(#59) Caught In The Perfectionism Trap? Try this to break free

Everyday reminds to embrace your worth, believe in yourself and live the life you truly desire

Striving to be perfect is not the self-improvement tactic you think it is. Going after your goals in a way that leads to stress, burn out and deep self-criticism is not worth it in the long run. This episode shows you 5 ways to turn unhealthy perfectionism into healthy striving so you can still be ambitious and excellent but in a sustainable and productive way.

If you’re struggling with any form of body insecurity this episode will help you break free of the negativity and show you how to live beyond what your body looks like. In this episode Jackie Adedeji, award winning broadcaster, opens up about her life having big boobs from age 11 and the journey she’s had to go on from body shame to self-love, self-acceptance and confidence.

Tiwalola opens up about her experience trying to live "soft life" by society's standards but left feeling disillusioned when life felt hard and challenging in reality. In 2024 she's been on a journey redefining soft life for her self by focusing on her faith, physical, mental, emotional and spiritual health.

Got a dilemma? Life Coaches Tiwa and Dior are here to help! This week they are answering questions on love, friendship work and burnout on the Confidence Hotline. Feeling stuck? Submit your dilemmas here - https://forms.gle/UPzFbqnzo6XNLgre9

This moodbooster is taken from chapter 2 of Confident and Killing It Book on how to manage negative emotions. A bad day isn't a bad life so when your emotions feel overwhelming, try this technique of releasing negative emotions and welcoming positive vibrations into your life.

If you are currently holding back on getting started due to fear, self-sabotage, comparison or lack of clarity then the 3 rules Tiwalola shares in this episode will get you moving in no time. Confidence isn't a prerequisite to action, it's a by-product of it. This episode will teach you how to still make progress in the midst of fear and uncertainty Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/tiwalowla/ https://www.instagram.com/confidentandkillingit/

Learn about the mindset and habits the best performers and high achievers implement in their lives to unlock next level confidence and become their best self. We breakdown practical tips on how to be consistent, stop procrastinating and bet on yourself. About Imani- Imani-Lara Lansiquot is as Team GB sprinter and the 3rd fastest woman in British History. She has competed in the Olympics, Common Wealth Games and World Championship.

Daily affirmations to help you speak up and show up with confidence. If you're playing small and know you want to be more unapologetic, these moodboosters will help you start reprograming your mind. For a deeper dive, listen to Track 10 - Embracing Your Main Character Energy of the Confident and Killing It AudioBook.

Work in a Male-dominated industry like Tech, Finance or Medicine? Then this episode will give you 7 tips on how you can be confident, take up space and succeed, especially when you're the only woman in the room. No more shrinking into a shell of yourself, it's time to take your seat in the front row.