The Identity You are Leaving Behind

You can see the pattern. You can name it while it's happening. You can explain exactly where it started. And still… it repeats. That's not confusion. It's protection that never updated. Your subconscious does not care about your vision. It cares about safety. And safety is defined by familiarity. Your life may have evolved. Your body didn't automatically update just because your life did. That changes how you see yourself. Listen in now! And if you're ready to stop repeating what you've already outgrown… Coming Home is where repetition ends quietly. Schedule your private conversation.

Overgiving doesn't mean you're generous. Sometimes it means you learned early how to keep things together. There's a difference between giving from fullness and giving because it feels safer than trusting yourself. This week's podcast episode explores what happens when capable, loving women stop carrying what isn't theirs. Not by pulling back from love — but by staying present with themselves.

Self-love isn't about becoming selfish. And it's not about disappearing for everyone else either. It's about staying with yourself in the moments where you usually override, explain, or push through. In this episode of Elevate Your Mind, Rebecca talks about self-love as it actually shows up in real life. In your body. In your decisions. In your relationships. If you're good at loving others and ready to include yourself in that equation, this episode is for you.

What if real power didn't come from pushing harder… but from settling deeper into yourself? In this episode, we unpack the difference between force and command—especially for capable, highly-responsible women who are used to holding everything together. If success has started to feel heavy, exhausting, or like it requires constant effort, this conversation will land. You'll hear why force creates burnout, why command is calm and magnetic, and how true authority comes from regulation, self-trust, and inner alignment—not hustle or pressure. This episode is an invitation to stop managing everything and start leading from grounded clarity. If you're tired of forcing outcomes and ready for calm confidence, steady leadership, and ease that actually lasts… this one's for you.

We talk a lot about becoming. We talk less about the identities we quietly outgrow. The version of you who once kept the peace. Over-explained. Over-functioned. Over-tolerated. She did her job. But staying loyal to who you were will block you from who you are becoming. Listen now if you're ready to release the old version without grief, drama, or self-judgment.

Indecision isn't neutral. It's not "buying time." It's not thoughtful patience. It's energy spent circling instead of moving. In today's Elevate Your Mind episode, I'm talking about: • why circling feels safer than deciding • how hesitation quietly drains momentum • and why deciding restores clarity faster than overthinking ever will If you've been circling something — a decision, a transition, a next step — this episode is for you.

So many of us make New Year's resolutions with the best intentions, only to watch them fade by February. This episode is a vital message for anyone who's ever felt discouraged by a "failed" resolution. It's not about lacking discipline; it's about a fundamental misunderstanding of how change truly happens. Inside this episode, we explore: The Resolution Trap: Why resolutions ask you to "try harder" and how this approach actually keeps your old identity in charge. Identity vs. Effort: The crucial difference between making resolutions and making decisions that redefine who you are. The Subconscious Mind: How your subconscious prioritizes safety and familiarity, and why it doesn't respond to hope or pressure. Intention vs. Decision: Understanding that intentions are directional, but decisions are final and non-negotiable. Alignment Over Force: How a shift in identity leads to effortless behavioral change, creating a sense of calm and regulation. The Power of Deciding: Why this year is about deciding who you are and what you want, not about trying harder. This is the episode for anyone ready to move beyond the cycle of resolutions and embrace a deeper, more powerful form of transformation by making definitive choices about their identity.  

So many women are exhausted — not from their lives, but from carrying emotional weight that was never theirs to hold. This episode is a powerful wake-up call for the helpers, the anchors, the ones everyone leans on. Inside this episode, we explore: • Emotional Overload: How living inside other people's feelings drains your energy and clarity • Subconscious Survival Patterns: Why you learned to manage emotions to feel safe • Emotional Sovereignty: The shift from over-responsibility to true inner freedom • Intuition & Leadership: What returns when you stop carrying what isn't yours • Identity Expansion: Who you become when your emotional bandwidth is finally your own This is the episode for women ready to stop over-functioning, reclaim their intuition, and lead from grounded clarity instead of emotional exhaustion.  

So many capable, successful women aren't stuck because they lack confidence — they're stuck because their system is overloaded. This episode is a powerful interruption for women who overthink, hesitate, and talk themselves out of opportunities they already know they're ready for. Inside this episode, we explore: • Second Guessing as a Survival Pattern: Why hesitation isn't self-doubt, but a nervous system trying to stay safe • Identity Lag: What happens when your external success outpaces your internal wiring • Mental Overload & Clarity Loss: How overthinking buries your natural knowing • Embodied Decision-Making: The difference between reacting and responding with grounded certainty • Self-Trust Restoration: How to reconnect with the version of you who already knows the answer This episode is for women ready to stop spiraling, release hesitation, and make aligned decisions with calm confidence — without overthinking or waiting for permission.  

What if the version of you that you dream of is already within? This episode dives into personal growth and identity transformation, urging you to clear away the layers of stories and patterns that hide your true self. Identity & Subconscious: Your true identity lies in the subconscious, shaped by emotions and memories. Ego vs. Intuition: Learn how the ego can block your potential, while intuition guides you. Emotional Patterns: Break free from past traumas and roles that don't serve you. Subconscious Protection: Understand why your mind prioritizes safety over success. Embrace Transformation: Ready for change? Clear emotional patterns and stabilize your identity. Uncover the real you and embrace transformation. Are you ready to align with your true self?