Vision Over Resolutions: Why 2026 Needs a Different Kind of Goal

Subscribe to Alli's New Substack - Wise Woman Method    You don’t need a better planner, a 4 a.m. alarm, or a fresh pack of highlighters to change your life this year. What you really need is something deeper—a vision that pulls you forward instead of pressuring you from behind. A vision that’s worth changing for.   Resolutions fixate on doing more, being better, running faster. They’re rooted in lack, in the places you feel behind, in everything you think needs correcting. But vision? Vision shapes who you’re becoming. It invites growth instead of shaming you into hustle.   And that one reframe changes everything. Today, we’re diving into how to build a God-given vision that lasts longer than February and doesn’t burn you out in the process. Not the white-knuckle kind, but the kind God grows in you step by step—steady, faithful, and full of hope.   Timestamps: (00:20) - Why Resolutions Burn Out & Vision Actually Sticks (03:03) - Resolutions Chase Results, Vision Shapes Identity (03:42) - Why Your Nervous System Pushes Back Against Massive Overhauls (04:24) - How Vision Creates Alignment Instead of More Hustle (07:25) - Practical, Doable Steps for Building a Meaningful Vision   WATCH ALLI  ON YOUTUBE   Links to great things we discussed:    Catalyst Mastermind Alli’s Makeup Recommendation - Sephora Colorful Waterproof Eyeshadow & Eyeliner Multi-Stick Start your Free 30-day trial of Uplift! Subscribe to Alli's New Substack - Wise Woman Method  I hope you loved this episode! 🎉 Don't forget to hit that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so you’re always in the loop. And hey, while you're at it, why not pop over to our YouTube channel and check us out? If you're feeling the love, leave a review and sprinkle some stars—your support truly means the world to me! Take care, and keep shining bright!    xo,   Alli

Sign up for FREE COACHING with Alli – https://alliworthington.com/freecoaching    I felt a little nudge to talk about Chapter 9 of Fierce Faith. Back in 2017, I titled that chapter “What If Things Fall Apart?”, and honestly, I don’t think anything could be more relevant right now.   It feels like so many of us are wandering through our own wilderness—feeling lost, lonely, and afraid. Afraid of what’s ahead. Afraid of what could be. Afraid of what our anxiety says about us. Afraid of what happens if things really do fall apart.   That’s why I’m sharing this chapter with you today. My prayer is that it brings peace about the future and reminds you to find your own stones of remembrance—those markers of God’s faithfulness that anchor us when fear tries to take over.   At the end of the episode, I’ll not only share practical tools and encouragement to help you fight fear, but I encourage you to take one specific step: pick a stone of remembrance today, write it down, and let it remind you of God’s faithfulness as you step into 2026 with greater confidence.   Timestamps: (03:38) - Fear of the Unknown: How It Keeps Us Stuck in Our Own Wilderness (13:00) - Focusing on God’s Faithfulness: The Shift That Frees Us From Fear (17:17) - We Will Always Face New Giants (and How to Meet Them with Courage) (23:35) - How to Stop Catastrophizing Before It Derails Your Peace (26:11) -A Battle Plan to Fight Your Fear of the Future with Strength and Clarity WATCH ALLI  ON YOUTUBE   Links to great things we discussed:    Catalyst Mastermind The Uplift app is here! Try it free for 30 days. Sign up for FREE COACHING with Alli – https://alliworthington.com/freecoaching 

Sign up for FREE COACHING with Alli – https://alliworthington.com/freecoaching    Merry Christmas! We’re continuing our Best-Of Series. Today, we’re digging into life hacks that truly make a difference—not fluffy tips, but strategic shifts that change how you think, connect, and live with purpose and clarity.   Feeling stretched thin? This episode helps you tune out distractions, refocus, and build meaningful habits. Kendra Adachi shares how to prioritize what matters and why small steps create a life you love.   Then we’ll dive into practical, research-backed wisdom from Eric Barker on how to cultivate deeper, more meaningful relationships instead of staying stuck in surface-level connections. And Mark Batterson closes us out with the power of a daily gratitude habit—why it rewires your mind for more peace, joy, and resilience than you ever imagined.   This episode is packed with practical wisdom you can use right away. I can’t wait for you to hear it.   Timestamps: (01:15) -  Choosing What Matters and Being a Genius About That (04:15) - Starting Small (08:25) - Practical Steps to Invest in More Meaningful Relationships (11:11) -  Using a Gratitude Journal or Having a Daily Gratitude Habit WATCH ALLI  ON YOUTUBE   Links to great things we discussed:    Catalyst Mastermind The Uplift app is here! Try it free for 30 days. Sign up for FREE COACHING with Alli – https://alliworthington.com/freecoaching    I hope you loved this episode! 🎉 Don't forget to hit that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so you’re always in the loop. And hey, while you're at it, why not pop over to our YouTube channel and check us out? If you're feeling the love, leave a review and sprinkle some stars—your support truly means the world to me! Take care, and keep shining bright!    xo,   Alli

Sign up for FREE COACHING with Alli – https://alliworthington.com/freecoaching    Today, I want to share Chapter 4 of Fierce Faith: "What If They Don’t Like Me?" I open up about my own rejection stories and the everyday ways fear of rejection shapes our choices. It’s a fear we rarely talk about, but it shadows much of what we do.   Think about it—whether we post that picture we’re proud of, share a new dream with our spouse, or open up to a new friend, fear is right there, whispering doubts. And most of us don’t even realize how much power we’ve handed it.   My prayer is that this chapter helps you recognize and release the fear of rejection, so you can step into 2026 with hope, holy confidence, and courage, embracing your authentic self.   Timestamps: (06:13) - How Rejection Steals Our Joy (and Why We Don’t Notice It Happening) (10:35) - Everyday Rejections: The Subtle Moments That Shape Our Confidence (16:29) - The Ultimate Rejection (21:06) - A Battle Plan to Fight the Fear of Rejection with Strength and Clarity (25:20) -How to Recover When We Feel Rejected and Come Back Stronger WATCH ALLI  ON YOUTUBE   Links to great things we discussed:    Catalyst Mastermind The Uplift app is here! Try it free for 30 days.   I hope you loved this episode! 🎉 Don't forget to hit that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so you’re always in the loop. And hey, while you're at it, why not pop over to our YouTube channel and check us out? If you're feeling the love, leave a review and sprinkle some stars—your support truly means the world to me! Take care, and keep shining bright!    xo,   Alli

Sign up for FREE COACHING with Alli – https://alliworthington.com/freecoaching    We’re still in our Best-Of Series, diving into wisdom from trusted voices on hearing God and making wise decisions. Let’s be real—most of us aren’t short on options; we’re overwhelmed by them. This episode offers practical tools to help you discern God’s voice, find clarity among choices, and make confident decisions for your life.   You’ll hear from Emily P. Freeman on practical questions that bring clarity to big decisions, plus learn actionable steps from her Point-and-Call system to prevent decision fog. You’ll gain insight into how to find true peace instead of falling into avoidance that keeps you stuck.   You’ll also hear from Havilah Cunnington on discerning God’s voice in daily life—not theory, but real, everyday moments.   This episode will reset your mind and take the next step.   Timestamps: (01:18) -  Questions to Ask When Making Big Decisions (05:22) - Using the Point-and-Call System for Clarity When Making Decisions (08:08) - True Peace vs. Discomfort Avoidance (10:35) -  Discerning God’s Voice   WATCH ALLI  ON YOUTUBE Links to great things we discussed:    Catalyst Mastermind The Uplift app is here! Try it free for 30 days. Sign up for FREE COACHING with Alli – https://alliworthington.com/freecoaching   I hope you loved this episode! 🎉Don’t forget to hit that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so you never miss a thing. And guess what? We're on YouTube! If you're loving the content, show us some love by leaving a review and giving us some stars—it means the world to me! Take care, and stay fabulous!    xo, Alli

Sign up for FREE COACHING with Alli – https://alliworthington.com/freecoaching    The holiday season is almost here, friends. Before we get swept up in parties, plans, and pressure, I want you to pause and imagine something different. What if this year came with less stress and more joy? What if you finally ditched the Christmas chaos instead of letting it run your life?   Today, I'm sharing Chapter 6 of Breaking Busy, where we'll walk through practical, step—by—step ways to make this season more peaceful and purposeful. This isn’t just theory; it’s a real-life companion to help you discover joy over stress.   We’ll talk about traditions, expectations, and how to find a holiday rhythm that fits your family. Together, we’ll break the cycle of busyness and help you create a calmer, more meaningful season.   Timestamps: (01:08) - The Importance of Traditions and Why They Anchor Our Families (14:27) - Why Traditions Need to Be Flexible (22:38) - What Mary and Martha Teach Us About Expectations and Grace (25:25) - Tweaking Traditions: Small Shifts That Make the Holidays Feel Lighter WATCH ALLI  ON YOUTUBE   Links to great things we discussed:    Catalyst Mastermind The Uplift app is here! Try it free for 30 days. I hope you loved this episode! 🎉Don’t forget to hit that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so you never miss a thing. And guess what? We're on YouTube! If you're loving the content, show us some love by leaving a review and giving us some stars—it means the world to me! Take care, and stay fabulous!    xo, Alli

Sign up for a FREE Coaching Call with Alli -- https://alliworthington.com/freecoaching    We’re kicking off something brand-new that I’m calling The Best of the Best. Because sometimes, the wisdom we most need is what we’ve already heard but forgotten—a reminder that helps us refocus and recharge. These bite-sized clips from our most-loved episodes will help you gain fresh clarity, renew your mindset, and apply proven advice to your daily life.   Today’s focus is The Best of Boundaries and Rest—packed with insights to help you set healthy limits, find rest that actually restores you, and reclaim your energy for what matters. This episode shines a light on why burnout happens and shares ways to create meaningful space in your schedule.   Sasha Shillcutt breaks down boundaries, John Mark Comer explores Sabbath rest, and Jess Connolly offers real-life strategies for rest.This one will push you, free you, and hand you the next right step you’ve been missing.   Timestamps: (01:21) — Why Boundaries Matter and What Women Often Get Wrong with Sasha Shillcutt (06:01) — Sabbath Rest and Finding True Rest for Your Soul with John Mark Comer (09:46) — Practical, Real-Life Strategies for Incorporating Rest with Jess Connolly WATCH ALLI  ON YOUTUBE   Links to great things we discussed:    Catalyst Mastermind The Uplift app is here! Try it free for 30 days.   I hope you loved this episode! 🎉 Don't forget to hit that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so you’re always in the loop. And hey, while you're at it, why not pop over to our YouTube channel and check us out? If you're feeling the love, leave a review and sprinkle some stars—your support truly means the world to me! Take care, and keep shining bright!    xo, Alli

Get 40% off at Little Things Studio - SHOP NOW  Today I'm joined by Dr. Will Cole, one of the leading functional medicine doctors in the country—and truly the go-to expert for women who feel awful but keep hearing, "Everything looks normal." If you're exhausted, foggy, inflamed, or dealing with strange symptoms no one can explain, this episode is here to let you know you're not alone and finally feel understood. Dr. Cole and I dig into why so many women hit a wall in midlife, even when their labs look "fine." He unpacks the difference between normal and optimal, which markers actually reflect fatigue and inflammation, and how to know if your body is stuck in survival mode. We cover thyroid health, ferritin, gut issues, and the sneaky ways low iron can hide in plain sight for years. We also get real about stress, hormones, and the environmental shifts that make these symptoms so common for women right now. And here's the best part—Dr. Cole doesn't just explain the why, he shares practical, science-backed shifts and functional medicine solutions that help you feel better, think clearer, and get your spark back. So if you've ever left a doctor's office thinking, "My labs are normal, but I still feel terrible," this episode is here to validate your experience and offer a plan that finally makes sense. Timestamps:   (08:18) - Where to Actually Start When You Want Your Energy Back (15:50) - Why Gut Issues Explode in Midlife & What Real Healing Timelines Look Like (26:33) - Understanding Midlife Weight Gain (Especially Around Your Middle) (33:38) - The Supplements Most Women Truly Benefit From (38:26) -  Small, Doable Changes That Help You Start Feeling Better Fast   WATCH ALLI  ON YOUTUBE   Links to great things we discussed:    Catalyst Mastermind The Uplift app is here! Try it free for 30 days. I hope you loved this episode! 🎉Don’t forget to hit that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so you never miss a thing. And guess what? We're on YouTube! If you're loving the content, show us some love by leaving a review and giving us some stars—it means the world to me! Take care, and stay fabulous!    xo, Alli

Get 40% off at Little Things Studio - SHOP NOW    You know how everyone assumes that, because you write books, host a podcast, and coach others to get their lives together, you must have it all figured out? Well, let me tell you—I don’t. Today I’m getting real about what happened when I, someone who literally teaches strategy and balance, hit the wall. I found myself burned out, empty, and crying out to God for help.   Here’s the truth: even the strongest women hit a wall. And when I did, I realized that ‘getting my life together’ didn’t mean working harder or pretending I was fine. It started with one small, holy whisper: Get help. That whisper changed everything—my business, my faith, and my family.   In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the exact steps I took to rebuild from burnout. We’re talking therapy, coaching, household help, and why waiting for the ‘perfect time’ keeps so many women stuck. If you’ve ever felt exhausted, overextended, or guilty for needing help, this one is for you. Asking for help isn’t weakness—it’s wisdom. And it’s the first step toward freedom. Timestamps: (01:39) - Getting Help: Why Even Strong Women Can’t Do It All Alone (05:03) - Therapy Isn’t a One-Time Fix: How to Keep Growing and Healing Through Every Season (05:34) - The Truth About Burnout: What’s Inside of You Always Spills Over to Those You Love (07:53) - Business Coaching: The Secret to Faster Growth and Real Balance (09:22) - Your Time Matters: How to Finally Focus on What’s Truly Worth Your Energy   WATCH ALLI  ON YOUTUBE   Links to great things we discussed:  Alli’s Product Recommendation - Bye Bye Foundation Full Coverage Moisturizer with SPF 50 Alli’s Food Recommendation - Allegro Organic Decaf Green Tea Start your Free 30-day trial of Uplift!   I hope you loved this episode! 🎉Don’t forget to hit that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so you never miss a thing. And guess what? We're on YouTube! If you're loving the content, show us some love by leaving a review and giving us some stars—it means the world to me! Take care, and stay fabulous!    xo,   Alli

Get 40% off at Little Things Studio - SHOP NOW  Today I get to sit down with Mark Batterson—pastor, bestselling author, and one of the most trusted voices on spiritual courage, calling, and long obedience in a loud, distracted world. His new book is a powerful reminder that God shapes us not only in mountaintop moments but also in the quiet, daily faithfulness that transforms us over time. We’re talking about grit—the kind that stays when it would be easier to quit. Because here’s the truth: everything meaningful takes longer, costs more, and stretches us deeper than we ever expect. But when you keep showing up, even when it’s hard, that’s when you grow into the person God is building you to be. Mark and I dig into doubt, divine timing, and the spiritual resistance that always seems to show up right before a breakthrough. He shares practical, powerful wisdom for anyone who wants to follow God with courage that lasts—not just emotional highs that fade, but anchored faith that stands the test of time.   Timestamps: update once first cut is available (02:52) - The Story Behind “Gradually, Then Suddenly” and Why It Changes Everything (04:00) - Going After Your God-Sized Dreams Without Fear or Frenzy (05:17) - How to Stop Feeling Behind and Start Trusting God’s Timing (09:07) - What It Really Looks Like to Commit to the Long Game (10:40) -  Why We Overestimate the Short Term but Underestimate What God Can Do in the Long Run   WATCH ALLI  ON YOUTUBE Links to great things we discussed:    Mark’s Book - Gradually Then Suddenly Mark’s Product Recommendation - Pink Miracle Shoe Cleaner Kit Mark’s Movie Recommendation - David The Uplift app is here! Try it free for 30 days. Catalyst Mastermind I hope you loved this episode! 🎉 Don't forget to hit that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so you’re always in the loop. And hey, while you're at it, why not pop over to our YouTube channel and check us out? If you're feeling the love, leave a review and sprinkle some stars—your support truly means the world to me! Take care, and keep shining bright!    xo,   Alli