The BARE MINIMUM in Lesbian Love | Setting Standards

Ways to work with The Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker, Sophia Spallino:💎Platinum Private Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaking - For the woman who wants her Future Wife® delivered on a silver platter, I do all the screening so you can focus on falling in love.Explore Private Matchmaking: https://queercountryclub.com/private-lesbian-matchmaking-service  ✨Exclusive Luxury Lesbian™ Retreat at Canyon Ranch – A blissful weekend with an intimate group of extraordinary single queer women… curated to spoil your senses and reignite your belief in love and possibility.Join The Luxury Lesbian™ Getaway: https://queercountryclub.com/luxury-lesbian-retreat ❤️The Queer Country Club® – Our premier dating platform for monogamous queer women who are living amazing lives, but missing just one thing… their Future Partner®.  Apply to Join QCC: https://queercountryclub.com  🌈 Private Rising Coaching Session – If you're unsure of your next step but know in your gut you're ready to call in love, deepen self-trust, or design a life you’re proud of, I’m here to guide you.Reserve A Private Coaching Session: https://sophiaspallino.com/private-coaching 💬Got Qs? DM on Instagram → @sophiaspallino https://instagram.com/sophiaspallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawispIn this episode of Queer Women Rising, Sophia Spallino breaks down what the bare minimum really looks like in a woman-loving-woman relationship. From airport pickups with flowers to stocking the fridge with her favorite snacks, Sophia explains why these aren’t grand gestures…they’re the baseline of thoughtful lesbian love. She contrasts this with the low bar women are conditioned to accept from men and reminds queer women to expect more, settle less, and embrace the peaceful, intentional love they deserve.

Ways to work with The Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker, Sophia Spallino:💎Platinum Private Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaking – For the woman who wants her Future Wife® delivered on a silver platter, I do all the screening so you can focus on falling in love.Explore Private Matchmaking: https://queercountryclub.com/private-lesbian-matchmaking-service  ✨Exclusive Luxury Lesbian™ Retreat at Canyon Ranch - A blissful weekend with an intimate group of extraordinary single queer women… curated to spoil your senses and reignite your belief in love and possibility.Join The Luxury Lesbian™ trip: https://queercountryclub.com/luxury-lesbian-retreat ❤️The Queer Country Club® – Our premier dating platform for monogamous queer women who are living amazing lives, but missing just one thing… their Future Partner®.  Apply to Join QCC: https://queercountryclub.com  🌈 Private Rising Coaching Session - If you're unsure of your next step but know in your gut you're ready to call in love, deepen self-trust, or design a life you’re proud of, I’m here to guide you.Reserve A Private Coaching Session: https://queercountryclub.com/private-coaching💬Got Qs? DM on Instagram → @sophiaspallino https://instagram.com/sophiaspallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawispEver crawled out of a messy breakup and somehow built your dream lesbian life?Zara Barrie is the critically acclaimed author of Girl, Stop Passing Out in Your Makeup, creator of Girls on Jane, and host of the new dating column Mascara Lesbian.After surviving deep heartbreak, a toxic relationship, and profound grief—she’s now living a hot, healing, wildly creative lesbian life in West Hollywood. Listen to GIRLS ON JANE:Lesbian Fiction | Girls on Janea sexy, serialized fiction audio drama (written & narrated by me) about the heartbreak and hedonism of a group of lesbian women living in Manhattan, pre-marriage equality (early-aughts!). I'm also linking out my Substack and GO Mag byline (all lesbian sex and dating) for reference. Listen/read Mascara Lesbian:ZARA BARRIE WORDS | Substack Read her Lesbian Dating and Sex Column:https://gomag.com/author/zara-barrie/ 📲 Connect with my guest, Zara Barrie.Follow Zara on Instagram: Zara Barrie (@zarabarrie)Check out her work at: https://www.zarabarrie.com

Ways to work with The Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker, Sophia Spallino:💎Platinum Private Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaking – For the woman who wants her Future Wife® delivered on a silver platter, I do all the screening so you can focus on falling in love.Explore Private Matchmaking: https://queercountryclub.com/private-lesbian-matchmaking-service  ✨Exclusive Luxury Lesbian™ Retreat at Canyon Ranch – A blissful weekend with an intimate group of extraordinary single queer women… curated to spoil your senses and reignite your belief in love and possibility.Join The Luxury Lesbian™ trip: https://queercountryclub.com/luxury-lesbian-retreat ❤️The Queer Country Club® – Our premier dating platform for monogamous queer women who are living amazing lives, but missing just one thing… their Future Partner®.  Apply to Join QCC: https://queercountryclub.com  🌈 Private Rising Coaching Session - If you're unsure of your next step but know in your gut you're ready to call in love, deepen self-trust, or design a life you’re proud of, I’m here to guide you.Reserve A Private Coaching Session: https://queercountryclub.com/private-coaching💬Got Qs? DM on Instagram → @sophiaspallino https://instagram.com/sophiaspallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawispGoing through it now? If you ever desire 1:1 coaching with me to work through a breakup, just book a private session with me here: Sophia Spallino | Private Coaching 🏳️‍🌈❤️‍🩹I asked the queer women in my community to share breakup advice given to them by the older, wiser women in their lives. So I am gonna read it to you. Then I share my best advice. Lesbian dating and breakups are tough. But you are SOFT enough to feel it, heal it, and move along with your life!Promise.

Ways I could help you meet your Future Partner:💎 Platinum Private Lesbian Matchmaking – For the woman who wants her FUTURE WIFE® delivered on a silver platter, I do all the screening so you can focus on falling in love.Explore Platinum Matchmaking: https://queercountryclub.com/private-lesbian-matchmaking-service ✨ Exclusive Lesbian Luxury Retreat at Canyon Ranch – A blissful weekend with an intimate group of extraordinary single queer women… curated to spoil your senses and reignite your belief in love and possibility.Apply to join The Luxury Retreat: https://queercountryclub.com/luxe-retreat ❤️ The Queer Country Club® – Our premier dating platform for monogamous queer women who are living amazing lives but missing just one thing… their FUTURE WIFE®.Apply to Join QCC: https://queercountryclub.com 🌈 Private Rising Coaching Session – If you're unsure of your next step but know in your gut you're ready to call in love, deepen self-trust, or design a life you’re proud of, I’m here to guide you.Book A Private Coaching Session: https://queercountryclub.com/private-coachingGot Qs? DM me on Instagram → @sophiaspallino https://instagram.com/sophiaspallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp 6 Signs You're Ready to Build a Monogamous Lesbian Relationship So, how do you know if you're ready for a monogamous lesbian relationship - and not just lonely or burnt out from dating? Here are six clear signs: 1. You're Clear on What You Want, and Communicate ItYou’ve stopped saying “I’m open to whatever happens” and started owning what you want: a committed, exclusive relationship. If you're ready to say this on your dating profile and in person, even if it scares some people off, you’re showing true emotional clarity.  2. You’ve Healed from Past RelationshipsYou don’t view love through the lens of past heartbreak anymore. Sure, you’ve been hurt, but you’ve processed it, reflected on it, and you’re no longer operating out of fear. As a monogamous lesbian, you don’t need to look for someone to “fix” the past - you’re looking to build something new. 3. You’re Comfortable with Emotional IntimacyMonogamy isn't just about exclusivity; it’s about vulnerability. If you’re comfortable letting someone in emotionally, being seen at your worst, and offering that same safety to a partner, you’re ready for a monogamous bond. 4. You’re Not Distracted by “What Ifs”You don’t find yourself constantly wondering if the grass is greener. You’re not attached to the idea of endless options or swiping forever. You're looking for depth, not novelty. 5. You’re Ready to Grow with One PersonYou understand that even great relationships require effort, compromise, and personal growth. You’re excited to evolve alongside someone rather than bounce from one connection to another.6. You’re Willing to Prioritize LoveYou’re a clear monogamous lesbian if you are willing to make room in your life for someone else - emotionally, mentally, and logistically. You’re not “too busy” to date; you’re intentionally creating space for partnership.

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino Let’s talk sexology, p*ssy stroking, sexual trauma, pleasure, and making peace with Darshana Avila.Yes, you might recognize today’s guest is someone you might recognize from Netflix’s Sex, Love & Goop, but that’s just the beginning of her story.Back in 2015, Darshana Avila was in a marriage and a career that no longer fit. She walked away from both, and now she’s an internationally celebrated speaker and Erotic Wholeness guide helping queer women and AFABs come back home to their bodies and their truth.Her work is trauma-informed, pleasure-centric, and radically real. 📲 Connect with my guest, Darshana Avila:Follow Darshana on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/darshana_avilaCheck out her website: https://darshanaavila.comJoin her free community: Galgasm!       

 ❤️Meet Your Future Wife where Raina and Laurie met… inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com 💎Learn more and apply to join us on our next Luxury Single Lesbian Retreathttps://queercountryclub.com/luxe-retreat 📲 Follow their love story that Raina shares!www.Instagram.com/Raina_notfit 🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud PartnerOnline Sexual and Reproductive Health | Wisp ✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com 💬Slide into my DMsInstagram (@sophiaspallino) What if your person is already inside the same dating platform as you… Just waiting for a message?This week on Queer Women Rising, I’m joined by Raina and Laurie, a couple who found each other through the Queer Country Club®, a platform built for lesbians and queer women looking for intentional, monogamous love.From first messages to cross-state travel, they share how their relationship unfolded with patience, warmth, and clarity. Want to meet your Future Wife™ like they did?Join the Queer Country Club® today!QueerCountryClub.com

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino Don’t try this at home. Two Lesbians. One carrot. It was fun until it wasn’t.Trigger warning: this episode includes my experience with sexual assault.

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB Skip the initiation fee and join QCC through Jaime: ⁠https://queercountryclub.com/wlw-club?am_id=jaime9948⁠☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino She created one of the most iconic sapphic spaces on the internet… but that’s not where the story ends.📲 Connect with my guest, Jaime Messina.Follow Jaime on Instagram: Jaime Messina | Mindset & Empowerment CoachCheck out her site & coaching offers: Jaime Messina | Mindset & Empowerment CoachWe talked about:– What it’s like to coach others while still healing yourself– The love story that took her by surprise– Building sapphic spaces that actually feel safe– Recognizing internal homophobia– What she’s creating nextIf you’re a lesbian or queer woman building a life of love, peace, and purpose… this one’s for you.

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino Today, I dive into the truth of lesbian age gap relationships, the real, raw, and often misunderstood dynamics between women of different generations. Whether you're crushing on someone older, dating someone younger, or just curious how these relationships actually work… this episode is for you.You’ll learn:Why age gap love between women feels so different from straight dynamicsThe benefits of dating someone in a different life stageThe very real challenges, and how to overcome themHow to make your relationship work, long-term, regardless of ageWhat makes these connections so powerful, so sexy, and so worth it

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino 📲 Work with Lauren Courtney and Buy her Book “Glow Up Your Chakras”Follow Lauren on Instagram: Instagram (@iamlaurencourtney)Check out Lauren’s website: Lauren Courtney Heals | Holistic Healing & Chakra Therapy 🏳️‍🌈 When the love of your life dies… do you ever really come back the same?This episode is for the lesbians and queer women who’ve been cracked open by heartbreak, walked the messy path of dating married people, and are looking for real magic—within and in partnership.Back in 2016, Lauren Courtney’s first love passed away, leaving her heartbroken and believing she would never love again. Through her spiritual awakening and the messy dating adventures that followed, she discovered that true love begins within. As she healed, she realized that self-love and inner alignment are the foundation for deep, meaningful connections. Now, as a healer, author, and spiritual guide, she helps others clear emotional blocks, awaken their intuition, and cultivate the love they seek, starting from within.