Bestselling ADHD author reveals dangers of late AuDHD diagnosis | Pete Wharmby

Pete Wharmby is a bestselling Author and AuDHD specialist with an emphasis on helping you manage your mental health An award winning expert in the field, he’s on a mission to raise awareness for the struggles experienced by those with ADHD & Autism 00:00 Trailer 02:29 Pete’s mission in the neurodiversity world 10:32 Early memories of feeling different 17:52 How ADHD & Autism can clash 34:57 Tiimo advert 36:32 How people with AuDHD experience jealousy and breakups 44:48 The AuDHD RSD Experience 56:40 AuDHD men talking about mental health 01:09:26 Monotropism explained 01:17:47 Pete’s ADHD item 01:21:33 The ADHD agony aunt 01:28:19 The previous guest’s 3 rules to lives by Find Pete on Instagram 👉 https://www.instagram.com/pete_wharmby_books/?hl=en Visit Pete’s website 👉 https://petewharmby.com Get 30% off an annual Tiimo subscription 👉 https://www.tiimoapp.com/adhdchatter Buy Alex's book entitled 'Now It All Makes Sense' 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Now-All-Makes-Sense-Diagnosis/dp/1399817817 Producer: Timon Woodward Recorded by: Hamlin Studios Trailer Editor: Ryan Faber DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr Judith Mohring has over 25 years' experience of clinical and organisational practice having studied medicine at Cambridge and graduating as a gold medal finalist. She enjoyed a distinguished career as a private psychiatrist in the City and Harley Street before founding The Natural Psychiatrist to focus on education and coaching, enhancing business productivity and performance. She is an expert trainer for the UK Adult ADHD Network, on the advisory board for The Centre for Neurodiversity at work and a visiting lecturer in organisational psychiatry at King's College London. Chapters: 00:00 Trailer 02:56 What people will learn in this episode 04:13 How ADHD presents in women during Perimenopause 07:17 The 3 key hormones that are impacted by Menopause 13:38 Advice for partners, family and friends 15:03 Traits of Menopause that can be confused with ADHD 17:43 Tiimo advert 19:17 Does ADHD get worse after Menopause 24:35 The Menopausal shame chain reaction 29:00 How to manage the symptoms of Menopause 30:00 Unusual traits of the Menopause that Google won’t tell you 35:04 The ADHD Item 37:57 The ADHD agony aunt 41:20 3 Rules To Live By Visit Dr Judith Mohring's website 👉 https://www.adhded.co.uk/ Get 30% off an annual Tiimo subscription 👉 https://www.tiimoapp.com/adhdchatter Buy Alex's book entitled 'Now It All Makes Sense' 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Now-All-Makes-Sense-Diagnosis/dp/1399817817 Producer: Timon Woodward Recorded by: Hamlin Studios Trailer Editor: Ryan Faber DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr Jo Perkins is a pioneering Psychologist in the ADHD space with 23 years experience. Using her deep knowledge of psychology, she specialises in optimising your ADHD across ALL aspects of your life Chapters: 00:00 Trailer 02:13 In what ways can ADHD get harder to manage as you get older? 08:36 Common mid-life ADHD challenges 13:57 "I've got this far with my ADHD, so why change now?” 16:09 How AuDHD changes with age 21:39 The truth about ADHD and OCD & Agoraphobia 23:38 Tiimo advert 25:23 The truth about ADHD and memory loss diseases 28:54 The difference between ADHD and dementia 30:59 Ageing and impulsivity, a recipe for distaster? 35:27 How to age gracefully 45:27 Does shame decrease with age 48:12 Does people pleasing decrease with age 52:52 The truth about ADHD and menopause 56:08 How to prepare for the menopause 59:51 Can someone be too for an ADH diagnosis 01:03:33 The ADHD agony aunt 01:10:41 A letter from the pervious guest Experience Dr Jo Perkins' ADHD Masterclass 👉 https://masterclass.drjoperkins.com Visit Dr Jo Perkins' website 👉 https://drjoperkins.com Find Dr Jo Perkins on Instagram 👉 https://www.instagram.com/drjoperkins/?hl=en Get 30% off an annual Tiimo subscription 👉 https://www.tiimoapp.com/adhdchatter Buy Alex's book entitled 'Now It All Makes Sense' 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Now-All-Makes-Sense-Diagnosis/dp/1399817817 Producer: Timon Woodward Recorded by: Hamlin Studios Trailer Editor: Ryan Faber DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Phil Anderton PHD has over 20 years of experience in the field of ADHD and has assessed over 50,000 people. The founder of ADHD 360, Europe’s largest ADHD organisation, Phil has a wealth of lived experience rivalled by no other. He is the ADHD expert. 00:00 Trailer 01:49 What is your mission in the ADHD world 03:53 The link between ADHD and criminality 14:49 How undiagnosed ADHD differs between men and women 16:37 How to manage ADHD and addictions 22:10 Tiimo advert 34:05 How to be happy with ADHD 48:25 Debunking ADHD myths 52:03 Phil’s ADHD item 55:12 The ADHD agony aunt Visit the ADHD 360 website 👉 https://www.adhd-360.com Get 30% off an annual Tiimo subscription 👉 https://www.tiimoapp.com/adhdchatter Buy Alex's book entitled 'Now It All Makes Sense' 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Now-All-Makes-Sense-Diagnosis/dp/1399817817 Producer: Timon Woodward Recorded by: Hamlin Studios Trailer Editor: Ryan Faber DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sam Bramwell is an RSD expert and the founder of The ADHD Leader. Sam’s mission is simple: to help ADHD adults to flourish. Sam is also an author of the best selling book, Enough is Enough, a groundbreaking manifesto for modern women navigating the impossible standards of career, leadership, motherhood, and societal expectations. 00:00 Trailer 02:14 What is your mission within the ADHD space 03:45 The ADHD nervous system explained 09:14 RSD at work 13:06 How to sooth the ADHD nervous system 17:50 Subtle ways you’re people pleasing without knowing it 23:54 Tiimo advert 25:47 How to escape emotional exhaustion 27:08 How to regulate your emotions 29:23 ADHD in women 33:17 Tips for ADHD women in the workplace 35:04 Why ADHD women feel ‘not enough’ 39:31 How to set boundaries 43:52 The ADHD agony aunt 46:17 The ADHD Item Find Sam on Linkedin 👉https://www.linkedin.com/in/sam-bramwell-3287642/ Find Sam on Instagram 👉 https://www.instagram.com/samjbramwell/?hl=en Buy Sam’s book 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Enough-shattering-myth-that-women/dp/1068404507 Get 30% off an annual Tiimo subscription 👉 https://www.tiimoapp.com/adhdchatter Buy Alex's book entitled 'Now It All Makes Sense' 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Now-All-Makes-Sense-Diagnosis/dp/1399817817 Producer: Timon Woodward Recorded by: Hamlin Studios Trailer Editor: Ryan Faber DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Alex chats to Kate Moryoussef, the host of the ADHD Women’s Wellbeing Podcast and the author of The ADHD Women’s Wellbeing Toolkit book. She's had thousands of conversations with ADHD experts and late diagnosed ADHD women and she's here to share her biggest learnings. 00:00 Trailer  02:45 What’s your mission in the ADHD space? 05:50 Kate’s personal diagnosis story 11:41 The common areas of struggle for ADHD women  18:15 the affects of feeling misunderstood  20:51 Tiimo advert  25:23 The consequences of not feeling “enough” 30:02 The hidden costs of people pleasing  36:24 The reality of being an introverted extrovert  37:37 3 ways to recharge the ADHD brain 39:56 Advice for young undiagnosed ADHD women  42:28 When in your life did you feel most heard? 44:15 Kate’s ADHD item 47:56 The ADHD agony aunt  50:48 A letter from the previous guest  Find Kate on Instagram 👉 https://www.instagram.com/kate_moryoussef/?hl=en-gb Pre-order Kates book 👉 https://www.adhdwomenswellbeing.co.uk Get 30% off an annual Tiimo subscription 👉 https://www.tiimoapp.com/adhdchatter Buy Alex's book entitled 'Now It All Makes Sense' 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Now-All-Makes-Sense-Diagnosis/dp/1399817817 Producer: Timon Woodward  Recorded by: Hamlin Studios Trailer Editor: Ryan Faber DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr Mark Rackley has over 20 years experience as a psychologist, specialising in ADHD & Autism. He’s an expert in helping people understand their brains, and live a happier life. 00:00 Trailer 02:44 Mark’s mission in the ADHD, Autism and mental health space 04:30 What are the more common traits of ADHD and the common traits of Autism 09:47 What are some opposing traits of ADHD and Autism 16:41 How ADHD masks Autism  19:36 Tiimo advert  21:10 What part of the brain is responsible for Autism and ADHD 26:48 Will AuDHD ever be a separate diagnosis  29:08 The Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde internal narrative  35:36 The AuDHD RSD experience  36:52 The AuDHD Addiction experience  39:23 The ADHD agony aunt Find Dr Mark on Instagram 👉 https://www.instagram.com/drmarkrackley/?hl=en Visit Dr Mark's website 👉 https://drmarkrackley.com Get 30% off an annual Tiimo subscription 👉 https://www.tiimoapp.com/adhdchatter Buy Alex's book entitled 'Now It All Makes Sense' 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Now-All-Makes-Sense-Diagnosis/dp/1399817817 Producer: Timon Woodward Recorded by: Hamlin Studios Trailer Editor: Ryan Faber DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr Tamara Rosier PhD is the founder of the ADHD Center of West Michigan, where she and her staff work with individuals with ADHD (and their families) to learn strategies and develop new skills to live effectively with ADHD. 00:00 Trailer  02:20 What is your mission in the world of neurodiversity? 10:55 How to successfully manage ADHD 13:48 How to spot ADHD in others  18:05 Tiimo advert  20:01 How to manage RSD 28:42 How to find your tribe 36:08 Hack your emotional dysregulation  38:12 Unpacking RSD 47:38 Practical tools to manage ADHD and recognise shortfalls  56:05 How to support your ADHD partner  01:02:26 The ADHD item 01:06:19 The ADHD agony aunt  Visit Dr Tamara Rosier’s website 👉 https://www.tamararosier.com Get 30% off an annual Tiimo subscription 👉 https://www.tiimoapp.com/adhdchatter Buy Alex's book entitled 'Now It All Makes Sense' 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Now-All-Makes-Sense-Diagnosis/dp/1399817817 Producer: Timon Woodward  Recorded by: Hamlin Studios Trailer Editor: Ryan Faber DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jessie Hewitson is the author of How To Raise A Happy ADHD Child and How To Raise A Happy Autistic Child. Chapters: 00:00 Trailer 02:00 What is your mission in the world of Neurodiversity 03:32 Common threads between ADHD and autism 07:49 How to let your AuDHD child find their passion 13:10 Is parenting neurodiverse kids harder than parenting neurotypical kids 17:00 Tiimo advert 18:34 Is socialising important for neurodivergent kids 27:52 How schools can support ADHD and autistic kids 30:11 Supporting your child through RSD 37:46 The importance of making your child feel loved 51:18 How to nurture AuDHD kids 53:18 How to spot ADHD in kids 57:40 The consequences of being misunderstood 01:03:40 The importance of healing your inner child 01:08:19 Why ADHD girls are still being missed 01:13:31 What are the staple ingredients of a good upbringing for a Neurodiverse child 01:15:23 Jessie’s ADHD Item 01:17:19 The ADHD Agony Aunt 01:19:49 A letter from the previous guest Pre-order How To Raise A Happy ADHD Child 👉 https://amzn.to/3F6uZrR Order How To Raise A Happy Autistic Child 👉 https://bit.ly/43hxlw8 Get 30% off an annual Tiimo subscription 👉 https://www.tiimoapp.com/adhdchatter Buy Alex's book entitled 'Now It All Makes Sense' 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Now-All-Makes-Sense-Diagnosis/dp/1399817817 Producer: Timon Woodward Recorded by: Hamlin Studios Trailer Editor: Ryan Faber DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr Tony Lloyd is a leading ADHD expert. He has been the driving force in promoting neurodiversity in the UK and campaigned for a neurodiverse paradigm in education, health services, employment and human resource management. Correction to opening sequence: Tony Lloyd is no longer the CEO of the ADHD Foundation, nor was he at the time of this recording. 00:00 Trailer 01:47 What’s your mission in regards to ADHD 08:20 How to respond when someone says “Everyone has ADHD these days” 16:42 Tiimo advert 17:54 What are successful ADHDers doing right? 27:56 The psychological effect of being called ‘too sensitive’ 31:05 What a "purgatory period" of having no diagnosis does to a Neurodiverse brain 36:12 Masking 44:01 The significance of RSD in the Neurodiverse community 50:55 The ADHD item segment 53:21 The ADHD agony aunt segment 57:01 A letter from the previous guest 59:04 Ned Hallowell Brain Health advert Find Tony on Linkedin 👉 https://www.linkedin.com/in/tony-l-ba67301/ Get 30% off an annual Tiimo subscription 👉 https://www.tiimoapp.com/adhdchatter Get 10% off the Hallowell Brain Health App 👉 https://zingperformance.com/adhd-chatter/ Buy Alex's book entitled 'Now It All Makes Sense' 👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Now-All-Makes-Sense-Diagnosis/dp/1399817817 Producer: Timon Woodward Recorded by: Hamlin Studios Trailer Editor: Ryan Faber DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices