Ep #35: Thinking

#348: If you feel like you’re going crazy in your relationship, where simple conversations turn into confusing battles where you’re somehow always wrong, you might be dealing with an emotionally immature partner. Join me this week as I dive into the signs and impact of being in a relationship with an emotionally immature person. You’ll learn the key signs of emotional immaturity in relationships, how it affects your nervous system, and the connection between childhood experiences and current relationship patterns. If you've ever felt like you're walking on eggshells in your relationship, or constantly questioning your reality, this episode is for you. And make sure to tune in next week for part 2, where we'll discuss practical strategies for dealing with emotional immaturity in relationships.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://beatrizalbina.com/348Order your copy of End Emotional Outsourcing here: https://beatrizalbina.com/book/Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/beatrizvictoriaalbinanp/?hl=enMentioned in this episode:End Emotional Outsourcing Is here!For years, we've gathered here to unpack codependent, perfectionist, and people-pleasing habits. Now, all those conversations, all that healing, and all the nerdy science have come together in my new book, End Emotional Outsourcing. Get your copy today: https://feminist-wellness.captivate.fm/bookEEO Pre-Sale

I’ve got two special surprises for you! Order 10+ copies of End Emotional Outsourcing and you’ll get a free seat in my six-week live course — plus a chance to win a full spot in Anchored. And if you’re in New York, join me on Sept 30th in Brooklyn for tacos, cocktails, connection, and the sweetest book party. Get your seat in the six week live course (and your raffle entry for a FULL spot in Anchored) here: https://beatrizalbina.com/10booksbonus/Get your ticket to the party here: beatrizalbina.com/pubparty

Pre-order your copy of Emotional Outsourcing from Barnes & Noble between September 3rd and September 5th, and you'll get 25% off! Just use the code PREORDER25 at checkout. This special online-only offer is the perfect opportunity to snag the book at a great price before it’s officially released.Even better, if you're a Barnes & Noble Premium Member, you'll receive an additional 10% discount automatically applied at checkout, making this an amazing deal you don't want to miss. Secure your copy today and be one of the first to read this highly anticipated book: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/end-emotional-outsourcing-beatriz-victoria-albina-np-mph-sep/1147732180?ean=9781538766439

In this free, final workshop of the series, you'll learn how to make nervous system change actually last, how to stop backsliding when life gets chaotic, and how to create the kind of internal safety that sustains healing long term. It's happening on Wednesday, May 28, at 8pm eastern on Zoom. Click here to grab your spot: feminist-wellness.captivate.fm/workshop-podcastP.S. If you missed the other workshops in the series, there are limited-time replays available!

Are you tired of feeling stuck in the same old patterns, no matter how much work you put into changing? Join me for this free, four-part workshop series on May 7, May 14, May 21, and May 28 where I’ll dive deep into why your nervous system keeps pulling you back into people-pleasing, perfectionism, and codependent habits. Learn how to break free from these patterns using the powerful tools of neuroscience, somatics, and emotional regulation. This isn’t just feel-good talk, it’s real, life-changing work. Register now and I'll see you there!https://feminist-wellness.captivate.fm/workshop-podcast

#323: Are you waiting for someone to magically transform into the person you need them to be? In this episode, I break down what relationship magical realism is, how it manifests in our thoughts and behaviors, and the real cost of staying in these fantasies. I share practical steps to recognize when you're caught in this pattern and how to start seeing relationships for what they truly are – not just what you wish they could be.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://beatrizalbina.com/323Mentioned in this episode:Download Your Free Guide to Conversational Consent!Ever find yourself holding space you didn’t mean to offer... or unloading your feelings without being sure the other person’s actually available? This Free Guide to Conversational Consent gives you clear, kind language to check in before diving into venting, advice, emotional processing, or big feels. You’ll learn how to ask for what you want clearly, how to make sure the other person’s a true yes, and how to honor both of you in the conversation. It’s about mutual care, real respect, and dramatically reducing the chance of quiet simmering resentment later. Consent in conversation is love. It’s clarity. It works. Click here to grab it: https://feminist-wellness.captivate.fm/conversational-consent-podcastConversational Consent Guide

#215: My favorite little sister, Genie Albina, joins me today to discuss family systems from the perspective of being a change agent. Genie is a certified Parent Coach who works with both teachers and parents, a mom of two kiddos, and is now an official coach inside Anchored. Making intergenerational change takes a lot of strength, courage, and self-reflection. So, what do you do when you’re the intergenerational trauma bond breaker, or the one doing ancestral healing, and that’s not what’s happening in the rest of your family system? Find out in this episode. Get full show notes and more information here: https://victoriaalbina.com/215Mentioned in this episode:Download Your Free Guide to Conversational Consent!Ever find yourself holding space you didn’t mean to offer... or unloading your feelings without being sure the other person’s actually available? This Free Guide to Conversational Consent gives you clear, kind language to check in before diving into venting, advice, emotional processing, or big feels. You’ll learn how to ask for what you want clearly, how to make sure the other person’s a true yes, and how to honor both of you in the conversation. It’s about mutual care, real respect, and dramatically reducing the chance of quiet simmering resentment later. Consent in conversation is love. It’s clarity. It works. Click here to grab it: https://feminist-wellness.captivate.fm/conversational-consent-podcastConversational Consent Guide

My sister Genie Albina is on the show this week and I could not be more excited! We're discussing what we can do to raise kids towards interdependence and reparent ourselves in this direction. Genie is highlighting some key components of prioritizing interdependence for ourselves and our kids, and sharing her best tips for facilitating radical honesty in your communication.  Get full show notes and more information here: https://victoriaalbina.com/141Mentioned in this episode:Download Your Free Guide to Conversational Consent!Ever find yourself holding space you didn’t mean to offer... or unloading your feelings without being sure the other person’s actually available? This Free Guide to Conversational Consent gives you clear, kind language to check in before diving into venting, advice, emotional processing, or big feels. You’ll learn how to ask for what you want clearly, how to make sure the other person’s a true yes, and how to honor both of you in the conversation. It’s about mutual care, real respect, and dramatically reducing the chance of quiet simmering resentment later. Consent in conversation is love. It’s clarity. It works. Click here to grab it: https://feminist-wellness.captivate.fm/conversational-consent-podcastConversational Consent Guide

Join me this week to start living into your fullest expression of your highest self, which will require discomfort in the short-term, but guaranteed joy and growth in the long-term. I’m sharing how you can start using these tools to start seeking ways to understand where you might be holding onto beliefs that aren’t serving you, so you can start living your life intentionally.Get full show notes and more information here: https://victoriaalbina.com/49Mentioned in this episode:End Emotional Outsourcing Is here!For years, we've gathered here to unpack codependent, perfectionist, and people-pleasing habits. Now, all those conversations, all that healing, and all the nerdy science have come together in my new book, End Emotional Outsourcing. Get your copy today: https://feminist-wellness.captivate.fm/bookEEO Pre-Sale

Tune in today to discover how your monkey mind provides you with thoughts, and why it’s up to you whether you believe them or not. I’m sharing how to create cognitive distance between your monkey mind and your consciousness and bring your old habitual thoughts to the surface, so you can analyze them, start choosing the ones that actually serve you, and changing the ones that don’t.Get full show notes and more information here: https://victoriaalbina.com/35Mentioned in this episode:End Emotional Outsourcing Is here!For years, we've gathered here to unpack codependent, perfectionist, and people-pleasing habits. Now, all those conversations, all that healing, and all the nerdy science have come together in my new book, End Emotional Outsourcing. Get your copy today: https://feminist-wellness.captivate.fm/bookEEO Pre-Sale