Game Over? My Views on Game and Dating in Today's Society

My advice on how to game without relying on alcohol.00:00 - Intro and Listener's Question 02:00 - The impact of alcohol on both self-improvement and dating06:00 - Personal experiences and strategies without alcohol10:00 - Navigating bars and social dynamics without drinking  14:00 - Final thoughts on balancing a healthy lifestyle and dating

In this episode of The Todd V Show, Todd tackles the question of whether "game" is sexist, reinforces traditional gender stereotypes, or is appropriate in today's society. He explores the biological basis for gender differences, addresses common criticisms, and encourages listeners to form their opinions through real-world experiences rather than media narratives.Chapters:00:00 - Listener question02:00 - Mother nature's thoughts on game...07:30 - Does game work in today's world?13:45 - My response to critics of game...20:30 - Get real.Join me on a bootcamp:https://toddvdating.com/coaching

In this episode of the Todd V Show, Todd explores the advantages of going out solo versus relying on a wingman. He shares his personal experiences and offers practical advice on how going out alone can build character, improve social skills, and accelerate learning in game.Chapters:00:00 - Introduction: Going Out Solo  00:26 - Learning Game Solo  01:40 - Preference for Solo Game  03:05 - Solo Game vs. Wingman  04:38 - Wingman Dependency Issues  06:12 - Wingman Limitations in Groups  08:25 - Solo Game: Character Building  10:18 - Approaching Girls Alone  12:05 - Group Dynamics in Night Game  14:45 - Cataloging Attractive Girls in Clubs  17:35 - Best Solo Approach Scenarios  19:55 - Handling Groups and Isolation  23:10 - Warm-Up Sets in Clubs  26:00 - Drinking in Game  28:50 - Dealing with Approach Anxiety  31:45 - Benefits of Night Game  35:30 - Conclusion: Going Solo Builds Character Join me on a bootcamp:https://toddvdating.com/coaching

In this episode of the Todd V Show, Todd discusses the importance of asking the right questions to improve your game and avoid common pitfalls. He breaks down how to turn unhelpful, overly specific or broad questions into actionable insights that lead to real-world progress.Chapters:00:00 - Intro & Bootcamp Announcement01:10 - Importance of Asking the Right Questions03:00 - Learning Game as a Scientific Process05:15 - Types of Bad Questions: Specific & Theoretical**08:30 - The Problem with Overly Specific Questions10:50 - The Issue with Overly General Questions14:00 - Turning Bad Questions into Good Questions16:15 - The Importance of Field Experience18:40 - Learning Game Step by Step 21:00 - Self-Coaching & Owning Your Process24:00 - Debriefing After Game Sessions  27:30 - Biggest Takeaway & Focus  29:30 - Game as a Journey33:00 - Process Over Natural Talent  Join me on a bootcamp:https://toddvdating.com/coachingJoin my mentorship program – designed to get you faster growth, practical answers, real results, and life-changing transformations:https://toddvmentoring.com/ 

Todays episode is about "pickup lines" -- exactly what to say to women. In particular, this is your chance to be a "fly on the wall" during a segment of one of my exclusive mentorship program calls. We do these kind of in-depth calls twice weekly, and if you were in the mentorship program during the call, you could ask your own follow up questions at any point.Timestamps0:00 – Introduction1:45 –  Pickup Lines explained4:05 – The best way to tease6:15 – Subtlety…9:00 – The right frame in getting her to qualify9:50 – “You and I would not get along.”13:00 – Disqualifying sex?And we currently have a discount on the mentorship program for a very limited time. You can see that at https://toddvmentoring.com

In this episode, Todd interviews his most experienced coach, James, who gives some unique insights on opening, getting solid numbers, and how to communicate as a high-value man.Timestamps:0:00 – Introduction3:20 – A MASSIVE unlock for daygame…10:15 – Why you shouldn’t worry about bystanders in daygame13:45 – Qualifying Explained29:00 – Daygame MasterclassTo take get coaching with James go to: https://toddvdating.com/coachingAnd to take advantage of the sale on the Mentorship Program go to:  https://toddvmentoring.comIn this podcast, we mentioned a video featuring James on my main YouTube channel, Todd V Dating. Check it out here:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bf6miBNwCvo

In this episode of the Todd V show, Todd addresses a listener's challenges with online dating and offers insights into improving dating success by creating tension and value. He emphasizes the importance of pre-date preparation, managing physical escalation, and understanding rejection beyond superficial reasons.Notes0:00 – Introduction0:51 – Introduction to Today’s Question1:22 – Sam’s Question Breakdown1:48 – Initial Analysis of Sam’s Issue2:22 – Possible Reasons for Dating Challenges3:26 – Game Skills and Online Dating4:23 – The Role of Value in Dating5:20 – Pre-Date Preparation and Its Importance5:53 – Handling the Date Itself6:41 – Improving Dating Interactions7:09 – Creating Tension in Interaction8:42 – Handling Physical Escalation10:16 – Key Concept: Tension and Value13:04 – Final Notes on Chemistry and Rejection14:04 – Additional Context for Sam’s Situation17:01 – Understanding Rejections and Rationalizations18:28 – Common Issues and Final Advice20:25 – Closing Thoughts21:18 – Outro and Call for QuestionsJoin me on a Bootcamp:https://toddvdating.com/coaching/Connect with Todd:Join Todd V Insiders on FacebookEmail questions to [email protected] questions on the Ask Todd V, Todd V Dating, and Valentine Lifestyle Youtube channelsFollow Todd on Instagram @ToddVDatingFollow Todd on TikTok @ToddVDating

In this episode of the Todd V Show, Todd shares insights from a recent coaching experience in Europe, discussing the importance of making the game fun, reducing outcome dependence, and techniques to handle frustration and approach anxiety. He also provides updates on his upcoming boot camps and practical strategies for improving game dynamics.Notes00:00 - Intro00:30 - Motivation for Today's Episode01:00 - Private Coaching Experience in Europe02:00 - Client's Frustration and Pressure03:00 - Importance of Making Game Fun04:00 - Boot Camp Schedule Update05:30 - What is a Boot Camp?07:00 - Upcoming Cities for Boot Camps08:00 - How to Make Game Fun09:00 - The Irony of Making Game Fun10:00 - Dealing with Approach Anxiety11:00 - Handling Rejection and Blowouts12:30 - Ego and Self-Esteem in Game14:00 - The Upward and Downward Spiral15:00 - Taking Breaks and Resetting16:30 - Changing Your Focus to Reduce Frustration18:00 - Silly Openers to Reduce Outcome Dependence19:30 - Examples of Silly Openers21:00 - Using Cocky Openers22:30 - Examples of Cocky Openers24:00 - Advanced Techniques: Leaving Your Phone at Home25:30 - Changing Your Focus: Small Wins27:00 - Approach Anxiety and Small Wins28:30 - Using a Timer for Approaches30:00 - Gamifying the Approach Process31:30 - Pumping State to Improve Mood33:00 - Examples of Pumping State Techniques34:30 - Combining Pumping State and Reducing Outcome Dependence36:00 - Approach All: Talking to Everyone37:30 - Conclusion: Embrace the Game39:00 - Final Thoughts and Boot Camp InformationJoin me on a Bootcamp:https://toddvdating.com/coaching/Connect with Todd:Join Todd V Insiders on FacebookEmail questions to [email protected] questions on the Ask Todd V, Todd V Dating, and Valentine Lifestyle Youtube channelsFollow Todd on Instagram @ToddVDatingFollow Todd on TikTok @ToddVDating

In this episode, I chat with three Online Dating Fast Track students as well as their two coaches, Kaitlin and Atlas. Notes00:00 - Intro01:50 - Coaches Background05:00 - Online archetype and narrative 16:30 - Being high-value online21:00 - Achieving abundance25:30 - Improving your messaging game27:00 - Paradigm shift31:30 - Todd's game insights40:00 - Physical escalation on dates46:50 - How to respond to every text50:20 - Answering deep questions over text51:30 - Maximize the lifespan of a casual relationship58:00 - "It just happened."1:01:00 - Nexting1:04:00 - Wrap up Experience the Online Dating Fast Track for yourself:https://toddvdating.com/odft/Check out my comprehensive online dating course:https://toddoda.com/Connect with Todd:Join Todd V Insiders on FacebookEmail questions to [email protected] questions on the Ask Todd V, Todd V Dating, and Valentine Lifestyle Youtube channelsFollow Todd on Instagram @ToddVDatingFollow Todd on TikTok @ToddVDating

In this episode, I break down the psychology of those who "score" in life versus those who don't, using soccer as an example.Notes00:00 - Intro01:40 - The archetype of guys who do well with women04:45 - Playing to win Vs. Playing to look good11:55 - Being PREPARED to succeed.16:25 - Do not feel sorry for yourself.Check out my comprehensive online dating course:https://toddoda.com/Connect with Todd:Join Todd V Insiders on FacebookEmail questions to [email protected] questions on the Ask Todd V, Todd V Dating, and Valentine Lifestyle Youtube channelsFollow Todd on Instagram @ToddVDatingFollow Todd on TikTok @ToddVDating