4007: Your Own Standards by Tynan on Self Defined Values

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4013: Anthony Ongaro explores how to design a more intentional and fulfilling life by breaking an “ideal day” into practical areas like health, creativity, relationships, income, and relaxation. Rather than chasing perfection, he encourages experimentation and self-awareness, offering simple prompts that can help uncover what genuinely energizes and motivates you over time. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.breakthetwitch.com/visualize-your-ideal-day/ Quotes to ponder: “A goal is not always meant to be reached, it often serves simply as something to aim at.” “Life really is a journey of experimentation and personal growth through failure, it’s just as important to find out what isn’t the right thing as what is.” “There are lots of ways to make money, and depending on how you make your income now, your vision may or may not be different from what you already do.” Episode references: Centers for Disease Control and Prevention – Physical Activity Basics: https://www.cdc.gov/physicalactivity/basics/index.htm Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4012: Elana Miller explores practical ways to work with difficult emotions without becoming consumed by them. Drawing from meditation practice and mindfulness research, she explains how awareness, emotional detachment, conscious release, and cultivating positive states can help create more calm, resilience, and emotional balance in everyday life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://zenpsychiatry.com/4-ways-to-cope-with-negative-emotions/ Quotes to ponder: “Both negative and positive emotions are experiences that ebb and flow as an inevitable part of life.” “Think of negative emotions as experiences that pass through you rather than character traits that define you.” “You can’t get rid of all bad feelings (that wouldn’t be possible, or desirable), but you can learn to handle tough feelings without getting caught up in their stories.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4011: Benjamin Hardy explores how real growth comes from a mix of discomfort and deep curiosity. He argues that the choices you make every day, what you consume, how you spend your time, and the environments you create, continually reshape your personality, your memories, and ultimately your future. His insights challenge you to stop drifting through comfortable routines and start intentionally designing the person you want to become. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/@benjaminhardy/how-to-take-ownership-and-change-your-brain-identity-and-future-252ffab07523 Quotes to ponder: "Good timber does not grow with ease; the stronger the wind, the stronger the trees." "If you're not disrupting yourself, someone else is." "What you consume determines who you become." Episode references: Braving the Wilderness: https://www.amazon.com/Braving-Wilderness-Quest-True-Belonging/dp/0812985818 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4010: Benjamin Hardy challenges the belief that personality and intelligence are fixed, arguing instead that environment, expectations, and deliberate challenges can radically reshape who we become. Drawing from psychology and neuroscience, he explains how brain plasticity, intentional growth, and continually stepping into new roles can strengthen cognitive ability and lead to better decisions. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/@benjaminhardy/how-to-take-ownership-and-change-your-brain-identity-and-future-252ffab07523 Quotes to ponder: "Who you are depends on the situation you are in." "If you do not create and control your environment, your environment creates and controls you." "Every next level of life will require a different you." Episode references: Harvard Business Review: https://hbr.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4009: Nir Eyal explores why so many people fear solitude and how constant distractions can deepen feelings of loneliness instead of relieving them. By learning to sit with discomfort, schedule intentional alone time, and understand your internal triggers, you can build stronger self-awareness, healthier relationships, and greater emotional independence. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.nirandfar.com/how-to-embrace-being-alone/ Quotes to ponder: “Building the capacity to be alone probably makes your interactions with others richer. Because you’re bringing to the relationship a person who’s actually got stuff going on inside and isn’t just a connector circuit that only thrives off of others.” “You don’t have to believe everything you think.” “It’s a curious truth that when you gently pay attention to negative emotions, they tend to dissipate, but positive ones expand.” Episode references: Indistractable: https://www.amazon.com/Indistractable-Control-Your-Attention-Choose/dp/194883653X The Comfort Crisis: https://www.amazon.com/Comfort-Crisis-Embrace-Discomfort-Reclaim/dp/0593138767 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4008: Carl Pullein reframes prioritization as a clarity problem, not a time problem, arguing that knowing what you truly want and identifying your core work makes daily decisions far easier. By aligning tasks with meaningful goals and focusing on the work you’re actually paid to do, you can reduce stress while making consistent progress in both your professional and personal life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.carlpullein.com/blog/how-to-prioritise-effectively/9/6/2021 Quotes to ponder: "You have far more tasks to complete than time available." "If you do not know what you want, you will find that everything that comes across your desk is a priority because there is no context to decide." "Prioritising is not a science. It is an art, and you will get better the more you practice it." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4007: Tynan explores how redefining success on your own terms can unlock a level of happiness that external achievements rarely deliver. By rejecting societal expectations, embracing acceptance, and appreciating the sheer improbability of being alive, he reveals a mindset that transforms everyday life into something consistently fulfilling. Listening deeper offers a refreshing blueprint for building a life that actually feels good to live. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://tynan.com/your-own-standards/ Quotes to ponder: "You can never get enough of what you don’t want." “Success is when I spend all or most of my time doing what I want to do” “You have one life, and it is yours only. So enjoy it.” Episode references: The Power of Now: https://www.amazon.com/Power-Now-Guide-Spiritual-Enlightenment/dp/1577314808 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4006: Jay Harrington explores six common mistakes that quietly derail progress, from chasing shortcuts to living someone else’s dream, and explains why experiencing them once can be a powerful turning point. His perspective reframes failure as a necessary step toward clarity, better decisions, and long-term balance. Listening through offers a grounded reminder that growth comes from learning, adjusting, and continuing forward. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.lifeandwhim.com/first-moments-blog/6-mistakes-we-all-make Quotes to ponder: "Life is like a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving." "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." "It’s critical to have the courage to chase your own dreams and make the choices that will make you happy." Episode references: S&P 500 Index Overview: https://www.investopedia.com/terms/s/sp500.asp Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4005: Irene Elias explores how fear often masks the very path your soul is urging you to take, and why choosing growth over comfort leads to a more fulfilling life. By reframing fear as a mental story and taking small, consistent actions, you can build confidence and move toward what truly matters. Listening closely reveals how to transform doubt into momentum and live with fewer regrets. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://selflovejunkie.com/how-to-follow-your-heart-even-though-youre-scared/ Quotes to ponder: "Most of the fear you feel is only a story that you've made up in your mind." "Stepping into the unknown can be scary but what's scarier is living with regrets and fighting with the what-ifs." "You gain strength courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stopped to look fear in the face." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4004: Joshua Becker explores the surprising freedom that comes from admitting our flaws, showing how honesty dismantles pride and opens the door to growth, connection, and healing. Through vulnerable reflections on his own struggles, he reveals how authenticity not only relieves internal pressure but also deepens relationships. His insights invite listeners to embrace imperfection and discover the strength found in transparency. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.becomingminimalist.com/i-am-flawed/ Quotes to ponder: “In a world where our public image can be meticulously crafted, we must work hard to embrace our authenticity.” “There is no freedom when the desire for approval exceeds the desire to be yourself.” “Confess your weakness. The sooner you call it what it is, the sooner you are able to move on from it.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices