Does it depend on me or on God?

Navigating relationships leading to marriage comes with a price, especially if your commitment is to both your consecration. We live in a culture that normalizes sin and lasciviousness, however, it is important to know that God's standard does not change because of culture.So how do we navigate the times when we have fallen? We discuss the steps to take in this episode, along with really practical steps to protect your body and heart through the season of courtship.

It sucks when we expect things to happen at a certain time and they do not. It can be frustrating to step into a certain season and not see manifestations of said season.Who is to blame? who or what causes the delay?We explore all of this and more in this episode, raising your heart to see delay in another light and helping you understand the things that could be attributed to delay.

Compromise like most things in life can be done to an extreme, while healthy relationships have some sort of concessions, it is important to note that we can compromise to a default, where either or both parties are left feeling violated because of certain compromises made. In this episode, we discuss some points to be aware of when our compromise might start to border on violating ourselves. These guidelines will help us choose when and what to compromise on, and when to stand on business!

Happy New Year to you! What a beautiful opportunity we have to be more and do more! We start off this year with an episode closing the age-long debate on how much of life and its occurrences rests on God and how much of life rests on us. We explore five points in finding the balance between a God sovereign over all, and a God who has given us the power of choice to choose. Let us know where you sit after listening!

Disappointments always leave a sour taste to our desire to try again. Sometimes we convince ourselves that our apathy is us trusting God, but is it really? Have we just found a way to distance ourselves from it so it does not hurt as much if it doesn't happen? God calls us to deal with situations like this as people with hope and in this episode, we have a heart-to-heart for people scared to try again. Glory always ends our story.

Society has a way of convincing us that singleness is a disease and that when we get to a certain age still single, something must be wrong with us. This is not always the case and in this episode, we discuss points on navigating singleness without caving in to the voice of society, or losing ourselves in a bid to be married.

In this episode, we explore a question I was asked a year ago. For people who did not grow up in homes filled with love, how can you ensure that the trauma you experienced is not spilling out to other aspects of your adult life? We consider key points to note on the journey of healing from trauma and choosing a better you.

There is always a how with God. It is not enough that we worship Him, but how do we worship Him? It is not enough that we serve Him, but how to we serve Him? We can do the most sincere things but in a wrong way. Remember the sons of Aaron who died because they sacrificed 'strange fires' to God. They sacrificed, but not in the way God desired. How we do things matters to God, and in this episode, we explore the how to wait on God.

We are getting to the middle of the year so quickly. The gnawing feeling in your heart and the loud voice in your head might start to creep up, asking you 'what have we even accomplished?' The tendency that you'll start to feel low is high, so here is an episode to arm you in advance of those days and seasons when life might feel larger than you. We are more than our achievements and accomplishments. We are more than what we do.

Day 2 focuses on navigating never ending disputes in a relationship and offers a superior ideology outside the 50/50 phenomenon. This episode speaks to every relationship committed to getting to their full healthy potential in spite of the differences that may exist between the parties involved. Can't wait for Day 3, where we talk 'Loving the wrong person'. Stay tuned!!!