#24 Raising Emotional Children with an Undefined Solar Plexus with Susan Glenister & Jo Fenlon

In this episode I’m joined by Allyson, a 5/1 emotional Projector, to discuss the 4 Transformations, more often called the “Variables”. We get pretty passionate in this episode about “shiny object syndrome” of the variables and the “pop HD” content you can find on social media, if you want to skip our rant (but I suggest you don’t) you can skip to 27:08.We go on to discuss the variable arrows at the color level and talk through the 4 transformations of determination, environment (the independent variables), & view and motivation (the dependent variables). Allyson shares what the colour variables are and what they are not! We discuss the popular “manifestation arrow” and if it even exists! Allyson shares her incredible 1st line knowledge of how the color variable arrows can change your life and what you need to ensure you have done first before you dive into variables!Allyson shares practical and tangible examples of how the variables and their transference show up in real life.Throughout this episode I mention a course I took (& paid in full) with Allyson Forseth in 2022. “HD is color” is enrolling RIGHT NOW and I couldn’t recommend it more. Check out the information here and use the code “innocence” for a sweet discount on upcoming rounds!To continue the conversation, be sure to follow me on instagram, @rachaelami.Sign up for my email list to keep up to date on all new episodes HERE!Allyson found Human Design in 2018, on the brink of some big life changes. Throughout the following four years, Allyson began her Human Design experiment, studied voraciously (in true 1st line Investigator fashion), completed an advanced training program, began offering 1:1 Human Design sessions, opened an Etsy store, and started her business. Allyson is a 5/1 Emotional Projector. Allyson is passionate about engaging, accessible, and differentiated learning opportunities. She is skilled in creating comprehensibility for learners and believes deeply in the power of learning in community.Connect with Allyson on instagram:@allyson.forseth Jump to:(27:08) The radical transformations.(30:13) Determination (40:09) Environment (53:11) The personality variables(55:23) View - Perspective(1:03:30) Motivation

In this week’s episode, ⅗ emotional Manifestor Ryan joins me in to share in our experience of innocence motivation. We both share how we experience it in our lives now, plus the journey we took to accepting and embracing the 6th line color of motivation. We share how innocence motivation can be interpreted as naive, but how it is essential for us to have the detached, big picture view of what has come, and what is coming next. Ryan and I share how desire transference has knocked us off course in the past and how we navigate a life with “no agenda” as we grow our businesses and thrive in a capitalistic world.This episode was recorded in late summer 2022.Ryan is an Integrative Energy Therapist. She provides energy healing and intuitive guidance to folks who feel stuck in their limiting beliefs and patterns. She helps them get back to their innate power so they can reignite their inner fire and live their dream life.Connect with Ryan here:https://www.instagram.com/energywithryan/https://www.energywithryan.com/Throughout this episode I mention a course I took (& paid in full) with Allyson Forseth in 2021. “HD is color” is enrolling RIGHT NOW and I couldn’t recommend it more. Check out the information here and use the code “INNOCENCE” for a sweet 10% discount off  this round (starting March 17th!)To continue the conversation, be sure to follow me on instagram, @rachaelami.Sign up for my email list to keep up to date on all new episodes HERE!To book a reading and find other ways you can work with me visit my website www.rachaelami.co.uk, use the promo code PODCAST22 for a special discount.Timestamps:(04:05) How Innocence motivation feels in real life for Ryan and Rachael. (06:35) Innocence motivation and planning for the future.(09:03) Naivety, being gullible and living life in the present with the 6th line color motivation variable.(14:35) The lack of value in innocence motivation our society. (16:02) Suppressing the innocence motivation in order to feel successful.(20:24) Innocence motivation and vulnerability.(21:34) Authenticity, expression and navigating disappointment.(23:35) Restoring and replenishing as an emotional authority with innocence motivation.(27:55) Seeing the silver linings and NOT always sharing them.(29:35) Innocence motivation and business.(33:45) Having an open heart + this motivation and the needed for outside help in entrepreneurship.(35:25) The 6th line theme of “sitting on the fence” and the evolution of sales in business.(35:44) Transference motivation of the 3rd line color - desire motivation. And my experience of working with Allyson Forseth.(40:06) How to manifest and create with innocence motivation.(43:25) Being a specific Manifestor and manifesting with your motivation. (44:05) The innocence motivation need to craft and create beautiful things. (47:00) The importance of living slowly and softly.(49:45) The need to chase in a capitalistic world. (51:17) Ryan’s favourite part of being innocence motivation right now.

In this week’s episode I’m joined by Claire, 5/1 Splenic Manifestor, who shares how she has built a business that harnesses and honours her inconsistent energy and rest cycles as a Manifestor. We discuss creative urges and how they often take many weeks or months to come into the world and make an impact on the collective. Claire and I talk about the need to trust that the energy will come and honouring the impulse of your body to create. We share about creating a business built on your rules of life. Finally Claire shares the 3 biggest pieces of advice to build a business as a Manifestor. Claire Mockridge is 5/1 Splenic Manifestor, a business mentor to fitness professionals, and a pelvic floor exercise educator. Claire taught fitness and Pilates classes for 13+ years and firstly specialised in pregnancy and postnatal exercise, before finally finding her feet as a pelvic floor expert. She enjoys helping fellow fitness professionals treat their own clients using very non-traditional, non-Kegel approach. And, she loves helping her audience build successful fitness businesses so that they attract more motivated clients, earn the money they deserve for the amazingly caring work that they do, and take more time off so they avoid burnout.You can connect with Claire on instagram @ClaireMockridgewww.clairemockridge.comTo continue the conversation, be sure to follow me on instagram, @rachaelami. If you have a topic you’d love me to dive into or an expert to recommend email me at [email protected] up for my email list to keep up to date on all new episodes HERE!To book a reading and find other ways you can work with me visit my website www.rachaelami.co.uk, use the promo code PODCAST22 for a special discount!If you loved this episode make sure you screenshot and tag me on social media.Timestamps:(3:35) Creative Urges don’t always come through quickly and how to know if the urge is still yours.(7:50) Trusting in the timing of your urges.(9:00) Claire’s journey from in-person fitness instructor to online entrepreneur.(13:02) The 5th line projection field.(13:25) As a Manifestor your needs are very different in work and vocation. (14:00) When anger shows up in your work.(17:30) Honouring your rest cycle as a Manifestor and giving yourself permission to be where you are at.(24:33) Claire’s Manifestor Utopia. (27:40) Rethinking timelines as a Manifestor(36:01) Responding in business - Facebook groups for Manifestors(38:00) Claire’s top tips for Manifestors in business.

In this week’s episode I’m joined by Lucy Peel, 2/4 Sacral Generator, to discuss the 6 profile lines. We have both learned so much about ourselves, our loved ones, and deepened our knowledge of the system through the study of the lines. We talk through each profile line sharing how they show up in real life, permission and advice for each line. We cover line 1 the investigator, 2 the hermit/the natural, line 3 the martyr/experimenter, line 4 the opportunist/networker, line the heretic/reluctant hero & line 6 the role model. Each sharing what we love and admire about the characteristics of each line. We discuss right angle, left angle and juxtaposition crosses and how they change the way you view the world. Lucy Peel is a 2/4 Generator who is LIT UP by Human Design in every way. She has been an entrepreneur for 18 years and regularly uses Human Design to lead her teams in real life. She loves to share the acceptance and power that Human Design brings into the life of the other.You can connect with Lucy on instagram @luce0709If you loved this episode, you can buy me a coffee :) Your small support allows me to continue creating incredible and impactful content!https://www.buymeacoffee.com/PracticalATo continue the conversation, be sure to follow me on instagram, @rachaelami. If you have a topic you’d love me to dive into or an expert to recommend email me at [email protected] up for my email list to keep up to date on all new episodes HERE!To book a reading and find other ways you can work with me visit my website www.rachaelami.co.uk, use the promo code PODCAST22 for a special discount!If you loved this episode make sure you screenshot and tag me on social media.Timestamps:(02:04) Lucy first connected with Human Design through resonating mostly with her husband’s chart!(03:55) Accepting yourself and your family through Human Design.(10:33) Line 1  - The Investigator - Stability, the foundation, need for deep knowledge(14:05) Line 2 - The Hermit/The Natural - The “call”, projection, natural gifts, wanting to be alone(19:12) The 3 gates of aloneness, gate 33, 40 and 12 plus the 2nd line.(21:48) Putting value, and pricing your gifts as a 2nd line or open heart in business.(25:00) Line 3 - The Experimenter/The Martyr - trial & error, victimisation (34:28) Line 4 - The Opportunist/The Networker - Niceness/meaness, creating connections, the correct people, mutually beneficial opportunities(40:28) Line 5 - The Reluctant Hero/The Heretic - projections, problem-solving, boundaries, specific requirements, (49:55) Line 6 - The Role Model - The 3 life phases, being a 3rd line without the resilience, being objective, empowering being on the roof, being a role model(57:30) The upper and lower trigram, right angle and left angle cross experience.(01:01:10) The juxtaposition and the 4/1 profile.

In this week’s episode I’m joined by 2 very special guests, Jo Fenlon 2/4 MG and mother to 3 children, and Susan Glenister, 3/5 Splenic Projector, new mom to an 11 month old baby. Both beautiful mums do not have emotional authority and we dive into discussion around how they are navigating raising emotional authority children. We discuss each of the 3 emotional waves and how they show up differently. Susan shares her experience of witnessing the emotional waves of her baby and Jo shares how her children’s “moods” look as they grow up. They share wisdom and advice into how using Human Design has helped inform the way they support their kids. Susan Glenister is a human design mentor & guide, and a certified Quantum Coach. She is passionate about guiding you back to your highest self using human design. Connect with Susan here: www.instagram.com/​​alignwithsusanJo is a Human Design reader specializing in children and family dynamics.  Connect with Jo here: www.instagram.com/beige_rainbow_designsIf you loved this episode, you can buy me a coffee :) Your small support allows me to continue creating incredible and impactful content!https://www.buymeacoffee.com/PracticalATo continue the conversation, be sure to follow me on instagram, @rachaelami. If you have a topic you’d love me to dive into or an expert to recommend email me at [email protected] up for my email list to keep up to date on all new episodes HERE!To book a reading and find other ways you can work with me visit my website www.rachaelami.co.uk, use the promo code PODCAST22 for a special discount!If you loved this episode make sure you screenshot and tag me on social media.Timestamps:(02:22) Jo discovered Human Design once she was already a mother of 2 and recognized her struggle with her children’s emotions.(04:24) The changes Jo made to support her children and herself once she discovered their emotional authority. (06:00) Setting the emotional tone or energy wherever you go as an emotional definition.(06:51) Susan was already studying Human Design when her daughter was born and discusses how obvious her emotional wave is. Does carrying an emotionally defined baby affect your pregnancy? (12:45) Human Design allows parents to name emotions without passing judgement.(13:33) Having 2 undefined emotional parents and supporting their needs being unemotional. Discussing with male parents around supporting emotional children.  (14:40) Not trying to fix your child’s emotions.(15:30) Wanting to avoid the confrontation as an emotionally undefined.(16:48) The discomfort in being around emotions for undefined solar plexus people.(18:30) The emotional effect on non-emotional children. (22:10) Learning from emotional adults to better understand your emotional children.(25:24) Having an undefined solar plexus is like waking up with an empty, open cup. Deconditioning the undefined solar plexus. (28:02) Undefined solar plexus amplifying emotions.(30:02) The differences in undefined and open emotional centers. (33:05) The nuance of hanging incarnation cross gates in the solar plexus.(34:45) Electromagnetic channels in the solar plexus and the complete stream of sensing.(38:00) Human Design for the parents.

In this week’s episode Susan Glenister, 3/5 Splenic Projector, joins me to discuss life with an open heart. We both share our experiences of feeling worthy, deserving, or good enough and how the underlying theme of not being worthy has shaped many phases of our life. Susan shares how the undefined sacral and open heart has affected her ability to rest, to be still and to slow down. I share how my undefined G center shows up with my open heart in my ability to trust my purpose and my direction. We talk about the greater collective conditioning of the toxic heart center traits and our ability to be successful within these bounds. We also discuss being entrepreneurs, pricing ourselves and feeling worthy of great success in our businesses. Susan Glenister is a 3/5 quad right splenic projector. She is a human design mentor & guide, and a certified Quantum Coach. She is the human behind “Align with Susan”, and is passionate about guiding you back to your highest self using human design.Connect with Susan here:www.instagram.com/​​alignwithsusanIf you loved this episode, you can buy me a coffee :) Your small support allows me to continue creating incredible and impactful content!https://www.buymeacoffee.com/PracticalATo continue the conversation, be sure to follow me on instagram, @rachaelami. If you have a topic you’d love me to dive into or an expert to recommend email me at [email protected] up for my email list to keep up to date on all new episodes HERE!To book a reading and find other ways you can work with me visit my website www.rachaelami.co.uk, use the promo code PODCAST22 for a special discount!If you loved this episode make sure you screenshot and tag me on social media.Timestamps:(03:00) Susan’s first connection to Human Design during her Saturn return and experiencing an intense burn out.(05:00) Navigating Saturn return. (06:15) The validation of your feelings as a Projector, you’re not lazy or broken. (08:13) Splenic authority. (10:45) Having an undefined sacral and an open heart center.(13:11) Susan’s experience of body building as an open heart.(15:55) The negative stories in your open heart.(17:34) Strategies for navigating life with an open heart.(18:30) The combination of the open heart and an undefined sacral, avoiding conflict and commitment.(20:00) The inconsistency of the conditioning in the open heart.(21:14) How the open heart amplifies other conditioning in your chart. (22:05) Not feeling “good enough”, getting stuck in mediocrity.  (25:20) The daily practice of deconditioning the open heart center. vg(26:15) Worthy of success.(28:20) Being an entrepreneur with an open heart. (32:22) The energetics of pricing your offerings. (33:30) Motivation(35:00) Being aware of other’s designs in the coaching space (42:00) The importance of being aware of having a defined heart (45:40) The pieces to love about having an open heart. 

We had some technical issues this week! I apologise for the bad quality on my side, but please listen through as this episode is SO powerful!In this week’s episode we share a beautiful conversation about raising Manifestor children in a sacral conditioned world. My guest Amy Omen, 5/1 emotional Generator, openly shares her experience in raising her 5/1 emotional Manifestor and feeling her self-awareness and independence from the very early days. Amy shares her advice in holding space for emotional authority children by honoring all moods that show her and often checking in with that mood throughout the day. She shares how Human Design has allowed her greater self-compassion as a parent, spouse and friend that she has been able to model for her children. We discuss the ways in which Amy supports her daughter’s undefined sacral center and closed dense aura as she moves through the world, using informing for every member of the family to stay connected. We talk about honoring anger and creating a safe space for it to be expressed in order to stay in alignment as a Manifestor. Finally Amy shares her advice for raising a Manifestor child for parents and future parents.Connect with Amy here:www.instagram.com/amy_in_alignment_ www.instagram.com/kundalini_meets_human_designAs a Kundalini Yoga Teacher and Human Design Reader, Amy focuses on supporting individuals, parents and couples de-condition from limiting beliefs and old paradigms, so they can find freedom in self-love and awareness practices. Amy is very passionate about empowering parents and teachers to guide the next generations from a Human Design lens. Available for 1:1 Alignment Calls, Advanced Human Design Readings and Parenting Sessions.To continue the conversation, be sure to follow me on instagram, @rachaelami. If you have a topic you’d love me to dive into or an expert to recommend email me at [email protected] up for my email list to keep up to date on all new episodes HERE!To book a reading and find other ways you can work with me visit my website www.rachaelami.co.uk, use the promo code PODCAST22 for a special discount!If you loved this episode make sure you screenshot and tag me on social media.Timestamps:(02:34) How Amy first found Human Design whilst trying to “fix” herself and struggling with lack of self-worth.(07:15) Human Design & relationships, awareness in connection.(09:03) Not taking your children’s responses to the world personally. (12:23) Embracing your child’s emotions without judging them.(13:40) The power of parents using Human Design and conditioning as part of the journey.(15:40) Noticing the differences in a Manifestor baby. (18:30) Supporting your Manifestor child in their anger. (23:05) Empowering your children to say no and express themselves. (23:40) Anger as an energetic state as a Manifestor.(29:55) The independence of Manifestor children.(32:06) Informing as parents and children in a household.(38:30) Supporting Manifestors into young adulthood.(42:00) Using a Human Design chart and centers to guide your children.(46:45) The closes aura of a Manifestor.(52:15) Advice for Manifestor parents. 

In this week’s episode we dive deeply into what rest actually looks like when you have an undefined sacral, and the regular life commitments we all have to keep. My guest Jenna Britton, 6/2 Splenic Projector, and I discuss how you can begin to, and continue to incorporate rest into your life in small but supportive ways as non-sacral. We talk deeply about the awareness of the tiredness in your physical body and the permission to be more tired than those around you. We also talk about feeling lazy, the shame around need more rest and creating new ways of looking at what rest means. We share how you can make the same task more nourishing or restorative by making small changes that support your energy, your emotions and your body that day. Jenna and I also share the impact you can make on your community when you acknowledge and honour your need for rest. We compare our experiences of having a defined (Jenna) and an open (Rachael) heart center and how this plays into our ability to restfully relax. Jenna Britton is a clarity coach and writer. She uses Human Design to help people identify who and how they’re designed to be, illuminating the authentic and aligned ways they can show up in work, relationships, their purpose, and more. Jenna has also been a freelance writer since 2012, writing feature articles and sharing personal stories that highlight her own (ongoing) journey to clarity, authenticity, and personal fulfilment. Her writing has been published in Salon, Thought Catalog, Darling Magazine, The Everygirl, and several other publications. And in 2016, she gave a TEDx Talk on how story has the power to change your life. These days, you can find her words on Instagram and Substack.Connect with Jenna here:https://braveenoughtobe.com/https://braveenoughtobe.substack.com/If you loved this episode, you can buy me a coffee :) Your small support allows me to continue creating incredible and impactful content!https://www.buymeacoffee.com/PracticalATo continue the conversation, be sure to follow me on instagram, @rachaelami. If you have a topic you’d love me to dive into or an expert to recommend email me at [email protected] up for my email list to keep up to date on all new episodes HERE!To book a reading and find other ways you can work with me visit my website www.rachaelami.co.uk, use the promo code PODCAST22 for a special discount!If you loved this episode make sure you screenshot and tag me on social media.Timestamps:(02:55) How resting impacted our capacity to record this episode. (03:33) How the Universe sometimes sends trials to test you.(04:01) The conditioning around being tired and without energy. (07:15) What an undefined sacral means in a real life way, the inconsistency of non-sacral energy. (09:40) Sometimes you can’t rest and what to do and how to strategize. (12:40) Accepting your inconsistent energy.(15:10) Accepting rest and self worth.(19:31) Doing only one thing at a time in order to rest.(21:10) Meditation and rest. (22:15) Awareness of needing to slow down and rest.(24:30) Reframing what rest means.(28:18) Setting the example by honouring your rest.(36:13) Being called lazy and your projections around it.(39:30) How the defined or undefined heart impacts your ability to rest as a non-sacral. (49:00) Creating a world that supports all types better. (51:20) Shifting the world to embracing inconsistency. (56:15) Taking baby steps towards rest.

In this episode I’m joined by Sophie, a 2/4 Sacral Generator to talk all things 2nd line profile. We begin our conversation with the permission to be “selfish” that Human Design has given us both, that serving ourselves IS serving others. We talk about how our second line need to hermit and be alone shows up in real life but also the shame & guilt associated with this need as we have grown up. We both share the need to recognize our gifts & allow them to be easy ESPECIALLY in business and the importance of responding to the right calls from the people around us. Sophie shares her experience with her 4th line network and we compare it to my 5th line projections.Connect with Sophie here:For Human Design -  @humandesign.guidewww.humandesignguide.orgFor Upper Cervical Chiropractor & team - @koeolife www.koeolife.comSophie Anderson is an Upper Cervical Chiropractor living in Barcelona. She is fascinated with Human Design & loves to share her knowledge with her community.If you loved this episode, you can buy me a coffee :) Your small support allows me to continue creating incredible and impactful content! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/PracticalATo continue the conversation, be sure to follow me on instagram, @rachaelami. If you have a topic you’d love me to dive into or an expert to recommend email me at [email protected] up for my email list to keep up to date on all new episodes HERE!To book a reading and find other ways you can work with me visit my website www.rachaelami.co.uk, use the promo code PODCAST22 for a special discount!If you loved this episode make sure you screenshot and tag me on social media.Timestamps:(02:58) Sophie’s first dive into Human Design with Lacey Phillips and how it all started to make sense in a practical way.(05:25) Discovering that Generators are here to be selfish and do things that they love. (07:30) The shame when you first discover your conditioning. Grieving and the open identity center.(11:00) The 2nd line life of “good at everything” but the master of nothing.(15:40) Following your body as a 2nd line. (23:45) Balancing connecting and alone time as a 2/4 profile.(29:50) 2/4 profile vs. the 2/5 profile in real life.(32:25) The nuance of non-sacrals being with lots of people.(34:30) Being a 2nd line in relationships. (36:00) 4th line profile curating communities within their networks.(43:00) Understanding “the call” for a 2nd line and the projections of the 5th line.(45:45) The opportunist, meanness/niceness in real life of the 4th line.(50:15) Having an open solar plexus in connection and facing conflict.(57:43) When you serve yourself you serve those around you.(1:01:00) Redefining work as a 2nd line and entrepreneur.(01:12:07) Advice for a second line in business.

In this episode I’m joined by Susan, 2/4 Emotional Manifesting Generator to talk evolutionary astrology, changing your life and permission to become who you’ve always known you’ve been. Susan and I have been working together combining the power of the astrology natal chart with the in the moment tools of Human Design to allow clients to take back their power, autonomy, and build deep trust with their intuition. We discuss the difference between anxiety and your authority/intuition and how the intense fear conditioning of our society is a difficult thing to overcome. We discuss energy, vibration and being able to hold both joy and sadness at the same time. Apologies for the weird alien sounds in my track this week, no idea what happened and this episode is WAY too good to skip.Connect with Susan here:www.instagram.com/sacredsoulventureswww.sacredsoulventures.lifehttps://www.facebook.com/Sacred-Soul-Ventures-LLC-104668464936193Susan is a Certified Holistic Coach, Astrologer and Reiki Master Teacher. She has a thriving practice in Willimantic, Connecticut that combines all of these modalities. Her clients come to her because they feel lost. They accept things as they are instead of awakening to their fullest life. They feel unfulfilled because they are living other people’s expectations. At Sacred Soul Ventures, she helps you rediscover the truth of who you are by reconnecting you to your soul’s purpose through astrology, coaching and energy work. Come home to yourself!If you loved this episode, you can buy me a coffee :) Your small support allows me to continue creating incredible and impactful content! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/PracticalATo continue the conversation, be sure to follow me on instagram, @rachaelami. If you have a topic you’d love me to dive into or an expert to recommend email me at [email protected] up for my email list to keep up to date on all new episodes HERE!To book a reading and find other ways you can work with me visit my website www.rachaelami.co.uk, use the promo code PODCAST22 for a special discount!If you loved this episode make sure you screenshot and tag me on social media.Timestamps:(03:05) Susan’s first interaction with Human Design, being overwhelmed to begin with. (05:53) How Human Design and a Natal chart reading can truly change your life.(07:30) The ancient history of astrology, western, vedic.(09:15) How a reading can change your life.(10:41) The impact of the beliefs around you, cultural, family systems or community. An introduction to evolutionary astrology.(13:55) Where Astrology meets Human Design. (14:52) How Human Design gives you permission to remove layers of conditioning and be who you are.(18:00) How this work gives clients the tools to take control of their life and create a life that feel good.(21:40) How Human Design teaches you the skills to create your boundaries and follow your intuition.(25:10) How society teaches us NOT to trust your body.(29:30) The difference between fear and anxiety. (32:00) Manifesting Generators in business.(38:38) The individual circuitry with the 59-6 and the 4th line profile.(39:35) Paula Shepherd, confidence and business coaching programs. www.thecourageblueprint.com(40:11) Living in a lack and fear driven society and staying open to abundance, love and joy.