Episode 69: Long Distance, High Heat. Keeping It Sexy While Apart!

Send us a text All good things have their season—and today we’re closing the final chapter of Friends with Pineapples. In this farewell episode, we look back at the laughs, lessons, and late-night conversations we’ve shared with you about love, connection, and the swinging lifestyle. We talk about what this journey has meant to us, the growth we’ve experienced, and the incredible community of listeners who came along for the ride. While this may be goodbye to the podcast, it’s not goodbye to the memories or the pineapple spirit we’ve all shared. Thank you for being part of our story—and for letting us be a part of yours. most of all, remember Stay Sexy, Stay Weird, Stay Safe, and Keep Swinging those Pineapples. 

Send us a text In this episode of Friends with Pineapples, we dive into one of the most important (but often overlooked) parts of the lifestyle—staying connected with your partner during play. From eye contact and secret signals to mid-night check-ins, we share our favorite tips for keeping that bond strong even when the room is buzzing with energy. We also take you behind the scenes of our weekend at the Group in Keller Hotel Takeover—what we experienced, how we stayed in sync, and the real lessons we learned about balancing fun with intimacy. Whether you’re new to group settings or a seasoned swinger, this episode will give you fresh ways to protect your connection while embracing the adventure. Connect With Us:Friends with pineapples (@friendswithpineapples) • Instagram photos and videosFriends with Pineapples (@friendswithpa) / X (twitter.com)[email protected] With Pineapples – Welcome to our Podcast!sdc.comUSE OUR SDC PROMO CODE: 37673

Send us a textIn the swinging lifestyle, it’s easy to get caught up in the parties, dates, and adventures—but sometimes the most important step is knowing when to take a break. In this episode of Friends with Pineapples, we dive into why pressing pause can actually strengthen your relationship, protect your emotional well-being, and prevent lifestyle burnout.We’ll talk about how to recognize when it’s time for a break, the benefits of stepping back, and how normal (and healthy!) it is to take space without losing your place in the community. Whether you’re thinking about slowing down or just want reassurance that a pause doesn’t mean failure, this episode will remind you that sometimes the sexiest move is focusing on each other.Connect With Us:Friends with pineapples (@friendswithpineapples) • Instagram photos and videosFriends with Pineapples (@friendswithpa) / X (twitter.com)[email protected] With Pineapples – Welcome to our Podcast!sdc.comUSE OUR SDC PROMO CODE: 37673

Send us a text Being apart for work or life commitments doesn’t have to cool things down. In this episode, we explore how to keep the spark sizzling in the swinging lifestyle when you and your partner can’t always be together. From playful digital connections and sexy surprises to navigating boundaries and staying emotionally close, we share real strategies and hot tips for keeping your connection (and your lifestyle adventures) thriving, no matter the distance. Connect With Us:Friends with pineapples (@friendswithpineapples) • Instagram photos and videosFriends with Pineapples (@friendswithpa) / X (twitter.com)[email protected] With Pineapples – Welcome to our Podcast!sdc.comUSE OUR SDC PROMO CODE: 37673

Send us a textIn this eye-opening episode of Friends with Pineapples, we explore the real-world swinging lifestyle and how it differs drastically from the way it’s portrayed in porn. We break down the biggest misconceptions, from unrealistic expectations around instant chemistry and physicality to the absence of the essential ingredients: communication, boundaries, and emotional intelligence. Whether you're curious, new to the lifestyle, or just want to better understand the reality behind the fantasy, this episode is packed with honest insight, educational takeaways, and real talk from us who live it because informed choices and respectful connections are way sexier than scripted scenes.Connect With Us:Friends with pineapples (@friendswithpineapples) • Instagram photos and videosFriends with Pineapples (@friendswithpa) / X (twitter.com)[email protected] With Pineapples – Welcome to our Podcast!sdc.comUSE OUR SDC PROMO CODE: 37673

Send us a textIn this special episode of Friends With Pineapples, we sit down with our sweet Muggle friend Payton for a real, honest, and sometimes hilarious chat about what it’s like being friends with swingers. Nikki flips the script and asks Payton some of the most common questions and misconceptions about the swinger lifestyle from “Do you guys just have orgies all the time?” to “Isn’t that cheating?” and everything in between. This episode is all about bridging the gap between the lifestyle and the outside world, showing how curiosity, kindness, and a little humor can create understanding. Whether you're vanilla, pineapple-flavored, or somewhere in between, this conversation might surprise you!Connect With Us:Friends with pineapples (@friendswithpineapples) • Instagram photos and videosFriends with Pineapples (@friendswithpa) / X (twitter.com)[email protected] With Pineapples – Welcome to our Podcast!sdc.comUSE OUR SDC PROMO CODE: 37673

Send us a text In this honest and heartfelt episode of Friends With Pineapples, we talk about something that affects more people in the lifestyle than you might think, SHAME! Whether it’s tied to sex, identity, religion, or outside judgment, shame can creep in and steal the joy from what should be a freeing, affirming experience. We unpack where it comes from, how to recognize it, and how to replace it with self-acceptance, honesty, and confidence. You’re not alone—and you don’t have to carry the weight of shame into your journey. Connect With Us:Friends with pineapples (@friendswithpineapples) • Instagram photos and videosFriends with Pineapples (@friendswithpa) / X (twitter.com)[email protected] With Pineapples – Welcome to our Podcast!sdc.comUSE OUR SDC PROMO CODE: 37673Casual Swinger Episode on Shame: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2EBEuodoe875yhLlys4RN1?si=1_vBG1DaTi-7IlqRyMC7RQ 

Send us a textIn this episode of Friends With Pineapples, we’re taking on the biggest myths and misconceptions about the swinger lifestyle—and setting the record straight. 🍍From the idea that “swingers are just cheaters” to the myth that “everyone is having sex all the time,” we’re busting through the stereotypes and showing you what ethical non-monogamy is actually about. We’ll also talk about common media portrayals, awkward questions we've been asked, and how these myths can impact real relationships and community trust.Whether you're brand new or deep in the pineapple patch, this episode is all about honesty, clarity, and normalizing your truth. Because swinging isn’t about wild orgies (unless that’s your thing)—it’s about communication, consent, and connection.Tune in, laugh with us, and let’s leave the myths behind.Connect With Us:Friends with pineapples (@friendswithpineapples) • Instagram photos and videosFriends with Pineapples (@friendswithpa) / X (twitter.com)[email protected] With Pineapples – Welcome to our Podcast!sdc.comUSE OUR SDC PROMO CODE: 37673

Send us a text In this sizzling episode, we take you behind the scenes of the very first party we ever hosted at That Pineapple Club—Neon Lingerie Glow Night! From the excitement of planning and setting the vibe, to the electric energy that lit up the dance floor (and more 😉), we share all the juicy details. Hear about the sexy surprises, what went smoothly, and what we learned along the way. Whether you're curious about hosting, love themed nights, or just want the inside scoop on one of the hottest glow parties in the lifestyle, this one’s for you. Light the blacklights, slip into something sheer, and let’s glow! Connect With Us:Friends with pineapples (@friendswithpineapples) • Instagram photos and videosFriends with Pineapples (@friendswithpa) / X (twitter.com)[email protected] With Pineapples – Welcome to our Podcast!sdc.comEvents – That Pineapple Club

Send us a textIn this episode of Friends With Pineapples, we’re diving into the many flavors of fun in the swinger lifestyle—from high-energy club nights to intimate house parties, sexy resort takeovers, and even clothing-optional campouts. 🍍We break down the different settings you might encounter, the vibes you can expect from each, and how to find the one that best fits your comfort level and curiosity. But that’s not all—we also explore diverse play styles: full swap, soft swap, voyeurism, exhibitionism, parallel play, and more.Whether you're dipping a toe in for the first time or looking to expand your experiences, this episode gives you a judgment-free tour of what’s out there, plus our personal tips on navigating each with confidence and respect.So grab a drink, get cozy, and let’s explore what makes this lifestyle so exciting and customizable!Connect With Us:Friends with pineapples (@friendswithpineapples) • Instagram photos and videosFriends with Pineapples (@friendswithpa) / X (twitter.com)[email protected] With Pineapples – Welcome to our Podcast!sdc.com