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Is avoidance at the root of sex and love addiction? In this episode, we explore how different attachment styles influence addiction and why avoidance—whether emotional, relational, or physical—plays a significant role in both addiction and intimacy disorders. Many struggling with addiction are unconsciously protecting themselves from deeper pain. But how does this avoidance impact their relationships, and what steps can they take to break free from these patterns? 

Is avoidance a core trait of addiction? In this discussion, we explore how avoidance manifests in sex addiction and other compulsive behaviors—whether it's emotional avoidance, distraction, or withdrawing from relationships and responsibilities. Many people struggling with addiction use avoidance as a way to escape pain, fear, and emotional discomfort. But is avoidance the same as distraction? And how can breaking this pattern lead to real healing?  #AddictionRecovery #Avoidance #MentalHealth #EmotionalHealing #Sobriety

"Welcome to our February Mailbag episode, where we tackle your most pressing questions on addiction, therapy, and relationships! 💬 In this discussion, we cover: 🔹 Does skipping 12-step programs increase relapse risk? 🔹 Should addicts share what they discuss in therapy with their partners? 🔹 Can privacy and transparency coexist in recovery? 🔹 When is divorce the right choice after betrayal? 🔹 The impact of group therapy vs. individual therapy in long-term healing. We dive deep into the complexities of sobriety, trust, and relational healing. Whether you’re navigating recovery, supporting a loved one, or seeking clarity on relationship dynamics, this episode is packed with valuable insights! Got more questions? Drop them in the comments or email us at [email protected]. #AddictionRecovery #Therapy #12StepProgram #RelationshipHealing #MentalHealth"

When it comes to addiction recovery, how much transparency should there be between partners? Should an addict share what they’re working on in therapy, at their 12 step meetings, or is it a private space for personal growth? While therapy is a personal journey, shutting out a partner completely can create barriers to healing. How can couples navigate this balance for a healthier relationship? #AddictionRecovery #Transparency #TrustInRelationships #MentalHealth #Sobriety #SexAddiction #BetrayalTrauma

Is attending a 12-step program essential for addiction recovery, or can therapy alone be enough? In this episode, we break down the key factors that contribute to long-term sobriety and discuss the role of community, therapy, and personal commitment in preventing relapse. This episode is answering our a mailbag question. Send your questions to [email protected]. We will answer them! #AddictionRecovery #12StepProgram #RelapsePrevention #Sobriety #MentalHealth

Technology is evolving rapidly, making our lives easier, saving us time and energy. But as we gain more convenience, are we losing meaningful human connection? While technology offers incredible opportunities—like remote work and online therapy—it also challenges our ability to connect authentically. How do we embrace its benefits without falling into disconnection?  #Technology #DigitalAge #TechAddiction #HumanConnection #MentalHealth #SexAddiction

Is secrecy a core component of porn addiction? In this short but insightful discussion, we explore the complexities of porn addiction, including the role of secrecy, social norms, and personal values. Join us as we break down the psychological and behavioral factors behind excessive pornography use. #PornAddiction #MentalHealth #Psychology #BehavioralScience #CompulsiveBehavior

Terry Crews shares his journey of overcoming sex addiction, healing his marriage, and reclaiming his life. From his early struggles with pornography to the moment his wife confronted him with the question that changed everything—Terry reveals the truth about addiction, shame, and the power of recovery. This is a conversation about courage, honesty, and transformation. Whether you or someone you know is struggling with addiction, this episode is filled with hope, wisdom, and actionable steps toward recovery. #TerryCrews #SexAddictionRecovery #Healing #OvercomingAddiction #MentalHealth #Relationships #SexAddiction #Relationships

Terry Crews shares his personal journey of overcoming childhood trauma, addiction, and the struggles that shaped his life. From growing up in a strict religious household to discovering unhealthy coping mechanisms at a young age, Terry opens up about the challenges he faced and how they impacted his relationships and self-worth. Terry’s story is one of resilience, self-discovery, and breaking generational cycles. If his journey resonates with you, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more powerful conversations.  #TerryCrews #TraumaHealing #AddictionRecovery #BreakingTheSilence #MentalHealthMatters

Terry Crews opens up about the devastating impact of his sex addiction on his wife, his family, and himself. He shares the moment he realized the depth of her pain, the weight of his secrets, and how self-pity fueled his addiction. This is a raw and unfiltered look at accountability, healing, and the difficult road to redemption. #TerryCrews #SexAddictionRecovery #Healing #OvercomingAddiction #MentalHealth #Relationships #SexAddiction #Relationships