Mojo Monday - Fear is Not a Time to Freeze: It’s a Time to Listen and Show Up

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This week, Carly invites you to run an Attentional Audit - a simple but powerful practice to see where your mental energy is really going.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In Part Two of my  conversation, with Professor Jeremy Jamieson we explore the fascinating dynamics of stress and resilience, specifically emphasising the roles parents can play in helping their children grow up resilient and strong. We discuss the importance of fostering a positive relationship with stress and understanding the biological and psychological factors that play into this often misunderstood aspect of life. What You'll Learn: Understanding Stress: Discover how stress functions as a natural response and how it can be beneficial rather than detrimental. Challenge vs. Threat Mindsets: Learn why perceiving stress as a challenge rather than a threat can completely alter the physiological response. Parenting Techniques for Resilience: Get insights into how parents can prepare their children for life's challenges by encouraging them to tackle difficult situations head-on. Key Takeaways: Stress is Not the Enemy: Stress, when approached properly, can be a tool for growth and resilience rather than a harmful force. It’s about perception and management. Parents as Guides, Not Rescuers: Instead of removing obstacles for your children, teach them to navigate these challenges. Encourage them to be proactive and resilient. Develop a Toolbox for Stress Management: Different situations require different responses—having a flexible approach to managing stress is crucial. The Role of Physiology in Stress: Understanding and managing physiological responses through activities such as regular exercise, sleep hygiene, and possibly cold immersion sessions can help in dealing with stress effectively. Importance of a Healthy Lifestyle: Adequate sleep, nutrition, and limiting technology use can have profound impacts on mental health, influencing stress levels and resilience capacity.   Resources Explore more about the extraordinary work at Mount Hope Family Center, which is helping children overcome trauma through innovative research on biological embedding. Connect with Professor Jeremy Jamieson on LinkedIn University of Rochester - Professor Jeremy Jamieson Social Stress Lab   Support the Podcast If you found this discussion insightful, consider subscribing, rating, and leaving a review of our podcast. Your support allows us to continue sharing impactful conversations that inspire change. Share this episode with someone who might benefit from understanding stress as a tool for growth—knowledge like this can truly make a difference in navigating life's challenges.   01:08 Building Resilience in Children 02:12 The Role of Social Connections in Stress Management 04:15 Understanding Stress Responses 06:20 Boosting Stress Capacity 07:44 The Impact of Educational Systems on Stress 09:33 Physiological Approaches to Stress Management 14:36 The Role of Virtual Reality in Stress Management 17:28 Tailoring Stress Management Techniques 18:31 Future Directions in Social Media and AI Interventions 19:10 Challenges and Promising Interventions 20:02 The Role of AI in Stress Management 21:57 Parental Advice for Raising Resilient Kids 28:59 The Importance of Sleep and Diet  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this week's Mojo Monday, Carly talks about performance anxiety, or what is sometimes knows as stage fright. We've all experienced it at some point, whether it's speaking out in a meeting, presenting in front of a group or even going out on a date, but for some of us, it can be so intense it stops us from reaching our full potential. Carly explains what it is and provides some strategies to help manage it.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this enlightening conversation on hardiness, I sit down with Professor Jeremy Jamieson to delve into the intricate world of stress, mindset, and neuroscience. The discussion explores how our perceptions of stress can influence both mental and physical well-being and the potential for science to reshape these experiences. This session unpacks the ways in which mindset coaching can transform stress from a debilitating factor into a powerful tool for growth.   What You'll Learn: The Role of Stress: Discover why experiencing stress is essential for personal growth and peak performance, whether on the field or in everyday challenges like exams and job interviews. Mindset Matters: Learn how shifting your psychological orientation can have profound effects on your physiology and engagement with challenges. The Science of Stress Responses: Understand how chronic stress affects the brain, particularly through changes in the amygdala and frontal lobes, and how interventions like acceptance and commitment therapy can reverse some of these changes. Epigenetics Explained: Dive into how epigenetic factors play a role in stress responses, and the surprising ways stress can impact not just the individual, but subsequent generations. Mother-Baby Connection: Explore how a mother's stress levels can affect her child, reinforcing the subtle yet powerful ways in which our environments are communicated from parent to offspring. Neuroplasticity and the Brain: Gain insights into how the brain adapts and changes in response to stress, highlighting the potential for positive transformation. Key Takeaways: Stress should be viewed as a challenge to refine and expand our capabilities, rather than a purely negative experience. Transforming your mindset can significantly alter both your physiological responses and your overall engagement with life’s challenges. Genetic dispositions aren’t permanent; understanding and manipulating the epigenome can open pathways to healthier stress responses. The connection between mothers and their babies exemplifies how our nervous systems communicate stress, affecting development from a very young age. Neuroplasticity offers hope that we can rewire our brains through informed practices and change the path of our stress responses. Resources Explore more about the extraordinary work at Mount Hope Family Center, which is helping children overcome trauma through innovative research on biological embedding. Connect with Professor Jeremy Jamieson on LinkedIn University of Rochester - Professor Jeremy Jamieson Social Stress Lab Support the Podcast If you found this discussion insightful, consider subscribing, rating, and leaving a review of our podcast. Your support allows us to continue sharing impactful conversations that inspire change. Share this episode with someone who might benefit from understanding stress as a tool for growth—knowledge like this can truly make a difference in navigating life's challenges.   03:09 Understanding Stress in Different Contexts 29:04 Mindset Coaching for Athletes 30:18 Factors Influencing Stress Responses 31:10 Trauma and Stress Regulation 33:00 Workplace Stress and Brain Changes 34:46 Epigenetics and Stress 37:36 Mother-Child Stress Communication 41:24 Nervous System Communication  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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This week on Mojo Monday, Carly talks about commitment - what it really means, and why it matters more than motivation. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Part Two of my conversation with  Dr. Alia Bojilova as we delve into the intricacies of resilience, offering valuable insights into the psychological and physiological aspects that contribute to personal and collective growth in challenging times. Our discussion covers a range of topics including belonging, curiosity, purpose, and drive as critical components of resilience. Through this engaging dialogue, we explore the dynamic interplay between self-awareness, community, and purpose, providing practical strategies to harness resilience effectively. What You'll Learn: Understanding Resilience: Dr. Bojilova and Dr. Taylor discuss how resilience is fuelled by a sense of belonging and purpose. They highlight the importance of being part of something bigger, with clear positive intent and shared values that sustain and enhance our capacity for life. Belonging and Identity: The conversation explores the profound impact of belonging not just to groups, but also to oneself. They emphasize the magic of defining personal values and purpose, which serve as a foundation for resilience. The Role of Curiosity: Curiosity is spotlighted as a vital component of resilience, offering a pathway to see seemingly insurmountable challenges as opportunities for exploration and growth. Purpose and Drive: Their dialogue underscores the significance of clear purpose as a precursor to drive, with motivation naturally following purposeful action towards meaningful goals. Physiological Resilience: Dr. Taylor stresses the importance of physical recovery and self-care as foundational elements of resilience, cautioning against the misconception of relaxation as genuine recuperation.   Key Takeaways: Stay Purpose-Driven: Purpose precedes drive, making it crucial to align your actions and goals with your core values and sense of meaning. Integrate Curiosity: Cultivate curiosity about yourself, others, and the world to keep your mind open and adaptable. Prioritise Recovery: Ensure that rest and rejuvenation are integral parts of your routine to sustain long-term resilience. Embrace Belonging: Develop a deep sense of belonging within yourself and your community to foster a supportive environment for personal growth.   Resources For more on resilience and to purchase Dr. Bojilova's book, "The Resilience Toolkit," check your favourite local bookstore. Connect with Dr. Alia Bojilova on LinkedIn for updates and potential speaking engagements. Corporate inquiries can be directed to Between Two Beers, a speaking bureau in New Zealand. Support the Podcast If you found this episode inspiring and informative, please consider subscribing, rating, and leaving a review on your preferred podcast platform. Your support helps us reach more listeners with meaningful discussions like this one. Share this episode with friends or colleagues who might benefit from understanding resilience and its transformative impact on life and work. For more resources and discussions on resilience, stay connected with us and never miss an episode of this invaluable series on personal and professional growth. 00:32 The Psychology of Tribalism and Community 02:04 Tools for Deepening Belonging 03:13 The Role of Awareness in Resilience 06:12 Curiosity as a Key to Resilience 10:29 The Power of Awe and Gratitude 13:52 Effort and Procrastination in Achieving Goals 20:11 Labels and Responsibility in Mental Health 22:24 The Problem with Labels in Psychology 23:27 Understanding Drive vs. Motivation 23:59 Purpose Precedes Drive 27:23 Discovering Your Purpose and Values 34:53 Resilience in Different Contexts 39:23 The Importance of RecoverySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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In this week's Mojo Monday, Carly talks about fear as an example of finding emotional balance. There is always a message in our emotions, but we often aren't listening. When we do listen, we find that even our most intense emotions are pointing us to what we deeply care about. From there, we have a compass to point us to the path to take and how we can show up fully, even when we feel like running the other way. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.