A Little Nudge

Should Christian business owners use AI? Is personal branding self-centered? And how do you sell high-ticket offers without feeling manipulative?In this episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, Tatum answers the questions Christian entrepreneurs are actively searching for online—from using AI and automation with discernment to building a personal brand, charging premium prices, and closing sales with integrity.Tatum breaks down how to:Use AI and automation without abandoning discernmentBuild a personal brand without making your life the productPosition yourself as a thought leaderJustify premium pricing with real value and resultsValidate your offers before selling them at full priceCreate a sales process that feels genuine—not manipulativeUse technology to increase efficiency while keeping the human connectionThis episode kicks off Search Bar Sessions, a new series where Tatum answers the questions her audience—and the internet—are actively searching for answers to at the intersection of faith, business, technology, and entrepreneurship.If you're a Christian entrepreneur trying to grow your business while keeping God at the center, this conversation is for you.Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out BreezeMeds and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.breezemeds.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out ShipStation: https://www.shipstation.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Part 2What do we do when we’re waiting on God and don’t know whether His answer will be yes or no?In Part 2 of this conversation, we explore what it looks like to keep hoping and trusting God while we wait. Tatum shares the story of Hannah, the danger of deferred hope, and the importance of remembering God’s track record in our lives.She also shares a special testimony about leading her six-year-old son to Christ and how his simple understanding of the gospel reminded her of what it means to keep our faith focused on who God is—not just what He can do.In this episode:Why we shouldn’t stop hoping to protect ourselves from disappointmentWhat Hannah teaches us about praying with faithHow to keep track of God’s answered prayersFinding contentment in the things God didn’t give usShifting from “What if God says no?” to “What if God says yes?”Why our hope ultimately has to rest in who God isScripture: 1 Samuel 1, Proverbs 13:12, Matthew 26:39, Romans 5:1–11This week’s challenge:Make two lists:Desires God has fulfilledDesires God didn’t fulfill that ultimately worked out for your goodUse both lists to strengthen your faith, contentment, and hope while you wait.Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out BreezeMeds and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.breezemeds.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out ShipStation: https://www.shipstation.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

What do you do when you have a deep desire, you know God is fully able to give it to you, but you also understand that He may say no?In Part 1 of this powerful conversation, Tatum creates space for an honest conversation about faith, hope, and the desires of our hearts. How do you continue believing for healing, marriage, children, business success, restoration, or any other desire when God never explicitly promised that specific outcome?This episode is a reminder that mature faith does not mean pretending you do not care about the outcome. It means bringing your real desires, fears, questions, and hopes to God while trusting Him enough to surrender to His will. Through examples from Scripture—including the Hebrew boys, Moses, David, Paul, and Jesus—Tatum explores what it means to believe that God is able, and still trust Him if the answer is no.If you have ever found yourself wondering where your faith should land when you know the outcome is uncertain, this conversation is for you. Be encouraged: you do not have to deny what you deeply desire in order to have faith. You can ask boldly, hope fully, pray honestly, and still say, “Nevertheless, not my will, but Yours be done.”This is Part 1 of a two-part conversation.Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out BreezeMeds and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.breezemeds.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out ShipStation: https://www.shipstation.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum reflects on her first year of law school and shares what God has taught her about navigating a non-traditional path. From balancing marriage, motherhood, entrepreneurship, and legal education to overcoming imposter syndrome and comparison, she offers honest encouragement for anyone whose journey doesn't fit the expected timeline.Whether you're returning to school, changing careers, starting over, waiting on God's promises, or stepping into unfamiliar territory, this conversation is a reminder that God often works through unconventional paths to accomplish extraordinary purpose.In this episode, Tatum discusses:What it means to live a non-traditional lifeLessons learned from her first year of law schoolOvercoming imposter syndrome and comparisonHow previous life experiences become unexpected advantagesBiblical examples of God using unconventional people and timelinesPractical encouragement for embracing God's timing and purposeKey ScripturesIsaiah 53Romans 8:282 Corinthians 12:9Hebrews 11If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who needs the reminder that God's plan is never limited by a traditional timeline.Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out BreezeMeds and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.breezemeds.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out ShipStation: https://www.shipstation.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Tatum reminds you to prioritize the 7 guardrails discussed in the last episode to protect your relationship with God as you build for His glory. Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out BreezeMeds and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.breezemeds.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out ShipStation: https://www.shipstation.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Tatum opens up about a season where the demands of ministry, business, and family started to make her relationship with God feel transactional instead of relational. Drawing on personal testimony, research on dual-role relationships and boundary theory, and Scripture (Revelation 2:2–5, Matthew 7:21–23), she unpacks why this shift happens to those called to "do business God's way" — and shares seven practical guardrails to protect intimacy with God while still walking in purpose.Key TopicsWhy partnering with God in work can slowly turn relational closeness into a transactional exchangeLessons from organizational psychology: role conflict, dual-role relationships, and boundary theoryA real-life example of healthy boundaries in a business partnership (Anchored Media Studios)Revelation 2:2–5 — the warning to the church in Ephesus about losing "first love"Matthew 7:21–23 — good works without true relationship7 Guardrails to Protect Your Closeness with GodQuiet time, no work allowed — protected time with God that isn't about outputGet involved in in-person community — find an accountability partnerServe in ministry outside your professional skill setPractice the SabbathFast regularly — without asking for anythingWorship without asking for anything (try 30 minutes a day)Keep a "God ideas" journal — capture downloads without acting on them immediatelyScripture ReferencedRevelation 2:2–5Matthew 7:21–23Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out BreezeMeds and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.breezemeds.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out ShipStation: https://www.shipstation.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Tatum is currently under the weather and wanted to send you this reminder to disrupt well. --Welcome back to another installment of our Bible on Business series! In today’s episode, we dive into the powerful message that Kingdom Entrepreneurs are Disruptors. Through the example of Apostle Paul in Ephesus (Acts 19:23-32), we explore how true kingdom businesses inevitably challenge cultural and economic norms, much like Paul’s ministry did against idolatry and occultic practices in Ephesus.Episode Highlights:The Disruptive Impact of Kingdom BusinessesPaul’s ministry in Ephesus created an economic and spiritual ripple effect, revealing the clash between kingdom values and societal idols like greed, idolatry, and exploitation. As kingdom entrepreneurs, we must be prepared to face similar resistance when operating with integrity and purpose.The Inevitable “Riot”Just as Paul’s ministry sparked a riot, modern kingdom businesses often challenge norms that are deeply embedded in the business world. From hustle culture to manipulative marketing, today’s entrepreneurs are called to disrupt these standards, knowing that resistance is part of the journey.Building Businesses with Integrity and ImpactTatum shares practical tips for maintaining purity in business, including transparent pricing, prioritizing purpose over profit, and incorporating charity. By staying rooted in prayer, relying on community support, and being intentional about leaving a legacy that glorifies God rather than self, entrepreneurs can build resilient, kingdom-focused businesses.Key Takeaways for Disruptive Kingdom Entrepreneurship:Transparent Pricing and Practices – Build trust by being open about materials, sources, and policies that prioritize integrity.Prioritize Purpose Over Profit – Support charitable causes or community initiatives, demonstrating that the kingdom purpose is greater than the bottom line.Root Yourself in Prayer and Community – Prayer and community are essential for navigating the challenges of disrupting worldly systems.Ensure a Legacy of Faith, Not Fame – Aim to leave a Christ-centered legacy by putting Christ at the center of all business activities.Scripture Reference:Acts 19:23-32 – Paul’s ministry in Ephesus and the disruptive impact it had on a society steeped in idolatry.Tatum encourages listeners to embrace the reality that as kingdom entrepreneurs, they’re called to disrupt the status quo. With wisdom from Paul’s journey and practical tips, this episode empowers listeners to courageously confront opposition, build ethically, and leave a lasting impact that glorifies God.Don't Forget: If this podcast has blessed you, leave us a 5-star review and share with friends, family, or colleagues who might be encouraged by these insights. Your support helps us spread the message and empower more entrepreneurs to make God the CEO of their businesses.Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out BreezeMeds and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.breezemeds.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out ShipStation: https://www.shipstation.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Wrapping up the Ruthless Elimination of Hurry book club, Tatum shifts into a candid, personal conversation about the difference between genuine trust in God and avoidance dressed up as spirituality. Drawing from psychology, Scripture, and her own experience praying through her grandmother's stage-four cancer diagnosis, she unpacks how Christians — especially high-achieving entrepreneurs — often mistake "rushing to joy" for faith when it's really a defense mechanism keeping them from real intimacy with God.What's CoveredA book club update: The group has finished The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry and is moving toward a business-focused pick next, with Great CEOs Are Lazy under consideration as a way to explore building a business from sustainability rather than hustle culture.The spiritualizing of avoidance: Why avoidance is one of the most socially acceptable defense mechanisms in Christian culture, often hiding behind phrases like "God's got me" or "I'm not sad, the joy of the Lord is my strength."A personal story: How Tatum navigated her grandmother's 90-day cancer prognosis, the shift in her prayers from demanding a specific outcome to surrendering the outcome entirely, and what that taught her about the difference between avoidance and trust.The psychology of avoidance: A look at "experiential avoidance" — the attempt to escape or numb uncomfortable emotions — and the research linking it to anxiety, depression, and other forms of psychological distress.Avoidance in entrepreneurship: How uncertainty, a core ingredient of faith, gets treated as a threat — leading business owners to quietly override God's specific instructions with their own "safer," more marketable plans.Root causes of avoidance: Fear, shame, the desire for control, and unprocessed pain, and how each shows up in decision-making, dating, finances, and launching a business.Signs you're avoiding rather than trusting: Refusing to face the worst-case scenario, and praying only for a fix rather than for comfort and wisdom.A practical reframe: The question Tatum returns to again and again — both for herself and for others — "Do you have to do anything?"Key TakeawaysAvoidance offers temporary relief but blocks growth, resilience, and closeness with God; trust requires sitting with the discomfort instead of rushing past it.Faith is not the absence of uncertainty — uncertainty is built into the definition of faith itself.Facing a worst-case scenario isn't inviting it to happen; it's being honest about what's driving your emotions so you can bring it to God fully.Disappointment and trust can coexist. Being able to feel disappointed while still saying "not my will, but yours" is a marker of spiritual maturity, not a lack of faith.Avoidance often looks like wisdom, planning, and having it all together — which is exactly why it goes unchecked in high achievers.Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out BreezeMeds and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.breezemeds.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out ShipStation: https://www.shipstation.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This episode wraps up the book club discussion of The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry with the remaining ten practices for slowing down, plus a personal, unscripted reflection on trusting God through uncertainty.The episode opens with a raw moment about navigating law school as a non-traditional student, including a candid conversation with God about wanting to see the bigger picture before feeling secure in obedience. The takeaway: God often withholds the full plan on purpose, not to withhold comfort, but to keep us dependent on Him rather than on our own self-sufficiency.From there, the conversation returns to the list of 20 practices for slowing down, picking up at number 11 and continuing through number 20. Topics include setting boundaries around email and social media, the debate over cutting out television entirely, the case for single-tasking over multitasking, taking a regular day of silence and solitude, journaling, mindfulness and meditation through a Christian lens, taking real vacations, and the value of slowing down around food, whether that means cooking at home or being intentional while eating out.The episode closes out the book club pick with a reflection on the book's epilogue and an open question about what to read next.Key HighlightsA personal reflection on asking God for the "big picture" and what He said in responseWhy God sometimes keeps the full plan hidden, even when you are being obedientPractices 11 through 20 for slowing down, including thoughts on which ones felt useful and which felt overly rigidA respectful disagreement with the author's stance on cutting out TV entirelyWhy single-tasking, not multitasking, is the one non-negotiable on the listThe value of a monthly day of silence and solitude, and a smaller, more realistic version of itMindfulness and meditation reframed through scripture rather than secular practiceClosing thoughts on the book's epilogue and an open call for the next book club pickOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out BreezeMeds and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.breezemeds.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out ShipStation: https://www.shipstation.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This episode wraps up the discussion on simplicity and moves into the fourth and final practice of unhurried living: slowing. Before diving in, the episode opens with a personal reflection on what it looked like to actually live this out — a season of downsizing a business, laying off a team, and trusting God's call to slow down even when it made no practical sense.From there, the conversation shifts to contentment — specifically the way Paul uses "I can do all things through Christ" in Philippians, not as a battle cry for achievement, but as a testimony about being at peace in any circumstance. Contentment is framed not as the absence of ambition, but as the ability to hold desire without striving — checking with God before chasing the next opportunity rather than figuring it out on your own.The episode then moves into the author's 20 practical tips for slowing down, covering the first ten. The list centers heavily on driving habits and phone use — driving the speed limit, arriving early without your phone, and intentionally creating a "dumb phone" experience by removing notifications, social media, and email. Several tips are reflected on personally, including changes made to phone settings after reading the chapter.Key HighlightsWhat it actually looked like to obey God's call to slow down in the middle of a business crisisThe difference between toxic ambition and healthy drive — and how healing changes what you are chasing and whyContentment as restraint, not passivity — wanting more while still being at peace with where you areReading Ecclesiastes as a practical starting point for anyone who wants to pray for contentmentThe first 10 of 20 practical tips for slowing down, with honest reactions to eachA personal phone audit — which notifications stayed, which were deleted, and whyProducts Available — Moving Sale!Tatum is moving and has a limited number of physical resources available for just $5 each (+ shipping — total order stays under $10). Once they're gone, they're gone!Available now:GOD is My CEO: A Prayer Journal for Entrepreneurs (Limited Edition — gold spiral binding, hardcover, full-color, tabbed) 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/hlsLhd-AVdkPodcast Planner (Physical planner with everything Tatum has learned from 9+ years of podcasting and helping 150+ people launch) 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/bfpY3zdG9aAShe Is Uncompromising (The book — includes access to a bonus masterclass)👉🏾 https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shopOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out BreezeMeds and use my code BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.breezemeds.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/blessed for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out ShipStation: https://www.shipstation.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy