The Comparison Trap in 2025: How to Stay Rooted When Everyone Else is 'Winning'

Hey sisters! On this week’s episode, your resident online sisters review 2025 so far, and share their biggest lessons on self-care, mindset, and spirituality. They also discuss what locking in can look like no matter how your year has started. 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to https://www.tomysisters.com/dilemmas Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey sisters! On this week’s episode, your resident online sisters unpack the rise of the “feel-good” gospel and ask: Has the pursuit of self-healing overshadowed the pursuit of holiness? Together, we explore the tension between comfort and conviction, self-care and spiritual depth. How do we balance healing our hearts while staying rooted in faith? Join us as we reclaim true transformation that goes beyond surface-level peace to deep, lasting change.💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to https://www.tomysisters.com/dilemmas Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we’re taking a look at the comparison trap that’s louder than ever in 2025. We see everyone’s highlight reels—but how do we keep our feet grounded when the pressure to “win” feels constant? Together, we explore tools to protect our peace, embrace our unique journeys, and remind ourselves that true success is personal, not a competition. Let’s break free from social media’s illusions and build roots that hold strong.💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to https://www.tomysisters.com/dilemmas Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The sisters are pulling back the curtain this week 👀 — we’re unpacking the real cost of the “soft life.” From overpriced facials to the ever-growing list of hygiene must-haves, is self-care becoming another trap? We’re questioning whether we’re prioritising rest or just repackaging hustle under a prettier name. Let’s talk maintenance, marketing, and the pressure to present perfection in a world where wellness is big business..💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to https://www.tomysisters.com/dilemmas Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week’s episode, the sisters are diving into the rise of women who are choosing themselves, delaying motherhood, or opting out of parenthood altogether. Whether it’s to pursue purpose, protect peace, or simply honour personal choice, we explore the societal pressures, unspoken judgments, and growing freedom to define womanhood on our own terms.💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to https://www.tomysisters.com/dilemmas Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sisters, it’s time for a life detox! 🧘🏾‍♀️ In this episode, we’re unpacking how to let go of the people, habits, and environments that are draining your energy and no longer align with the woman you're becoming. From decluttering your space to releasing emotional baggage — we’re doing the work together. Whether it’s past friendships, toxic patterns, or just some serious overthinking, we’re learning how to say goodbye without guilt and hello to peace.💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to https://www.tomysisters.com/dilemmas Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we catch you up on life lately, and ask the provocative question: Do Men Hate Women? We unpack the deeper truths behind settling, attraction, and preferences in modern relationships. We explore the complex tension between societal standards and personal desires and we also confront the uncomfortable reality of Christian women giving God bad PR when marriage is presented as a life of suffering rather than partnership. With honesty and care, we discuss how fear, pressure, and romanticised ideals can lead women to settle for less than they deserve, and whether God can genuinely shift our desires, including how we view physical attraction.💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to https://www.tomysisters.com/dilemmas Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’ve never been more ‘connected’—so why do so many of us still feel lonely? 😞 From social media to the decline of deep friendships, we’re unpacking why modern women feel so isolated and how to build meaningful sisterhood in a world full of surface-level connections.💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to https://www.tomysisters.com/dilemmas Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sisters, why do we feel so guilty for saying NO? 😩 It’s time to unlearn people-pleasing and start setting boundaries that protect our peace—without feeling bad about it. In this episode, we break down why women struggle to enforce limits, how to communicate them clearly, and why saying ‘no’ isn’t being difficult—it’s self-respect.💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to https://www.tomysisters.com/dilemmas Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You worked hard, hit your goals, and achieved the success you dreamed of—but why do you still feel unfulfilled? In this episode, we unpack the hidden cost of ambition, why external wins won’t fix deep insecurities, and how to prioritize peace over validation.💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemma to https://www.tomysisters.com/dilemmas Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.