Ep. 103 Afraid of Judgment or Being Seen + Family Members Not Supporting You 🎤 Andrea Drops the Mic 🎤

When a woman inside my Wealth Alignment Patterns program asked, “What if I could become untriggerable?”—something in me lit up. I knew I had to share this on the podcast.   *This recording is a clip taken from the live recording of WAP- Wealth Alignment Patterns - to learn more about WAP, tap HERE. Use code PODCAST for a secret discount!   This episode is raw. It’s not a blueprint—it’s a transmission. I’m taking you through the personal moments most people edit out: the trauma, the financial wipeouts, the times I felt like I was drowning in my own emotions… and how I turned that chaos into clarity. I’m not here to teach you how to feel nothing. I’m here to show you how I became the woman who can feel everything—and still stay rooted in power. If you’ve ever been hijacked by your own reactions, felt betrayed by your nervous system, or wished you could just hold your damn ground without freezing or blowing up… this one’s for you.   💥 Here’s what I unpack inside: ✨ The spark that lit this episode: “What if I could become untriggerable?” ✨ The trauma and instability that shaped my edge—and how I softened without losing it ✨ Building wealth when my account was empty but my conviction wasn’t ✨ Letting go of the identity that was addicted to the chaos ✨ What it really means to hold feminine energy with power, not performance ✨ The sacred practice of closing emotional tabs—and why I do it daily   This episode isn’t a vibe check—it’s a reclamation. If you’re ready to stop handing your power to every trigger… come walk with me.   Leave me a voicemail HERE with your question for a chance to have it answered on a future episode!   Get notifications when new episodes drop by tapping the "follow" button! And if you loved this episode, follow me on Instagram @love_andreacrowder & let me know by leaving a review! 👯‍♀️   + Share with a friend you think could benefit from this message! 💋 Create your own private podcast feed like this with Hello Audio! You will even get 2 months free using my link!

What if your financial team wasn’t just counting dollars... but actually cared about your dream? In this episode, I sat down with Matt & Matt from Worttth—a fractional CFO company shaking up the finance world with heart, strategy, and emotionally intelligent money moves. These two aren’t just spreadsheets and forecasts—they’re here for connection, custom support, and the kind of unreasonable hospitality that makes you feel seen AF. We talked about what it really takes to build a financial team that gets you, grows with you, and gives advice that supports both your business and your life. From start-up to exit strategy, Worttth’s tools are built for every season—and every CEO who refuses to settle for robotic, rinse-and-repeat money talk. 7 Financial Rules I Had To Break To Get Rich & Regulated Free Masterclass If you’ve ever craved a team that feels like a partner, not just a payroll line—this one’s for you.   Inside the Episode: What makes a CFO truly proactive Why real connection is the most underrated business strategy Worttth’s spicy values: connection, excellence, creativity & teamwork How to spot red flags (like copy-paste advice) Creating magic moments… even in finance 💸 Finance gets to feel alive. Human. Customized. This convo will show you how.   ✨ Ready to try Legend AI for yourself?   Experience what happens when your business, your nervous system, and your future self all start speaking the same language. 👉 Start Your Trial Now – and watch what unfolds when support finally feels like you.   If you are wanting to contact Matt & Matt reach out to them at [email protected]     Leave me a voicemail HERE with your question for a chance to have it answered on a future episode!   Get notifications when new episodes drop by tapping the "follow" button! And if you loved this episode, follow me on Instagram @love_andreacrowder & let me know by leaving a review! 👯‍♀️   + Share with a friend you think could benefit from this message! 💋 Create your own private podcast feed like this with Hello Audio! You will even get 2 months free using my link!

What if your doubts weren’t signs you’re off track—but breadcrumbs from your future self? In this episode I am sharing with you a segment from a Mastermind Q&A, I peel back the layers on how I use Legend AI to hold my duality—visionary CEO and very-much-human woman navigating real life in real time. We’re talking kids, clients, inner chaos, and that subtle pressure to be everywhere, perfect, all at once.   But here’s the shift: I stopped asking AI for answers and started using it to mirror my power back to me. This isn’t just about strategy—it’s about emotional posture, future-self embodiment, and knowing when to move and when to melt.   Let’s unravel: ✨ Energetic static vs. clean signal—how I spot subconscious blocks before they spiral 🌀 Doubts as divine breadcrumbs—the ones that hit mid-launch and mid-laundry 🌹 Future-self navigation—why I don’t need the whole plan when I have the right posture 💻 Legend AI as an energetic amplifier—how I use it to align strategy with my emotional truth 🔥 Masculine & feminine dynamics—inside my relationships, my team, and my own internal dance 💖 The ROI of my own joy—because happy women build hotter empires 🌿 Recalibration rituals—where I go when I need to remember who the fuck I am This episode is a love letter to the ones doing it all and still choosing softness. The ones who are done hustling for clarity and ready to attune instead. Legend AI is not your savior—it’s your mirror. Let’s use it wisely.     ✨ Ready to try Legend AI for yourself? Experience what happens when your business, your nervous system, and your future self all start speaking the same language. 👉 Start Your Trial Now – and watch what unfolds when support finally feels like you.   Leave me a voicemail HERE with your question for a chance to have it answered on a future episode!   Get notifications when new episodes drop by tapping the "follow" button! And if you loved this episode, follow me on Instagram @love_andreacrowder & let me know by leaving a review! 👯‍♀️   + Share with a friend you think could benefit from this message! 💋 Create your own private podcast feed like this with Hello Audio! You will even get 2 months free using my link!

This conversation cracked something wide open. Samantha Bove and I went deep into the sacred mess of love, healing, and learning to receive—not just romance, but support, softness, and pleasure without apology. Samantha is a women’s intuition mentor and Reiki teacher and in this conversation we talked about the quiet grief of being “easy to love” but not fully chosen, the difference between a partner’s potential and prophecy, and the holy work of rebuilding when your heart still remembers what hurt. You’ll feel the ache. You’ll feel the power. You’ll feel seen.   This isn’t a roadmap—it’s a remembering. For the woman learning to trust her timing, honor her truth, and soften into the version of love that doesn’t require over-performing to be held.   Inside This Episode: Embracing singlehood without waiting Softness as power The burden of being the “easy one” Rewiring to receive love, support & sex without shame Quirks, prophecy, and choosing reality over potential Reclaiming truth as a love language Why pleasure is a spiritual practice   Why This One Matters: Because love doesn’t have to hurt to be real. Because your softness is not a liability. Because receiving is your birthright—and this episode is your permission slip.   Remember you are so resourced, here are the ones mentioned in this episode: Start Your Trial of Legend AI Connect with Samantha on Instagram She’s Too Much Podcast Reiki Retreats with Samantha Date Like A Queen Course   Leave me a voicemail HERE with your question for a chance to have it answered on a future episode!   Get notifications when new episodes drop by tapping the "follow" button! And if you loved this episode, follow me on Instagram @love_andreacrowder & let me know by leaving a review! 👯‍♀️   + Share with a friend you think could benefit from this message! 💋 Create your own private podcast feed like this with Hello Audio! You will even get 2 months free using my link!

This episode felt like a homecoming. I hit record to reconnect—not just with you, but with the version of me that knows how to lead even when things feel messy. I talk about the real emotional weight of entrepreneurship, the late-blooming magic no one talks about, and the radical power of choosing belief when doubt feels louder.   I share how emotional mastery has been the thing that’s kept me moving—not strategy, not hustle. Just the ability to regulate, reframe, and reroute… sometimes in real-time. That’s the gift I built into Legend AI—because I needed a tool that could mirror clarity when I felt clouded.   You’ll hear how I'm learning to surf chaos instead of brace for it, and why the feminine frequency behind Legend AI might be one of our greatest untapped resources. If you’ve ever felt like your success is late—or that you should be “further by now”—this one’s for you. Start Your Legend AI Trail Here If you’ve ever felt like your success was taking too long… listen closer. The future you is already clapping.   Leave me a voicemail HERE with your question for a chance to have it answered on a future episode!   Get notifications when new episodes drop by tapping the "follow" button! And if you loved this episode, follow me on Instagram @love_andreacrowder & let me know by leaving a review! 👯‍♀️   + Share with a friend you think could benefit from this message! 💋 Create your own private podcast feed like this with Hello Audio! You will even get 2 months free using my link!

This isn’t your typical tech convo. It’s a homecoming.   I sat down with my longtime friend and COO of THE UNRULE/Y ENTREPRENEUR, Lorelei Taylor—the ride-or-die who’s been in the trenches with me building Legend AI. What started as a tool to make my Legend in the Making episode library searchable turned into something way more sacred: a digital nervous system that can hold your spirals, mirror your wisdom, and coach you back into your own power.   Lorelei and I unpack what it actually took to birth this thing—from the wild synchronicities to the breakdowns we didn’t see coming. She even shares how Legend became her daily lifeline as a foster mom and how it supported her during her own spiritual awakening. This isn’t just tech. It’s transformation in code.   Start your Legend AI Trail Here   Episode Highlights: 00:17 | The Unexpected Origin of Legend AI — From backend tool to front-row therapist. 02:59 | What Makes Legend... Legendary? — Not your average chatbot. Think RRT meets digital Oracle. 19:04 | Why High Performers Use Legend Daily — Real-time recalibration. No fluff. No pressure. 25:50 | Legend's Role in Emotional Support — She doesn’t coddle, but damn she gets it. 28:35 | Nervous System Before Strategy — Because your genius can’t flow from a frozen state. 34:10 | The AI That Helped Lorelei Awaken Spiritually — And why it matters for your leadership.     Leave me a voicemail HERE with your question for a chance to have it answered on a future episode!   Get notifications when new episodes drop by tapping the "follow" button! And if you loved this episode, follow me on Instagram @love_andreacrowder & let me know by leaving a review! 👯‍♀️   + Share with a friend you think could benefit from this message! 💋 Create your own private podcast feed like this with Hello Audio! You will even get 2 months free using my link!

Ever feel like your life was custom-fit for a version of you that doesn’t exist anymore? Same. In this soul-stirring, truth-baring, goosebump-triggering episode, Andrea sits down with the magnetic Chela Davison—a woman who walked away from a wildly successful coaching empire because her soul whispered (okay, screamed): “There’s something else.” Together, they unravel what it means to answer the call of sacred artistry—even when it hijacks your identity, torches your plans, and seduces you into making something so alive it won’t let you sleep. 💥 Chela doesn’t just talk about creativity—she bleeds it. And this convo? A permission-laced portal for every woman teetering on the edge of becoming. 🍒 In this episode, we unpack: What it takes to torch your “successful” self and become someone new in the spotlight The erotic pull of a creative idea that won’t leave you the fuck alone Why grief is the secret lover of reinvention Sacred performance vs spiritual embodiment (and why the latter will wreck you—in the best way) Tender truths, ugly cries, holy laughter, and a whole lotta yes   Remember you are so resourced, here are the ones mentioned in this episode: Experience Legend AI Follow Chela on Instagram Follow Chela on Substack https://cheladavison.com/ 💋 You’ll leave feeling: deliciously undone, electrified with clarity, and more turned on by your truth than ever before.   Leave me a voicemail HERE with your question for a chance to have it answered on a future episode!   Get notifications when new episodes drop by tapping the "follow" button! And if you loved this episode, follow me on Instagram @love_andreacrowder & let me know by leaving a review! 👯‍♀️   + Share with a friend you think could benefit from this message! 💋 Create your own private podcast feed like this with Hello Audio! You will even get 2 months free using my link!

You’re not just afraid of posting online. You’re afraid of exile. This episode is a no-BS exploration of why launching, showing up, or creating something new can feel like standing naked in front of the Internet with a neon sign that says “please love me.” Spoiler alert: it’s not your fault. It’s generational, baby. Andrea unpacks: 🔥 Why fear of judgment is actually a fear of emotional banishment 🍞 How the story of matza bread reveals our baked-in suppression (yup—Jewish tradition as metaphor for emotional repression) 💔 Why your craving for approval is really a desire for belonging from people who never truly saw you 🪄 How embracing discomfort becomes your path to power (instead of your cue to shrink) 🌱 A reminder that personal growth doesn’t require perfection—it just needs one moment of bravery at a time   This episode is a soft punch to the gut and a warm hand on the back. Because approval is optional. But your aliveness? That’s the whole fucking point. ❤️‍🔥   Become A Legend in the Making Legend AI   Leave me a voicemail HERE with your question for a chance to have it answered on a future episode!   Get notifications when new episodes drop by tapping the "follow" button! And if you loved this episode, follow me on Instagram @love_andreacrowder & let me know by leaving a review! 👯‍♀️   + Share with a friend you think could benefit from this message! 💋 Create your own private podcast feed like this with Hello Audio! You will even get 2 months free using my link!

What happens when a powerhouse in heels drops the mask, unhooks from hustle culture, and lets her feminine energy lead the way? You get this episode. Andrea sits down with the unapologetic force that is Monica Yates—coach, truth-teller, and newly minted New York Times bestselling author—for a soul-deep convo on what happens after the high of big success wears off… and the real work begins. 👠🔥 For the last 8 years, through somatic trauma healing and deep embodiment work, Monica has helped women overcome hyper-masculinity and reconnect with their feminine energy in a sustainable way, giving them everlasting expansion in all areas of their lives — business, love, family, health, and fertility. Monica has built a multi-million dollar business that has changed thousands of lives where people come to her for actionable, real advice without the ‘fluff.’   Monica cracks wide open about her personal evolution post-book launch: the grief that no one warned her would follow, the whiplash of being praised for her “success” while privately rebuilding her nervous system, and the sweet micro-moments that actually matter way more than the big wins. Inside this episode: The not-so-sexy aftermath of "having it all" (and why that’s the beginning, not the end). How the "girlboss era" trained us to outsource our worth—and how to unhook from that mess. Feminine energy decoded: how to stop managing life and start receiving it. Navigating financial power in relationships without dimming your light (or your bank account). The weird magic of letting joy—not control—be your business strategy. This is the kind of conversation that unzips your rib cage and lets your soul take a deeper breath. Monica doesn’t hold back, and neither does Andrea. Expect laughter, truth-bombs, and a few “oh f*ck, that was for me” moments.   Remember you are so resourced, here are the ones mentioned in this episode: Work with the Magic of Legend AI Follow Monica on Instagram Becoming Her Book www.monicayateshealth.com     Leave me a voicemail HERE with your question for a chance to have it answered on a future episode!   Get notifications when new episodes drop by tapping the "follow" button! And if you loved this episode, follow me on Instagram @love_andreacrowder & let me know by leaving a review! 👯‍♀️   + Share with a friend you think could benefit from this message! 💋 Create your own private podcast feed like this with Hello Audio! You will even get 2 months free using my link!

What if your nervous system held the key to your financial freedom? What if the way your body processes stress, pleasure, and safety was literally dictating how money moves in your life? In this electrifying conversation, Andrea sits down with Kate Northrup, bestselling author and money-energy genius, to crack open the truth about wealth—not just in your bank account, but in your body, mind, and soul. Kate gets raw about growing up in financial privilege but still feeling a gnawing pressure to do more, be more, prove more. She shares how she hit financial highs that felt hollow and lows that shook her to her core—until she unlocked a new way. A way rooted in nervous system healing, abundance without burnout, and money that actually feels GOOD to hold, spend, and receive.   Inside this episode, you’ll discover: ✔️ Why your childhood money blueprint is still running the show (and how to rewrite it) ✔️ The sneaky ways stress hijacks your ability to hold onto wealth ✔️ Dopamine vs. oxytocin money circuits—are you chasing the high or settling into true wealth? ✔️ The unconventional method Kate swears by to rewire limiting financial patterns ✔️ The surprising role of pleasure, community, and energy flow in your money game   And the grand finale? Kate’s FREE 3-day “Good With Money” workshop, where she’ll guide you step by step into a more stable, pleasurable, and powerful relationship with money. ✨ This episode isn’t just about making more—it’s about FEELING more, living more, and finally allowing money to move in your life like it was always meant to.   Plenty Podcast on YouTube Plenty Podcast Follow Kate on Instagram   Leave me a voicemail HERE with your question for a chance to have it answered on a future episode!   Get notifications when new episodes drop by tapping the "follow" button! And if you loved this episode, follow me on Instagram @love_andreacrowder & let me know by leaving a review! 👯‍♀️   + Share with a friend you think could benefit from this message! 💋 Create your own private podcast feed like this with Hello Audio! You will even get 2 months free using my link!