Dad's Update

In this episode of "What’s the Purpose: Dads Unscripted," the crew reflects on the impact Hurricane Melissa had on Jamaica, sharing their emotional reactions to what they witnessed and the mixed responses across social media. The conversation shifts to the fear every parent knows—losing your child in plain sight—followed by a heartwarming story about safely reuniting a wandering child found on the street. The episode closes with a deeper discussion on why, even in moments of crisis and need, some people still resort to perverse or harmful means to survive, prompting questions about systems, desperation, and humanityGovernment of Jamaica:https://supportjamaica.gov.jm/donateODPEM: https://www.odpem.org.jmFood for the Poor Jamaica: https://foodforthepoorja.org/seanpaulfoundationUnited Way: http://support.unitedway.org/page/disasterCuba IFRC Cuba Emergency Appealhttps://www.ifrc.org/emergency/cuba-hurricane-melissaHaitihttps://www.unicef.org/appeals/haitihttps://www.wfp.org/emergencies/haiti-emergencyHurricane Melissa relief https://crisisrelief.un.org/en/hurricane-melissahttps://www.redcross.ca/how-we-help/current-emergency-responses/hurricane-melissa#jamaica #hurricanemelissa #cuba #haiti #podcast #dadsunscripted #dadlife #dadlifematters #blackdadsmatter

The crew is back and ready to dive in. After some time away from recording, the dads reconnect and share life updates, reflecting on what’s changed, what’s stayed the same, and how the time off shaped their perspectives. It’s a laid-back check-in that sets the tone for the conversations ahead—real, honest, and unscripted.

In this personal touch and often hilarious episode, the dads reflect on what it really means to connect with their kids, and why intentional one-on-one time matters so much. From donut dates to nature walk shenanigans, they share the everyday moments that build trust, spark laughter, and allow for real connection.They explore how group dynamics differ from one-on-one time, how each child reflects a part of you, and why showing vulnerability with your kids isn’t weakness—it’s love. The conversation turns nostalgic as they recall their childhoods and how those experiences shape the way they now parent. Whether it's sliding down an apple or recognizing your kid as “you before the world jaded you,” this episode is a reminder to slow down, lean in, and find a strong branch to connect through.Timestamps:00:00 – BTS00:48 – Intro01:47 – Episode 1202:11 – Thinking, and the thought leaves you03:34 – How do you connect with your kids04:30 – Donut06:49 – Nature walk shenanigans10:03 – The perfect mango12:21 – Apple slide15:35 – Show what our childhood was like16:25 – The oldest had more time17:45 – Kids in group vs. 1-on-119:00 – The cousins together22:29 – The plus one in sport reflects you24:28 – They all have pieces of you27:50 – Tuck tail30:27 – Don’t understand why you wouldn’t want to be with your kids31:00 – They are you before the world jaded you34:30 – Learn how their personality works35:45 – Glimpses of maternity41:32 – Holding them to a standard44:28 – Just try! And learn your kids46:18 – It’s ok to show your emotionsSupported by Oddside Arts

In Episode 11 of "What's the Purpose: Dads Unscripted," the crew travels back in time to share the advice they’d give their 8–to 12-year-old selves. Reflecting on the importance of consistency, discipline, and guidance, they dive into how the lessons—both tough and tender—shaped who they are today. They unpack childhood challenges, the logic behind “who can’t hear must feel,” and the delicate balance of teaching humility and gratefulness to the next generation.The dads also examine the “gift and curse” of giving their children the lives they wished they had, while reminding themselves—and us—of the power of appreciation, especially for grandparents and those who show up without obligation. From resisting the pressure to follow the crowd to understanding the speed of time, this episode is packed with wisdom, self-reflection, and encouragement to slow down, be present, and find joy in the journey.Timestamps:00:00 Welcome00:28 Intro01:05 Consistency = Success03:00 Guidance to your 8–12-year-old self04:00 Thinking back on the hard guidance05:19 How guidance shaped you07:30 Who can’t hear ago feel08:39 The lesson of logic11:11 Teaching humility & gratefulness12:58 Gift & curse of giving the life you wanted15:40 Takeaway is to be appreciative16:42 Appreciation of grandparents19:28 They don’t have to do it21:00 Be present, be you! Don’t follow26:26 Are you a planner? Routine?29:12 Why does time feel faster as you age?31:00 Graceful way to get things done34:13 Find joy – final message35:00 Drive slow (outro)#blackfatherhood #AdviceToMyYoungerSelf #parentingpodcast #girldad #boydad #DadsUnscripted #WhatsThePurposePodcast #fatherhood

In this heartfelt episode of "What's the Purpose: Dads Unscripted," the crew reflects on one powerful question: What have your kids taught you? From the early days of parenting to real-time lessons in patience, passion, and accountability—this episode explores how children shape us just as much as we shape them.They touch on everything from confronting big emotions to the softness that fatherhood brings, the mirror effect of kids reflecting our actions, and how to stay firm yet loving in today’s world. The conversation dives deep into raising resilient kids, handling danger with calm, and preparing ourselves to prepare them. Plus, there’s talk of street smarts, modern distractions, and learning to lead by example.This one’s packed with wisdom, vulnerability, and real dad talk.🎧 Tap in—you might learn something from your kids, too.#WhatsThePurposePod #DadsUnscripted #FatherhoodLessons #RealDadTalk #ParentingPodcast #GrowthThroughFatherhood #JamaicanFathers #blackfathersmatter Announcement 0:00Jr Gong 0:17Intro 0:43What have your kids taught you 1:59Patience 2:45Following passion 4:59Accountability 7:18Consistent 10:54Navigating new age preoccupation 14:00Confronting big emotions 16:36The softness 18:50Strong and firm 19:06Mirroring effect 20:40The reaction to danger 25:08Prepare myself to prepare them 30:11 Resilient 31:45Street-side Knowledge 33:23Recap 36:20

In this episode of "What's the Purpose: Dads Unscripted," the crew takes a thoughtful dive into the journey of growing older and maturing. They explore how priorities shift over time—both physically and mentally—as you start to truly learn your body, redefine your roles, and recognize the power of slowing down. The conversation unpacks the balance between being selfish, self-focused, or simply putting self first, and digs into the difference between just aging and actually maturing. It's a grounded and reflective conversation that every man navigating growth can relate to

In this episode of "What's the Purpose: Dads Unscripted," the crew takes a deep dive into their upbringing, reflecting on what it was like growing up in Jamaica versus Canada. They explore the cultural similarities that connect them as Jamaicans, from the way they were raised to the mentality they’ve carried into adulthood. From houses to rain, they unpack the nuances of home life, the contrast between the entrepreneur vs. hustler mindset, and even attempt to keep tally of the beatings they got as kids. It’s a nostalgic, eye-opening, and hilarious conversation about heritage, discipline, and the lessons that shaped them.

In this episode of "What's the Purpose: Dads Unscripted," what starts as a seemingly random conversation quickly finds its rhythm, weaving through topics that unexpectedly connect. The crew dives into the essentials of cleaning and hygiene, debates the practicality of black socks, and weighs in on the ever-polarizing Crocs. From shoes to personal style, the discussion flows effortlessly, proving that even the most casual chats can reveal deeper insights.

In this episode of "What's the Purpose: Dads Unscripted," the crew reconnects after a delayed recording and a whirlwind of life events. The show begins with a charming interruption from a couple of little visitors before diving into the challenges and hilarity of taking kids to the grocery store. They share laughs over sparkling water and explore the athlete mindset required to consistently maintain fitness routines while embracing the reality of the dad bod. It’s a candid and relatable check-in filled with humor, heart, and authentic conversations. https://www.mystiquetherapy.ca/

In this episode of "What's the Purpose: Dads Unscripted," the crew dives into the question: Is it important to live on your own before moving in with a partner? Sharing personal stories of independence, they reflect on how living solo shaped their self-sufficiency—including a standout story about the importance of washing the meat, which inspired the episode's title. The conversation shifts to lighter topics like matching outfits with a partner and what it means to have a fashionable range. The episode wraps up with reflections on the growth and self-discovery that come from living on your own.