kloss) and my own experience with an ED situationship. More importantly, the role that hunger plays in those dark times.

If you’ve ever wondered where the “is Taylor Swift in an interattractive dom sub unethical polyamorous relationship?” joke came from- it really happened to me!

I love Taylor Swift music for commiserating, but does living in your victimhood stifle your growth? In this episode I discuss Taylor's victimhood, the victimization of Taylor by her fans, and the impact her victim music can have on your mental!!