The Pattern That Destroys Most Men

Mentioned in today's Episode:- Dad Tired One Dy Conferences - Attend the Annual Retreat- Become a Dad Tired Partner- Shop the Dad Tired Store- Prison FellowshipMost men carry a story they’re ashamed of.Bad decisions.A past they wish they could erase.A quiet fear that maybe they’ve already messed things up too badly.Jermaine Wilson knows that feeling.By 15 he was in juvenile corrections.By 19 he was in prison again… holding his baby son and wondering if he would ever become the man his family needed.But prison became the place where everything changed.Through the gospel, brotherhood, and the grace of God, Jermaine’s life was completely transformed. Today he’s a father, grandfather, leader with Prison Fellowship… and even served as mayor of the city where he was once incarcerated.If you’ve ever wondered whether God can redeem your story, this episode is for you.

Ever feel like you’re doing all of this on your own?Work, marriage, parenting… it can feel heavy.But Jesus made a promise in John 14—He wouldn’t leave you as an orphan.In this episode, a simple but powerful reminder:you’re not alone… and you were never meant to live like you are.

What would you do if $5 million was on the line?In this episode, Jerrad sits down with Beast Games runner-up Cory Sims — the fan favorite who captured hearts by refusing to compromise his faith and integrity.Cory shares what it was like to:• Compete for 42 days without phones or outside contact• Face life-changing decisions with $5 million on the line• Lose the final challenge — and discover God had a bigger planWe also talk about fatherhood, faith under pressure, and the surprising lesson Cory learned after walking away without the money.Turns out… some things are worth more than $5 million.Mentioned in today's Episode:- Cozy Earth promo code DADTIRED- Dad Tired One Dy Conferences - Attend the Annual Retreat- Become a Dad Tired Partner- Shop the Dad Tired Store

Mentioned in today's Episode:- The Kids Go Bible - Love & Respect Book- Dad Tired One Dy Conferences - Lightbulb Moments in Marriage Book- Become a Dad Tired Partner- Shop the Dad Tired StoreMost couples don’t wake up thinking: “How can I frustrate my spouse today?”And yet we still end up in the same exhausting cycle.She feels unloved.He feels disrespected.She pushes harder.He shuts down.Round and round it goes.Today Dr. Emerson Eggerichs—author of Love & Respect—joins Jerrad to unpack the marriage dynamic he calls “The Crazy Cycle.”Once you see it, you can’t unsee it.In this episode we talk about:• Why 85% of men shut down during conflict dad-tired-dr-eggerich_dad-tired…• The misunderstanding that fuels most marriage fights• How porn quietly reshapes a man’s expectations in marriage• Why wives often escalate conflict while husbands withdraw• How dads can speak identity into their sons and daughters• Why struggling marriages don’t need more effort — they need more light📚 Get Dr. Eggerichs’ New BookDr. Emerson’s new book highlights the “lightbulb moments” that help couples finally understand what’s happening in their marriage.Grab it here:👉 Lightbulb MomentsInterested in hosting a conference at your church? Support dads in need by making a donation to the ministry. 

Stay up to date: Subscribe to the NewsletterHe spent years building a creative career, only to watch it completely unravel.He assumed he could fix it, hustling harder to avoid going backwards financially.That was his story.For years, author Doug McKelvey chased commercial success as a songwriter and scriptwriter—until a devastating season in his late 40s stripped away his pride. In that dark place, he realized how inadequate his ability to truly love his family was without Jesus.Until a season of brokenness changed everything.In this powerful and deeply honest episode, the author of Every Moment Holy shares his journey from career failure to spiritual surrender. He explains how losing his commercial ambition birthed a movement of finding God in the mundane.You’ll hear:The painful reality of watching your career and finances fall apart.Why our inability to love others well points us back to our desperate need for Jesus.How God uses seasons of failure to gracefully strip away our ego and pride.The deeply personal, difficult story behind the creation of Every Moment Holy.How to actually see the sacred in the ordinary, everyday moments of fatherhood.This episode is for the man whose plans have fallen apart. For the man who feels like his ability to love falls short. For the man who misses the holy in the everyday. God is in the mundane.Strong families begin with healed men.Today's Sponsor: Cozy Earth

For years, Dad Tired founder Jerrad Lopes has dreamed about taking dads and their families on a mission trip together. In this episode, he shares an exciting new opportunity for Dad Tired families to serve alongside him and his own family in Guatemala in October 2026.The trip will partner with the missions organization Adventures in Missions to serve local communities outside Guatemala City. Families will have opportunities to participate in meaningful work such as serving in children’s programs, supporting local ministries, building safer cooking stoves for families, and potentially helping build a home for someone in need. But this trip is about more than service projects. It’s about expanding perspective, strengthening faith, and helping dads and their kids experience the global Church together. Jerrad shares why these kinds of trips can be spiritually transformative and why he believes every Christian family should consider stepping outside their comfort zone to see what God is doing around the world. Because this is the first Dad Tired mission trip, the team will be intentionally small—only 6–7 families total. In this episode, Jerrad explains the vision for the trip, what families can expect, and how listeners can apply to join.Learn more and apply:dadtired.com/missions

Host a conference at your church: LEARN MOREThere’s a pattern in Scripture that shows up again and again:See.Desire.Take.From Adam to David… and now to us.In this episode, Jerrad sits down with Joel Muddamalle about the unseen spiritual realities shaping our homes—and how everyday temptations (work, lust, alcohol, ambition) fit into a much bigger story.If you’ve ever felt like something deeper is at work beneath the surface of your struggles, this conversation will help you put language to it.Strong families begin with healed men.And healed men learn not to take what was never theirs.Today's Sponsor: Courage For Life Men's Study Bible

Stay up to date: Subscribe to the Newsletter Most men don’t believe freedom is possible.They assume they’ll carry shame, addiction, and secrets for the rest of their lives.That was his story too.For years, he struggled silently with porn, lust, and shame—even while loving his wife, following Jesus, and doing everything he thought a “good Christian man” was supposed to do.Until one conversation changed everything.In this powerful and deeply honest episode, a Dad Tired listener shares his journey from secrecy to freedom, from hiding to truth, and from addiction to healing.You’ll hear:• The moment he realized his marriage was in danger• Why white-knuckling never leads to real freedom• How honest community changed everything• The surprising cost of becoming a truth teller• What freedom actually feels like on the other sideThis episode is for the man who feels stuck.For the man who thinks he’ll never change.For the man who’s tired of hiding.Freedom is possible.Strong families begin with healed men.

If you feel like you’re drowning right now… this one’s for you.Trying to follow Jesus with integrity.Trying to love your wife well.Trying to disciple your kids.Trying to provide and carry the weight of responsibility.That’s four heavy bags already.And then the world keeps asking for more.More opinions.More commitments.More distractions.More “opportunities.”In today’s episode, we talk about why it’s okay to say, “My hands are full.”Why you don’t have to carry every bag handed to you.And why saying no might be one of the most faithful things you do.Strong families begin with healed men.Sometimes healing looks like limits.

Today's Sponsor: The Go BibleHave you ever told Jesus, “I’ll follow you”… but deep down knew there were conditions?In Luke 9, Jesus encounters three men who all say they want to follow Him. One is overly excited but hasn’t counted the cost. One delays, waiting for a more convenient time. And one wants Jesus—but still keeps looking back.Each one is close. But none fully surrender.In this message, we explore the uncomfortable truth about discipleship: following Jesus will cost you everything. Not because He wants to harm you—but because He wants to heal you, transform you, and make you fully alive.Jesus isn’t looking for momentary excitement. He’s looking for faithful disciples who are all in.This message will challenge you to ask:• Have I counted the cost?• Am I delaying obedience?• Am I still looking back at my old life?• Or am I fully surrendered?The greatest tragedy isn’t rejecting Jesus outright. It’s almost following Him your entire life.Scripture: Luke 9:57–62