173 | overthinking, fire ants, and big decisions

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay is joined by Dr. Marie Hooper, a clinical psychologist (supervised practice) from Toronto, Canada. They dive into the nuances of autism diagnosis, discussing why autism is often misdiagnosed and the importance of differential diagnosis. Dr. Marie shares her personal journey of being diagnosed as autistic at 43 and talks about her clinic, Flourish Health Services, and her upcoming initiative, Autism Reframe. The conversation also touches on the impact of sensory differences, the significance of accurate diagnosis, and the benefits of understanding one's neurotype for identity and acceptance. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:28 Guest Introduction: Dr. Hooper01:45 Personal Stories and Professional Background04:00 Challenges in Autism Diagnosis09:52 Misdiagnosis and Clinical Practice11:45 Reevaluating Diagnoses and Identity22:41 Parental Guidance and Support25:37 Supportive Nudges and Clinical Care25:56 Listening to Autistic Adults26:20 Addressing Fear and Celebrating Diagnoses27:10 Misdiagnosis of OCD and Autism30:44 Understanding Sensory Differences31:46 Challenges with Diagnostic Tools36:54 Misdiagnosis of ODD and PDA38:42 Borderline Personality Disorder and Autism40:28 Final Thoughts and Resources43:02 Conclusion and Call to Action   RESOURCES ⚡️learn more about Dr. Hooper's services in Canada flourishhealthservices.ca and her upcoming clinician trainings through autismreframe.com.  ⚡️ LEARN more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current clinical services offered as well as her new educational membership? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this candid and vulnerable episode, Dr. Tay dives deep into the theme of identity, sharing personal insights and challenges from her own journey. She discusses the importance of showing up as one's true, authentic self, especially for parents navigating life with autism. Dr. Tay touches on the struggles of balancing various roles in life and the discomfort that comes with self-disclosure and authenticity. Drawing inspiration from the 'Call Her Alex' documentary and addressing the need for self-integration, Dr. Tay encourages listeners to explore their true identity, model vulnerability, and seek support when needed. The episode is an invitation to embrace the journey of self-discovery and authenticity.00:00 Introduction and Today's Theme00:24 Navigating Identity and Authenticity01:54 The Power of Self-Disclosure03:32 Personal Reflections and Inspirations04:55 Embracing Vulnerability and Realness06:05 The Journey of Self-Discovery09:49 Integrating Parts and Internal Family Systems12:34 Balancing Personal and Professional Life20:27 Invitation to Join the Membership27:42 Concluding Thoughts and Future Episodes  RESOURCES ⚡️ it is FINALLY officially open - join EVOLVE the membership here ⚡️ LEARN more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current clinical services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay welcomes psychiatrist Dr. Stacy Greeter to discuss the complexities of explaining medication to autistic children. They emphasize the importance of maintaining a neurodiversity-affirming approach, focusing on informed consent, and fostering a healthy relationship with medication. Dr. Greeter shares personal experiences and tips on building trust, understanding unique responses to medications, and the critical role of autonomy in treatment. They also discuss the broader challenges within the medical profession and the importance of continual learning and flexibility for practitioners.00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:54 Guest Introduction: Dr. Stacy Greeter01:26 Host Background and Podcast Purpose02:40 Challenges in Psychiatry and Neurodiversity05:19 Dr. Greeter's Personal Journey12:27 Medication and Autism: Key Insights18:12 Guiding Parents on Medication Conversations23:34 The Role of Medicine in Treatment24:08 Balancing Medicine and Personal Responsibility25:11 Addressing Anxiety with Medication25:58 Using Metaphors to Explain Medication26:46 The Importance of Patient Ownership27:18 The Impact of Beliefs on Medication Efficacy28:18 Parental Concerns and Positive Expectations29:29 Navigating Medication with Autonomy31:35 Building a Therapeutic Alliance34:26 Understanding Reluctance to Take Medication39:49 Final Thoughts and Encouragement41:31 Resources and Closing Remarks   *note: PDA is discussed in this episode. it is a theorized profile often seen in a subset of autistic individuals and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110 RESOURCES⚡️inquire about Dr. Greeter’s services in FL and CO and sign up for her newsletter at stacygreetermd.com  ⚡️watch Dr. Greeter’s trainings on YouTube @stacygreetermd ⚡️ learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this episode, Dr. Tay dives into the concept of inner authority from human design and its significance in enhancing parental advocacy and personal growth. Joined by Rosy Crescitelli, a human design specialist and multisensory reading expert, they explore various types of inner authorities such as sacral, emotional, splenic, ego, self, sounding board, and lunar. They discuss how understanding and leveraging one's unique inner authority can facilitate better decision-making and create a more supportive environment for autistic children. Practical tips and insights are provided to help parents navigate this journey, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, self-compassion, and nervous system regulation. Listen in to learn how human design can be a transformative tool for both personal and parental empowerment. 00:00 Introduction and Inner Authority Overview00:46 Guest Introduction: Rosy Crescitelli01:34 Dr. Tay's Background and Podcast Purpose02:43 Rosy's Journey into Human Design05:14 Understanding Human Design and Inner Authority12:25 Sacral Authority: Trusting Your Gut19:37 Emotional Authority: Riding the Emotional Wave27:19 Splenic Authority: Quiet Intuition31:21 Gratitude and Self-Trust31:50 Understanding Splenic Authority33:01 Ego Authority Explained35:38 Self Authority for Projectors39:30 Sounding Board Authority47:54 Lunar Authority for Reflectors52:53 Recap and Final Thoughts56:04 Advocating for Your Child's Human Design58:41 Connecting with Rosy01:03:10 Closing Remarks please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most. RESOURCES⚡️ find out your human design (be sure to also listen to episode 38 to learn more about HD) ⚡️explore ways to learn more about your or your child's human design with Rosy here ⚡️connect with Rosy on Instagram @wholeheartedrosy  ⚡️ learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay emphasizes the importance of asking questions as a tool for progress, especially for parents navigating the challenges of raising an autistic child. She discusses her own journey to launch a membership for parents seeking support, inspired by a serendipitous experience with a community she belongs to. Dr. Tay shares the story of how asking the right questions can lead to actionable outcomes and encourages parents to embrace their right to ask and advocate for their children. 00:00 Introduction to Asking for Help00:39 Personal Journey and Decision Making02:37 The Importance of Bite-Sized Information04:42 The Power of Asking Questions07:47 Launching the Membership10:44 Encouragement to Ask Questions15:10 Conclusion and Next Steps   RESOURCES ⚡️ JOIN EVOLVE the membership waitlist here ⚡️ LEARN more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tay

In this episode, Dr. Tay is joined by guest Amanda Moses, a neurodivergent psychologist from Australia, who specializes in autism identification in those with complex and highly masked presentations. They discuss the differences in how autism presents in females versus males, the concept of masking, and the unique social challenges that often lead to delayed diagnoses. Amanda offers practical advice for parents and clinicians on how to better recognize and support autistic children and adults. The episode emphasizes the importance of specialized training for clinicians and the need for more self-compassion and understanding among those exploring their own neurodivergent traits.00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:28 Autism Diagnostic Criteria and Episode Reference01:10 Amanda's Background and Passion for Autism01:38 Dr. Tay's Background and Podcast Purpose02:40 Amanda's Journey and PhD Focus04:07 Challenges in Autism Assessment Tools10:22 Importance of Self-Identification and Formal Diagnosis14:46 Challenges in Diagnosing Girls with Autism26:51 Key Transitional Points for Diagnosing Autism in Girls31:44 Recognizing Emotional Dysregulation in Children32:26 Perfectionism and Cognitive Rigidity33:10 The Role of Savvy Parents33:31 The Importance of Content Creation35:37 Exploring Masking in Autism38:16 Personal Experiences with Masking41:11 Helping Children Understand Their Energy Levels44:25 The Complexities of Masking and Mental Health46:40 Finding Safe Spaces for Authenticity53:49 Social Connections Among Neurodivergent Individuals56:35 Resources for Understanding Masking01:00:00 Final Thoughts and Encouragement  RESOURCES ⚡️ continue learning from Amanda Moses on Instagram @amandamosespsychology and via her website ⚡️paid resource on masking mentioned in the episode ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Dr. Tay shares personal experiences and insights about making significant life changes. She discusses the challenges and importance of trusting one's instincts, especially when overthinking sets in. Dr. Tay recounts a personal story involving a car accident and fire ants, which led her to a profound realization about her own business decisions, particularly the launch of the anticipated membership to support families navigating autism. She emphasizes the value of listening to your body, taking action despite fear, and leveraging gut feelings in both parenting and personal growth. This episode encourages parents, especially those of autistic children, to trust themselves and act on their intuitive nudges.00:00 Introduction and Welcome00:32 About Dr. Tay and the Podcast01:22 Disclaimer and Episode Topic Introduction01:58 Personal Story: The Fire Ant Incident03:27 Business Mastermind and Spiritual Meaning of Fire Ants05:20 Struggles with Launching the Membership08:40 The Importance of Trusting Your Gut09:17 Quality Over Quantity in Services11:29 Navigating Parenting Decisions15:38 Personal Reflections and Call to Action22:39 Final Thoughts and Farewell  RESOURCES  ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this episode, Dr. Tay chats with Jessie Mewshaw, a speech language pathologist, to discuss the often overlooked topic of medium and high support needs in autism. They dive into why this conversation is vital, sharing personal experiences and professional insights. Jessie discusses her unique journey into the field and her current work with nonspeaking and minimally speaking autistic individuals. Key themes include the importance of neurodiversity-affirming care, better training and support for providers and caregivers, and the need for more accessible and financially supported resources. The episode also highlights the significance of listening to diverse autistic voices and fostering a community that supports all levels of need.00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:44 Meet Jessie Mewshaw: Speech Language Pathologist01:21 Welcome to the Podcast: Dr. Tay's Background06:01 Jesse's Journey into Speech Pathology07:46 Experiences in Australia: Life-Changing Lessons12:47 Challenges in the US: Lack of Support Programs17:18 Evaluation Barriers and Presuming Competence21:55 The Importance of Motor Systems in Autism27:44 Navigating the Journey Together28:24 The Importance of Medical Training30:11 Understanding Dysregulation34:08 Voices of Families38:01 Advocacy and Community43:46 Challenges in Neurodivergent Care50:21 Call to Action and Resources50:48 Remembering Victor Perez51:59 Final Thoughts and Connections  RESOURCES ⚡️ example accounts of moderate and high support need autistic individuals:@aether.autistic@angry_autist@blackspectrumscholar@charliesvoice1@dannywithwords@getaway_autist_mobile@justkeepstimming@kaishawna_music@quirkthriveswithnoah@zebulontheplanet ⚡️ connect with Jessie on Instagram @ms_jessies_speech_world and explore her services here ⚡️ resource for non-speaking individuals >> When Models Aren't "Sticking": A One-Day Intensive for Supporting Minimally Speaking GLPs (use code JESSIE for 10% off)  ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇In this episode, Dr. Tay addresses the current uncertainties of the autism space and how it applies to clinical practice, her personal business, and your parenting journey. She provides an honest reflection on the challenges of navigating unknowns, both personally and within the context of autism care. Dr. Tay emphasizes the importance of serving oneself, building resiliency, and creating community support. She offers practical tips and shares her experiences to help parents make decisions about evaluating and supporting their autistic children amidst the current political climate. Throughout the episode, she encourages listeners to adopt a balanced approach, integrating self-care and external support while fostering a sense of community.00:00 Introduction and Podcast Updates00:51 Navigating the Unknowns01:30 About Dr. Tay and the Podcast02:32 Current Issues in Autism and Evaluations09:47 Empowering Parents in Decision Making13:19 Personal Reflections and Business Adjustments22:15 Self-Care and Serving Your Family26:48 Addressing the Inner Critic27:09 Understanding the Marching Order Part27:45 The Fear of Stopping28:02 Balancing Helper Identity and Self-Care29:20 Integrating Internal Family Systems29:55 Practical Tips for Self-Understanding30:49 Navigating Financial Conversations with Kids32:33 Building a Support Network33:06 The Importance of Vulnerability33:57 Reevaluating and Pausing for Clarity36:06 The Tower Moment Analogy43:00 Creating Community and Connection47:15 Final Thoughts and Encouragement48:13 Ways to Get More ValueRESOURCES ⚡️Dive deeper with episodes mentioned: 38 on human design, 118 on sensory regulation supports (with Courtney English) and 164 on reasons to get evaluated now  ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tay

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇Think of this episode like sitting down with Dr. Tay to chat about a variety of topics, while she is getting ready for morning sessions. She shares her struggles with neck pain and ties it to stress and shame while discussing the application to your parenting journey. Dr. Tay then dives into the recent political climate, particularly RFK Jr.'s controversial remarks about autism and the proposed national registry. She discusses the ongoing robust research into the causes of autism, language use in the autism community, and the importance of supporting high support needs families. 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Setup01:06 Personal Updates and Daily Life01:25 Stress and Physical Health05:13 Therapy and Somatics07:46 Shame and Parenting09:34 Political Climate and Autism10:09 RFK Junior's Remarks on Autism11:14 Autism Research and Funding23:17 National Autism Registry Concerns26:04 Conclusion and Future Plans Like the format of this podcast? Let Dr. Tay know! She is exploring options for how to best serve you through this podcast!  RESOURCES ⚡️Instagram posts referenced in this episode >>@autismoutloud’s post on autism research funding @fidget.and.fries post on high support needs and a false sense of hope ⚡️while the national autism registry was only briefly touched on (more to come here and/or on Dr. Tay’s social media), you can take action now and express your concerns to your representatives. thanks to @blackspectrumscholar, here are templates you can use  ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>Instagram @the.dr.tayTikTok @the.dr.tay.