784: How to Feel Like Yourself Again When Life Won't Let Up, Or Slow Down with Mona Sharma

What happens when the version of you who could always push harder suddenly isn’t available anymore? For Mona Sharma, perimenopause arrived in a way she never expected. After navigating mold exposure, long COVID, gut issues, disrupted sleep, hair loss, and an experience with testosterone pellet therapy, an unexpected frozen shoulder became one of the clues that made her finally consider declining estrogen and perimenopause. But this conversation goes much deeper than hormones. Mona and Dr. Mariza explore the emotional reckoning that can happen when your old capacity changes, the routines that once worked stop working, and the high-functioning woman you’ve known for decades starts asking for a completely different way of living. They talk about HRT, stress, gut health, morning rituals, embodiment, intuition, sisterhood, aging, self-criticism, and the grief that can come with letting go of an earlier version of yourself. Most importantly, Mona reframes perimenopause as a metamorphosis: a season that asks for more grace, deeper self-trust, and the courage to come home to the body you’re in now. MONA SHARMA Mona Sharma is a nutritionist, wellness practitioner, entrepreneur, and host of the Rooted in Wellness podcast. Her approach blends nutrition and lifestyle practices with mindfulness, embodiment, Eastern traditions, and a deeply personalized approach to healing. In this conversation, Mona shares her own experience navigating perimenopause while raising children, growing businesses, supporting aging parents, healing her gut, managing significant stress, and learning how to listen to a body that no longer responds the way it once did. IN THIS EPISODE The unexpected symptoms that first made Mona realize she might be in perimenopause What her experience with testosterone pellet therapy taught her about individualized hormone care Why HRT is not a cookie-cutter solution and may require patience, experimentation, and self-awareness How chronic stress and gut health can complicate the way you feel during perimenopause Why protecting one grounding ritual can matter more than creating a perfect wellness routine How to approach prevention from possibility and purpose instead of fear Why embodiment and intuition can become powerful tools when your mind feels scattered or overwhelmed The grief of letting go of the high-capacity woman you used to be How perimenopause can become a rite of passage into deeper wisdom, self-trust, and a new identity QUOTES “Finding the practice or the ritual every day that brings you home to your body is key.” “This transition is metamorphosis.” “It’s okay to drift, it’s part of life, but you always have to remember how to anchor yourself home in your body.” RESOURCES MENTIONED Stop surviving and start thriving, join Midlife on Fire Collective now https://drmariza.com/trial Mona Sharma Website https://www.monasharma.com/ Rooted in Wellness Podcast https://www.monasharma.com/podcast Join Rooted Academy with Mona Sharma https://www.monasharma.com/rooted-academy Mona Sharma Instagram RELATED EPISODES  777: What We Know Now: The Midlife Lessons No One Taught Us with Jenn Pike 776: What Changes When Your Body Can’t Keep Pushing Like It Used To? with Dr. Taz Bhatia 774: Training for Your Grandma Self: How to Build a Body That Lasts with Dr. Stephanie Estima 717: “I Don’t Feel Like Myself Anymore”: The Mental & Emotional Reality of Perimenopause

Recurring UTIs. Vaginal dryness. Burning. Painful sex. BV that comes back again and again. So many women are dealing with these symptoms, especially during perimenopause and menopause, yet vaginal health remains one of the least discussed areas of women’s healthcare. In this episode, Dr. Mariza sits down with Good Clean Love founder Wendy Strgar for a candid conversation about the vaginal microbiome, what can disrupt it, and why declining estrogen can leave vaginal and urinary tissues more vulnerable to dryness, irritation, pain, and recurrent symptoms. Wendy shares how her own experience with painful sex and severe irritation after pelvic surgery led her to begin investigating the ingredients in common personal care products and eventually build Good Clean Love. They unpack the importance of vaginal pH, protective bacteria, the vaginal epithelial barrier, and why simply treating every recurrence as another yeast infection or prescribing the same medication repeatedly may not address what is actually happening. They also explore what happens as estrogen declines, why symptoms can become especially severe after cancer treatment or chemical menopause, and why women deserve better language, education, testing, treatment options, and clinicians willing to take vaginal pain seriously. Because vaginal discomfort, recurrent infections, painful sex, and dryness should never simply be dismissed as the inevitable price of getting older. WENDY STRGAR Wendy Strgar is the founder of Good Clean Love, a women’s intimate and vaginal health company that grew out of her own search for products she could comfortably use after experiencing significant pain and irritation following childbirth and pelvic surgery. Over the years, Wendy has focused her work on vaginal microbiome health, product formulation, education, clinical research, and expanding access to vaginal healthcare. In this conversation, she shares what she has learned from working with researchers, clinicians, and women struggling with chronic vaginal symptoms and why she believes vaginal microbiome health deserves a much larger role in women’s healthcare. IN THIS EPISODE How Wendy’s own experience with painful sex and irritation led to the creation of Good Clean Love Why the vaginal microbiome deserves the same attention we increasingly give the gut microbiome How declining estrogen can contribute to dryness, irritation, pain, and changes in vaginal and urinary health Why recurrent BV, yeast symptoms, and UTIs may require a deeper look at what organisms are actually present The role vaginal pH and the epithelial barrier play in maintaining a healthy vaginal environment Why some personal lubricants and vaginal products may aggravate already-sensitive tissue What women should know about vaginal changes during perimenopause, postpartum, and chemical menopause Why recurrent symptoms deserve more than another round of the same treatment How better language, testing, and access to knowledgeable clinicians could transform vaginal healthcare QUOTES “The problem is that you need to create the environment for that healthy bacteria to survive.” “We like to say restore and maintain.” “Quality of life after you go through something like that, we deserve that.” RESOURCES MENTIONED Find inspiration, connection, and meaningful reads. Join the Book Club now! https://drmariza.com/bookclub Use code DRMARIZA and get 10% off on your Womeness Order https://www.womaness.com/DRMARIZA Improve your Vaginal Health: Subscribe to Wendy Strgar Substack https://wendystrgar.substack.com/ Good Clean Clinical Care https://goodcleanclinicalcare.com/ Good Clean Love Pages https://goodcleanlove.com/pages/meet-ceo-wendy-strgar Good Clean Love Instagram Wendy Strgar Instagram RELATED EPISODES  779: How Did We Get Hormones So Wrong? The HRT Story Every Woman Should Know with Dr. Louise Newson 769: Is It Perimenopause or Something Else? How to Finally Connect the Dots with Dr. Mariza 661: When “Normal” Isn’t Normal: How to Be Heard (and Taken Seriously) at the Doctor’s Office 572: How to Know You Are in Perimenopause Including the 40+ Symptoms Associated with Declining Hormones

Have you ever gotten to the end of a long day on your computer and felt like your brain was simply done? Your eyes are tired. You can’t focus. Light feels irritating. Reading takes more effort. Maybe you even start avoiding your phone because you cannot look at another screen. Most of us assume that means our eyesight is getting worse. But in this episode, Dr. Mariza sits down with neuro-optometrist Dr. Bryce Appelbaum to explain why eyesight and vision are not the same thing. Eyesight describes how clearly you see. Vision involves how your brain receives, filters, processes, coordinates, and responds to the information coming through your eyes. And when that eye-brain connection isn’t functioning efficiently, symptoms can show up as headaches, motion sickness, dizziness, trouble focusing, sensory overload, brain fatigue, and even ADHD-like behaviors. Dr. Bryce also explains why screens place such unusual demands on the visual system, why functional vision issues can become more noticeable during midlife, and how concussion and other brain injuries can disrupt vision even when standard eye exams look normal. The encouraging part? The brain remains adaptable. Through targeted vision training and the right evaluation, Dr. Bryce explains that the eye-brain connection can often be retrained and strengthened at almost any age. DR. BRYCE APPELBAUM Dr. Bryce Appelbaum is a neuro-optometrist specializing in vision performance and helping people improve how their eyes, brain, and body work together. His work focuses on functional vision, visual processing, traumatic brain injury, concussion recovery, learning challenges, screen-related visual stress, and vision performance training. In this conversation, Dr. Bryce explains why a traditional eye exam may miss important functional vision problems and why improving vision can involve far more than simply changing a glasses or contact lens prescription. IN THIS EPISODE Why eyesight and vision are two very different things How functional vision problems can cause brain fog, headaches, motion sickness, and sensory overload Why visual processing problems can sometimes look like ADHD How changing hormones and screen exposure can increase visual strain in midlife Why screen time places unusual demands on the eye-brain connection The childhood signs that may point to an undiagnosed functional vision problem Why concussion and traumatic brain injury can affect vision even when eyesight appears normal How vision performance training uses neuroplasticity to retrain the brain Practical ways to reduce screen strain and support healthier visual development QUOTES “Any brain at any age has the opportunity to be trained and rewired.” “There’s neuroplasticity for vision at every age.” “If we’re testing, we’re not guessing.” RESOURCES MENTIONED Stop surviving and start thriving, join Midlife on Fire Collective now https://drmariza.com/trial Get $200 off ScreenFit™ with code DRMARIZA: https://checkout.screenfit.com/screenfit-vision-foundations/?coupon=DRMARIZA Get 10% off Digital Performance Lenses™ and more in the MyVisionFirst™ Shop with code DRMARIZA: https://shop.myvisionfirst.com/discount/DRMARIZA Try ScreenFit™ for free: https://www.screenfit.com/preview Take the free online vision assessment: https://www.myvisionfirst.com/quiz Get the free guide, 5 Steps to Better Vision: https://www.screenfit.com/5-proven-secrets-to-relieve-eye-strain Learn more about MyVisionFirst™: https://www.myvisionfirst.com Learn more about ScreenFit™: https://www.screenfit.com Follow Dr. Bryce Appelbaum on Instagram and YouTube: @drbryceappelbaum RELATED EPISODES  744: The Midlife Brain Reset: How to Protect Your Memory, Focus, and Mental Sharpness Starting Now 668: Your Brain on Perimenopause: The Hidden Neurological Transition No One Warns You About 728: Why Brain Fog Isn’t Random: The Hormone Shift Behind It 769: Is It Perimenopause or Something Else? How to Finally Connect the Dots with Dr. Mariza

What if the brain fog, overwhelm, time blindness, racing thoughts, and shorter emotional fuse showing up in your 40s aren’t just perimenopause? For many women, ADHD has been hiding in plain sight for decades. In this episode, Dr. Mariza sits down with women’s hormone expert and author Dr. Jolene Brighten to unpack why ADHD looks so different in women, why so many girls learn to mask their symptoms, and why changing estrogen levels during perimenopause can make those coping strategies suddenly stop working. Dr. Brighten explains how ADHD in women may look less like the stereotypical hyperactive child and more like people-pleasing, perfectionism, constantly running mental lists, interrupting because you’re afraid you’ll forget your thought, chronic overwhelm, and appearing completely put together while internally struggling. They also dive into the fascinating overlap between ADHD, perimenopause, PMDD, sleep, mitochondrial function, glucose metabolism, neuroinflammation, and emotional regulation. And perhaps most importantly, they discuss what women can actually do: how movement can support brain energy, why sleep matters so much for the ADHD brain, how to build habits that work with your executive function instead of against it, and exactly how to advocate for a proper evaluation when your concerns are dismissed. Because if your brain suddenly feels harder to manage in midlife, there may be more going on than “just hormones.” DR. JOLENE BRIGHTEN Dr. Jolene Brighten is a board-certified naturopathic endocrinologist, women’s hormone expert, educator, and bestselling author whose work focuses on helping women better understand the relationship between their hormones, brain, and overall health. Her newest book, ADHD and Women: A Guide to Optimizing Your Hormones and Thriving with ADHD, explores how female hormones can influence ADHD symptoms throughout puberty, the menstrual cycle, pregnancy, postpartum, and perimenopause. In this conversation, Dr. Brighten brings both clinical expertise and personal experience to the complicated intersection of ADHD, hormonal transitions, PMDD, emotional regulation, sleep, and women finally receiving answers after decades of believing they simply needed to try harder. IN THIS EPISODE Why ADHD in women can hide behind people-pleasing, perfectionism, and looking “high-functioning” How declining estrogen in perimenopause can make masking ADHD symptoms much harder Why girls with ADHD are often diagnosed with anxiety or depression instead The connection between ADHD, mitochondrial function, brain glucose metabolism, and neuroinflammation Why movement can temporarily improve focus and cognitive performance in the ADHD brain How sleep disruption can compound brain fog, emotional dysregulation, and ADHD symptoms Why ADHD and PMDD so often overlap and may worsen during perimenopause How hormones may influence impulsivity, mood, executive function, and premenstrual ADHD symptoms What to track and say to your doctor if you suspect ADHD but keep getting dismissed QUOTES “Build pleasure into your day.” “It is not just a hormone story.” “High functioning is the label that society puts on women so that they can feel comfortable asking for more from her.” RESOURCES MENTIONED Stop surviving and start thriving! Join the Midlife on Fire Collective and get 30 days free: https://drmariza.com/trial Join my brand-new Substack: for the woman everyone depends on who is wondering why everything feels harder in midlife: https://drmariza.substack.com/ ADHD and Women by Dr. Jolene Brighten: https://amzn.to/4zxqcq0 Dr. Jolene Brighten Website https://drbrighten.com/ Dr. Jolene Brighten Substack: https://drbrighten.substack.com/ Dr. Jolene Brighten Instagram RELATED EPISODES  769: Is It Perimenopause or Something Else? How to Finally Connect the Dots with Dr. Mariza 763: Why So Many High-Functing and Achieving Women Miss the Signs of Hormone Imbalance with Anastasia Sartan 744: The Midlife Brain Reset: How to Protect Your Memory, Focus, and Mental Sharpness Starting Now 661: When “Normal” Isn’t Normal: How to Be Heard (and Taken Seriously) at the Doctor’s Office

What if you’re not burned out? You’re still working. Still exercising. Still taking care of your family. Still getting everything done. From the outside, you look like you’re handling it all. But underneath that competence, your body may be keeping a very different score through your sleep, recovery, energy, mood, stress tolerance, and heart rate variability. In this episode, Dr. Mariza sits down with nutritionist, health and performance coach, and High Performance Health podcast host Angela Foster to unpack the difference between true resilience and simply becoming incredibly good at pushing through. Angela explains why changing hormones in midlife can expose the cost of years of chronic under-recovery, how HRV can offer clues about whether your training and lifestyle actually match your capacity, and why the workout that once energized you may now leave you depleted for days. They also share practical ways to build more recovery into a full life without abandoning your ambition, including walking, strength training, strategic HIIT, box breathing, the physiological sigh, morning light, intentional pauses, boundaries, and what Dr. Mariza calls “mindfulness snacks.” Because the goal isn’t to build a smaller life. It’s to build the energy, resilience, and capacity to keep living the big life you’ve worked so hard to create. ANGELA FOSTER Angela Foster is a nutritionist, health and performance coach, and host of the High Performance Health podcast. Her work focuses on helping ambitious women optimize their energy, hormones, resilience, and longevity without sacrificing the full lives they love. Drawing from her own journey through major depressive disorder and perimenopause, Angela combines lifestyle medicine, exercise, recovery, nervous system regulation, and performance data such as HRV to help women understand their individual capacity and build greater resilience. IN THIS EPISODE How to distinguish true resilience from simply getting really good at pushing through Why hormonal changes in midlife can expose years of chronic under-recovery How HRV can reveal whether your training load actually matches your recovery capacity Why HIIT may energize some women while leaving others depleted for days How walking, strength training, box breathing, and intentional recovery can support resilience Why small “mindfulness snacks” throughout the day can help regulate your nervous system What to investigate when you’re doing everything right but your HRV still isn’t improving How boundaries, asking for help, and taking things off your plate can actually expand your future capacity Why sustainable ambition doesn’t require giving up the career or life you’ve worked hard to build QUOTES“The biggest stress for us is when we don’t feel that sense of self-agency.” “When you put intentional pauses into your day, you can slow that down and be present.” “Where in your life can you put an anchor in your day that just grounds you back to what’s important?” RESOURCES MENTIONED Find inspiration, connection, and meaningful reads. Join the Book Club now! https://drmariza.com/bookclub Join my brand-new Substack: for the woman everyone depends on who is wondering why everything feels harder in midlife: https://drmariza.substack.com/ High Performance Health Podcast https://angelafosterperformance.com/podcasts/ Angela Foster Website https://angelafosterperformance.com/ Angela Foster Instagram RELATED EPISODES  772: The Cost of Holding It All Together: How Overfunctioning Changes Your Hormones, Brain & Metabolism with Dr. Mariza 776: What Changes When Your Body Can’t Keep Pushing Like It Used To? with Dr. Taz Bhatia 737: Why You Still Feel Off in Midlife (Even When You’re Doing Everything Right) with Dr. Melissa Sonners 758: Why Your Body Can’t Heal Until It Feels Safe: The Nervous System Shift That Changes Everything with Dr. Dave Rabin

How did hormones become something women were taught to fear? For decades, hormone therapy has been surrounded by confusion, conflicting recommendations, and sweeping assumptions that lump very different hormones and formulations together. Meanwhile, women continue walking into doctors’ offices saying, “I don’t feel like myself anymore,” and too often leave without answers or options. In this episode, Dr. Mariza sits down in London with physician, women’s hormone specialist, educator, bestselling author, and advocate Dr. Louise Newson for a powerful conversation about how women’s hormone care got here and what needs to change. They unpack why menopause has been reduced to hot flashes and night sweats, why estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone need far more nuance, and why Dr. Newson believes hormones deserve a place in the conversation about long-term health, not simply symptom relief. They also go deep into one of the most controversial areas of women’s hormone care: testosterone, why the conversation so often begins and ends with libido, and what Dr. Newson has observed in women taking it for broader symptoms. Most importantly, this episode is about informed choice: giving women accurate information, acknowledging where evidence is strong or still evolving, and creating healthcare relationships where women can participate fully in decisions about their own bodies. DR. LOUISE NEWSON Dr. Louise Newson is a physician, women’s hormone specialist, educator, bestselling author, and advocate working to transform the way women understand and access hormone care. Her newest book, The Power of Hormones, explores the history of estrogen, progesterone, testosterone, hormone therapy, inflammation, and the medical decisions that have shaped women’s healthcare. Dr. Newson also focuses heavily on helping women understand their options and participate more actively in decisions about their health. IN THIS EPISODE Why menopause and hormone loss need to be viewed as more than hot flashes and night sweats How decades of medical history shaped today’s fear and confusion around hormone therapy Why lifestyle and hormone therapy should not be treated as an either-or decision The controversy around testosterone for women and why the conversation extends beyond libido Why the specific hormone and formulation matter when discussing benefits and risks How hormone changes may influence metabolic health, inflammation, and healthy aging The differences Dr. Newson draws between bioidentical hormones and synthetic hormone formulations Why younger women with hormonal conditions such as PMDD deserve a deeper hormone conversation How women can use knowledge, evidence, and informed choice to advocate for better healthcare QUOTES “You can only decide when you’ve got knowledge.” “It’s all about choice based on evidence and fact.” “We really need to grow up and think we need to prevent disease.” RESOURCES MENTIONED Order my newest book: The Perimenopause Revolution http://drmariza.com/book Stop surviving and start thriving, join Midlife on Fire Collective now https://drmariza.com/trial Join my brand-new Substack: for the woman everyone depends on who is wondering why everything feels harder in midlife: https://drmariza.substack.com/ Stop guessing, start testing. Explore Joi & Blokes personalized labs with code DRMARIZA. https://joiandblokes.com/labs-with-dr-mariza-snyder/ Use code ENERGIZED and get 10% off on your MitoQ Order https://www.mitoq.com/energized The Power of Hormones by Dr. Louise Newson https://www.amazon.co.uk/Power-Hormones-misinformation-hormones-healthier Dr. Louise Newson Website https://www.drlouisenewson.co.uk/ Dr. Louise Newson Instagram RELATED EPISODES  656: The Dangers Of NOT Prescribing Bioidentical HRT + Migraines, Testosterone and Mitigating Inflammation with Dr. Louise Newson 680: You Are Not Broken: Why Women Need Testosterone to Feel Strong, Sexy & Energized with Dr. Kelly Casperson 605: Breaking the HRT Confusion: The Truth Behind Hormone Replacement Therapy for Perimenopausal Women with Karen Martel 592: Menopause, HRT, and Breast Cancer + How to Advocate for Yourself with Dr. Suzanne Gilberg-Lenz

You’re exhausted by 2 or 3 PM. Your workouts suddenly wipe you out. Your hair is shedding, your brain feels foggy, and even climbing a flight of stairs leaves you more winded than it used to. Then you finally ask for help and hear: “Your labs are normal.” In this solo episode, Dr. Mariza breaks down one of the most commonly missed contributors to persistent fatigue in women: iron deficiency, even before anemia develops. She explains newly released American Society of Hematology ferritin thresholds and why women who were previously told their iron was “normal” may deserve a closer look. But iron is only one part of the conversation. Dr. Mariza walks through the bigger clinical picture she considers when a woman says, “I don’t feel like myself anymore,” including thyroid function, mitochondrial energy production, blood sugar, sleep, nutrition, stress physiology, and HPA-axis regulation. Most importantly, she explains why fatigue is a symptom, not a diagnosis and why neither stress, aging, nor perimenopause should automatically become the explanation for everything you’re experiencing. Listen now to learn what may be hiding behind your exhaustion and how to have a more productive conversation with your healthcare provider. IN THIS EPISODE Why iron deficiency can exist before you become anemic The new ferritin thresholds women should know about Why a lab’s reference range and a diagnostic threshold are not always the same thing Why heavy perimenopausal periods can increase your risk of depleted iron stores The fatigue, brain fog, headaches, hair shedding, and exercise intolerance that can overlap with perimenopause How iron, thyroid hormones, nutrition, blood sugar, sleep, and recovery influence mitochondrial energy production Why “adrenal fatigue” oversimplifies what may actually be happening with the HPA axis How under-fueling, over-training, poor sleep, circadian disruption, illness, and caffeine can add to the body’s total stress load The questions to ask when you know something has changed but your labs keep coming back “normal” QUOTES “You can be iron deficient before you ever become anemic.” “Two things can be true at once.” “I don’t want mitochondrial dysfunction to become another vague label we give an exhausted woman.” RESOURCES MENTIONED Find inspiration, connection, and meaningful reads. Join the Book Club now! https://drmariza.com/bookclub Order my newest book: The Perimenopause Revolution http://drmariza.com/book Stop surviving and start thriving, join Midlife on Fire Collective now https://drmariza.com/trial RELATED EPISODES  769: Is It Perimenopause or Something Else? How to Finally Connect the Dots with Dr. Mariza 664: The Hidden Reason You’re Exhausted: How to Fix Cortisol and Boost Stress Resilience in Perimenopause 661: When “Normal” Isn’t Normal: How to Be Heard (and Taken Seriously) at the Doctor’s Office 755: What If Your Body Isn’t Broken, Just Undernourished? The Missing Link Between Nutrients, Hormones & Energy with Ryan Woodbury

What happens when the woman who has always been able to handle everything suddenly realizes her body won’t let her operate that way anymore? In this episode, Dr. Mariza sits down with functional diagnostic nutritionist, medical exercise specialist, bestselling author, and women’s health educator Jenn Pike for a deeply personal conversation about the capacity shift that can happen in perimenopause. Jenn shares the subtle signs she noticed in her late 30s: alcohol suddenly disrupting her sleep, slower workout recovery, increased soreness, less patience, and a shorter emotional fuse. Eventually, she realized she wasn’t simply stressed. Her body needed her to operate differently. They unpack what happened when Jenn stopped forcing intense workouts, began respecting her changing energy, reduced her workload, asked for help, and started saying no, even when disappointing people felt uncomfortable. But this conversation goes even deeper into the identity so many high-functioning women carry: “I’ve got this. I don’t need help.” Listen now to discover why perimenopause may be an invitation to protect your energy, trust your body, and stop treating exhaustion as the price of a full life. JENN PIKE Jenn Pike is a functional diagnostic nutritionist, medical exercise specialist, bestselling author, and women’s health educator who has spent years helping women in perimenopause and menopause better understand their hormones and bodies. She is also the host of The Simplicity Sessions podcast. In this conversation, Jenn shares her own experience of entering perimenopause in her late 30s and how it forced her to rethink exercise, work, motherhood, boundaries, identity, and the belief that she always had to be the one who could handle everything. IN THIS EPISODE The subtle perimenopause signs Jenn started noticing before age 40 Why intense workouts stopped feeling good and how she changed her training What overstimulation and a shorter emotional fuse revealed about her capacity How overcommitment and constantly being needed contributed to burnout Why Jenn had to dramatically rethink how much she could put on her calendar Learning to ask for help, delegate, and disappoint people without falling apart Why perimenopause can bring your deepest patterns around productivity and self-worth back up for review How Jenn moved from being “smart” to feeling wiser, calmer, and more trusting of herself QUOTES “The nutrient is actually doing less, and figuring out how to do less better.” “I taught people to expect that of me.” “I don't have to be that person to be loved.” RESOURCES MENTIONED Order my newest book: The Perimenopause Revolution: https://drmariza.com/book Join my brand new Substack: for the woman everyone depends on who is wondering why everything feels harder in midlife >> https://drmariza.substack.com/ The Simplicity Sessions Podcast: https://jennpike.com/podcast/ Jenn Pike Website https://jennpike.com/ Jenn Pike Instagram RELATED EPISODES  776: What Changes When Your Body Can’t Keep Pushing Like It Used To? With Dr. Taz Bhatia 775: Wide Awake at 3 A.M.? What’s Really Disrupting Your Sleep in Midlife with Morgan Adams 774: Training for Your Grandma Self: How to Build a Body That Lasts 769: Is It Perimenopause or Something Else? How to Finally Connect the Dots with Dr. Mariza

What if perimenopause isn’t simply changing your hormones, but revealing everything your body has been compensating for for years? In this episode, Dr. Mariza sits down with integrative medicine physician and women’s health expert Dr. Taz Bhatia for an incredibly personal conversation about what happens when the strategies that helped high-functioning women push through for decades suddenly stop working. Dr. Taz shares how her own perimenopause began with incredibly heavy periods, fatigue, anemia, hair loss, mood changes, and unexpected weight gain. But one of her biggest surprises came later: as progesterone and estrogen declined, her blood sugar, insulin, cholesterol, A1C, and liver enzymes began creeping upward, revealing just how interconnected hormones and metabolic health really are. They also explore the emotional transformation of midlife: letting go of people-pleasing, protecting your energy, releasing the need to be the “good girl,” and becoming clearer about who you are and what deserves your attention. Listen now to rethink perimenopause as an opportunity to understand your body, protect your health, and step powerfully into what comes next. DR. TAZ BHATIA Dr. Taz Bhatia is a board-certified integrative medicine physician, women’s health expert, and bestselling author of several books, including The Hormone Shift. Her work explores the connections between hormones, metabolism, stress, nutrition, and whole-body health. Through her Whole Plus clinics and podcast, Dr. Taz advocates for a more collaborative approach to women’s health that looks beyond symptoms to cognitive, metabolic, cardiovascular, bone, mental, and hormonal health. IN THIS EPISODE How extremely heavy periods became Dr. Taz’s first undeniable sign of perimenopause Why weight gain in midlife isn’t necessarily something women simply have to accept How estrogen and progesterone shifts can intersect with blood sugar, insulin, cholesterol, and visceral fat Why the “silent” cardiometabolic changes of menopause deserve more attention Why your body may stop tolerating the stress, sleep debt, and depletion you once pushed through How perimenopause helped Dr. Taz stop people-pleasing and build stronger boundaries Why knowing your own patterns and tracking changes can help you advocate for yourself How midlife can become an opportunity to redefine your identity, purpose, and power QUOTES Perimenopause is really where women come into their own.” “These are not my battles. This is not my fight.” “We gotta redefine what fine is.” RESOURCES MENTIONED Find inspiration, connection, and meaningful reads: Join my Soulful Shelf Book Club (no cost) here: https://drmariza.com/bookclub Join my brand-new Substack: for the woman everyone depends on who is wondering why everything feels harder in midlife: https://drmariza.substack.com/ The Hormone Shift by Dr. Taz Bhatia: https://amzn.to/4xJ5VfK The Superwoman Rx by Dr. Taz Bhatia: https://amzn.to/4hHkZpn Dr. Taz Website: https://doctortaz.com/ Dr. Taz Instagram Hol+ Wellness Podcast RELATED EPISODES  775: Wide Awake at 3 A.M.? What’s Really Disrupting Your Sleep in Midlife with Morgan Adams 774: Training for Your Grandma Self: How to Build a Body That Lasts 771: Beyond Hot Flashes: The 103 Symptoms of Perimenopause No One Talks About with Andrea Donsky 769: Is It Perimenopause or Something Else? How to Finally Connect the Dots with Dr. Mariza

If you keep waking up at 2:00, 3:00, or 4:00 AM and can’t fall back asleep, your hormones may only be one piece of the puzzle. In this episode, Dr. Mariza sits down with sleep expert Morgan Adams to unpack why sleep can suddenly fall apart in midlife and what you can actually do about it. Morgan explains three major forces affecting women’s sleep: declining estrogen and progesterone, rising anxiety and depression, and the enormous demands of being part of the “sandwich generation,” often juggling a career, children, and aging parents simultaneously. They dig into one of the biggest complaints among midlife women: middle-of-the-night wake-ups. From blood sugar dysregulation and overheating to overlooked breathing issues, Morgan reveals why repeatedly waking at the same time deserves a closer look. You’ll also learn what not to do when you wake up, the cognitive trick that may interrupt 3 AM rumination, why your wearable can’t replace a sleep study, and whether sleeping separately from your partner could actually protect your health and your relationship. Listen now for practical strategies to finally get the deeper, more restorative sleep your body needs. MORGAN ADAMS Morgan Adams is a sleep coach who helps women struggling with insomnia and disrupted sleep improve their sleep using evidence-based behavioral strategies. Her work includes cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I) principles and practical approaches to middle-of-the-night wake-ups, rumination, evening routines, and sleep optimization. In the episode, she also offers listeners a guide specifically for 3 AM wake-ups and an opportunity to connect with her about insomnia support. IN THIS EPISODE Why sleep can suddenly fall apart for women in midlife What “revenge bedtime procrastination” is and why busy women do it The surprising reasons you may keep waking up around 3 AM How blood sugar dysregulation may contribute to nighttime wake-ups Why overheating may be disrupting your sleep even without night sweats The overlooked breathing problems that can leave healthy women exhausted What to do when your brain starts spiraling in the middle of the night Why a “sleep divorce” might actually become a sleep alliance QUOTES“My big thing is mindfulness snacks.” “Sleeping separately doesn’t mean the marriage has failed.” “It’s not a template. It’s really an individualized kind of puzzle that you kinda have to put together for yourself.” RESOURCES MENTIONED Find inspiration, connection, and meaningful reads. Join the Book Club now! Awake Again at 3am by Morgan Adams Morgan Adams Website Morgan Adams Instagram RELATED EPISODES  774: Training for Your Grandma Self: How to Build a Body That Lasts 771: Beyond Hot Flashes: The 103 Symptoms of Perimenopause No One Talks About with Andrea Donsky 769: Is It Perimenopause or Something Else? How to Finally Connect the Dots with Dr. Mariza 750: The Underlying Cellular Cause of Midlife Fatigue, Brain Fog & Low Motivation with Andrew Salzman