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What happens when men are the ones betrayed by sex addiction? In today's episode, author and therapist Adam Nisenson joins the Dan Drake, Wendy Conquest, Tim Stein and Jeanne Vattoune to unpack a topic rarely discussed — male betrayal trauma. Through his book A Man’s Guide to Partner Betrayal, Adam gives voice to men who’ve been silenced, shamed, or overlooked in conversations about infidelity and healing. Together, the panel explores: - Why betrayal hits men differently and how society teaches them to hide it - The impact of shame, ego wounds, and emotional isolation - How unprocessed anger and silence can turn into long-term pain - Practical ways men can heal and reclaim their worth after betrayal Join the conversation: Why do you think men’s pain is often dismissed when it comes to betrayal? Drop your thoughts in the comments. Learn more about Adam Nisenson’s work: A Man’s Guide to Partner Betrayal — available wherever books are sold. Subscribe for more real conversations about relationships, trauma, and healing. Turn on notifications so you don’t miss new weekly episodes. #BetrayalTrauma #MensMentalHealth #EmotionalHealing #Relationships #TherapyTalk #AdamNisenson

When betrayal strikes, it’s not just pain, it’s the kind of anger you’ve never felt before. In this episode, the panel talks about how to feel and express anger without going into rage. You’ll hear honest stories and professional insight on: - Why anger feels powerful in the moment but hollow afterward - How men often feel their anger isn’t validated - Healthy ways to express and release rage without letting it consume you - The importance of writing, processing, and releasing emotional energy Share your thoughts: Have you ever felt trapped in anger after betrayal? How did you move through it? Subscribe for more real conversations about healing, trauma, and emotional recovery. Turn on notifications to join us weekly for new episodes that go beneath the surface. #BetrayalTrauma #MensMentalHealth #AngerManagement #HealingJourney #EmotionalHealing #TherapyTalk #SexAddiction

Is betrayal trauma really different for men and women? Most men do not come into therapy later rather than sooner. Men feel isolated for most of the betrayal trauma experience. Women usually over-function during the BT experience especially earlier in the journey. Join the conversation: Do you think men are given the same emotional space to heal as women? Drop your thoughts below. Subscribe for more open, unfiltered discussions on healing, relationships, and emotional recovery. Turn on notifications so you don’t miss new weekly episodes. #BetrayalTrauma #MensMentalHealth #Relationships #HealingJourney #TherapyTalk #EmotionalHealing

Sex addiction takes its toll on the addict and the partner. Listen in for physical symptoms to know about. Subscribe for more powerful discussions on healing, relationships, and emotional recovery. Join our community for new uploads every week. #EmotionalHealing #Relationships #TherapyTalk #Anger #RecoveryJourney #MentalHealthAwareness #AddictiontoSex #BetrayalTrauma #Cheating

Anger after betrayal can feel overwhelming, confusing, and even “out of character.” In this episode of Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships, Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck joins Dan Drake, Jeanne Vattoune, Tim Stein and Wendy Conquest to break down the reality of betrayal trauma anger, why it shows up, how it unfolds over time, and what tools can help process it. Whether someone is facing infidelity, broken trust, or betrayal in relationships, this conversation offers clarity, validation, and practical guidance for navigating one of the most difficult emotions in healing. 👉 If you’ve ever felt like your anger after betrayal makes you “crazy,” this discussion will remind you: you’re not crazy, you’re angry, and you should be. The key is learning how to process it with compassion and strength. Check out Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck's Protocol :https://drive.google.com/file/d/1xnd6B_SJdpqTcg5zsZF_OLV502MHprmC/view?usp=drive_link and her website: https://crystalhollenbeck.com/ Subscribe for more conversations on betrayal trauma, sex addiction recovery, and relationship healing. #BetrayalTrauma #AngerAfterInfidelity #RelationshipHealing #TraumaRecovery #MentalHealth #HealingJourney #CouplesRecovery #InfidelityHealing #Cheating #Rage

When betrayal is discovered, anger can feel overwhelming. In this episode of Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships, we sit down with Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck to explore how betrayal trauma anger shows up both immediately and over time. Dr. Hollenbeck explains why betrayed partners often experience anger in waves as more consequences and realizations surface, not only at discovery, but months or even years later. This conversation validates the deep emotional impact betrayal has on both sides of the relationship and offers tools for navigating anger without shame. 👉 If someone is a betrayed partner, a betrayer, or supporting others through betrayal trauma, this episode will give them clarity, hope, and strategies to move forward. Check out Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck's Protocol :https://drive.google.com/file/d/1xnd6B_SJdpqTcg5zsZF_OLV502MHprmC/view?usp=drive_link and her website: https://crystalhollenbeck.com/ #BetrayalTrauma #AngerRecovery #RelationshipHealing #SexAddictionRecovery #EmotionalHealing #TraumaAwareness #HealingTogether #CouplesHealing

In this upcoming episode of Conversations on Sex Addiction and Relationships, the team explores how betrayal trauma extends beyond sexual infidelity with Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck. While sexual betrayal is often the most visible form of hurt, many partners experience deep wounds from emotional betrayal, financial secrecy, or broken trust from friends, family, and community members. Crystal shares insights from her research and introduces the CALMING Model, a seven-phase approach to processing anger and navigating the chaos of betrayal. Wondering why betrayal hurts so deeply? This conversation explains why and offers compassion, clarity, and practical tools for moving forward. 👉 What betrayal feels hardest to heal from: emotional, sexual, or financial? Share your thoughts in the comments below. Check out Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck's Protocol :https://drive.google.com/file/d/1xnd6B_SJdpqTcg5zsZF_OLV502MHprmC/view?usp=drive_link and her website: https://crystalhollenbeck.com/

In this episode of Conversations on Sex Addiction and Relationships: Partner Wants to Have Sex and Sex Addict Doesn't We explore the painful dynamics of betrayal trauma, intimacy anorexia, avoidance, childhood wounds, entitlement, and fear that often lie at the heart of these behaviors. 👉 Whether you are navigating betrayal, supporting someone in recovery, or simply curious about intimacy dynamics, this discussion provides valuable insights into the complexity of sex addiction, emotional avoidance, and relationship repair. Have a question for the team? Email: [email protected]

In this episode, we explore the complex impact of sex addiction on relationships, focusing on the grief, loss, and emotional struggles faced by betrayed partners. Unlike addictions to substances like alcohol or drugs, sexual betrayal carries unique challenges, affecting both the addict and their partner on deeply personal levels. We discuss: Understanding the addict’s unconscious drives and needs The partner’s journey through grief, anger, and healing How empathy and deconstructing behavior can aid recovery Resources like Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA) and sexual anorexia support groups The delicate process of navigating emotional and sexual boundaries in a relationship If you or someone you know is dealing with betrayal trauma, sex addiction, or sexual anorexia, this discussion offers guidance, resources, and insights to begin the healing process. 💬 Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below — your story may help someone else on their healing journey.

In this episode, we dive into a listener question about a sex addict who withholds intimacy while engaging sexually with others. Many partners struggle with betrayal, confusion, and grief when their spouse avoids connection at home but seeks it elsewhere. We explore the concept of intimacy anorexia, why addicts withdraw sexually, and what it might mean for the future of a marriage. Our discussion covers: Recognizing patterns of sexual avoidance and betrayal Understanding the emotional impact on the betrayed partner How to approach healing and communication in complex relationships The psychology behind why some partners “play married” instead of fully engaging If you’ve ever felt sexless in your marriage, betrayed, or just confused about your partner’s behavior, this conversation is for you. 💡 Take action: If this topic resonates, subscribe for more discussions on marriage, intimacy, and relationship healing. Share your thoughts in the comments—your story may help someone else feel seen.