#119 | Maybe Instead of Wishing You Were Someone Else, Spend That Energy Investing in Yourself

Stop waiting to feel fully confident, ready, comfortable...dive in and start TAKING ACTION!.Book our Thailand Wellness Retreat Here!! // https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-olivia-catania-nov-2025.Timestamps:0:30 Don't expect to see yellow cars if you're looking for blue ones!3:05 Gratitude5:15 Last two weeks to book our wellness retreat!7:35 "Ready Isn't a Feeling, It's a Decision."8:56 Discipline vs Motivation11:39 Real Life Examples14:31 Your Life is Made of Your Decisions15:24 Where are you waiting to feel ready?16:48 Confidence Builds By Doing17:51 Life is Meant to Be LIVED19:42 Affirmation.Affirmation: "Every decision I make is proof that I am ready for the life I desire.".WATCH ON YOUTUBE // https://www.youtube.com/@livfiitlistens/videos.Shop my favorite books here // https://www.amazon.com/shop/livfiit?listId=20MNY4GGY77KN*This is my affiliated Amazon Storefront. I do receive a small commission when you shop through this link.*.Youtube (@LIVFIIT) // https://www.youtube.com/c/Livfiit/videosInstagram (@LIVFIIT) // https://www.instagram.com/livfiit/?hlSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If your life feels stale and you're craving newness, excitement, more passion - then it's time to lean into your soul's nudges! That random hit you have to take a new class, work at a coffee shop, try out a different gym, etc listen to those!! Even if they seem like passing thoughts with no real significance, think again. They carry more impact than you think and especially in ways you may not expect!!.Thailand Wellness Retreat // https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-olivia-catania-nov-2025.Timestamps:0:30 Hi Hi!2:40 Act on your nudges4:54 Real life examples13:27 Divine timing vs MAKING it happen!15:10 Affirmation & Summary.WATCH ON YOUTUBE // https://www.youtube.com/@livfiitlistens/videos.Shop my favorite books here // https://www.amazon.com/shop/livfiit?listId=20MNY4GGY77KN*This is my affiliated Amazon Storefront. I do receive a small commission when you shop through this link.*.Youtube (@LIVFIIT) // https://www.youtube.com/c/Livfiit/videosInstagram (@LIVFIIT) // https://www.instagram.com/livfiit/?hlSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

"The truth will set you free, but it will probably piss you off first"!!It's so easy to feel defensive when receiving hard feedback but those moments are actually portals for growing into your best self. Illuminating your blind spots, where you are subconsciously holding yourself back, when you are acting out of alignment, etc - these are not attacks, they are awareness of your blocks so you can become better!! When you fully recognize this you can see constructive criticism in a new light, as a form of freedom, and a blessings for uncovering the way forward..Thailand Wellness Retreat // https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-olivia-catania-nov-2025.Timestamps:0:30 Welcome back!!1:31 Gratitude2:48 Being Receptive to Criticism 8:23 Constructive Feedback is the Portal to Growth10:00 Relationships Take Effort for TRUE Connection11:50 Taking Accountability Improves Our Lives Completely13:00 "The Truth Will Set You Free, But It Will Probably Piss You Off First"19:09 Summary21:18 Affirmation.WATCH ON YOUTUBE // https://www.youtube.com/@livfiitlistens/videos.Shop my favorite books here // https://www.amazon.com/shop/livfiit?listId=20MNY4GGY77KN*This is my affiliated Amazon Storefront. I do receive a small commission when you shop through this link.*.Youtube (@LIVFIIT) // https://www.youtube.com/c/Livfiit/videosInstagram (@LIVFIIT) // https://www.instagram.com/livfiit/?hlSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WOW this is such a deeply personal and vulnerable story but honestly, this podcast isn't about me. It's about bringing powerful, impactful messages to those who need to hear it - with the intention to help even if that means feeling uncomfortable in the delivery at times. I want to disclaim, this episode is NOT going to be for everyone! We are diving into complex topics of inner child healing, reparenting, deep meditation, energy work, and somatic therapy. I recently had such a powerful meditation that was so healing and transformative and I wanted to share the story and technique with you. If you have a deep seeded trauma or limiting belief that seems to continue to run your life no matter how hard you try to talk or think your way through it, this may just be the solution you were looking for. These traumatic emotions and events live within our body and if we don't ever truly clear them, they will continue to resurface just like a weed if you never take the root out of the ground. Today I walk you through my meditative experience as well as give you a step by step guide to go on this journey yourself. This practice is applicable to so many situations but for me, I was focusing on my fear around life long commitment and marriage. .Thailand Wellness Retreat // https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-olivia-catania-nov-2025.Timestamps:0:30 Disclaimer2:40 Gratitude4:20 Somatic Therapy11:50 Meditation Storytime35:15 Process Summary.WATCH ON YOUTUBE // https://www.youtube.com/@livfiitlistens/videos.Shop my favorite books here // https://www.amazon.com/shop/livfiit?listId=20MNY4GGY77KN*This is my affiliated Amazon Storefront. I do receive a small commission when you shop through this link.*.Youtube (@LIVFIIT) // https://www.youtube.com/c/Livfiit/videosInstagram (@LIVFIIT) // https://www.instagram.com/livfiit/?hlSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We live in a world of constant comparison which can lead to self abandonment in wishing you were someone else or looked like your favorite IG inspo. We think that since we don't have so and so's life or we don't look like her, that's why we're unhappy with ourselves and our lives. But what if I told you you have it backwards? And that actually if you spent all that energy that you're wasting on romanticizing everyone else on investing in yourself, you and your life would be a whole lot different. You are one of one and in order to maximize that, you need to own it! Own your differences, your authenticity, what makes you YOU! You will never be anyone else so you may as well start loving yourself and see how far that can take you..Thailand Wellness Retreat // https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-olivia-catania-nov-2025.Timestamps:0:30 Hello!0:55 All growth doesn't always happen at the same pace3:33 Stop wishing to be anyone other than you6:23 You aren't allowing yourself to flourish10:25 Embrace you because you're all you got11:35 Pour that energy into YOU to become someone you LOVE13:39 Give yourself the space to blossom22:15 Closing and Affirmation.Affirmation: “I am one of one and that’s what makes me valuable, rare, and so special.".WATCH ON YOUTUBE // https://www.youtube.com/@livfiitlistens/videos.Shop my favorite books here // https://www.amazon.com/shop/livfiit?listId=20MNY4GGY77KN*This is my affiliated Amazon Storefront. I do receive a small commission when you shop through this link.*.Youtube (@LIVFIIT) // https://www.youtube.com/c/Livfiit/videosInstagram (@LIVFIIT) // https://www.instagram.com/livfiit/?hlSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you constantly feel so lost in the hustle, the grind, the hunt for results, this episode is for you. Micromanaging and endless checking for progress leads to an unenjoyable work flow, discouraging atmosphere, energy leaks away from taking productive action steps, and broadcasts that you simply are NOT where you want to be - perpetuating that state. Today, I speak about why being so immersed and embodied in the process is the absolutely cheat code and ironically gets you to arrive with ease..Thailand Wellness Retreat // https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-olivia-catania-nov-2025.No timestamps today cause I was just in a flow lolz.Affirmation: “I put all my energy into the process because I trust it is all already unfolding for me.".WATCH ON YOUTUBE // https://www.youtube.com/@livfiitlistens/videos.Shop my favorite books here // https://www.amazon.com/shop/livfiit?listId=20MNY4GGY77KN*This is my affiliated Amazon Storefront. I do receive a small commission when you shop through this link.*.Youtube (@LIVFIIT) // https://www.youtube.com/c/Livfiit/videosInstagram (@LIVFIIT) // https://www.instagram.com/livfiit/?hlSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you're someone with a big vision and dream for your life but you're fearful of it never actualizing, this episode is for you!!.Thailand Wellness Retreat // https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-olivia-catania-nov-2025.Timestamps0:00 Welcome and Gratitude!3:16 Manifesting types5:07 Big dreams can be daunting!6:43 You ALREADY ARE living your dream life NOW14:14 You are in the middle of what you've prayed for18:40 Your success is INEVITABLE30:02 Success is a journey not a destination31:14 Recap and Affy.Affirmation: “ My success is inevitable and everything I do is more than enough to create the life of my dreams.".WATCH ON YOUTUBE // https://www.youtube.com/@livfiitlistens/videos.Shop my favorite books here // https://www.amazon.com/shop/livfiit?listId=20MNY4GGY77KN*This is my affiliated Amazon Storefront. I do receive a small commission when you shop through this link.*.Youtube (@LIVFIIT) // https://www.youtube.com/c/Livfiit/videosInstagram (@LIVFIIT) // https://www.instagram.com/livfiit/?hlSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today we have a meaty episode fully diving into avoidant attachment styles. What it means, common avoidant themes, and how to heal into secure, healthy attachments. .Thailand Wellness Retreat // https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-olivia-catania-nov-2025.Timestamps0:00 Welcome and Gratitude!2:51 Thailand Retreat5:25 What is an avoidant attachment?9:16 Common Avoidant Themes10:31 Build Pattern Awareness16:43 Challenge Your Narratives to Uncover Beliefs21:24 Reframe Your Beliefs29:26 Nervous System Regulation32:57 Slow Down Before You React35:30 Heal the Root with Your Inner Parent40:33 Practice Vulnerable Conversation42:00 Exposure Therapy lolz44:44 Summary and Affirmation.Affirmation: “ It is safe for me to love openly, remain vulnerable, and experience deep connection.".WATCH ON YOUTUBE // https://www.youtube.com/@livfiitlistens/videos.Shop my favorite books here // https://www.amazon.com/shop/livfiit?listId=20MNY4GGY77KN*This is my affiliated Amazon Storefront. I do receive a small commission when you shop through this link.*.Youtube (@LIVFIIT) // https://www.youtube.com/c/Livfiit/videosInstagram (@LIVFIIT) // https://www.instagram.com/livfiit/?hlSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

MAN THIS IS A GOOD ONE!! Listen to this bad boy all the way through I promise you'll have some big break throughs and takeaways!! I know we've all been there - feeling completely out of control with our emotions, are reactions are impulsive, and our view on things get distorted. Then we struggle to come back from our "episode" because we don't want to invalidate our original feelings but here's the thing...emotions are POWERFUL and if we aren't careful they will completely overshadow our lives. In today's epi I speak allll about how to effectively get a hold of your emotions and diffuse the situation with a step by step process and also how to reframe situations to set you up for more self serving reactions. This episode is sooo important with so many life lesson golden nuggets that you'll want to take with you through the rest of your life..Thailand Wellness Retreat // https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-olivia-catania-nov-2025.Timestamps0:00 Welcome and Gratitude!2:18 The Power of Being Well Composed8:52 Create Space with Your Emotions13:21 Stop Identifying with How You Feel15:17 YOU Energize Your Reactions, Not the Situation18:15 Slow Down + Have Awareness20:34 It's Okay to Swallow Your Pride22:43 Take Time Between Your Emotion and Reaction25:08 Start Practicing by Yourself26:09 Acknowledge How You Feel so It Can Pass Through27:27 What You Do Alone Forms Habits31:22 Summary and Affirmation34:48 Livfiit Thailand Retreat! Woohoo!!.Affirmation: “I am well composed with my reactions and emotions.".WATCH ON YOUTUBE // https://www.youtube.com/@livfiitlistens/videos.Shop my favorite books here // https://www.amazon.com/shop/livfiit?listId=20MNY4GGY77KN*This is my affiliated Amazon Storefront. I do receive a small commission when you shop through this link.*.Youtube (@LIVFIIT) // https://www.youtube.com/c/Livfiit/videosInstagram (@LIVFIIT) // https://www.instagram.com/livfiit/?hlSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Feeling burnt out, unfulfilled, and in overdrive?? We live in a world where we operate from our analytical brains. As much as that is needed and has its place, if we don't balance it with soulful creation, we will be left feeling passionless and stuck. In today's episode, we discuss WHY we need to incorporate both energies and how it's actually advantageous to create from a heart led place. As our truest core, we are divine intelligence and consciousness and the sure way to tap into that wisdom is to get out of our heads and into our hearts. I share exactly HOW to actually get in that space, one of them being to spend less time on your phone so I also share tips on that to cut the distraction. .Thailand Wellness Retreat // https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-olivia-catania-nov-2025.Timestamps0:00 Welcome and Gratitude!3:47 The Innate Wisdom of BEING12:11 How to Get into Your Heart Space28:07 Tips to Get off of Your Phone and Stop Scrolling36:55 Summary and Affirmation38:18 Livfiit Thailand Retreat! Woohoo!!.Affirmation: “I allow my unique interpretation of consciousness to flow through all that I do.".WATCH ON YOUTUBE // https://www.youtube.com/@livfiitlistens/videos.Shop my favorite books here // https://www.amazon.com/shop/livfiit?listId=20MNY4GGY77KN*This is my affiliated Amazon Storefront. I do receive a small commission when you shop through this link.*.Youtube (@LIVFIIT) // https://www.youtube.com/c/Livfiit/videosInstagram (@LIVFIIT) // https://www.instagram.com/livfiit/?hlSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.