229 Hot Takes: Provocative Perspectives on Life, Love & the Pursuit of Intimacy, Pt. 1

Since it’s the middle of July and it’s hot outside, Roy, our host, thought it appropriate to do a 3-part series called, “Hot Takes.” You’ll hear many provocative perspectives relating to cultural, political, spiritual and relational topics. Buckle up. It’s intense. In this episode, the topics discussed are narcissism, religion and politics. Don’t miss this episode.   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 4 Books: ·      Quantum Questions: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F4RFZBS3/ ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

In this episode, Roy shares an important talk given by his favorite spiritual teacher, Michael Singer. He talks about how to feel love all the time and it was a talk he gave recently in front of a live audience at his temple near Gainesville, Florida.   We all want to feel love. When you wake up you realize that all our pursuits, relationships or otherwise, are ultimately about finding and feeling love. And that’s not a problem. In fact, it’s natural and normal.   The issue is that most of us believe that in order to feel love, we need to find our ideal partner, our soulmate. But Michael points out that we can feel love all the time, with or without a life partner, but more importantly, he shares HOW to feel love all the time.   Don’t miss this important message.   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 4 Books: ·      Quantum Questions: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F4RFZBS3/ ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

Music is an incredibly powerful and enjoyable artform. Not only does it make us want to sing along and dance, but it can move us to tears, open our hearts and inspire our souls.   Yet, as amazing as many songs are, the message they contain can be magnificent or their message can be complete madness. This 4-part series explores around a dozen amazing and famous songs—half with messages that are complete madness, and therefore, should be ignored, and half with messages that are magnificent and should be adopted.   This is the final installment of the series and you’ll hear three more songs that contain messages that are so healthy and wonderful that we all should live by their words.   In this episode, you’ll hear songs that promote… ·      Handling difficulty and challenge with grace; ·      Not letting grief or loss close your heart and shut you down; ·      How to respond to criticism, judgment and haters; ·      What to do when you feel lost and hopeless; ·      And much, much more!   Don’t miss the playful but poignant episode.   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 4 Books: ·      Quantum Questions: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F4RFZBS3/ ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

Music is an incredibly powerful and enjoyable artform. Not only does it make us want to sing along and dance, but it can move us to tears, open our hearts and inspire our souls.   Yet, as amazing as many songs are, the message they contain can be magnificent or their message can be complete madness. This 4-part series explores around a dozen amazing and famous songs—half with messages that are complete madness, and therefore, should be ignored, and half with messages that are magnificent and should be adopted.   This is part three of the series and Roy turns the tables. Instead of sharing songs with horrible messages, he explores three amazing songs that contain messages that are so healthy and wonderful that we all should live by their words.   In this episode, you’ll hear songs that promote… ·      Being attracted to depth rather than superficiality; ·      Feeling the flow of love with or without a partner; ·      How to be overwhelmed with aliveness; ·      The attitude and posture that leads to freedom and peace; ·      And much, much more!   Don’t miss the playful but poignant episode.   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 4 Books: ·      Quantum Questions: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F4RFZBS3/ ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

Music is an incredibly powerful and enjoyable artform. Not only does it make us want to sing along and dance, but it can move us to tears, open our hearts and inspire our souls.   Yet, as amazing as many songs are, the message they contain can be magnificent or their message can be complete madness. This 4-part series explores around a dozen amazing and famous songs—half with messages that are complete madness, and therefore, should be ignored, and half with messages that are magnificent and should be adopted.   In part two of the series, Roy, our host, explores three amazing songs that contain messages that are unhealthy, dysfunctional and dangerous, and therefore, they are songs you can love but shouldn’t listen to.   In this episode, you’ll hear songs that promote… ·      Violence and revenge as coping mechanisms; ·      Blame and self-righteousness; ·      Dishonesty and manipulation as relationship strategies; ·      Entitlement & Narcissism as positive traits; ·      And much, much more.   Don’t miss the playful but poignant episode.   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 4 Books: ·      Quantum Questions: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F4RFZBS3/ ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

Music is an incredibly powerful and enjoyable artform. Not only does it make us want to sing along and dance, but it can move us to tears, open our hearts and inspire our souls.   Yet, as amazing as many songs are, the message they contain can be magnificent or their message can be complete madness.   This 4-part series explores a dozen amazing and famous songs—half with messages that are complete madness, and therefore, should be ignored, and half with messages that are magnificent and should be adopted.   In this first installment of the series, Roy, our host, explores three amazing songs that contain messages that are unhealthy, dysfunctional and dangerous, and therefore, they are songs you can love but shouldn’t listen to.   In this episode, you’ll hear songs that promote… ·      Co-dependence and drama; ·      The Soulmate Syndrome; ·      The “You Complete Me” mindset; ·      Rescuing as an expression of love; ·      And much, much more.   Don’t miss this playful but poignant episode.   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 4 Books: ·      Quantum Questions: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F4RFZBS3/ ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

As we celebrate Father’s Day, it’s important to know that 70% of American children grow up without their father living in the home with them—and it’s been that way since the early ‘90’s. This has had a catastrophic impact on children, leading to poverty, violence, poor performance in school and a host of other tragic consequences.   Fathers, and the masculine energy in general, are critically important to the family and the culture at large. So, in this episode, Roy discusses how and why fatherhood and masculinity have taken such a beating in our cultural discourse, and how to rebuild and restore the healthy masculine in men today.   In this episode, you will learn… ·      Why men, and the masculine, are seen as unnecessary and even toxic; ·      How TV and movies have played a central role in diminishing men and fathers; ·      What women can do to help men grow and be their best; ·      What men can do for other men to change the negative narrative; ·      And much, much more.   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 4 Books: ·      Quantum Questions: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F4RFZBS3/ ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

This powerful podcast series is about finding freedom from dangerous and destructive emotional experiences that seem to imprison us and keep us from a life of joy, playfulness and peace.   You’ll not only learn how to deal these issues when you’re caught in their debilitating grip, but more importantly, you’ll discover their root cause which will allow you to you rarely, if ever, experience them again.   In this, the final installment of the series, the focus is on anger. And there are three major issues with this powerful and scary emotion. First, we either avoid anger, being unable to admit we feel it or express it, or secondly, we’re taken over by it, possessed by it, often destroying everything and everyone around us, or third, we’re surrounded by angry people, and we don’t know what to do about it. If you can relate to any one of those three, this episode is for you.   In this episode, you’ll learn… ·      How to have anger without letting it have you; ·      What a healthy relationship to anger looks like; ·      The important benefits of anger; ·      Why avoiding anger is just as dangerous as being possessed by it; ·      How to deal with angry people; ·      And much, much more!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 4 Books: ·      Quantum Questions: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F4RFZBS3/ ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

This powerful podcast series is about finding freedom from dangerous and destructive emotional experiences that seem to imprison us and keep us from a life of joy, playfulness and peace.   You’ll not only learn how to deal these issues when you’re caught in their debilitating grip, but more importantly, you’ll discover their root cause which will allow you to you rarely, if ever, experience them again.   In part four of the series, the focus is on anxiety. This is a very complicated subject, often having medical, emotional and even spiritual elements to it. But in this episode, you’ll hear a balanced and wise approach to finding freedom from this debilitating experience.   In this episode, you’ll learn… ·      Why the medical, psychological and spiritual responses to anxiety is are all right & wrong; ·      That it’s possible to live an anxiety-free life; ·      How a conscious person responds when they feel anxious; ·      The root cause of anxiety (it’s actually quite simple); ·      How to shift from anxiety to trust; ·      And much, much more.   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 4 Books: ·      Quantum Questions: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F4RFZBS3/ ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

This powerful podcast series is about finding freedom from dangerous and destructive emotional experiences that seem to imprison us and keep us from a life of joy, playfulness and peace.   You’ll not only learn how to deal these issues when you’re caught in their debilitating grip, but more importantly, you’ll discover their root cause which will allow you to you rarely, if ever, experience them again.   In part three of the series, the focus is on stress. And who can’t relate to feeling stressed out, occasionally or often? And while stress is a common experience, there is very little wisdom offered on how to find freedom from it…until now.   In this episode, you’ll learn… ·      Why stress isn’t all bad; ·      How to differentiate between healthy stress and toxic stress; ·      The root cause of toxic stress; ·      How to create a stress-free life; ·      And much, much more.   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 4 Books: ·      Quantum Questions: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F4RFZBS3/ ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.