The Idolatry of Clarity

Most men are living to prove themselves—chasing money, status, and validation—but it's a game they can never win. In this episode, we create space to talk honestly about male insecurity, something rarely addressed in men's programming. We break down the common areas where men feel insecure (money, looks, popularity) and explore what the Bible actually says about our worth and identity. The truth is: insecurities are bondage. And insecure men are unsafe. As men, we must turn to the only perfect man there's ever been if we seek freedom. Today we'll cover: Why most insecurities stem from not knowing who you are and why you matter What the Bible says about money, looks, and popularity How insecurity leads to sinful and destructive behavior The choice between living for God's approval or the world's validation Reflection questions to help you identify and address your insecurities If you've ever felt like you're constantly trying to prove yourself, this episode is for you. It's time to stop playing the game and find your worth in Christ.   Read: Luke 12:15, 1 Samuel 16:6–7, Luke 16:14-15   Please consider donating to UN-ASSOCIATED and helping our team fuel our mission to help people cultivate their identity in Christ: https://www.un-associated.com/donate/

Have you ever worked so hard for something, get it, and not be as happy as you thought you would? I HATE when that happens. The world conditions us to chase after goals and accolades in hopes of satisfying that whole in our hearts. But things never seem to pay off. This is one reason why the idea of being satisfied in the Lord always intrigued me. The only problem is that this sounded so unrealistic to me...until now.   Read: Psalm 27:4, Proverbs 27:20, Jeremiah 2:13   Please consider donating to UN-ASSOCIATED and helping our team fuel our mission to help people cultivate their identity in Christ: https://www.un-associated.com/donate/   Get tickets for UN-ASSOCIATED's Friendsgiving in LA on November 8th  here.   Let's connect!! Instagram: @churchboyconfessions YouTube: @churchboyconfessions TikTok: @churchboyconfessionspod

Though the Church is meant to embody unity in Christ, it has housed racial division for much of its history. Conversations about race are quickly shut down in the name of preserving comfort or a superficial sense of unity. It seems Black Christians, in particular, are frequently accused of “idolizing their race” whenever they speak about their racialized experiences. But does this kind of avoidance truly promote unity—or does it cause deeper harm? What place does race, ethnicity and culture have in the Kingdom of God? Should we ever mention them? If so, how?   Special Guest: Abigail Covington Follow Abigail on TikTok   Please consider donating to UN-ASSOCIATED and helping our team fuel our mission to help people cultivate their identity in Christ: https://www.un-associated.com/donate/   Learn more about my personal ministry vision and support here!   Pull up to UA's Friendsgiving in LA on November 8th! Get tickets here.

Are you a Christian who feels uneasy about the rise of Christian nationalism in the United States? You’re not alone—and you’re not crazy. In this episode, we explore what Christian nationalism really is, why it distorts the mission of Church, and what we should do about it.   Please consider donating to UN-ASSOCIATED and helping our team fuel our mission to help people cultivate their identity in Christ: https://www.un-associated.com/donate/   Learn more about my personal ministry vision and support here!

We serve a God that isn't always clear with us. We pray for clarity and signs of confirmation. Sometimes we get it. Other times it seems like we are left hanging. What do we do then? Do we be still and wait for more clarity? For how long? Do we even need more clarity? Are we being careful or are we being cowards? Let's talk about it.   Read: Genesis 26:1–24   Please consider donating to UN-ASSOCIATED and helping our team fuel our mission to help people cultivate their identity in Christ: https://www.un-associated.com/donate/   Learn more about my personal ministry vision and support here!  

It's one of those questions you've probably asked in your head but never out loud. "Why should God get the credit if I worked hard and earned it myself?". In this episode I want to help navigate us through answering this question with a story out of Daniel 4 surrounding King Nebuchadnezzar.    Read: Daniel 4:1–33,   Consider donating to UN-ASSOCIATED!: https://www.un-associated.com/donate/   Learn more about my personal ministry vision and support here!  

Today we're talking about God's timing, and if it's something that we should ever feel anxious about missing. Shoutout to Erica for the question! I hope this episode can bring peace to your heart, and the same for all of you that take a listen! Share this episode with a friend you know that needs it.   Read: Ecclesiastes 3:11 & The Story of Joseph (Genesis 37–50)   Come to the UN-ASSOCIATED Poetry Jam on August 30th!: https://givebutter.com/tupj10 Consider donating to UN-ASSOCIATED!: https://www.un-associated.com/donate/   Learn more about my personal ministry vision and support here!

In this episode, we'll cover the biblical foundation surrounding the benefits and importance of godly friendships, how they can transform your walk, and some tips on how to make friends at all. Thanks to Ahmad for the topic suggestion!   Read: Proverbs 27:17, Hebrews 10:23-25, Galatians 6:1-3, Proverbs 13:20 Let's connect!! Instagram: @churchboyconfessions YouTube: @churchboyconfessions TikTok: @churchboyconfessionspod   If you feel led to support my personal ministry journey, I invite you to learn more: Check out my vision deck: here Donate and Become a Partner: here   Episodes now release on a bi-weekly basis (every other Monday).

Spiritual growth isn't easy to come by, and is a lot harder to maintain – especially after you fall short in an area you thought you overcame. It's easy for us to get discouraged and quit on God after we experience dips in our spiritual growth journey, but I hope this episode can keep you encouraged and motivated to get back up and go harder!   Read: 1 Corinthians 10:1–13   The UN-ASSOCIATED Poetry Jam on August 30th, 2025: https://givebutter.com/tupj10   Donate to UN-ASSOCIATED: https://www.un-associated.com/donate/   Let's connect!! Instagram: @churchboyconfessions YouTube: @churchboyconfessions TikTok: @churchboyconfessionspod   If you feel led to support my personal ministry journey, I invite you to learn more: Check out my vision deck: here Donate and Become a Partner: here   Episodes now release on a bi-weekly basis (every other Monday).

From MAGA culture to church scandals, the reputation of the Church is in the gutter and the image of Christianity in America is in crisis. Instead of making disciples, it seems the American Church has made more apostates than ever. In this episode, I talk about what it really means to represent Christ well in a time when faith is often confused with politics, hate, and hypocrisy. Instead of staying silent, Believers who see the issue have a responsibility to show the world who Jesus really is—through our love, our compassion, and how we treat others. This is a call to action to every believer. Be louder than them!   Read: 2 Corinthians 5:17–20, Matthew 28:19–20   The UN-ASSOCIATED Poetry Jam on August 30th, 2025: https://givebutter.com/tupj10   Donate to UN-ASSOCIATED: https://www.un-associated.com/donate/   Let's connect!! Instagram: @churchboyconfessions YouTube: @churchboyconfessions TikTok: @churchboyconfessionspod   If you feel led to support my personal ministry journey, I invite you to learn more: Check out my vision deck: here Donate and Become a Partner: here   Episodes now release on a bi-weekly basis (every other Monday).