Episode 234: Am I a Good Enough Mom? Our Unique Negative Messages and What to do About Them

Today on the podcast, we dive into the Head Triad—Types 5, 6, and 7—and explore their Enneagram lines and arrows, or as we like to call them, their Enneagram Paths.In this episode, we cover Types 5, 6, 7’s:The Stress and Growth Path: Understand what it means to move along these lines during times of stress and growth.The Blind Spot and Converging Points: Discover the often overlooked paths in your Enneagram type and how recognizing them can lead to powerful personal development.Parts of a Whole: Learn how each line and arrow is a path to essential parts of your heart, revealing the full complexity of your personality.Understanding the lines and arrows offers insights into the patterns of behavior that can either propel us forward or hold us back. Whether you’re a 5, 6, or 7, or you know someone who is, this episode sheds light on how these types can navigate life more effectively.Bonus: As a special gift, download our free PDF on Lines and Arrows to deepen your understanding and put these insights into practice.https://drive.google.com/file/d/1J105GMmZJzBwmSlEpFnqzPAOyn3oOOID/view?__s=avmj32602vkus0m24hmz Thank you to our guest:Adam Breckenridge - https://myenneagramcoach.com/coach/adam-breckenridge/ We have many more amazing Enneagram for Moms resources at www.enneagramformoms.com. FREE Enneagram resources here: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/podcastresources Find an Enneagram Coach - https://myenneagramcoach.com/ Become an Enneagram Coach Course - https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/bec #Enneagram #PersonalityTypes #EnneagramCoach

In this episode, we're diving deep into the fascinating world of Lines and Arrows within the Enneagram. We'll explore how these connections reveal patterns of stress and growth in your personality.Key Takeaways:Define Stress and Growth: Understand what it means to move along these lines during stress and growth.Blind Spots and Converging Points: Learn about the often overlooked paths in your Enneagram type and how recognizing them can lead to personal development.Parts of a Whole: We'll explain how each line and arrow is a path to essential parts of your heart, revealing the full complexity of your personality.Thank you to our guest:Adam Breckenridge - https://myenneagramcoach.com/coach/adam-breckenridge/ We have many more amazing Enneagram for Moms resources at www.enneagramformoms.com. FREE Enneagram resources here: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/podcastresources Find an Enneagram Coach - https://myenneagramcoach.com/ Become an Enneagram Coach Course - https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/bec #Enneagram #PersonalityTypes #EnneagramCoach

This week on the podcast, we dive into the intersection of the Enneagram and Attachment Theory with our special guest, Dr. Todd Hall, author of The Connected Life: The Art and Science of Relational Spirituality.During our conversation, we explore how loneliness—now recognized as an epidemic—affects us and how it might manifest differently for each Enneagram type.Tune in to discover:How the Enneagram and Attachment Theory intersect.The surprising ways loneliness impacts your health.Practical steps to combat disconnection in your life and relationships.Thank you to our guest:Adam Breckenridge - https://myenneagramcoach.com/coach/adam-breckenridge/ Dr. Todd HallGo to https://www.relationalspirituality.co/ to find out more about Relational Spirituality Coaching. Find his masterclass here https://www.crowdcast.io/c/rsccsep2024?utm_campaign=rscc_mc_sep4_2024&utm_medium=email&utm_source=twhRelational Spirituality Coaching Certification - https://www.relationalspirituality.co/rscc-earlybirdWe have many more amazing Enneagram for Moms resources at www.enneagramformoms.com. FREE Enneagram resources here: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/podcastresources Find an Enneagram Coach - https://myenneagramcoach.com/ Become an Enneagram Coach Course - https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/bec #Enneagram #PersonalityTypes #EnneagramCoach

This week on the podcast, we’re finishing our series on Enneagram Subtypes with Types 8, 9, and 1.What Are Enneagram Subtypes?Enneagram subtypes are components of the Enneagram system, which divides each type into three subtypes, based on our primary instinctual drive:Self-Preservation: Focuses on personal safety, health, and comfort.Social: Prioritizes group dynamics, social standing, and community relationships.One-to-One (Sexual): Emphasizes deep connections and one-on-one relationships.These subtypes influence how each Enneagram type expresses itself, leading to 27 unique subtype personalities.Tune in to explore the nuances of these Enneagram subtypes with me!Thank you to our guest:Adam Breckenridge - https://myenneagramcoach.com/coach/adam-breckenridge/ We have many more amazing Enneagram for Moms resources at www.enneagramformoms.com. FREE Download of All 29 Instinctual Subtypes - ​​https://drive.google.com/file/d/12Ip8OlCKG9iHrlqrcGPHMbkigyxiWbe3/view?usp=sharing FREE Enneagram resources here: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/podcastresources Find an Enneagram Coach - https://myenneagramcoach.com/ Become an Enneagram Coach Course - https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/bec #Enneagram #PersonalityTypes #EnneagramCoach

This week on the podcast, we’re exploring the Enneagram Instinctual Subtypes with Types 5, 6, & 7.What Are Enneagram Instinctual Subtypes?Enneagram instinctual subtypes are components of the Enneagram system, which divides each type into three subtypes, based on our primary instinctual drive:Self-Preservation: Focuses on personal safety, health, and comfort.Social: Prioritizes group dynamics, social standing, and community relationships.One-to-One (Sexual): Emphasizes deep connections and one-on-one relationships.These instinctual subtypes influence how each Enneagram type expresses itself, leading to 27 unique subtype personalities.Tune in to explore the nuances of these Enneagram instinctual subtypes with me!Thank you to our guest:Adam Breckenridge - https://myenneagramcoach.com/coach/adam-breckenridge/ We have many more amazing Enneagram for Moms resources at www.enneagramformoms.com. FREE Enneagram resources here: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/podcastresources Find an Enneagram Coach - https://myenneagramcoach.com/ Become an Enneagram Coach Course - https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/bec #Enneagram #PersonalityTypes #EnneagramCoach

This week’s episode focuses on Types 2, 3 & 4 instinctual subtypes.What Are Enneagram Instinctual Subtypes?Enneagram instinctual subtypes are components of the Enneagram system, which divides each type into three subtypes, based on our primary instinctual drive:Self-Preservation: Focuses on personal safety, health, and comfort.Social: Prioritizes group dynamics, social standing, and community relationships.One-to-One (Sexual): Emphasizes deep connections and one-on-one relationships.These subtypes influence how each Enneagram type expresses itself, leading to 27 unique instinctual subtype personalities.Tune in to explore the nuances of these Enneagram instinctual subtypes with me!Thank you to our guest:Adam Breckenridge - https://myenneagramcoach.com/coach/adam-breckenridge/ We have many more amazing Enneagram for Moms resources at www.enneagramformoms.com. FREE Enneagram resources here: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/podcastresources Find an Enneagram Coach - https://myenneagramcoach.com/ Become an Enneagram Coach Course - https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/bec #Enneagram #PersonalityTypes #EnneagramCoach

My husband, Jeff McCord, and our director of coaching, Adam Breckenridge, will explore Enneagram Instinctual Subtypes and how they influence our primary Enneagram types. What Are Enneagram Instinctual Subtypes?Enneagram instinctual subtypes are components of the Enneagram system, which divides each type into three subtypes, based on our primary instinctual drive:Self-Preservation: Focuses on personal safety, health, and comfort.Social: Prioritizes group dynamics, social standing, and community relationships.One-to-One (Sexual): Emphasizes deep connections and one-on-one relationships.These subtypes influence how each Enneagram type expresses itself, leading to 27 unique instinctual subtype personalities.Whether you are new to the Enneagram or have been on this journey for a while, this series promises to offer valuable insights and practical knowledge to enhance your understanding and growth.Tune in to explore the nuances of Enneagram instinctual subtypes with Jeff and Adam!Thank you to our guest:Adam Breckenridge - https://myenneagramcoach.com/coach/adam-breckenridge/ We have many more amazing Enneagram for Moms resources at www.enneagramformoms.com. FREE Enneagram resources here: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/podcastresources Find an Enneagram Coach - https://myenneagramcoach.com/ Become an Enneagram Coach Course - https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/bec #Enneagram #PersonalityTypes #EnneagramCoach

I am thrilled to announce a very special episode of our podcast featuring renowned Enneagram expert, teach, and bestselling author, Russ Hudson!In this episode:💡Russ shares about his audiobook, Nine Gateways to Presence.💡We discuss the Enneagram paths, including what I call the Blind Spot and the Convergent Path. (When I was learning about the Enneagram, Russ's insights and teachings about the lines and arrows were a true lightbulb moment for me, and I know they will be for you, too!)💡Russ also shares his legacy within the Enneagram community and where he sees the Enneagram going and growing in the future.This episode is packed with wisdom and inspiration you won't miss! Tune in and be inspired by one of the leading voices in the Enneagram world.Thank you to our guest:Russ Hudson - https://russhudson.com/ His New Book - The Enneagram: The Nine Gateways to Presence https://amzn.to/3LGdmik  We have many more amazing Enneagram for Moms resources at www.enneagramformoms.com. FREE Enneagram resources here: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/podcastresources Find an Enneagram Coach - https://myenneagramcoach.com/ Become an Enneagram Coach Course - https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/bec #Enneagram #PersonalityTypes #EnneagramCoach

This week on the podcast, we’re wrapping up our moms series by tackling one of the biggest questions every mom faces: Am I a good enough mom?Do you ever compare yourself to other moms who seem to possess qualities you wish came naturally to you? Me too. Many of us grapple with feelings of shame, guilt, and insecurity in our roles as nurturers and guides for our children. But these feelings don't have to define our experiences.In this episode: ❣️You’ll learn about negative messages that plague each of the 9 types of moms and perpetuate feelings of inadequacy, doubt, and shame. ❣️I’ll help you discover a path toward hope and encouragement. 💗I hope you’ve enjoyed our podcast series on motherhood. We have many more amazing Enneagram for Moms resources at www.enneagramformoms.com. FREE Enneagram resources here: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/podcastresources Find an Enneagram Coach - https://myenneagramcoach.com/ Become an Enneagram Coach Course - https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/bec #Enneagram #PersonalityTypes #EnneagramCoach

Join me on the Podcast for part 2 of my personal story of parenting with the Enneagram! Learn how the Enneagram has helped me from the baby stages to raising adult kids and now stepping into the role of a grandma.In this episode, I continue my discussion on:Raising Kids: The insights the Enneagram provided as my children developed their personalities.Adult Children: How the Enneagram continues to shape our family dynamics and deepen our relationships.Becoming a Grandma: Embracing this new role with wisdom and compassion informed by the Enneagram.Don’t forget to order your copy of The Enneagram for Moms today to transform your approach to parenting children of all ages! www.enneagramformoms.comThank you to our guests:Amy Wicks - https://www.simplywholehearted.com/ Ro Elliott - Angie Elkins - https://www.chatologie.com/ FREE Enneagram resources here: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/podcastresources Find an Enneagram Coach - https://myenneagramcoach.com/ Become an Enneagram Coach Course - https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/bec #Enneagram #PersonalityTypes #EnneagramCoach