bh222: do you put on a show?

Hello and welcome to episode 222 - the last of season one! In this edition Mrs H poses some questions around performative sexy times. Do you put on a show when you play with someone? Is it performative or are you just being you? We talk about putting on a show and if that's our bag, what we do for solo dates and if we prep more for other people. It's a fun little end to the first season of the bed hoppers podcast.  Until season two arrives, thanks for hopping into our bed!

In this episode we recount our visit to Bristol Gardens Health Spa in Brighton. We talk about the venue being a professional naturist spa and its features, including a cafe, steam rooms, and private themed playrooms. We ponder if it’s a hook up place or somewhere to relax and unwind… Take a listen to our review to find out more. We also mark our podcast’s eight-year anniversary. Mr. H reflects on the personal "cost" of production, including the intensive editing time and the emotional toll of negative online feedback. We talk about the future of the show and how you can get involved. Got thoughts? Email us at [email protected] This one has something for everyone! Thanks for hopping into our bed.

Welcome to the latest edition of the bed hoppers podcast. We're back after a few weeks of illness for Mr H. We talk about what we've been up to since Christmas and New Year and take a look at what we've got coming up. Mr H asks Mrs H if we're really swingers - and what all of this stuff means to us. Are we successful, would or should we change things? Is our approach moving along? It's a pretty big discussion that gets a little pokey (don't worry though - we're all good, promise!). We hope you enjoy it or can take something from it - it was important for us to work through some of these questions, even if we don't know the answers! If you've had similar discussions, thoughts or theories, we'd love to hear from you - reach out to [email protected]. Until then, thanks for hopping into our bed!

In this episode we invite sexy friends Secret Stag and Secret Vixen behind the mic once more and catch up on what they've been up to over the last year. They talk about adventures in hot wifing, a trip to a hotwife takeover event in the states, answer our questions and share some of their sexiest moments. We cover how they're going in their lifestyle journey and look to what 2026 might mean for them.  It's a handy episode if you've been following them, are interested in hotwifing and hot wife events and if you're up for a cheeky little conversation. Thanks for hopping into our bed.

In this episode we talk about 2025 and explore some of our highs and lows for the year. We talk a little about the future and what the coming year might look like for our adventures. We chat about some forthcoming solo dates and our plans for how they might work. Mr H is getting ready to go to a party - so we talk about boundaries, possible situations and how to keep Mrs H involved. It's a handy one if you're exploring solo adventures, thinking about how your year has been and what you might get up to in 2026. If you've got awesome plans - reach out and let us know about them! Thanks for hopping into our bed.  

Thanks for checking us out! In this delightful episode we follow up on Mrs H's side quest, which we spoke about in the previous podcast. Essentially, she was challenged to film some naughty content and send it to Mr H whilst he was on his solo date. Did she film it? Did she send it? Was it sexy? For the answers to this and more, take a lovely listen to this show! We cover how we're feeling about pictures and videos, if that's changed following the side quest and what we might do in the future. Might be a handy discussion starter if you're talking about solo dates, filming content and what to do with pics and clips.  Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Ahhhh swingers and posting pictures. Have you ever joined a swinging site and recoiled in horror at some of the pictures posted? Perhaps you feel like you could never compete? Or maybe you constantly share pictures and videos every three and a half minutes? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then you are prob'ly human! Congratulations! We talk about all things posting pics and vids. We cover what we like, what doesn't work for us and how things have changed. Mrs H accepts a challenge and we share our thoughts on why we do what we do when it comes to spicy images. Hopefully there's plenty of food for thought! Thanks for hopping into our bed. PS - Mrs H chose the music on this one. So if you like it, let us know. And if it's not working for you, let us know that too!  

This episode features delightful guests Mr and Ms J - who talk about their journey into the swinging lifestyle. We cover a whole host of things from dealing with anxiety, diving straight into clubs, what they'd throw in the lifestyle bin and what challenges children might bring into their adventures. Mr and Mrs H also have a bit of a chat about getting videos and pictures - it's only the start of that conversation but we'd love to know your thoughts. Bob us an email at [email protected]  Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links and info In the episode Mr H talks about a book that someone recommended. This is the book: 'When I say "NO", I feel Guilty' by Manuel J. Smith. It's on Spotify as a free audiobook, if you have a premium account. As is The Ethical Slut - which we'd highly recommend.  

Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast. In this episode we talk about our last week or two and how it feels like we’re turning a corner. From awesome threesomes to sexy solo dates and steps in the right direction on meds, it has certainly been a delightful period! We bring you up to date on our latest escapades, talk about our solo adventures, recount some sexy moments and celebrate how things are on the right track. It might not all be perfect, but it’s lovely to share a slice of the good stuff that’s been going on. We explore the thrill of solo dates, what’s driving our exploration and talk about how they feature as part of our pic n mix approach to the swinging lifestyle. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

This episode starts with an update from us, we check in on Mrs H's menopause progress, chat about the Thrifty shades of grey event and touch on some of our recent adventures.   Our main feature is an interview with Sam, an energetic single man in his early 40s, who describes himself as bisexual and "ADHD as hell". Sam is navigating the lifestyle after a 16-year vanilla relationship, exploring experiences while seeking companionship. He talks about some of the challenges, his advice for newcomers and how he'd bring up the lifestyle conversation with a new partner. He's a delightful guest with plenty of stories to share.   If you want to reach out to Sam, drop us a message at the usual email address. Thanks for hopping into our bed!