EP.86 The situationship TRAP nobody warns you about

Dating in 2026 feels exhausting… and honestly? A lot of people are losing hope in modern dating.In this episode, I talk about situationships, noncommittal men, dating culture, and why finding “the one” can sometimes feel more like luck than strategy. I also share the biggest signs of an unserious man early on, so you can protect your peace, avoid wasting time, and stop ignoring red flags.If you’ve ever:• Been stuck in a situationship • Felt emotionally drained by dating apps • Wondered why commitment feels rare now • Struggled with mixed signals and inconsistency • Questioned whether modern dating is getting worse… this conversation is for you.This is an honest, unfiltered conversation about love, relationships, self-worth, and navigating dating in today’s world.💬 COMMENT BELOW: Do you think dating has gotten worse over the years?🫶 Don’t forget to LIKE & SUBSCRIBE for more honest conversations on: dating, relationships, femininity, self-worth, modern love, heartbreak, healing, and personal growth.🎧 Also available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever you get your pods!FIND ME HERE 🎤📹YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy?sub_confirmation=1Tiktok - tiktok.com/@ThinkingoutloudwithAnjy✉Contactfor business inquiries, please email: [email protected] #DatingPodcast #Situationship #ModernDating #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DatingIn2026 #SingleLife #DatingStruggles #SelfWorth #Love #Relationships #ToxicDatingCulture #Situationships #WomenDatingAdvice #ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy

Taylor Swift is finally engaged, and the internet lost its mind. But why do engagements, weddings, and “being chosen” hit us so hard?In this video, I break down the cultural obsession with love stories, why engagement posts dominate Instagram, how society glamorizes weddings over marriage, and why Taylor Swift’s engagement feels like a collective win for her fans and beyond.This isn’t just about Taylor Swift — it’s about us, our craving for love, validation, and the fairytale ending.💍 Let’s talk about why engagements are the ultimate internet currency.If you enjoy this video, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more cultural deep dives.#TaylorSwift #TaylorSwiftEngaged #traviskelce #traviskelceandtaylorswift #EngagementCulture #CelebrityEngagement #TaylorSwiftNews #Swifties #WeddingCulture #PopCultureAnalysis

Would you ask about saving and investing on a first date? I do, and here’s why.In this video, I share my experience telling my co-workers about my first-date money question, why I think the saying “money doesn’t make you happy” is flawed, and how talking about finances early can actually save you a lot of heartache later.I dive into:- Why conversations about saving, investing, and financial goals matter in relationships.- The things money really buys you (beyond just “stuff”).- Why you shouldn’t feel guilty for being ambitious or caring about financial stability.- My thoughts on the stock market and real estate investing as tools for freedom.Here's Ali Abdaal's video which I discussed here 📹 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LLdtdiJu7DE👉 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share if this resonates. Your support helps me grow this channel and keep sharing real talk like this.🎧 Also available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever you get your pods!FIND ME HERE 🎤📹YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy?sub_confirmation=1Tiktok - tiktok.com/@ThinkingoutloudwithAnjy✉Contactfor business inquiries, please email: [email protected]#datingconfessions #firstdates #moneymindset #investingtips #financialfreedom #datingadvice #moneytalks #wealthbuilding #datingstandards #ambitiouswomen

You don’t need to be perfect to be loved... seriously.In this video, I’m sharing something deeply personal. How I used to obsess over every little flaw, always trying to be “put together” and “attractive” ... until I started liking someone who didn’t fit any of my old ideas of “perfection.” That experience completely changed the way I saw love, dating, and most importantly, myself. From K-dramas to real-life crushes, I realised something... maybe it’s not about being flawless. Maybe the quirks, the messy bits, the clumsy parts — are exactly what make us magnetic. If you’ve ever felt like you’re not pretty enough, successful enough, or perfect enough to find love… this one’s for you.👉 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share if this resonates. Your support helps me grow this channel and keep sharing real talk like this.🎧 Also available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever you get your pods! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy?sub_confirmation=1 Tiktok - tiktok.com/@ThinkingoutloudwithAnjy✉Contact for business inquiries, please email: [email protected]#selfloveandhealing #datingadvice #datingpodcast #beyourself #realtalk #youareenough #perfectionism #moderndating #flawsandall #imperfectlyperfect

Modern dating is a mess, and if you’ve ever felt like all the good men are gone, you’re not alone. In this brutally honest podcast episode, I dive deep into the real struggles of dating in 2025, from the death of genuine connection to the overwhelming pressure of dating apps and situationships.Why is it so hard to find a nice guy who’s actually emotionally available and attractive? Why do so many of us feel like we’re constantly told to settle for less than we desire? Is dating even worth it anymore?If you're tired of scrolling, swiping, and endlessly hoping for someone decent to come along, this episode is for you.I discussed:- Why modern dating feels so hopeless- How the standards have shifted- The rarity of truly good men- How to date without feeling burnt outWhether you're single, dating, or just over it — this is your safe space. Raw, real, and unfiltered.🧠 Share your experience in the comments — do you agree that dating has gotten worse?🫶 Subscribe for more honest conversations about dating, love, and self-worth.🎧 Also available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever you get your pods!FIND ME HERE 🎤📹YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy?sub_confirmation=1Tiktok - tiktok.com/@ThinkingoutloudwithAnjy✉Contactfor business inquiries, please email: [email protected]#NiceGuys #DatingPodcast #Singles #DatingIn2025 #WhereAreTheGoodMen #SingleLife #DatingStruggles #ToxicDatingCulture #NiceGuysFinishLast #Situationships #HonestConversations #SlimPickins

Are you afraid of love? Scared to open your heart because it feels like true love might not last? In this deeply personal video, I share my fears about relationships and why I’ve been single for over two years. From the fear of waking up to a partner who no longer loves me to the anxiety of being stuck in an unhappy relationship with kids, I open up about the emotional struggles that have shaped my love life. But I’m trying to think positively—holding on to the hope that the universe will show me true, lasting love. If you’ve ever felt scared of falling in love, worried about heartbreak, or wondered if lasting love is even real, this video is for you. Let’s navigate these emotions together and inspire each other to believe in love again. 🔔 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more honest, relatable content like this! Hiya, I'm Anjy. My goal is to inspire curiosity and elevate the quality of our lives beyond manifestations and self affirmations. I intend to challenge 'popular beliefs' through thought-provoking discussions and provide practical insights grounded in NEUROSCIENCE and PSYCHOLOGY. FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy ?sub_confirmation=1 TikTok - tiktok.com/@ThinkingoutloudwithAnjy

Let’s have a heart-to-heart, girls. Let's get into the girl chat! 💕 Whether you're a teenager navigating your first crush or a young woman figuring out modern dating, this video is packed with real, relatable, and empowering advice. From decoding lies from boys, to setting boundaries and figuring out who you are, I’m here to help you navigate the sometimes messy but exciting world of dating 🌸✨ Grab a cup of tea (and your favorite snack), get comfy, and join me as we chat about everything from red flags 🚩 to knowing your worth and not settling for boys you're not attracted to. This is the dating advice every young woman needs to hear! 💌💖 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more girl talk and advice on life, love, and leveling up! 👉 Let me know in the comments: What’s the best (or worst) dating advice you’ve ever received? Hiya, I'm Anjy. My goal is to inspire curiosity and elevate the quality of our lives beyond manifestations and self affirmations. I intend to challenge 'popular beliefs' through thought-provoking discussions and provide practical insights grounded in NEUROSCIENCE and PSYCHOLOGY. FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy?sub_confirmation=1 TikTok - tiktok.com/@ThinkingoutloudwithAnjy (this video is about: girl chat dating advice, dating advice for teens, dating tips for young women, girl talk about dating, teenage dating advice, relationship advice for girls, modern dating tips, dating advice 2024, how to date in your 20s, dating advice for high school girls, setting boundaries in relationships, love advice for young women, dating tips and tricks, dating red flags for women, navigating love and relationships, empowering dating advice, how to find self-worth in dating, relationship advice 101, best dating advice for girls, confidence in dating)

Navigating Insecurities in Relationships | Love Is Blind UK & Sabrina Carpenter's New Album. In this episode of the podcast, we dive deep into the first and latest season of Love Is Blind UK, focusing on the emotional journey of two standout characters - Catherine & Freddie. We explore how insecurities can impact relationships, using the case of Catherine who loses her chance with a great guy due to self-doubt, lack of trust and past relationship trauma. We discuss how past experiences with toxic relationships can make it difficult to trust new, potentially healthy ones. Connecting these themes to Sabrina Carpenter's new album - Short n' Sweet, we highlight three songs that perfectly relate to what we see a lot on Love is Blind, and capture the struggles many women face when it comes to love and trust. We also talk about how we, as women, often doubt when things seem too good to be true, and why it's crucial to work on our insecurities before entering a new relationship. Ultimately, I want to remind everyone that we're all human, we're all doing our best, and it's okay to feel vulnerable.If you've ever questioned your self-worth in a relationship or wondered how to overcome past hurts to embrace a better future, this episode is for you. Join us as we find solace in shared experiences and learn to navigate the complexities of love with a bit more compassion for ourselves and eachother. #LoveIsBlindUK #SabrinaCarpenter #ShortnSweet #SabrinaCarpenterNewAlbum #RelationshipAdvice #insecurities #loveandtrust #relationshippodcast Hiya, I'm Anjy. My goal is to inspire curiosity and elevate the quality of our lives beyond manifestations and self affirmations. I intend to challenge 'popular beliefs' through thought-provoking discussions and provide practical insights grounded in NEUROSCIENCE and PSYCHOLOGY. FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy?sub_confirmation=1 TikTok - tiktok.com/@ThinkingoutloudwithAnjy Join Our Community: Subscribe to my channel for more videos on self-improvement, happiness, and personal growth!

LOVE ISLAND IS HEREEEE! In this podcast, we're diving deep into the latest Love Island season with a comprehensive cast breakdown. From the hottest new islanders to the juiciest fights and gossip, I've got all the deets you need to stay in the loop. Whether you're a die-hard fan or just tuning in, this breakdown will give you all the insights into this summer's Love Island UK cast members and predictions for this season's drama, romance, celebrity appearances and much more. 👥 Meet the Cast: - Get to know the islanders: names, backgrounds, accents, and first impressions. - Early favourites and potential troublemakers. 💬 Hot Takes and Predictions: - Who's likely to couple up? - Potential love triangles and rivalries. 🔥 Drama Alerts: - Love island bombshells - Unexpected twists and what we can expect in the coming episodes. I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉 Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire you to never feel bad for doing what's truly best for you. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You can have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy ?sub_confirmation=1 Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?_t=8itkTzzKyYa&_r=1 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast?igsh=ODA1NTc5OTg5Nw== Listen to on the Go: I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is also available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, etc. THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe 🥰 #LoveIsland #LoveIsland2024 #DatingPodcast #LoveIslandUK #RealityTV #LoveIslandCast #Islanders #LoveIslandDrama #LoveIslandRecap #LoveIslandFans #RealityTVPodcast #datingshow #realitytvshows #realitytvstars #JoeyEssex #datingpsychology #podcast #relationshippodcast #toxicrelationships #datingproblems #datingbehaviours #datingadviceforwomen #singlewomen #datingin2024 #datingadvice #ukpodcast #moderndating #modernrelationships #isawhimfirstpodcast (This video is about: Love Island Season 11, Love Island UK, Love Island series 11, Love Island review, Love Island recap, Love Island cast, reality TV, relationships, drama, romance, must-watch, couples, plot twist, Love Island exclusive)

Let's get into the intriguing world of dating psychology as we explore why extroverts are more prone to mate poaching and infidelity. Are extroverted individuals really more likely to cheat? What makes them successful at "rizz" and attracting partners? Does that mean people dating introverts are safe? In this episode, we break down a fascinating psychology study that sheds light on these behaviors. I discuss: - The prevalence of mate poaching today. - How extroverts use their charisma and social skills to attract their friends' partners. - Whether or not all extroverts will cheat on you TIMESTAMP00:00 Dump your man if he's an extrovert 01:31 Mate Poaching03:40 Shocking Statistics on the success rate of mate poaching05:36 What does extroversion have to do with cheating?07:26 My plot twist on the study results09:46 Interesting studies and breaking world records I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉 Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy ?sub_confirmation=1 Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?_t=8itkTzzKyYa&_r=1 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast?igsh=ODA1NTc5OTg5Nw== THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe 🥰 #matepoaching #datingpsychology #cheaters #extroverts #personalitytypes #introvertvsextrovert #dating #datingpodcast #relationshippodcast #toxicrelationships #datingbehaviours #singlemen #singlewomen #datingin2024 #ukpodcast #moderndating #modernrelationships #isawhimfirstpodcast #chriswilliamson #modernwisdom #jordanpeterson #tamkaur #courtneyryan #caseyzander