Money Confessions: How to Prepare Financially before Asking for a Divorce

This week, Sim shares how to teach kids about money at every age, from building delayed gratification in toddlers to opening simple investing accounts and paying kids for chores so they learn the value of a dollar. She explains how to introduce shares and index funds in a fun, age-appropriate way, involve teens in real family money decisions, and start a simple save-and-spend budget so good habits stick. You will also hear smart coaching for young adults on avoiding lifestyle creep, paying yourself first, and investing early so wealth grows with confidence.Watch the episode on Youtube hereFor more Friends That Invest:Sign up for the weekly Stock Market Tea newsletterInstagramTikTokTwitterFacebook'Til next week, team!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Sim chats with Shilpa Maniar, a former Google executive who built her wealth and career over 15 years in a traditional nine-to-five, proving you don’t have to start a business to achieve financial freedom. They dive into the money lessons Shilpa learned growing up in an immigrant household, how intentional goal-setting and visibility helped her rise through the corporate ranks, and why investing wisely matters even with a big salary. You’ll also hear practical tips on negotiating pay, building confidence at work, and using career coaches to level up your own corporate journey.Watch the episode on Youtube hereFor more Friends That Invest:Sign up for the weekly Stock Market Tea newsletterInstagramTikTokTwitterFacebook'Til next week, team!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Sim breaks down exactly how much you should have saved at each decade to hit a comfortable retirement, from 1 to 2 months of expenses in your 20s to 1x your salary in your 30s, 3x in your 40s, 6x in your 50s, and 8x in your 60s on the way to 10x by age 67. She explains why these benchmarks work no matter your income and how lifestyle creep can derail progress if you are not careful. You will get simple, actionable steps like grabbing your employer match, automating weekly investments into broad index funds, and using separate accounts so you can stay consistent without overthinking it.Watch the episode on Youtube hereFor more Friends That Invest:Sign up for the weekly Stock Market Tea newsletterInstagramTikTokTwitterFacebook'Til next week, team!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Sim breaks down 7 quiet money traps that cost you thousands a year from hoarding cash instead of investing to chasing fashion trends, FOMO stocks, and overspending on housing. She explains how living beyond your means, relying on credit cards you can’t clear monthly, and falling into the comparison trap sabotage wealth. You’ll get simple fixes like building an emergency fund, dollar cost averaging into broad index funds, curating a timeless wardrobe, and focusing on your own goals so your money actually grows.Watch the episode on Youtube hereFor more Friends That Invest:Sign up for the weekly Stock Market Tea newsletterInstagramTikTokTwitterFacebook'Til next week, team!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Sim unpacks why the real secret to saving money is self-esteem, not strict budgets, and how low self-worth and fear of judgment can drive compulsive shopping. She breaks down the science behind retail therapy and dopamine, the real signs of overspending, and the myth that women shop more while showing how comparison culture keeps us swiping. You’ll leave with practical, research-backed steps to stop impulse buys and save more, like the 48-hour rule, deleting shopping apps, buying for you not for likes, and building confidence or seeking therapy when needed.Watch the episode on Youtube hereFor more Friends That Invest:Sign up for the weekly Stock Market Tea newsletterInstagramTikTokTwitterFacebook'Til next week, team!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Sim shares the 9 income streams she’s built by 28 with real numbers and honest ratings, from affiliate marketing that made her $8 last year ($13 this year) to YouTube ads bringing in $100 to $400 a month. She walks through rentals grossing $4,680 monthly, consulting and board work, her Friends That Invest salary journey, paid speaking at $4,000 to $10,000 per gig, and ongoing book royalties after selling 100,000+ copies. Finally, Sim explains how dividends and a simple drawdown strategy can replace a paycheck for true financial independence, proving sustainable wealth beats any get rich quick promise.Watch the episode on Youtube hereFor more Friends That Invest:Sign up for the weekly Stock Market Tea newsletterInstagramTikTokTwitterFacebook'Til next week, team!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Sim dives into the surprising science of money and happiness, breaking down why earning more doesn’t always mean feeling more fulfilled. She unpacks common myths, from the salary “sweet spot” to why comparing ourselves to others keeps us stuck in financial anxiety. With research-backed insights and real talk, this episode will change how you think about wealth, wellbeing, and what it really takes to feel content. Watch the episode on Youtube hereFor more Friends That Invest:Sign up for the weekly Stock Market Tea newsletterInstagramTikTokTwitterFacebook'Til next week, team!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Sim chats with Jasleen about her journey from corporate life at Deloitte and Goldman Sachs to choosing the stay-at-home wife path and building her own platform on TikTok. They dive into money anxiety, navigating financial conversations in marriage, and why creating purpose outside of a 9–5 matters. With candid insights on feminism, career breaks, and financial independence, this episode is a refreshing look at redefining success on your own terms .Watch the episode on Youtube hereFor more Friends That Invest:Sign up for the weekly Stock Market Tea newsletterInstagramTikTokTwitterFacebook'Til next week, team!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Sim chats with Ankur Nagpal, the founder of Teachable and Carry, about his journey from building a $250M edtech company to helping people grow wealth through smart tax strategies. They dive into the biggest money mistakes high earners make, why tax optimization matters, and how everyday employees and business owners can keep more of what they earn. Packed with practical finance tips and entrepreneurial lessons, this episode will change the way you think about money, taxes, and building long-term wealth.Watch the episode on Youtube hereFor more Friends That Invest:Sign up for the weekly Stock Market Tea newsletterInstagramTikTokTwitterFacebook'Til next week, team!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Sim sits down with Lindsey, the creator of the cult-favorite Money Diaries, to uncover the fascinating truths behind how women really spend and talk about money. They explore why financial transparency is still taboo, how values shape spending, and what it takes to confidently navigate career breaks without sacrificing long-term financial goals. Packed with real-world money insights and career wisdom, this episode is a must-listen for women ready to take control of their finances and rewrite their money story.For more Lindsey... check out thepurse.substack.com Watch the episode on Youtube hereFor more Friends That Invest:Sign up for the weekly Stock Market Tea newsletterInstagramTikTokTwitterFacebook'Til next week, team!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.