Subtractive Love

Meet the dog that cooked your dinner for four centuries — then vanished without a trace.Three words can change someone's life: I believe in you. But do you actually mean it? This episode unpacks what genuine belief in people looks like — and what it costs when we stop.A special note of thanks to Paul Hawthorne for bringing the power of this sentence to my attention and for believing in me along the way.Send us Fan Mail"Remember, you are loved, so go, love better!"

We live in the most connected era in human history. We have more ways to reach each other than ever before. So why are the conversations that matter most still the hardest ones to start? In this episode, let's trace the surprising history of a 150-year-old invention to uncover why "Can we talk?" might be the most loving thing you say to someone this week.Send us Fan Mail"Remember, you are loved, so go, love better!"

This episode launches a new “Lovely Statements” series—short, powerful phrases that can transform the way we love the people around us.The first statement is simple. Only four words. But when spoken sincerely, it can change the tone of a room, a relationship, or even a life.Sometimes loving better begins with a question... and this week, it also begins with a piano.Send us Fan Mail"Remember, you are loved, so go, love better!"

What if the thing that feels most fair is actually the thing that destroys us?What do global wars, church discipline, and your most painful relationships have in common?This episode explores the uncomfortable truth that justice alone can create more ruin—and why love sometimes absorbs the cost instead of demanding repayment.If you’ve ever struggled to forgive without keeping score, this one is for you.Send us Fan Mail"Remember, you are loved, so go, love better!"

Love cannot thrive where escape routes remain.In this episode, we explores what Jesus teaches about exclusive, forward-only love: loving enemies, forgiving repeatedly, rejecting idolatry, honoring marriage vows, and loving God without divided allegiance. From Matthew 5 to Luke 16, from family life to finances, the message is clear — love only works when we stop looking back.If we want marriages that endure, children who feel secure, faith that survives hardship, and hearts fully devoted to God, there is only one path:Burn the ships.Send us Fan Mail"Remember, you are loved, so go, love better!"

What does it really mean to love without conditions?In this conversation, Scott sits down with Dr. Tom Hamilton—Bible professor, academic dean, husband, father of eleven, and adoptive parent—to explore love as more than a feeling. Together they discuss marriage, adoption, parenting, and family life as spiritual disciplines designed to shape character, reveal selfishness, and form Christlike patience.Drawing from decades of lived experience, Tom reflects on unconditional love, the cost of commitment, the formation power of family relationships, and how God uses ordinary, often difficult relationships to make us more like Jesus. This episode challenges modern assumptions about marriage, children, comfort, and success.Topics include:Why marriage is a spiritual discipline, not just a romantic choiceAdoption and loving without guarantees or outcomesHow family life exposes and shapes characterCultural myths about money, children, and “having enough”Why unconditional love must truly be unconditionalSend us Fan Mail"Remember, you are loved, so go, love better!"

A deadly outbreak empties cities, shuts down schools, and forces one frustrated student into isolation. What feels like loss and interruption quietly becomes the most creative season of his life. In this episode, Spaced Love explores why distance, silence, and unfilled moments may be essential to real growth—and asks whether our obsession with constant motion is costing us the very love we’re trying to build.Send us Fan Mail"Remember, you are loved, so go, love better!"

History remembers Lewis and Clark—but not the parents who shaped them. This episode explores the unseen hands behind lasting impact, asking what kind of legacy love actually endures. Is it comfort, or courage? Achievement, or preparation? A story about influence, faith, and why the most important work we do may never carry our name.Send us Fan Mail"Remember, you are loved, so go, love better!"

What does Southwest Airlines, a six-month podcast hiatus, and Jesus’ words to Martha have in common? This episode explores why adding more to your life may be quietly costing you what matters most—and how learning to subtract might be the most loving decision you make.Send us Fan Mail"Remember, you are loved, so go, love better!"

            This episode is the last of a series of episodes entitled The Unlovables—a candid look at the people who are hard to love and why, and how the Bible teaches us not just to tolerate them… but to truly love better.            And today, we look at the seemingly uncrossable waters of betrayal.   How can we love those who have betrayed us. Link to video Brandt Jean's courtroom forgiveness: https://youtu.be/NkoE_GQsbNA?si=v_XhX1YXE2WU6cPH Send us Fan Mail"Remember, you are loved, so go, love better!"