90 - Why she keeps breaking up with you.

Ever feel stuck in a cycle of unfulfilled potential? This episode cuts through the noise of self-help platitudes to offer real, actionable advice on breaking free from self-imposed limitations. Learn how to identify your motivational archetype, harness the power of discomfort, and create sustainable change in all areas of your life. It's time to align your actions with your aspirations and unfuck your life for good.

How to stop dating the wrong women & break the breakup cycle. Learn practical tips for managing anxiety in relationships, the pitfalls of expecting partners to "fix" your emotions, and how developing a stronger relationship with yourself can lead to healthier, more fulfilling romantic partnerships. Whether you're struggling with constant breakups or simply want to improve your relationship skills, this episode offers insights and actionable advice for personal growth and better connections.

Tired of scrolling through Instagram, feeling like a hot mess, while everyone else seems to have their life together? In this episode we spill the tea on how to actually get your sh*t together - no expensive seminars or dragon-slaying required. Learn why your phone might be secretly sabotaging your brain power, why vulnerability is your new superpower, and how taking your shoes off might just change your life. Warning: This episode contains zero motivational quotes and may cause sudden urges to turn off your phone and touch grass. Side effects may include improved sleep, better friendships, and the realization that your "mess" might actually be your message. Listen at your own risk.

Warning: this episode contains zero tips on pickup lines or how to trick someone into loving you. Instead, brace yourself for some uncomfortable truths about personal growth, the art of difficult conversations, and why finding "the one" is probably much different than you think. Side effects include improved self-awareness and a drastically reduced tolerance for BS in relationships. In this episode, Rob and Scott, two recovering "Las Vegas stripper chick" enthusiasts, spill the tea on their journey from relationship disasters to something resembling functional adulthood. Learn why you keep dating that one toxic ex instead of your perfect 10. If you're interested in Extreme Ownership, you can find it here: https://a.co/d/ig705Rw If you'd like to work with Rob or Scott, you can find their info below: Scott: instagram.com/scottpags Rob: instagram.com/robversus

Ever felt like you're fumbling through the dating world like a drunk octopus with 8 left feet? You're not alone. Rob and Scott dive into their own cringe-worthy dating histories, from waiting for the "perfect 10" to show up magically, to following sketchy pickup artist techniques. They explore the top reasons why men suck at dating, and the surprising antidote to social anxiety, fear of failure, and awkwardness. Whether you're a seasoned Tinder merc or still practicing your "Hey" in the mirror, this episode offers a humorous and heartfelt look at the journey from awkward to awesome. Plus, learn why being called a "creep" might actually be a sign you're on the right track. Intrigued? Give it a listen - your future self (and maybe your future partner) will thank you.

Ever find yourself agreeing to go along with something you have zero interest in, just to avoid hurting someone's feelings? You might be a people pleaser, and it's costing you more than you think. In this episode, Scott and Rob dive into the murky waters of setting boundaries - from the awkward "no" to a hug, to the art of slowing down a relationship without torpedoing it. Together we'll explore where your inability to say "no" came from (spoiler: it usually is), and how to stop reflexively agreeing just to avoid rocking the boat. Whether you're a recovering people pleaser or just someone who's tired of feeling resentful, this episode offers practical tips to start setting boundaries without being a jerk. Who knew saying "no" could be so liberating? Tune in, and maybe you'll finally have a good way to skip that book club.

Ever tried to 'help' someone and ended up pissing them off instead? Yeah, us too. In this episode, Rob and Scott spill the beans on how to inspire change without coming off as a know-it-all jerk. Inside: How to influence and convince, instead of accidentally arm twisting The real reason why people keep telling you "no" How to get your teenager on board with your plans. Lessons from a father-son rite of passage (no, we didn't make him hunt a bear) And of course, how to use what you learned inside to make more money, and succeed harder at life. Whether you're a dad trying to create a real connection with your distant kids or a boss aiming to level up your team, we've got you covered. Tune in for some real talk on being a better man, leader, and human - without the macho BS.

In this episode, we dive deep with expert guide Jose Alejandro. Discover why proper rites of passage are essential for young men's development, how lack of initiation impacts society, and practical ways parents and mentors can support boys in their journey to manhood. Jose shares insights from indigenous cultures, personal experiences, and his work as a life coach to illuminate this vital topic. Whether you're a parent, mentor, or man seeking to understand yourself better, this conversation offers valuable perspectives on masculinity, community, and personal growth. If you resonate with what you heard, you can find more from Jose via Instagram.

Breakups are never easy. In this episode, you'll discover: The 3 pillars of a sustainable relationship (and signs it's time to walk away) A powerful process for feeling your most difficult emotions fully Rituals for letting go and finding closure within yourself How to shift from resentment and blame to appreciation and growth The little-known secret to speeding up your breakup recovery If you're struggling to move on from a past relationship, or looking to build a more conscious foundation for your next one, this heartfelt conversation will give you the tools and inspiration you need to love, let go, and begin again. Tune in now for an audio journey that aims straight for the heart.

Have you ever felt lost or convinced that you'll never find your "true passion" in life? In this episode, Scott and Rob shatter the myth that passion is something you simply discover. If you're tired of chasing an elusive "dream life" and ready to cultivate authentic passion from within, this conversation will provide a much-needed dose of reality and inspiration. Join these two no-nonsense guides as they redefine what it means to find your calling – one failure at a time.