Willingness vs Intent #736

In this episode, we answer a listeners question about how to address an issue that has come up now that his wife has had a partial hysterectomy and gets too wet so there is a loss of friction. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … We explore the difference between a willingness vs intent to have sex. Only this segment is one where Pam and I are not on the same page and it goes a completely different way than Corey was thinking it would beforehand. Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Willingness vs Intent #736 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode, recorded live from the 2025 Sex Marriage Radio Getaway, we explore how spending too much focus on the beginning of a sexual encounter can actually hurt the desire levels in both spouses. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … The second portion of the live Q&A session from the 2025 Getaway. Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Too Much Focus On The Beginning – Live from the Getaway #735 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode, recorded live from the 2025 Sex Marriage Radio Getaway, I quiz Pam and the audience on what they know about various aspects of sex. Follow along, or get a piece of paper and see how you score. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … A portion of the live Q&A session from the 2025 Getaway. Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Sex Quiz – Live from the Getaway #734 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we address the complexities of navigating new relationships after experiencing loss. We discuss the challenges faced by a young widow who is trying to reconcile her past relationship with her new partner, emphasizing the importance of establishing boundaries, open communication, and allowing space for grief. Our conversation highlights the necessity of collaboration in relationships and the need for self-confrontation to foster personal growth and healing. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … An email from a wife asking for help navigating over a year and a half of infertility in her marriage. How do you make it intimate when it becomes so task oriented instead? And, how do you handle the meanings of the struggle during this season? Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Grief and Infertility #733 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio we explore the Love Languages from Gary Chapman. Specifically we dive into how there are some problems with them that can actually be harmful to relationships. How exactly can something so widely known, and even loved, be possible? Listen to find out. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … An email from an Academy member wants to know about action steps to move beyond the "Nice Guy" - that's what we go through today. Sponsors … Paired App: Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SMR Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post The Problem With Love Languages #732 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we revisit an archive show with Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife. We dive into the topic of obligation sex. Is it a part of every marriage? Is it harmful to one, or both spouses? To learn more from Jennifer and find her Room For Two Podcast – check out her site https://www.finlayson-fife.com/ Enjoy the show! Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Best of SMR: Obligation Sex | Jennifer Finlayson-Fife #731 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we dive into an email from a listener wanting help with the complexities of desire and connection in marriage. A husband is feeling used in a relationship where sexual interest seems limited to ovulation periods. Our conversation dives into the dynamics of sexual desire, the impact of past trauma, and the importance of communication in navigating these challenges. We explore the need for emotional connection and understanding in relationships, highlighting the two-choice dilemma faced by spouses when their desires do not align. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … We continue the conversation and go deeper into the moves they each can make to better face the gridlock in their marriage. Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Desire For Sex Or For Your Spouse #730 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we explore common mistakes that couples make in their sexual relationships. They categorize these mistakes into those typically made by men and women, discussing issues such as communication, self-care, and understanding each other's desires. The conversation emphasizes the importance of connection and intimacy over mere physical encounters, encouraging couples to engage in open dialogue and prioritize their emotional and physical well-being. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … We covered the mistakes men make in the regular version - now we cover the mistakes women make. Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Mistakes We Make In Sex #729 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

We go back into the archives to one of the Best of SMR episodes. An email from a wife who has discovered the eroticism and freedom that can happen when masturbating together with her husband.  What’s the difference between sexual thoughts and lust? A husband wanting to know what to do when he’s tried to live in a way that ignites his wife’s passion (according to an old post I wrote – https://smr.fm/heads-up-husbands-5-ways-to-ignite-your-wifes-passions/) and yet his wife had an affair. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … How do you confront gridlock in your marriage and what are the forced choice dilemmas that come along with them? Sponsors … Everylove Intimates: Add spice and connection to your marriage with a Date Box. Get 20% off with our code SMR at https://everyloveintimates.com/smr Acorns: A financial wellness app that makes it easy to invest for your future, save for tomorrow, and spend smarter today. https://acorns.com/passion Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Best of SMR: Mutual Masturbation #728 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we explore the complexities of relationships, focusing on the concept of regressions and how they affect emotional functioning. We discuss the different types of regressions, the impact of stress, and the contagious nature of regression in relationships. Our conversation emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and understanding one's emotional state to improve relationship dynamics. Takeaways Understanding regressions can empower individuals in relationships. Acute regressions are short-lived but impactful. Steady state regressions can go unnoticed and affect daily functioning. Stressful life events can trigger regressions. Recognizing triggers is crucial for managing regressions. The emotional state of one partner can influence the other. Communication is key to navigating regressions in relationships. Self-awareness helps in identifying personal regressions. High meaning situations can exacerbate emotional challenges. Assuming one is regressed until proven otherwise can lead to better self-management. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … In the XTD, we described what regressions look like - now we cover what you can do about them. Join us to find our. Sponsors … Everylove Intimates: Add spice and connection to your marriage with a Date Box. Get 20% off with our code SMR at https://everyloveintimates.com/smr Academy: Join the Academy and go deep The post Understanding Our Functioning Is The Key To A Better Marriage #727 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.