23 Brutal Truths I Learned at 23 That Most People Learn at 40

In this podcast, I share 23 truths I learned at 23 that most people learn at 40. These lessons cover all pillars: career, business, relationships, self-growth, relationships, and friendships. I hope these 23 truths help you as much as they've helped me. Watch the video version: https://youtu.be/alnoqljOZzc?si=CQ1Blv0lee9yA7h6 NEWSLETTER: https://www.simianand.com INSTAGRAM: / simiianand TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@simianand?lan... TIME STAMPS 00:00 Introduction 00:16 Extend Your Timeline 00:36 The Bigger the Problem, the Bigger The Paycheck 01:03 Have Conversations With Strangers 01:28 Rejection 02:01 No Such Thing As "Perfect Time" 02:17 Escape Competition Through Authenticity 03:02 Read What No One Else Reads 03:34 High Information Diet 04:13 No One is Saving You 04:31 Money Is Infinite. 05:03 Dress Up. Get Fit. Appearances Matter. 05:38 Stay Curious 06:06 The Right Choice is Your Choice 06:22 Character Over Reputation 07:18 Micro Action Principle 08:13 Nail The Basics: Brain Health 09:07 Build Yourself, Then Attract. 09:46 Your Friends Will Stop Supporting You 10:28 The #1 Skill to Master 11:09 No One Cares (Spotlight Effect) 11:51 Rain Comes Before Rainbows

Struggling to network as an introvert? Same. But it's time to switch it up. This video will show you how to network with influencers and industry leaders in 2024. I'll share proven tips to position yourself as a valuable person, and build authentic rapport. Whether you're a student, entrepreneur, professional, or just expanding your network, you'll learn the secrets so that you can open up new doors to opportunities, mentorship, and career growth. Join my newsletter! https://www.simianand.com/signup For business inquires: [email protected] IG : https://www.instagram.com/simiianand/ TIME STAMPS 00:00 Introduction 02:07 Traditional vs. Modern Networking 03:29 Networks Come BEFORE You Need Them 04:52 Shift to Generosity, Not Gain 06:57 "How Can I Take it 1 Step Further?" 08:27 Don't Idolize ANYONE. 09:47 Become the Person Others Want to Network With 10:26 Showcase Your Humanity 12:14 Be Interested & Ask More Questions 13:19 Shake Hands With People You Don't Know. 14:07 Have an INSANELY Clear Intention or Purpose 16:13 Landing Collaborations with High Profile Guests 17:45 Don't Pretend to Be Someone You're NOT 19:15 Acknowledgement

In life, we all reach a moment when we realize our outer image doesn't match our inner self. Dad and I discuss authentic self-expression, personal branding, communication, leadership, and the struggle to balance authenticity with societal expectations—on and off camera. Join us for a candid conversation on staying true to yourself in a world of expectations. KEEP IN TOUCH IG : https://www.instagram.com/simiianand/ Newsletter - https://www.simianand.com/signup Simi Anand Show - https://open.spotify.com/show/2mKHuvu... For business inquires please contact: [email protected]

full yt video: https://youtu.be/eSeK8Hai4b8?si=ftjBIDXV4_ZuN8exDad and I are diving deep into reinvention, success, and the thirst for discovery. We'll share personal stories and chat about how our experiences shape who we are, how ambition plays out in today's digital world, and why staying curious is key for our growth, both personally and professionally. Tune in for some real talk on reinventing yourself and finding your path to fulfillment. KEEP IN TOUCH IG :    / simiianand   Newsletter - https://www.simianand.com/signup Simi Anand Show - https://open.spotify.com/show/2mKHuvu... For business inquires please contact: [email protected] CONNECT WITH MY DAD!! Linkedin:    / hardeepanand   TIME STAMPS 0:00 - Exploring Identity and Personal Transformations Personal transformation can alter others' perceptions, emphasizing the importance of growth, wellness, and self-discovery. 08:45 - Evolution of Identity and Ambition Personal identity evolves with age, relationships, and experiences, influenced by career choices and the emerging power of the internet. 10:23 - Identity and Stagnation in Long-Term Jobs 17:36 - Networking and Recognizing Personal Value Immigrant challenges, growth opportunities, mentorship, professional identity, providing value, networking, and understanding one's worth. 23:05 - The Value of Skills and Education 29:42 - Autonomy and Core Values Self-autonomy, avoiding comparison, and learning from the past shape personal identity and values. 34:18 - Autonomy and Curiosity for Personal Growth Autonomy, curiosity, unlearning, and personal growth are emphasized as we discuss the role of curiosity in shaping our lives. 35:39 - The Impact of Curiosity on Upbringing 37:40 - Learning and Leadership in Work and Family Humility and curiosity in learning, family involvement, leadership styles and cultural influences in the workplace. 44:18 - Evolution of Home and Work Environments 50:57 - Family and Home Life Priority Family dynamics evolve from hierarchy to partnership, paralleling workplace changes and emphasizing adaptability to AI and post-COVID realities. 56:28 - Underpaid Teachers in the Education System 57:47 - The Importance of Intellectual Curiosity      

YT Video: https://youtu.be/IW0vlMV2S-I By the end of this video, you will learn how to become a master conversationalist and captivate everyone’s attention so that you can gain an unfair advantage in life, love, and work. You will master the art of small talk and gain communication tips to help you become more influential and respected by the people around you. You won’t wanna miss this one. Join my newsletter for exclusive content: https://www.simianand.com/signup How to Build REAL Charisma: https://youtu.be/JepE7VH9u5Y?si=wtY0AvJRz5koLcST KEEP IN TOUCH IG : https://www.instagram.com/simiianand/ Newsletter - https://www.simianand.com/signup Simi Anand Show - https://open.spotify.com/show/2mKHuvuLhfI6V7G7wa5CDx?si=3c2bb0c3edd04344 TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@simianand For business inquires please contact: [email protected]     TIME STAMPS 00:00 INTRO 00:47 Asking too Many Personal Questions 01:30 Don’t Speak More Than You Listen 03:01 Stop Impressing Others 03:54 Don’t Be a Monopolizer 04:40 Use Fewer Words & Be Concise 06:26 Use “I” Statements Instead of “You” Statements 07:27 Spotlight Effect 09:13 Be Disruptive AND Polarizing 10:50 Non-Verbal Communication 11:43 Verbal Communication (Voice Inflection) 13:13 Low Pressure Conversations 14:12 Framing Your Conversations 15:17 Compliments

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In this video, I share my plan for 2024, covering goals, productivity, health, and education to make it the best year ever. Join my newsletter for exclusive content: https://www.simianand.com/signup KEEP IN TOUCH IG : https://www.instagram.com/simiianand/ Newsletter - https://www.simianand.com/signup Simi Anand Show https://open.spotify.com/show/2mKHuvuLhfI6V7G7wa5CDx?si=3c2bb0c3edd04344 For business inquires please contact: [email protected] TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 - Intro 0:31 - Outcome vs. Process Goals 1:54 - Identity-Based Habits 3:10 - Add EMOTION to Your Goals 4:10 - Energy Audit 5:50 - Dress Up 6:15 - Deep Work 6:54 - Changing Working Locations 7:37 - Don't Leave Tasks Unfinished 8:20 - 4 Pillars of Health 8:33 - Nutrition 8:55 - Strength Training 9:27 - 10K Steps Everyday & Habit Stacking 11:04 - Nervous System Regulation 12:18 - Self - education

What is Imposter Syndrome? Does it really affect your success? Learn how to get closer to your dream life as I break down the 5 types of Imposter Syndrome along with 5 pragmatic solutions. 📱 join my newsletter of 10K+ readers: https://academy.simianand.com/signup ALL MY LINKS: https://simianand.komi.io IG - My daily lifestyle + more content: https://www.instagram.com/simiianand/ TikTok - NEW personal growth content DAILY: https://www.tiktok.com/@simianand?is_... TIME STAMPS 00:00 INTRO 0:50 IMPOSTER VS. SELF DOUBT 5 TYPES OF IMPOSTER SYNDROME 2:22 THE "PERFECTIONIST" 2:55 THE "EXPERT" 3:34 THE "NATURAL GENIUS" 4:35 THE "SUPERHUMAN" 5:20THE "SOLOIST" SOLUTIONS 6:07 SHARE YOUR IMPOSTER SYNDROME (WITH EXAMPLE) 8:59 BE A GUIDE, NOT AN EXPERT 10:09 ASK FOR MORE HELP 12:12 OLYMPIC ATHLETES EXAMPLE 14:08 CELEBRATE THE SMALL WINS    

Master the art of ending self-comparison with these 6 proven tips. Break free from the comparison trap and elevate your self-confidence for 2024. Here's how. 💌 Sign up to my weekly email newsletter - https://academy.simianand.com/signup Join my IG fam : https://www.instagram.com/simiianand/ 🎙 Subscribe to my podcast, Simi Anand Show - https://open.spotify.com/show/2mKHuvu... For business inquires please contact: [email protected] 00:00 INTRO 00:38 COMPARISON TYPES 01:28 SEEKING STATUS 03:12 "WHAT LOOKS SUCCESSFUL" 03:56 SOCIAL MEDIA 04:38 SCARCITY MINDSET 05:07 CONFIRMATION BIAS 06:24 DELETE, REMOVE, BLOCK. 07:56 LINDSEY LOHAN 08:49 GRATITUDE PRACTICE 10:08 COMPARISON TRIGGERS EXERCISE 12:59 COMPLIMENTS LIST 14:20 USE YOUR RIVALS AS MOTIVATION

If you're feeling stuck and stagnant, there are a few habits I GUARANTEE that you might be subconsciously doing that's only prolonging your feeling of being stuck. So in this video, I share the 5 toxic habits that are severely holding you back and 5 strategies to get unstuck (for good.) 💖 JOIN OUR COMMUNITY TO LEVEL UP! 💖 Join my IG fam : https://www.instagram.com/simiianand/ For business inquires please contact: [email protected] Topics Covered: VIDEO CHAPTERS The 5 Toxic Habits Keeping You Stuck: 0:00 Do you feel stuck? 0:40 Overlooking The Small Habits. 2:10 You've Outgrown Yourself & it SCARES You. 3:17 Infomania (Analysis Paralysis) 4:30 Knowing-Doing TRAP (this is insidious) 6:02 Imposter Syndrome 5 Solutions to Get UNSTUCK For GOOD: 7:00 The "Energizing Habits" List of Goals 8:02 Focus on Identity-Based Habits 9:05 Creation OVER Consumption 10:21 Reframing negative thoughts & overwhelm (with examples) 11:35 Dunning-Kruger Effect For Imposter Syndrome