Milf life lessons from artist & coach, Vari Longmuir.

The MILF LIFE series consisted of 15 episodes featuring 15 sexy mama's. It's been a blast! And now it's holiday season - tune in to find out what's next. 

Today's special guest, Melissa Rowe, is an accredited Mental Health worker who has spent her entire professional career working with families, especially mothers and children managing difficult transitions and situations. She's also the mama of two girls (aged 13 and 16) and has been married for 13yrs. In this episode we discuss:  How to honour the different phases of relationships and marriage How to stay connected with your partner when life gets busy How Mel navigated the transition from maiden to motherhood How to help your children freely express themselves and navigate social media How to raise sexual empowered girls (hint: it starts with you!) How to truly connect and effectively communicate with your children What Mel does to stay juiced up What Mel is prioritising now that she’s in her forties Enjoy!

Today I want to introduce you to a sexy mama of 3 and co-founder of SPNKD, an elegant adult playroom located in Antwerp, Belgium. Her name is Mir and this conversation is for the sexy mama’s out there who don’t do vanilla...or simply desire more kink in their relationship.  In this episode I ask Mir these questions: What inspired the creation of SPNKD? How do you balance motherhood, marriage, and business? What advice do you have for couples interested in kink? How open are you to family and friends about your kinky marriage? How has your sexuality evolved since becoming a mother? What does your kink life actually look like? How do you transition from kinky life to parent life? What are you currently exploring in the realms of love, sex and desire? What is your favourite sex toy? What is your favourite lingerie brand? I hope there is something here for you today.  One last thing, english is not Mir’s native language so this was a big deal for her (as it would be for any of us in her position) so I’m very grateful that she willingly stepped outside her comfort zone to do this and share her experiences on being a woman-lover-mother. Enjoy!

Jules Blaine Davis is a Kitchen Healer and mystic walking the path of a pioneer, awakening us to our hunger for permission, freedom and ease in and out of the kitchen. She invites us into a forever conversation with the mystery of our body, turning on the fire as medicine and the beauty way as deep nourishment. Jules has also been married for 15 years, has 2 kids aged 13 and 8, and is currently navigating a VERY sacred time in her life since her recent mastectomy. In this very open and honest conversation, we discuss: Why nourishment is so vital to the stories that live inside our body How Jules relationship with her body has evolved through the different phases of her life How the Divine Feminine is hungry to move through us in all our roles (be it mother, woman, lover) How Jules is navigating through the shock and sacredness of her recent mastectomy Why the process of going through something traumatic is deeply intimate, even when you’ve married 15 years How she’s tending to her own physical and sexual hunger that most women experience in a long term marriage What’s currently on her bedside table Enjoy!

Today I want to introduce you to a sexy mama who has two children, been married 3 times AND is a kick-ass journalist, editor, and author.  And by kick ass I mean: Her 2nd  memoir, The World is a Nice Place, sold out in 12 weeks in Australia and made headlines globally.  As a content creator, she’s collaborated with some of the biggest brands in the world including GoPro, Netflix, and the Sydney Opera House. She was also the editor of my fav magazine, The Collective Hub In 2019, she successfully crowdfunded her first children’s book – created to emotionally empower young children and the adults in their lives. And….to top it off, she’s also a qualified Counsellor helping thousands of people express their past with her Storytelling for Healing Public Writing workshops. Her name is Amy Molloy and in this episode, you’ll learn how she personally navigates life as a woman, lover, and mother. Plus, Amy shares the best of what she’s learned when it comes to sharing your personal stories publicly whilst also protecting yourself Enjoy!

Rachele Murray is a mama of 2 who rebuilt her life after she discovered, while 36 weeks pregnant with baby number two, that her husband of 14yrs was having an affair. This episode explores HOW she turned her life around while discussing the following topics: Losing yourself in marriage and/or motherhood Healing from betrayal or divorce Reentering the dating scene as a new mama Navigating blended family dynamics For more info visit susanafrioni.com

Today's special guest is sexy mama, artist, illustrator and mindset coach to creative types, Vari Longmuir.  Originally from Glasgow Scotland, Vari now lives by the beach just outside Melbourne with her two sons aged 7 and 9. Her woman-lover-mother journey includes marriage, divorce, dating as a single mum and re-partnering...all of which we cover in this episode today.  Here's what you'll learn: The biggest change Vari noticed since becoming a mum nine years ago The inherited beliefs about motherhood Vari needed to dismantle The challenges Vari embraced as a newly single mother in her thirties (think sexual intensity!) Why Vari was grateful to be entering the dating scene in her thirties (and not her twenties) Why getting nude photos is a powerful way to document your journey How Vari keeps the spark alive in her new partnership, Plus so much more! Enjoy!

Today's Milf in the Spotlight is the mother of 3 daughters, Tiarnie. She’s been with her husband Joel for over 18 years. In this episode we discuss: How Tiarnie consciously cultivates desire after nearly two decades of partnership The little ways Tiarnie hopes to role model a great relationship to her daughters The different ways Tiarnie has kept her erotic life thriving during the different stages of motherhood Feng shuing your bedroom for more sexy times How people use their children and pets as intimacy blockers and what they should do instead What Tiarnie does to stay feeling sexy Why taking responsibility for your own happiness within the marriage is important And so much more! Enjoy!  

This week we're exploring two main things: (1) the woman-lover-mother juggle within the blended family dynamic, and (2) why taking a stand for your child's self-expression is imperative.  Joining me for this conversation is yoga teacher, studio owner, birth doula and mother of 5, Amanda Vella.

Milf in the Spotlight is a segment on the podcast featuring stories from women within the LOVE SEX DESIRE community who are currently juggling woman, lover, and mother.   Today's sexy mama is Tani Beister. She’s been with her husband for 17years - they were high-school sweethearts. Together they have a 12yr old son. And last year, for the first time ever, they opened their marriage.  In this episode Tani and I discuss: Sexuality and womanhood after baby Exploring life in the “pleasure state” Moving towards the things that scare us most Reaching stalemate in your marriage despite doing everything in your power to make things better Radically choosing yourself and taking responsibility for all that happens when you do Having the hard conversations that rock the status quo Sexual attractions with the same-sex And so much more! Enjoy!