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In this episode titled "Money is Time," Joli discusses the often-overlooked truth behind the exchange of labor for money, emphasizing how money essentially represents hours of one's life. Joli challenges the common perception of money as merely a transactional tool, urging listeners to reevaluate how they spend their earnings. She illustrates the idea that spending money on trivial items equates to spending precious life hours on them. She further explains that money, as an intermediary, obscures the depreciation and devaluation of life's value. Joli critiques the consumer culture that encourages spending on overpriced, branded goods like Louis Vuitton bags, which she argues cost significantly more than their production value. This spending habit, she notes, leads to a disproportionate exchange of life hours for items of minimal intrinsic value. Joli also touches on how the economic system inflates the value of money, further depreciating the value of an individual's labor and life. Drawing a parallel with the movie "In Time," where time is the ultimate currency, Joli reflects on the dystopian reality of wealth inequality and the commodification of time. She argues that the current economic system, with its skewed valuation of labor and goods, mirrors the movie's critique of time as a commodified resource. Joli concludes by urging listeners to become more mindful of their spending, recognizing that each transaction represents a portion of their life. She advocates for a reevaluation of values, suggesting that individuals focus on what truly enriches their lives rather than succumbing to consumerist impulses driven by branding and societal expectations. By doing so, Joli suggests that individuals can reclaim the true value of their time and lead more meaningful lives. ••• Youroneblackfriend.com

On today’s episode, Joli​⁠ proposes a direct and profound connection between ADHD minds and the universe’s structure, suggesting a deeper, intrinsic alignment. What if the ADHD mind reflects an intuitive understanding of the universe? We will explore the intriguing concepts of algorithms in our reality, synchronicity, and how these ideas might relate to the ADHD brain. This discussion was inspired by an excerpt from "Dimensions" by Jacques Vallée that discusses how modern information systems utilize algorithms and keywords for data retrieval, suggesting that our universe might be organised in the same way. Piggybacking on the idea, Joli proposes that our universe appears organised as an associative database rather than a linear, sequential one, proposing that synchronicities and coincidences might reveal an order to the universe that is akin to an algorithm in a software program. This associative model of the universe could also offer insights into the nature of the ADHD brain, which often navigates the world in a non-linear, associative manner. Joli also discusses how we perceive and impart meaning to our experiences. The section on meaning explores how individuals construct significance and apply meaning to events based on their perceptions, beliefs, and cultural contexts, highlighting that meaning is not inherent but created by us. “We are meaning generating machines.” It emphasizes individual agency in the meaning-making process. In summary, Joli posits that ADHD minds, who often experience reality in a non-linear fashion, might be closely aligned with the fundamental nature of reality. This perspective posits that embracing a non-linear, associative view could enrich our understanding of the world and deepen our sense of connection with reality. Youroneblackfriend.com 1. ADHD and creativity 2. Understanding synchronicity 3. What is associative thinking? 4. Explaining non-linear time 5. Coincidences meaning 6. Basics of information theory 7. Jacques Vallée alien theories 8. Best books on universe mysteries 9. How do algorithms work? 10. Science of quantum entanglement 11. Improve cognitive skills 12. How does the mind process information? 13. Perceptions of reality 14. Creative thinking techniques 15. Recognizing life patterns 16. Connecting with the universe 17. What is the multiverse theory? 18. Keyword search tips 19. Consciousness and universe 20. Reality vs. simulation theories 21. Consciousness explained 22. Deep philosophy topics 23. Technology and human mind 24. How interconnected is our experience? 25. Finding meaning in life

Imagine your mine as an app and your brain as the hardware/computer. Can you use your mind as one would use an app: engaging and disengaging it at will, and exiting out of it when done? Think of the mind’s internal monologue to an app running in the background of your cellphone that drains the device’s battery. The continuous, often uncontrollable internal dialogue can lead to mental strain and exhaustion. Just as background apps consume power even when you’re not actively using them, the constant chatter of your mind can sap your mental energy without your conscious realization. This internal dialogue can range from worries about the future, replaying past events, to self-talk about current situations. Conscious control and intentional engagement/disengagement from the mind can prevent exhaustion. Joli encourages users to practice the mental discipline of redirecting attention away from this internal noise to the immediate present, deliberately using the mind as a tool rather than a source of distraction. The aim is to utilize the mind actively and purposefully, rather than allowing it to become a source of interference that pulls us away from the present moment. The concept of an Associative Model of the Universe, is also discussed. This model suggests a view where our universe isn’t strictly governed by linear causality (where Effects directly follow Causes in a straightforward sequence.) Instead, it proposes that the universe operates through a network of interconnected occurrences, where events are linked not just by cause-and-effect relationships but by associations that might not be linear or direct. This model implies that events in the universe can be related in various ways that go beyond simple causality. These connections might be based on similarities, synchronicities, or patterns that don’t necessarily adhere to the traditional understanding of time and causation. In such a model, understanding the universe requires looking at the bigger picture of how things are related, rather than just tracing direct lines of cause and effect. This lends itself to a discussion on deterministic physics and philosophical occasionalism, as well as the implications of this perspective on personal autonomy, mental health, and societal behavior. If every decision or action is the result of a chain of events set in motion by past events, there isn’t much we do control. This acceptance could lead to peace through surrendering to the flow of life, reducing anxiety over making “wrong” choices, and fostering a deeper connection to the universe or divinity, (depending on one’s perspective.) Lastly, Joli reflects on a social media post that resonated with her, tying in themes of mental liberation, societal norms, and the nature of sanity. She concludes with personal insights and interpretations of the song "Crazy" by Gnarls Barkley, questioning the societal norms that define sanity and celebrating the freedom found in embracing one’s uniqueness, even if it leads others to question your sanity. Youroneblackfriend.com

In this episode, Joli Artist, nka JoJo the Storyteller, 😏 examines the intersection of storytelling and our perception of reality. She advocates for the importance of questions over answers and the importance of fostering a society that encourages and values free and exploratory thinking. The episode begins with a reflection on a surprisingly profound Twitter post by Elmo, which led to an existential conversation about the public’s general dissatisfaction with life. Joli offers listeners a unique perspective through a playful, dark twist on Elmo himself, while showing that even simple online interactions can often reveal deeper societal issues. Critiquing the traditional education system's role in stifling creativity and inquiry. Drawing inspiration from 'The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy,' Joli underscores the vital necessity of cultivating the skill to ask meaningful questions in the upcoming Age of AI. This discussion serves as a metaphorical guide for listeners, encouraging them to seek out the right questions that lead to a deeper understanding of their place in the universe. Joli also discusses the concept of the 'NPC' or Not Presently Conscious, challenging listeners to rise above the autopilot mode of existence and intentionally contribute to humanity's collective narrative. The concept of 'desire magnetism'—the idea that strong desires can sometimes have unintended consequences—is also introduced. This serves as a reminder to consciously align our desires with our life goals for more effective personal development. This episode invites viewers to consider deep questions about consciousness, the role of storytelling in understanding our world, and how to live meaningfully amidst technological advancements. Join Joli Artist for an engaging exploration into the essence of consciousness, the significance of storytelling in shaping our reality, and the quest for meaningful existence in a rapidly evolving world. This episode is an invitation to ponder the profound questions that define our reality, offering a beacon for those willing to engage in open thought and challenge the narratives that shape our lives. It is aimed at those interested in philosophy, the impact of technology on society, and personal growth.

Exploring The Dystopian vision in acclaimed TV show "See," starring Jason Momoa, and how its portrayal of a sightless society opens dialogues on perception and human capability. - Defining Reality: Venture beyond the scientific into a conversation about the essence of "real." Inspired by a discussion with an astrophysicist friend, this segment explores the limits of scientific understanding and the mysteries that lie beyond empirical evidence. - Hallucinations and UFOs: Navigate the intriguing domain of experiences science struggles to explain. From personal hallucinations to global UFO sightings, we discuss why we must broaden our lens on reality. - The Internal Monologue and The Power of the Mind: Explore the impact of the internal monologue on our lives and mental health. Is there more to the voices in our heads than we realize? Could understanding them be the key to unlocking a greater sense of reality? - Interdimensional Theories: viewers are encouraged to contemplate the possibility that our reality may be influenced by entities or forces beyond our current understanding. This speculative journey touches on everything from psychic parasites to the collective madness of humanity. For Fans Of: Enthusiasts of Science Fiction, Philosophy, Neuroscience, Paranormal Studies, and anyone with a thirst for exploring the depths of consciousness and the universe. Join Us: If you're fascinated by the edges of known science, speculative fiction, and the deep philosophical questions about existence, "Your One Black Friend" is your go-to podcast. Subscribe and join host Joli as she navigates through these complex topics with insight, humor, and a critical eye. Engage with Us: We love to hear from you! Share your thoughts, experiences, or stories about your encounters with the unknown in the comments. Let's build a community of curious minds and open hearts. Visit Youoneblackfriend.com for more! Tags: #SeeTVShow #Reality #Philosophy #UFOs #Consciousness #MentalHealth #JasonMomoa #ScienceFiction #Podcast #PhilosophyOfReality #ConsciousnessExploration #SeeTVReview #Paranormal #UFOs #Neuroscience #JasonMomoa #SpeculativeFiction #InnerMonologue #Interdimensional

Is Your Life a Favorite Song to Higher Dimensional Beings? | Cosmic Philosophy & The Music of Existence Join Joli and her special guest, The Kosmic Jedi, in this thought-provoking episode of "Your One Black Friend." Dive into discussions on collective consciousness, the role of nature as a teacher, and the concept of being "watchers" in society. Explore the idea of life as a grand symphony, and how we contribute to the harmony or discord of the collective melody. In this episode, Joli Artist and The Kosmic Jedi delve into the philosophical depths of existence, questioning if our lives are akin to music for higher-dimensional beings. Could advanced life forms view human life as unique songs in a cosmic catalog? Imagine a species of advanced, higher-dimensional life forms with lifespans incomprehensibly longer than our own, who have crafted our reality as a form of entertainment. To them, each of our lives is a unique song in a cosmic catalog of their music. Think of a being experiencing your life as you would your favorite symphony. Our planet could simply be one symphonic anthology within a vast, nearly infinite collection of cosmic albums. Can you think of Earth as a constantly evolving musical score, where each species, ecosystem, and geological event contributes its own unique sound to the overall composition? Picture everything on our planet as part of a dynamic, living album that's always playing, with Higher-dimensional beings 'tuning in' to witness the rich variety of melodies created by the interaction of natural and human influences. This concept mirrors Friedrich Nietzsche's Eternal Return, which suggests the universe and everything within it recurs infinitely. It likewise aligns with the Big Bounce theory in cosmology which posits that the universe undergoes continuous cycles of expansion and contraction. Could each “Big Bounce“ cycle be akin to a complex record playing on a device engineered by higher beings? In the future, there will exist a technology that will allow us tweak our favourite songs to fit our tastes perfectly. But what if a similar technology is already shaping our lives, used by whatever engineered or is engineering our reality? In this scenario, our lives would loop like a favourite song, with the device’s technology enabling slight variations with each playback, resulting in subtle differences in every cycle. This would allow for adjustments to our life ‘tracks’ during each loop or “recurrence,” in a manner similar to how you will soon be able to modify your favourite music to suit your exact preferences. Questions Explored: - Can our lives be like music to beings from other dimensions? - What does Nietzsche mean by life repeating forever/eternal occurrence? - Do beings from other worlds watch our lives? - Are we like entertainment to advanced alien civilizations? - Can we think of our lives as songs? - How do deeper ideas change how we see life? - Is there a link between science and spiritual beliefs? - Creative applications of string theory? - How do we fit into the bigger picture of the universe? - Is everything we do part of a bigger cosmic story? - What's cosmic philosophy all about? - How does the idea of life repeating affect us? - Is there proof of higher dimensions? - How can we understand collective consciousness? - What does it mean to be a "watcher" in society? - Can life be compared to a symphony? - What is the significance of being "out of tune" in life? - How does the concept of a hive mind apply to humanity? - Can our life stories be symphonies to other beings? - What are the implications of considering existence as music? -Can science and spirituality find common ground? - How are quantum theory and life's mysteries connected? - Are there other beings aware of us? - What if Earth is just a track in a cosmic album? - How can thinking of life as a symphony change my perspective? - How do philosophy and science help solve life's big mysteries? Youroneblackfriend.com

Join us in this intriguing midweek mini-cast of "Your One Black Friend," where we delve into thought-provoking topics ranging from the Gregorian calendar's impact on our perception of the new year to the fascinating Apple TV show "Silo." Dive into a world of dystopian futures, the possibility of Earth being a silo for another civilization, and the implications of advanced technologies that may lie beyond our current understanding. This episode explores the intriguing question of whether Earth could be a silo, monitored by technologies unknown to us, and discusses themes of retrocausal reincarnation, technological singularity, and the mysterious allure of mirrors. Get ready to expand your mind with discussions on the potential of past civilizations, the philosophical implications of AI, and the enigmatic nature of mirrors as possible monitoring devices. Don't miss this captivating exploration of science fiction, philosophy, and the endless possibilities that question our reality. ### Questions Answered On This Episide: 1. What is the show "Silo" about on Apple TV? 2. Can Earth be considered a silo for another civilization? 3. What is the technological singularity and its implications? 4. Are mirrors possible monitoring devices? 5. How does the Gregorian calendar affect our perception of the new year? 6. What if Earth is actually Venus renamed? 7. Is retrocausal reincarnation possible? 8. Could past civilizations have been more technologically advanced? 9. What are the philosophical implications of AI? 10. How can fiction expand our understanding of reality? More Questions Answered by This Video: 1. Why does the year not truly start in January according to the podcast host? 2. What are the main themes of the Apple TV show "Silo"? 3. How might mirrors act as monitoring devices? 4. What are the implications of viewing Earth as a silo? 5. Could there be technologies that are beyond our current understanding or conceptualization? 6. What is the concept of retrocausal reincarnation? 7. How might past civilizations influence our current technological advancements? 8. Why do some celebrities have issues with mirrors? 9. What could the future hold for technology and human capabilities? 10. How does fiction like "Silo" provoke thought on our reality and potential futures? ### Hashtags for YouTube Tag Section: ``` #SiloAppleTV #DystopianFuture #TechnologicalSingularity #RetrocausalReincarnation #GregorianCalendar #EarthAsSilo #AdvancedCivilizations #AIandPhilosophy #MirrorsMonitoringDevices #ScienceFictionDiscussion ``` Youroneblackfriend.com

In a largely deterministic universe where factors beyond our control influence our lives, Is anything truly anyone’s fault? Similarly, can we genuinely claim credit for our personal achievements or even our traits, beauty, or talents? Consider our existence as semi-sentient beings who have found ourselves in a universe where the causes of what we experience as life are beyond our control. These include the circumstances of our birth, our genetic makeup, the era and culture into which we are born into, etc. Our lives are largely reactions to effects of causes beyond our control. Given this, how can we legitimately take credit or blame for anything? **Navigating Life's Narrative: Insights on Luck, Responsibility, and Change** In this insightful video, we explore the profound realization that much of our life is influenced by factors beyond our control, such as luck and the narratives we're born into. We also explore a thought experiment/unique idea of whether our life stories might possess their own consciousness. we ponder whether we can interact with and influence the direction of our life's narrative. This discussion encourages viewers to consider the power of perspective in accepting the good and bad in life without attributing them to personal faults or credits. Key Takeaways: • The significance of documenting insights upon awakening to retain their impact. • A philosophical examination of luck’s role in our lives and the conscious nature of narratives. • Strategies for engaging with life’s story to influence its direction positively. • The importance of detaching from the emotional weight of outcomes to observe life’s unfolding story. Keywords: Consciousness, Life Narratives, Fate, Luck, Personal Growth, Mindfulness, Narrative Consciousness, Life’s Journey Tags for YouTube: Consciousness, LifeNarratives, Fate, Luck, PersonalGrowth, Mindfulness, NarrativeConsciousness, LifesJourney **What You'll Learn:** - The impact of acknowledging the role of luck in our lives. - The concept of life stories as potentially conscious entities. - Strategies for engaging with your life narrative to influence its direction. - The importance of maintaining an observer's perspective on life's unfolding events. **Keywords:** Life Narrative, Consciousness, Luck, Personal Development, Change, Perspective, Life Lessons **Tags for YouTube:** LifeNarrative, Consciousness, Luck, PersonalDevelopment, Change, Perspective, LifeLessons, Storytelling **Viewer Questions:** 1. How can acknowledging luck change our perception of life's events? 2. Can we truly influence the narrative of our lives? 3. What are the benefits of viewing life from an observer's perspective? 4. How does accepting both good and bad without personal credit or blame impact our mental health? 5. How does detaching from outcomes alter our experience of life’s narrative? 6. Can our life stories be conscious entities? 7. How can we influence the direction of our life narratives? 8. Why should we not take credit for the good or blame for the bad in our lives? 9. What role does luck play in the unfolding of our life stories? This video provides a fresh perspective on the interconnectedness of our experiences, the stories we live, and how acknowledging the broader forces at play can empower us to navigate life more gracefully. Whether you're looking to shift your mindset or find peace in the chaos of existence, these insights offer valuable guidance on embracing the journey with openness and curiosity. youroneblackfriend.com #Philosophy #Selfhelp #LivingIntheMatrix #SimulationTheory #Techno-Philosophy

In this episode, we address how changing/battling against harmful ideas is a more effective strategy than condemning people, who are simply acting under the influence of bad ideas. #philosophy #selfhelp #technophilosophy #thematrixisreal #simulationtheory #metaphysics Youroneblackfriend.com

Join Joli in an empowering discussion on harnessing the power of selective attention to actualise the life you desire. In this episode of "Your One Black Friend," we dive into the concept of "ignoring as bliss," exploring how the strategic overlooking of distractions and negative influences can lead to significant personal growth and achievement. Learn the practical steps to train your mind to focus on your goals, how to set firm boundaries, and the art of mastering self-discipline to navigate towards success. **Title:** "Mastering the Art of Ignoring Sh*t: Transform Your Focus and Achieve Your Goals" **What You Will Learn:** - Techniques to train your mind for selective attention - Strategies for setting clear, achievable goals - The importance of focusing on desired outcomes, not obstacles - Methods to maintain a positive mindset amidst negativity **Questions Answered by This Video:** - How can I improve my focus and ignore distractions? - What are the steps to setting and achieving clear goals? - Can ignoring negative thoughts help me succeed? - How do I maintain a positive focus in negative situations? - What is the power of selective attention in personal development? **Questions Viewers Might Search For:** - How to focus on what you want? - Ways to ignore negative thoughts and distractions? - How to set and achieve personal goals? - Strategies for personal growth and success? - Tips for maintaining positivity in challenging times? If you're inspired to take control of your focus and start manifesting the life you've always wanted, visit our website at youroneblackfriend.com for more resources, tips, and support on your journey to success. Book: So You’re Living In A Simulation: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0CCCMZXQH/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0