Having High Standards vs Being realistic

In your 20s, you’re often told to have high standards in life, relationships, and career choices. But what happens when those high standards clash with reality? Today we’ll explore how to find balance between maintaining your ideals and being realistic about what’s achievable, especially during this transformative decade of your life.

In today’s episode, we dive deep into the common misconception that dating multiple people is essential for finding your perfect match. Let’s face it, the pressure to play the field can be overwhelming, especially when everyone around you seems to have a dating history. Join us as we explore healthier ways to understand your desires and values in relationships without the unnecessary comparison that dating around brings. Remember, it’s not about quantity but quality. Check out our sponsor Dandle Spa and use code TRUTH20 to save 20% on skincare!Our new podcast handlehttps://www.instagram.com/truthforyour20s/Follow Katie on instahttps://www.instagram.com/katiebulmerlife/Follow Shayna on Instahttps://www.instagram.com/webbchatts/

Honestly, most of us spend our 20s switching majors, job-hopping, and questioning if we're on the right path. It’s messy, unpredictable — and totally normal. Your calling isn’t a one-time discovery; it’s an evolving journey and definitely something worth chatting about.Check out our sponsor Dandle Spa and use code TRUTH20 to save 20% on skincare!Our new podcast handlehttps://www.instagram.com/truthforyour20s/Follow Katie on instahttps://www.instagram.com/katiebulmerlife/Follow Shayna on Instahttps://www.instagram.com/webbchatts/

They tell you to chase your dreams…But also be practical.To take risks…But don’t mess up.To “have fun”…But also somehow have your whole life figured out??So… is any of it actually true?In this episode we unpack:✨ The pressure to have it all figured out✨ Career confusion + taking bold risks✨ Why sunscreen is NOT optional (yes, we said it)✨ Faith, growth, and trusting God in the unknownIf you’ve ever felt behind, confused, or like everyone else got a manual you didn’t… this one’s for you.Skincare you can feel good about. Save 20% with code TRUTH20Our new podcast handlehttps://www.instagram.com/truthforyour20s/Follow Katie on instahttps://www.instagram.com/katiebulmerlife/Follow Shayna on Instahttps://www.instagram.com/webbchatts/

Feeling burnt out? You’re not alone! 😩 the "everything decade" is tough, and it’s easy to feel like you're behind. But here’s the truth: it’s never too late to reset! Check out affordable non toxic skincare and save 20% with code TRUTH20Our new podcast handlehttps://www.instagram.com/truthforyour20s/Follow Katie on instahttps://www.instagram.com/katiebulmerlife/Follow Shayna on Instahttps://www.instagram.com/web

We all know pain during childbirth was a result of sin, but did you know there is also another curse no one is talking about?Follow Katie on instahttps://www.instagram.com/katiebulmerlife/Follow Shayna on Instahttps://www.instagram.com/webbchatts/

Being an adult takes grace — and I wish someone had told me that earlier. Let go of the timelines, you're figuring it out one step at a time. ✨You’re not behind. You’re exactly where you’re supposed to be.Our new podcast handlehttps://www.instagram.com/truthforyour20s/Follow Katie on instahttps://www.instagram.com/katiebulmerlife/Follow Shayna on Instahttps://www.instagram.com/webbchat

Ever felt like everyone else is just braver than you? In this episode, we break down the myth that some people are just born courageous. The truth? Bravery is a muscle you can build! Let's share our experiences and support one another. Our new podcast handlehttps://www.instagram.com/truthforyour20s/Follow Katie on instahttps://www.instagram.com/katiebulmerlife/Follow Shayna on Instahttps://www.instagram.com/webbchatts/

Have you ever felt like your significant other should just "know" what you need? Spoiler: they can't read your mind! Healthy relationships thrive on open communication, not guesswork. This goes for romantic relationships and even co-workers. Today's episode helps gives language to communicating what matters to you.Links we mention in today's episode:Why behind the wait podcast episode Our new podcast handlehttps://www.instagram.com/truthforyour20s/Follow Katie on instahttps://www.instagram.com/katiebulmerlife/Follow Shayna on Instahttps://www.instagram.com/webbchatts/

Have you ever asked, "but what do I say?"You are not alone. From relationships to job interviews what to say can leave us crippled in fear.Today we help give language around the hard things to talk about in life. Quotes: "Clarity is kindness." Links we mention in today's episode:Our new podcast handlehttps://www.instagram.com/truthforyour20s/Follow Katie on instahttps://www.instagram.com/katiebulmerlife/Follow Shayna on Instahttps://www.instagram.com/webbchatts/