Approaching The Wave 08/13

Excuse the absence, shall we continue? It’s been a while so let’s catch up a tad I’ll hit a few bullet points and then e can carry on

Sometimes life will life and it has no warning. Let’s catch up shall we and get back on track here.

Just some words of encouragement to help you continue on with your journey or path that you choose to be on. I hope nothing about the best and positive vibes rushing through you day in and day out

Kicking off the first episode of season 5 with some TEA!!! Let’s get to it!

Here we are at the ending of our series 24 first and last and it’s a wild one. Yes, it is much longer than other episodes (my bad), but we have to keep our mental state intact when we’re dealing with these emotional situations. Myself as a lover, I have had the habit of allowing the heart to overcome logic and that’s how most of us end up in rocky situations. Take a moment to have those talks, take a moment to make your partner feel valued or important in your life because if they weren’t, then why are you here. Time is invaluable, spend it wisely, and when you come to a cross roads where things may go far left, take your time on how your handling that situation and give yourself a chance to really make the decision for you. Let’s be mature adults and handle the rough and the tough as we would with the ups and great experiences we encounter in life.

Partnership should be equal, equal parts of loving communication, sharing, caring, thinking about each other, doing acts of service, love language, etc. When you start to see that you are a second thought to your partner in an obvious way in multiple occasions, what does that really say about how your partner thinks of you? Where are you in their life as far as a priority? No one wants to say “put me over anyone else” but I should be a consideration one of the first few and feeling like I was none, definitely not OK, and really, it sucks thinking about it.

Why you reading the description? The title says it all. Men want respect, but sits so common how often we let our guard down around those we’ve failed to establish boundaries with. Yes being patient has it perks, but don’t be overly patient. Don’t be some else’s rug, not for a partner, family and especially no “friend”. Set you boundaries, demand your respect (none aggressively of course) & be true to you and love yourself enough to do these things.

It’s a shorty but still some good stuff here make sure you’re taking care of you before you try to appease of other people

Here we are talking about how the mother and I had gotten into a heated debate that definitely went way too far. There was too many people exposed to what had happened and it’s important for us to take a moment to realize how much our actions affect those around us.

So here we go! We are a day away from the climax in my opinion but let’s dive into subtle events that add to a much bigger picture.