Ep 71 — Fred Wistow — Why People Find Their Way to Fred

In this episode, our newest Modern Mind therapist, Niké Dixon, sits down with Modern Mind therapist Lydia Duquette to take over the LOVELINK podcast to explore the question: “What shapes how we show up in love and relationships?”Niké has a strong interest in how people relate to one another and how social and cultural influences quietly shape the ways we think, feel, and connect.Her therapeutic approach integrates psychodynamic, cognitive-behavioral, narrative, and other evidence-based modalities, creating space to explore the deeper roots of one’s experiences while building practical strategies that foster growth, resilience, and meaningful change in themselves and their relationships.Tune in as Niké and Lydia explore how early influences, inherited narratives, and subtle “blueprints” shape how we connect, navigate conflict, and experience closeness—inviting listeners to reflect on their own relational patterns with curiosity and compassion, and to imagine what’s possible when we begin questioning the stories we’ve inherited about relationships.LOVELINK is hosted by Brooklyn-based therapists Dr. Signe Simon and Dr. Simone Humphrey. If you’d like to contact us directly, send us an email to [email protected].

Fred Wistow has spent a lifetime listening, guiding, and helping people see themselves more clearly. Writers, artists, and executives have turned to him again and again for his rare blend of honesty, humor, and care. In this reflective conversation, he shares what he’s learned about listening deeply, showing up for others, and the simple power of human connection.LOVELINK is hosted by Brooklyn-based therapists Dr. Signe Simon and Dr. Simone Humphrey. If you’d like to contact us directly, send us an email to [email protected].

In this moving conversation, we speak with Alisha, a therapist and Korean adoptee, about her lifelong search for identity and home. She shares the story of being adopted from Korea as an infant, growing up in a small Midwestern town, reuniting with her birth mother in her thirties, and navigating motherhood herself. We explore the myths of adoption, the grief that lives in the body, and what it means to come into community and consciousness as an adult adoptee.You can learn more about Alisha Bennett here. We also recommend this Frontline documentary, “South Korea’s Adoption Reckoning.” LOVELINK is hosted by Brooklyn-based therapists Dr. Signe Simon and Dr. Simone Humphrey. If you’d like to contact us directly, send us an email to [email protected]. 

Jean Kilbourne joins us to discuss the damaging messages media and advertising send about women’s bodies, the impact of social media, and how older women are rendered invisible in our culture. She reflects on decades of advocacy, shares what’s changed and what hasn’t, and offers hope for a future where women are valued for more than their appearance. For more information about Jean Kilbourne and her work, please visit her website  and the National Women’s Hall of Fame.LOVELINK is hosted by Brooklyn-based therapists Dr. Signe Simon and Dr. Simone Humphrey. If you’d like to contact us directly, send us an email to [email protected]. 

Guest host Lydia Duquette welcomes Modern Mind therapist Chloé Bringmann for a lively Lovelink episode on how weaving friendship into daily life revives play, desire, and genuine connection in long-term relationships. Grounded in research, clinical insight, and pop culture references, they reveal why a diversified intimacy portfolio is the secret rhythm section of lasting romance.LOVELINK is hosted by Brooklyn-based therapists Dr. Signe Simon and Dr. Simone Humphrey. If you’d like to contact us directly, send us an email to [email protected]. 

This week, we're excited to share one of our favorite episodes from way back in the LOVELINK archives: a conversation with the world-renowned love guru and couples psychotherapist Esther Perel. Perel poignantly describes the realities of romance, including infidelity and complacency in relationships. Why do we cheat even when we're in happy relationships? Can relationships be repaired after an affair? How do we maintain romantic excitement in the face of familiarity? Esther shares with us thoughtful and seductive solutions to tackle these eternal dilemmas.Enjoy this LOVELINK classic. We’ll be back with new episodes in August. LOVELINK is hosted by Brooklyn-based therapists Dr. Signe Simon and Dr. Simone Humphrey. If you’d like to contact us directly, send us an email to [email protected].

In this provocative and deeply insightful episode, we sit down with psychologist and couples therapist Dr. Annabelle Seife to explore the complex world of kink and BDSM. Together, we unpack what kink really means—beyond stereotypes and sensationalism—and why so many people are drawn to erotic experiences that play with power, control, and surrender. Dr. Seife guides us through a psychodynamic lens, offering a compassionate and nuanced understanding of kink as a meaningful expression of desire, not dysfunction. We explore the historical and clinical roots of why kink has been so pathologized in the mental health field, and how therapists can begin to unpack their own biases and better support clients whose erotic lives fall outside the “vanilla” norm. Whether you're a clinician, curious partner, or someone exploring your own sexuality, this episode invites a deeper, more human look at what turns us on—and why it matters.LOVELINK is hosted by Brooklyn-based therapists Dr. Signe Simon and Dr. Simone Humphrey. If you’d like to contact us directly, send us an email to [email protected]. 

Bestselling author and psychologist Mary Pipher, PhD, joins us for a heartfelt conversation about what it means to age well as women. From redefining identity beyond beauty to embracing friendship, presence, and purpose, Mary shares wisdom for navigating life’s later chapters. Though centered on aging, her insights resonate across generations, offering guidance and inspiration for women at every stage of life. As two women approaching midlife and raising young children, we left the conversation feeling more grounded, inspired, and hopeful about what lies ahead.LOVELINK is hosted by Brooklyn-based therapists Dr. Signe Simon and Dr. Simone Humphrey. If you’d like to contact us directly, send us an email to [email protected].

In this powerful and eye-opening episode, we sit down with therapist Rebecca Stone, a specialist in infidelity and affair recovery. Together, we explore the complex and often misunderstood world of affairs—why people cheat, what it means for both the betrayed and the one who strayed, and how couples can navigate the emotional wreckage left behind.Rebecca shares her insights on when relationships can survive an affair and when it may be time to walk away. We also dive into the healing process, the importance of accountability and empathy, healing old childhood wounds, and how some couples manage to not only recover but build a stronger, more connected partnership in the aftermath. Whether you're healing from betrayal or simply want a deeper understanding of relationships, this is a conversation you won’t want to miss.https://www.affairrecoverycoach.com/LOVELINK is hosted by Brooklyn-based therapists Dr. Signe Simon and Dr. Simone Humphrey. If you’d like to contact us directly, send us an email to [email protected].

In this episode, Dr. Simone Humphrey sits down with the expert team of therapists from Modern Mind to discuss the unique challenges and excitement of dating in New York City. The conversation explores how dating culture in the city has been shaped by the rise of dating apps and the impact they’ve had on how people connect. The therapists offer valuable insights on how to navigate the fast-paced dating scene, manage burnout, and protect your emotional well-being. They also discuss the different challenges faced by men and women in New York's dating world, providing practical tips for managing relationships successfully while thriving in this dynamic environment. Whether you're new to the city or a seasoned dater, this episode offers advice and strategies to help make your dating experience in NYC more fulfilling and less overwhelming.LOVELINK is hosted by Brooklyn-based therapists Dr. Signe Simon and Dr. Simone Humphrey. If you’d like to contact us directly, send us an email to [email protected].