The 18-Month Relationship Curse - It's Happening to You and Your Fave Celebs feat. Amy Chan

Relationship expert, author, and Breakup Bootcamp founder Amy Chan is back, and this time she's talking dating - not just breaking up. Her new book Un-Single: How to Date Smarter and Create Love That Lasts (out April 28th) is packed with research-backed frameworks for finding the right person, and today we dig into all of it: the mathematical "secretary problem" applied to dating, why your list of standards might actually be a list of fears, and the chemical reason your butterflies disappear around the 18-month mark. Plus, we talk about real celebrity breakups - Taylor Swift & Calvin Harris, Dakota Johnson & Chris Martin - as case studies to unpack all of this.

This week I'm playing unsolicited publicist and giving my full reputational u-turn strategy for Justin Timberlake, Will Smith, and Chappell Roan. One is trying too hard to be cool and needs to stop. One stopped being cool and needs to get it back. And one just needs a nervous system reset and maybe a public speaking coach for a few tweaks. No one asked for this advice but I'm annoying and controlling so I'm here to give it! This year, hit your goals without giving up your favorite bready dishes. Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠hero.co⁠⁠⁠⁠ and use code FLUENTLY at checkout. Rehydrate with science-backed hydration from Liquid I.V.’s Hydration Multiplier Sugar Free. Go to ⁠⁠liquidiv.com⁠⁠ and get 20% off your first order with code Fluently at checkout Visit ⁠⁠OliveandJune.com/fluently⁠⁠ for 20% off your first manicure system! Your emotional wellbeing matters. Find support and feel lighter in therapy. Sign up and get 10% off at ⁠⁠BetterHelp.com/fluently⁠⁠   Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at Shopify.com/fluently

Robert Pattinson is everywhere right now. Three projects with Zendaya, The Drama is out, and everyone is talking about him. But after spending hours going down his rabbit hole (lol), I'm not sure we actually know who he is at all....Today we're covering: the elaborate, years-long lying habit that the press calls "delightfully eccentric" and what it would be called if literally anyone else did it. The Twilight wound and what it reveals about how he sees himself. The FKA Twigs chapter, Suki Waterhouse era, the blind items, and more! This year, hit your goals without giving up your favorite bready dishes. Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠hero.co⁠⁠⁠⁠ and use code FLUENTLY at checkout. Rehydrate with science-backed hydration from Liquid I.V.’s Hydration Multiplier Sugar Free. Go to ⁠⁠liquidiv.com⁠⁠ and get 20% off your first order with code Fluently at checkout Visit ⁠⁠OliveandJune.com/fluently⁠⁠ for 20% off your first manicure system! Your emotional wellbeing matters. Find support and feel lighter in therapy. Sign up and get 10% off at ⁠⁠BetterHelp.com/fluently⁠⁠   Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at Shopify.com/fluently

Alex Cooper is (apparently) the most-listened-to female podcaster in the world. She has a $125 million deal, media empire, hydration drink, reality show premiering this week, and a brand name that belongs to someone else. Today on Fluently Forward we're going deep on all of it - the Sofia Franklyn situation and why "Suitman" was actually right, the Matt Kaplan hypocrisy that nobody is talking about loudly enough, the MowPod download scandal that I have personal receipts on, the Alix Earle fallout and what I've heard from people in the know, and what Unwell Winter Games tells us about where this empire is really headed. This year, hit your goals without giving up your favorite bready dishes. Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠hero.co⁠⁠⁠⁠ and use code FLUENTLY at checkout. Rehydrate with science-backed hydration from Liquid I.V.’s Hydration Multiplier Sugar Free. Go to ⁠⁠liquidiv.com⁠⁠ and get 20% off your first order with code Fluently at checkout Visit ⁠⁠OliveandJune.com/fluently⁠⁠ for 20% off your first manicure system! Your emotional wellbeing matters. Find support and feel lighter in therapy. Sign up and get 10% off at ⁠⁠BetterHelp.com/fluently⁠⁠   Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at Shopify.com/fluently

Why do so many artists peak on their very first album? This week, Shay (TikTok - and her new podcast Critical Condition) joins the show to unpack the curse of the perfect debut - from Lorde's Pure Heroine to SZA's Ctrl to Olivia Rodrigo's Sour. We dig into why hunger, resistance, and being underestimated produce the best art, and what happens when the label takes over, the money rolls in, and the boardroom starts making creative decisions. Plus, we talk about what artists like Taylor Swift, Chappell Roan, and Katy Perry could do to break out of the album yips! This year, hit your goals without giving up your favorite bready dishes. Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to ⁠⁠⁠hero.co⁠⁠⁠ and use code FLUENTLY at checkout. Rehydrate with science-backed hydration from Liquid I.V.’s Hydration Multiplier Sugar Free. Go to ⁠liquidiv.com⁠ and get 20% off your first order with code Fluently at checkout Visit ⁠OliveandJune.com/fluently⁠ for 20% off your first manicure system! Your emotional wellbeing matters. Find support and feel lighter in therapy. Sign up and get 10% off at ⁠BetterHelp.com/fluently⁠

We have Kelli (Beyond the Blinds and Nostalgia and Now) back to dive into some prrrr-fectly lovely conspiracy theories all about cats! We talk about how they were worshipped in Egypt, demonized throughout many cultures, trained by the CIA, and more! This year, hit your goals without giving up your favorite bready dishes. Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to ⁠⁠⁠hero.co⁠⁠⁠ and use code FLUENTLY at checkout. Rehydrate with science-backed hydration from Liquid I.V.’s Hydration Multiplier Sugar Free. Go to ⁠liquidiv.com⁠ and get 20% off your first order with code Fluently at checkout Visit ⁠OliveandJune.com/fluently⁠ for 20% off your first manicure system! Your emotional wellbeing matters. Find support and feel lighter in therapy. Sign up and get 10% off at ⁠BetterHelp.com/fluently⁠

Today Christy from Snarkbait joins us again to chat all about Hilary Duff! She crashed her rival's movie premiere, hasn't spoken to her sister in seven years, picked a fight with Avril Lavigne for no reason, and may or may not have run a toxic mom group...but she's never had a bad headline stick! This week we talk about why, how Disney built her to be untouchable - and how Selena Gomez seems to be the next Disney generation to use the same playbook. This year, hit your goals without giving up your favorite bready dishes. Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to ⁠⁠⁠hero.co⁠⁠⁠ and use code FLUENTLY at checkout. Rehydrate with science-backed hydration from Liquid I.V.’s Hydration Multiplier Sugar Free. Go to ⁠liquidiv.com⁠ and get 20% off your first order with code Fluently at checkout Visit ⁠OliveandJune.com/fluently⁠ for 20% off your first manicure system! Your emotional wellbeing matters. Find support and feel lighter in therapy. Sign up and get 10% off at ⁠BetterHelp.com/fluently⁠

We're back with part two of Harry Styles week and this time we're diving deep into the blind items! From his acting career and the roles he almost took (Nosferatu? Wicked? A Seth Rogen space comedy??), to the Rande Gerber throuple allegations that will have you sprinting to Google, to his rumored relationships and what the blind items actually say about all of them. And buried inside all of these Harry Styles blind items is a decade long one-sided beef (from Matty Healy) that I could not stop going down the rabbit hole on, and I have a lot of feelings about it. This year, hit your goals without giving up your favorite bready dishes. Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to ⁠⁠⁠hero.co⁠⁠⁠ and use code FLUENTLY at checkout. Rehydrate with science-backed hydration from Liquid I.V.’s Hydration Multiplier Sugar Free. Go to ⁠liquidiv.com⁠ and get 20% off your first order with code Fluently at checkout Visit ⁠OliveandJune.com/fluently⁠ for 20% off your first manicure system! Your emotional wellbeing matters. Find support and feel lighter in therapy. Sign up and get 10% off at ⁠BetterHelp.com/fluently⁠

He's on every magazine cover, his Wikipedia page calls him a culture-shifting icon, and his puke once sold on eBay. But who is Harry Styles, actually? This week we're diving deep into the man behind the flare pants - getting into why the media keeps calling him a trailblazer when he might actually be something more interesting than that, his carefully worded non-answers about politics and sexuality, and why his therapist is literally asking him why he needs everyone to like him so much. Part one of two - Wednesday's episode gets into the blind items. 👀 This year, hit your goals without giving up your favorite bready dishes. Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to ⁠⁠hero.co⁠⁠ and use code FLUENTLY at checkout. Rehydrate with science-backed hydration from Liquid I.V.’s Hydration Multiplier Sugar Free. Go to liquidiv.com and get 20% off your first order with code Fluently at checkout Visit OliveandJune.com/fluently for 20% off your first manicure system! Your emotional wellbeing matters. Find support and feel lighter in therapy. Sign up and get 10% off at BetterHelp.com/fluently

Check out this week's Fluently Fixed episode, and drop in your own questions in the Google form!⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdd69udAJ9kDUwJKJJwWjX54et2Mo75io9BPRrNJSnNEz4t9Q/viewform⁠ This year, hit your goals without giving up your favorite bready dishes. Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to ⁠⁠⁠hero.co⁠⁠⁠ and use code FLUENTLY at checkout. Rehydrate with science-backed hydration from Liquid I.V.’s Hydration Multiplier Sugar Free. Go to ⁠liquidiv.com⁠ and get 20% off your first order with code Fluently at checkout Visit ⁠OliveandJune.com/fluently⁠ for 20% off your first manicure system! Your emotional wellbeing matters. Find support and feel lighter in therapy. Sign up and get 10% off at ⁠BetterHelp.com/fluently⁠