10 things I wish I had know before I turned 20

In this episode, Stephen Martin reflects on ten important lessons he wishes he had known at 20, drawing from his experiences with dyslexia and ADHD. He emphasizes the importance of understanding cause and effect, the power of visualization, reframing personal narratives, and the significance of being present. He also discusses the benefits of gene testing, balancing routine with novelty, practicing self-compassion, embracing individual differences, setting annual visions, and prioritizing health early on. These insights aim to guide listeners towards personal growth and self-improvement.TakeawaysYou suck at cause and effect.Perfection is just a perspective.Everything is a story we tell ourselves.Get more present.Gene testing has been so helpful.Balance the need for routine and novelty.Be kind to yourself.We're all kind of the same, but we're all different.Setting a vision each year is crucial.Get health in check quicker.Keywordsdyslexia, ADHD, life lessons, self-improvement, mental health, personal growth, visualization, self-compassion, health insights, neurodiversity, adults with dyslexia.If you want to find out more visit:⁠⁠truthaboutdyslexia.com⁠⁠⁠Join our Facebook Group⁠⁠facebook.com/groups/adultdyslexia

In this conversation, Stephen Martin shares a personal story that illustrates the challenges faced by individuals with dyslexia, particularly in emotional and relational contexts. He recounts an incident where a misunderstanding with his girlfriend escalated due to his dyslexic tendencies, leading to a reflection on the importance of awareness and communication in relationships. Through this narrative, he emphasizes how understanding one's own mental processes can significantly improve interactions and reduce conflict.TakeawaysAwareness of dyslexia can help temper emotional reactions.Visual thinking can lead to rapid, sometimes irrational responses.Communication is key in relationships, especially with dyslexia.Taking a moment to breathe can change the outcome of a situation.Misunderstandings can escalate quickly without clear communication.Dyslexics may experience heightened emotional responses to minor incidents.Building awareness of one's thought processes is crucial.Explaining feelings visually can aid in better understanding.Small changes in behavior can lead to significant improvements in relationships.Personal experiences can provide valuable lessons for others.Keywordsdyslexia, personal story, awareness, relationships, communication, emotional reactions, understanding, mental health, ADHD, adults with dyslexia.If you want to find out more visit:⁠⁠truthaboutdyslexia.com⁠⁠⁠Join our Facebook Group⁠⁠facebook.com/groups/adultdyslexia

In this conversation, Stephen Martin discusses the unique challenges dyslexics face in relationships, particularly in communication. He emphasizes the importance of understanding narrative thinking versus logical thinking, and how this can lead to misunderstandings between partners. Stephen shares personal experiences and offers practical advice on how to improve communication and build awareness in relationships involving dyslexia.TakeawaysDyslexics often communicate in longer narratives rather than succinct answers.Misunderstandings in communication can lead to frustration and conflict.It's crucial for partners to understand the dyslexic's thought process.Background noise can hinder a dyslexic's ability to process information.Awareness of dyslexia's impact on communication is vital for relationship success.Partners should be encouraged to pause and engage in focused conversations.Dyslexics may react negatively when interrupted during concentration.Communication challenges can be addressed through open discussions.Support and understanding from partners can improve relationship dynamics.Creating a support group for dyslexics can foster community and understanding.Keywordsdyslexia, relationships, communication, narrative thinking, understanding, support, awareness, challenges, partners, love, ADHD, adults with dyslexia.If you want to find out more visit:⁠⁠truthaboutdyslexia.com⁠⁠⁠Join our Facebook Group⁠⁠facebook.com/groups/adultdyslexia

Dyslexia is hereditary and often doesn’t skip generations. The speaker shares their personal journey of discovering their own dyslexia and later realizing their father, unknowingly dyslexic, had struggled with similar challenges. Traits once misunderstood—like blunt speech, social withdrawal, and avoidance behaviors—were actually linked to dyslexia. This newfound understanding strengthened their relationship and provided clarity.TakeawaysDyslexia is Hereditary – It often runs in families and typically doesn’t skip generations.Late Diagnosis is Common – Many adults, like the speaker’s father, may be dyslexic without realizing it.Misunderstood Traits – Social struggles, blunt speech, and avoidance behaviors can stem from dyslexia.Awareness Improves Relationships – Understanding dyslexia can foster empathy and better connections with loved ones.Self-Discovery is Important – Listeners are encouraged to explore their family history and seek resources for better understanding.KeywordsDyslexia, Hereditary, Family history, Late diagnosis, Social challenges, Misunderstood traits, Self-awareness, Empathy, Neurodiversity, Dyslexia resources, ADHD, adults with dyslexia.If you want to find out more visit:⁠⁠truthaboutdyslexia.com⁠⁠⁠Join our Facebook Group⁠⁠facebook.com/groups/adultdyslexia

In this podcast, Stephen Martin discusses the unique strengths and 'superpowers' that dyslexics possess. He emphasizes creativity, problem-solving abilities, and social interaction skills as key advantages. Stephen shares personal experiences and insights on how being dyslexic has shaped his approach to communication and visual learning. He encourages listeners to embrace their dyslexia and recognize their strengths, while also acknowledging the challenges that come with it.TakeawaysDyslexics often have unique strengths that can be seen as superpowers.Creativity is a significant advantage for dyslexics in problem-solving.Dyslexics can visualize solutions and think outside the box.Social interactions can be easier for dyslexics due to fewer barriers.Verbal communication skills can be stronger than written skills for dyslexics.Visual learning aids in memory and navigation for dyslexics.Awareness of dyslexia can help individuals leverage their strengths.Building a supportive team can enhance success for dyslexics.Accepting weaknesses is crucial for personal growth.Dyslexics should recognize their different way of thinking as valuable.Keywordsdyslexia, superpowers, creativity, problem solving, social skills, verbal communication, visual learning, strengths, awareness, ADHD, adults with dyslexia.If you want to find out more visit:⁠⁠truthaboutdyslexia.com⁠⁠⁠Join our Facebook Group⁠⁠facebook.com/groups/adultdyslexia

In this conversation, Stephen Martin and Vanessa discuss the unique cognitive experiences of individuals with dyslexia, particularly focusing on the phenomenon of picture thinking. They explore how dyslexics often create vivid mental images that can lead to misunderstandings in communication and perception of reality. The discussion emphasizes the importance of awareness and acceptance of these cognitive differences, and how they influence emotions and reactions in everyday situations.TakeawaysDyslexics often think in pictures, creating vivid mental worlds.This picture thinking can lead to misunderstandings in communication.Awareness of one's own picture thinking is crucial for clarity.Dyslexics may react based on imagined scenarios rather than reality.The emotional response can be driven by the pictures in one's mind.Listening to stories can create immersive experiences for dyslexics.Dyslexia can cause uncertainty in understanding spoken information.Picture thinking can lead to confusion in social situations.Recognizing the difference between reality and imagination is important.Dyslexics can benefit from tools that help them navigate their unique thinking style.keywordsdyslexia, picture thinking, reality perception, awareness, communication, cognitive differences, emotional influence, learning styles, ADHD, adults with dyslexiaIf you want to find out more visit:⁠⁠truthaboutdyslexia.com⁠⁠⁠Join our Facebook Group⁠⁠facebook.com/groups/adultdyslexia

In this episode, we explore the emotional highs and lows that come with dyslexia. Some days, everything flows smoothly, and life feels amazing. Other days, it feels like you've hit a wall, struggling to find motivation or purpose. I share my personal experiences, coping mechanisms, and insights from my dyslexia coach on the importance of purpose.We also dive into how supplements like 5-HTP might help regulate mood and reduce anxiety. If you’ve ever felt these ups and downs, know that you’re not alone—this is part of how the dyslexic mind works. Tune in for insights, strategies, and encouragement.TakeawaysEmotional highs and lows are common with dyslexia – It’s not just you!Purpose matters – The dyslexic brain thrives when it understands why it’s doing something.Coping strategies help – Finding what works for you (e.g., movement, rest, supplements) can make a big difference.5-HTP & serotonin – Exploring ways to support brain chemistry can help balance moods.Acceptance is key – Learning to work with, not against, dyslexia can improve well-being.KeywordDyslexia challenges, Emotional regulation, Neurodiversity awareness, Mental health and dyslexia, Coping with dyslexia, ADHD and dyslexia overlap, Anxiety and dyslexia, Brain chemistry and mood balance, Dyslexia self-help, Productivity with dyslexia, adults with dyslexia,If you want to find out more visit:⁠⁠truthaboutdyslexia.com⁠⁠⁠Join our Facebook Group⁠⁠facebook.com/groups/adultdyslexia

In this episode, Stephen explores the concept of mimicking, also known as mirroring—often used in sales and relationship-building. However, for dyslexics, this behavior can go beyond a strategy and become a way to fit in, sometimes at the cost of personal identity. Stephen shares his personal experiences of how mimicking has shaped his work and relationships, highlighting both its benefits and challenges. He encourages listeners to become aware of their own mirroring tendencies and question whether they align with their true selves. Tune in for this insightful discussion!TakeawaysMimicking (or Mirroring) Helps Build Connections – This technique is often used in sales and relationships to make others feel more comfortable.Dyslexics May Use Mimicking as a Coping Mechanism -- Many dyslexics, including Stephen, have unconsciously developed this skill to fit in and reduce social anxiety.It Can Lead to a Loss of Identity – Constantly mirroring others may create a disconnect between your true self and the persona you present to the world.Awareness is Key – Recognizing when and why you mimic can help you decide whether it serves you or if it's masking your authentic self.Balancing Adaptability and Authenticity – While mimicking can introduce new experiences and positive habits, it’s important to ensure it doesn’t compromise who you truly are.Personal Growth Comes from Self-Reflection – Becoming mindful of these behaviors can help you feel more confident and grounded in your true identity.A Simple but Powerful Tool – Mimicking can be useful when done intentionally, but understanding its impact on your self-perception is crucial.KeywordsMimicking, Mirroring, Dyslexia and identity, Social adaptation, Fitting in, Building connections, Sales techniques, Relationship dynamics, Self-awareness, Coping mechanisms, Authenticity vs. adaptation, Personal growth, Social anxiety, Workplace behavior, Behavioral patterns, ADHD, adults with dyslexia, support for adults.If you want to find out more visit:⁠⁠truthaboutdyslexia.com⁠⁠⁠Join our Facebook Group⁠⁠facebook.com/groups/adultdyslexia

This script introduces a new quiz on the website truthaboutdyslexia.com, designed for adult dyslexics or their partners. The quiz aims to help individuals identify if they relate to certain characteristics of adult dyslexia, offering a simple, mobile-friendly format. The creator encourages feedback on the quiz, which is still a work in progress, and invites participants to share their thoughts, join a community on Facebook, and contribute to the project. The goal is to reduce anxiety, build confidence, and help adults with dyslexia create more order in their lives.Takeaways New Adult Dyslexia Quiz: A simple, mobile-friendly quiz is available on the website truthaboutdyslexia.com, designed to help adult dyslexics reflect on their experiences. Focus on Adult Characteristics: The quiz highlights adult dyslexia traits, differing from typical youth-focused assessments. Request for Feedback: The project is still in its early stages, and feedback is encouraged to improve the quiz and make it more valuable for users. Community Engagement: Participants are invited to join the Facebook community, share their thoughts, and contribute to the project. Goal to Reduce Anxiety and Increase Confidence: The quiz aims to help adults with dyslexia feel more confident, reduce anxiety, and bring more order to their lives. Keywordsdyslexia quiz, dyslexia test, adult dyslexia characteristics, community project, reduce anxiety, build confidence, awareness, life clarity, adults with dyslexia, support for adults.If you want to find out more visit:⁠⁠truthaboutdyslexia.com⁠⁠⁠Join our Facebook Group⁠⁠facebook.com/groups/adultdyslexia

In this podcast episode, Stephen Martin shares personal updates on his journey with dyslexia and ADHD, emphasizing the importance of community support and prioritizing health. He discusses his experiences with ADHD medications, the impact of lifestyle changes, and the potential of AI in career development. Stephen encourages listeners to seek help, stay focused on their goals, and not give up in the face of challenges.TakeawaysGetting help from others is crucial for progress.Prioritizing health can lead to better energy and focus.Setting clear priorities helps in decision-making.Exploring new dietary approaches can impact mental health.AI skills are becoming essential in the job market.ADHD medications can significantly improve cognitive function.Meditation can provide valuable mental clarity.Community support can alleviate feelings of isolation.It's important to adapt and change strategies as needed.Persistence is key in overcoming challenges.Keywordsdyslexia, ADHD, mental health, community support, personal growth, prioritization, health, ADHD medication, career advice, adults with dyslexia, support for adults.If you want to find out more visit:⁠⁠truthaboutdyslexia.com⁠⁠⁠Join our Facebook Group⁠⁠facebook.com/groups/adultdyslexia