Why Failure is the Best Thing That Can Happen to You

Erwin McManus has built movements, written bestsellers, and impacted millions, but what really sets him apart is his ability to cut through the noise and challenge how we think. In this episode of BUILD, Stephen Scoggins sits down with Erwin to unpack the core lessons from his book Mind Shift, diving into why talent is overrated, why success can stunt your growth, and why forgiveness isn’t optional if you want real freedom. They explore: - The hidden danger of rapid success - Why most people self-sabotage despite immense potential - How to build a team without destroying your soul - What it takes to lead with humility and still win - The painful truth about outgrowing relationships And the trap of image management that leaves even the most “successful” people completely alone If you're tired of chasing empty wins and want to become someone who actually matters to your family, your business, and your future, this episode is your wake-up call.

Damon West was a star quarterback. A Capitol Hill staffer. A Wall Street stockbroker. And then he became a meth addict leading a burglary ring in Dallas. That spiral landed him a 65-year prison sentence. But prison didn't break Damon. It built him. In this raw and transformational conversation with Stephen Scoggins, Damon shares how addiction, identity loss, and self-destruction gave way to surrender, faith, redemption, and purpose. He breaks down how he rewrote his story inside a prison cell and how you can rewrite yours too, no matter how dark your past is. You’ll hear Damon talk about: - The one mindset shift that changed everything - Why “I need help” are the three most powerful words you can say - How to escape the prison of your mind - What it really means to be the Coffee Bean - The truth about addiction, recovery, and real leadership If you’ve ever felt stuck, ashamed, or like your mistakes define you—this episode will help you turn the page. Damon West’s story isn’t just redemption. It’s a blueprint. Listen. Reflect. And start writing your next chapter today. Connect with Damon West Website: https://damonwest.org Instagram: @damonwest7 Twitter/X: @damonwest7

In this raw and powerful conversation, Jenn Gottlieb shares how she went from living a lie on a VH1 heavy metal show to building one of the most authentic and impactful personal brands on the planet. She breaks down: - How to start before you're ready - Why imposter syndrome never really goes away - The secret to finding your voice online - What confidence really is and how to build it daily How to create community that fuels your growth The real reason you're scared to post... and how to fix it If you’ve ever felt like you’re not “ready” to put yourself out there, this is your permission slip to start messy, stay consistent, and be seen. 💥 Get Jenn’s book “Be Seen” + bonuses here: https://beseenbook.com 📲 Follow Jenn on Instagram: https://instagram.com/jen_gottlieb 🔥 Connect with Stephen: https://stephenscoggins.com

In this episode of BUILD, Stephen sits down with Touré Roberts to unpack what it really takes to grow as a person, lead with clarity, and succeed without losing yourself in the process. Touré explains the difference between self-awareness and soul awareness, why most people misunderstand balance, and how becoming selfful instead of selfish leads to better relationships, stronger leadership, and a more grounded life. They cover: - Why failure is a goldmine if you pay attention - How to lead and live from the inside out - What imbalance looks like and how to fix it - The trap of constant yes and the power of no - How to rebuild trust after life hits hard - The mindset shift that unlocks peace and purpose If you've ever felt overwhelmed, burned out, or disconnected from your purpose, this conversation will help you reconnect with who you are and where you're going. Get Touré’s book Balance at thebalancebook.com

In this powerful conversation, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus author John Gray joins Stephen Scoggins to break down the biological and emotional differences between men and women, and why ignoring them is wrecking modern relationships. They talk testosterone, estrogen, emotional intelligence, communication, sex, and why so many couples are burning out. If you’re tired of surface-level advice and want real answers to real relationship problems, this is the episode to watch. In this episode: - Why chronic stress destroys testosterone in men and estrogen in women - The biology behind polarity and attraction - How role reversal is killing sex and intimacy - The truth about porn, performance, and male self-worth - Why modern relationships lack structure—and how to fix it - Communication hacks that actually work (not fluff) - What creates real, lasting connection in marriage 🔥 If you're serious about creating a strong, intimate, and lasting relationship, this conversation will challenge everything you think you know. 📚 Learn more from John Gray: marsvenus.com

Most people don’t fail in business because of a bad product or lack of hustle. They fail because they never learned how money, taxes, and wealth-building actually work. In this episode of BUILD with Stephen Scoggins, I'm joined by Carter Cofield and George Acheampong, two of the most respected voices in financial literacy, entrepreneurship, and tax strategy for business owners. We cover: How to legally reduce your taxes as a business owner Why most people stay stuck in the 9-5 cycle The mindset shift from working for money to building passive income The real difference between being rich and building generational wealth What schools never teach about financial freedom and investing Whether you’re a first-time entrepreneur, a six-figure business owner, or on the path to financial independence, this episode gives you the real-world strategies the wealthy use, and most people never hear about. This is not theory. This is the wealth playbook. Hit play if you're ready to break out of the grind and build a life of freedom on your terms.

A broken man can only serve to break generations of women, and the consequences of fatherlessness reach deeper than most realize. In this eye-opening conversation, I sit down with my good friend RC Blakes, one of the most powerful voices on relationships, self-worth, and healing, to unpack the hidden struggles women face when they grow up without a strong father figure. Why do so many women struggle with choosing the right partner? How does fatherlessness create deep emotional and relational wounds? What can women (and men) do to break this cycle and step into wholeness? I’ve seen firsthand how the absence of a healthy masculine presence in a woman’s life can shape the partners she attracts and the pain she endures. RC Blakes and I dive deep into the “approval trap”, why many women unknowingly seek validation from the wrong men, and how toxic masculinity subtly manipulates and drains women’s self-esteem. I've walked my own journey of healing and growth and I know that without doing the deep work, we keep repeating painful patterns. Whether you’ve struggled in relationships, questioned your self-worth, or want to create healthier connections in your life, this conversation will challenge you to think differently. Follow RC Blakes: Website: rcblakes.com YouTube: RC Blakes Jr Instagram: @rcblakes

In this groundbreaking episode of BUILD, we dive deep with entrepreneur, author, and punk rock lover Andrew Thorp King, the bold mind behind the powerful book "Failure Rules." Andy’s extraordinary journey, from punk rocker and record label owner to fintech pioneer and bestselling author was built on embracing setbacks as catalysts for transformation. In this episode: - Why failure is the "great purifier" and how it burns away your limitations. - How Andy went from a crushing business and marital breakdown to reinventing his life completely. - The secret to harnessing chaos and turning it into unstoppable growth. - Practical strategies to turn your worst moments into your biggest breakthroughs. - How to find your true calling by facing—and leveraging—rejection. - Real-life examples and laws from Andy’s personal "playbook" that can immediately upgrade your approach to business and life. If you’re feeling stuck, lost, or knocked down by life, this episode is your wake-up call. Andy’s authentic, no-BS insights offer you the tools to not just survive your setbacks but thrive because of them.

What if you could rewire your mindset and take control of your destiny starting today? Dr. John Demartini has spent decades transforming lives, helping people break through limiting beliefs, and mastering personal and financial growth. In this powerful episode of BUILD with Stephen Scoggins, we go deep into the psychology of success, values-driven decision-making, and the mindset shifts that separate struggling entrepreneurs from 8 and 9 figure business owners. In this episode, you’ll discover: - The science behind breaking free from limiting beliefs - How to align your values to unlock unstoppable motivation - The six-step process Dr. Demartini used to scale his business - The key to sustainable success without burnout or distractions - How to delegate effectively and focus on high-value tasks - Why most entrepreneurs unknowingly live someone else's life If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or like you're grinding without results, this conversation will change how you see business and success forever. Ready to level up? Watch now and start building your unstoppable empire. About Our Guest: Dr. John Demartini is a world-renowned human behavior expert, author, and business strategist. He has shared the stage with some of the greatest thought leaders of our time and has helped millions of people master their lives through science-backed strategies.

What if now is the perfect time to build the life and business you’ve been dreaming of? In this episode of BUILD, Amy Porterfield shares powerful advice on how to turn your "what if" into "what’s next." Whether you're stuck in a 9-to-5, dreaming of freedom, or finally ready to quit and start your own business, this is the conversation you didn’t know you needed. Amy opens up about: - Why waiting for the "perfect time" is the biggest mistake - How to shift from employee to entrepreneur (without losing your mind) - Building your dream before you're ready - Overcoming the fear of "Who am I to do this?" - Creating your runway to quit your job the right way - How to stop worrying about the "ugly website" and just start - The mindset shift that took her from corporate to 7-figure business owner This isn’t just about quitting your job. It’s about betting on yourself, stepping into your power, and finally building something that’s yours.