E #472: How to Diffuse Conflict Fast: A 3-Step Framework for Better Relationships

In this episode of Built for the Edge, Kehla drops a tool so powerful it will completely rewire how you communicate—with your clients, your partner, your kids, and even yourself. This isn’t fluffy mindset talk or toxic positivity. It’s a trifecta process that cuts straight to the root of conflict, dissolves misunderstandings in seconds, and builds intimacy and trust in every relationship. For the first time in six years, Kehla is bringing back her most-shared coaching framework—the one she’s used for over a decade with paying clients to help them self-coach, hold space without bypassing, and take radical ownership in their business and life. If you’re tired of surface-level “just be compassionate” advice and want a concrete method to listen deeply, validate others without people-pleasing, and stay regulated even in heated conversations… this is your episode. 🔥 Bonus: Kehla even shares how to use this tool with ChatGPT to uplevel your self-reflection game. This isn’t just a podcast episode—it’s a crash course in next-level leadership and communication that will change the way you show up forever. Check out Kehla's website Grab Kehla’s Complimentary Resources Follow Kehla on IG

In this episode of Built for the Edge, Kehla sits down with Bolutiwi Aiyesimoju, founder of Magniessence, for a raw and expansive conversation about the journey from overachieving and control to feminine embodiment and spaciousness. Together, they explore what happens when high-achieving women finally stop muscling their way through life and business—and choose to lead with their true essence. Bolutiwi shares her powerful story of hitting a breaking point, hiring her first coach, and unraveling the belief that her worth was tied to her results. Kehla and Bolutiwi dive into: ✨ The pivotal moment that shifted Bolutiwi from “life is happening by me” to “life is happening through me” ✨ How to recognize when control is masking fear—and what it looks like to release it ✨ Practical ways to move out of the head and back into the body using your four centers of intelligence ✨ Why creating spaciousness is an essential skill for women leading in business and life ✨ The art of balancing masculine structure with feminine flow to sustain success without burnout This episode is packed with metaphors, humor, and truth bombs that will leave listeners feeling seen, empowered, and inspired to reconnect with their own innate wisdom. 🎧 Tune in and discover why doing less—and being more—is the ultimate power move. Follow Bolutiwi on Instagram + LinkedIn Join the Next Level Living Immersion (July 26-27th)   Check out Kehla's website Grab Kehla’s Complimentary Resources Follow Kehla on IG

In this episode of Build for the Edge, Kehla calls bullsh*t on the highlight reels flooding your feed—screenshots of five-figure months, “life-changing” breakthroughs, and perfectly packaged success stories. She’s pulling back the curtain on what no one talks about: the raw, messy, human experiences women navigate inside paid containers while scaling their businesses. Court battles. Health scares. Loss. Motherhood. Grief. Moving. Life doesn’t pause when you invest in your growth—and most coaches won’t tell you that. This isn’t about playing the victim or bypassing hard seasons. It’s about building the capacity to hold it all—your life, your business, your vision—and lead anyway. Kehla drops the kind of truth that will have you questioning how you’ve been showing up and what it really takes to thrive at your edge. To celebrate the rebrand, Kehla's launching a GIVEAWAY. One lucky listener will win a 90-minute 1:1 business session (valued at $1,000+ USD). All you have to do is: Leave a written review on Apple Podcasts Give 5 stars on Spotify Submit your screenshots via this link Bonus entry: Share this episode on Instagram and tag @kehlag Giveaway closes July 17 — winner announced July 18. Check out Kehla's website Grab Kehla’s Complimentary Resources Follow Kehla on IG

In this powerful episode, Kehla G officially unveils the bold new era of her podcast: Built for the Edge. After over six years under Living in Fierce Alignment, this transformation isn’t just a name change—it’s an identity shift, a strategic pivot, and the next evolution of her business and leadership. Kehla takes you behind the scenes of this rebrand, walking you through the inner work, massive personal growth, and pivotal decisions that led to retiring The Edge Mastermind and claiming the full force of her brand’s edge. From navigating client transitions and personal loss to confronting misalignment in her offers, Kehla shares it all—raw, real, and radically honest. Inside this episode: ‼️ Why the Edge Mastermind had to end (even though it was profitable) ‼️ What it really looks like to build a business at the edge of your potential ‼️ How identity work, Human Design, and Gene Keys shaped this next chapter ‼️ Why staying "right" about your current reality might be keeping you stuck ‼️ The difference between collapse and conscious recalibration 🔥 And the cherry on top? To celebrate the rebrand, Kehla's launching a GIVEAWAY. One lucky listener will win a 90-minute 1:1 business session (valued at $1,000+ USD). All you have to do is: Leave a written review on Apple Podcasts Give 5 stars on Spotify Submit your screenshots via this link Bonus entry: Share this episode on Instagram and tag @kehlag Giveaway closes July 17 — winner announced July 18. This episode is the mic drop moment that marks the beginning of something much bigger. If you’re ready to scale with alignment, deepen your leadership, and build a business that reflects your real edge—this is your invitation. Check out Kehla's website Grab Kehla’s Complimentary Resources Follow Kehla on IG

Want to create content that actually connects and converts? Forget the cookie-cutter formulas and one-size-fits-all strategies—this episode is all about harnessing your Human Design to create magnetic, high-impact content. In this value-packed conversation, Kehla sits down with Samantha Riley, an authority positioning strategist and 6/2 Sacral Generator, to dive into: The five key planets in your Human Design chart that shape your most aligned messaging How to attract the right clients without forcing engagement The biggest Human Design myths holding entrepreneurs back from authentic expression Why trust is more important than visibility when it comes to conversions The real reason storytelling is your most powerful sales tool Plus, Sam shares her ChatGPT-powered freebie to help you decode your prosperity code and align your offers with your energy. Listen now and learn how to create content that actually moves your audience—and your business—forward. Follow Samantha on IG Listen to her podcast Download the The Prosperity GPT   Connect with Kehla: Check out Kehla's website Grab Kehla’s Freebies Follow Kehla on IG

In this episode, Kehla breaks down one of the most common patterns holding entrepreneurs back: the month-to-month survival cycle. From last-minute launches and constant content tweaking to flash sales and burnout, this cycle keeps visionary leaders from actually building momentum in their business. But the root of the issue isn't strategy alone — it's misalignment with how one is designed to lead. Kehla takes listeners through the shadow behaviors of all six Human Design profile lines and shares how each line is uniquely meant to embody leadership and long-term vision — not just those with a 6th line. She offers a powerful reframe on what it actually means to play the long game in business and why waiting for evidence to validate action is a trap. Listeners will walk away with: 🚀 A deeper understanding of how their Human Design profile impacts leadership and decision-making 🚀 The real reason why sales strategies often fall flat (hint: it's not about needing more bonuses) 🚀 A call to lead boldly, even when the evidence hasn’t caught up yet If you're an entrepreneur who's tired of short-term tactics and you’re ready to lead with your design, build real momentum, and scale your business sustainably — this episode is for you. Sign up for Designed to Lead Masterclass Series - June 24th, 16th + 30th (replays available for al limited time) Join Signature Program by Design - DOORS CLOSE JULY 6th. Check out Kehla's website Grab Kehla’s Complimentary Resources Follow Kehla on IG

In this explosive episode, Kehla G pulls back the curtain on one of the most violating — yet rarely talked about — experiences in the online business space: having your intellectual property stolen and sold by scammers. Kehla shares the real-time story of how she discovered her signature course, Signature Program by Design, had been pirated and listed across seven different shady websites — and how within two hours, she had six of them taken down. With raw honesty, fierce conviction, and a dose of strategic wisdom, she walks listeners through exactly how it unfolded, what she did to take back her power, and why this entire experience is a line-in-the-sand moment for creators everywhere. She also covers: 💥 The warning signs of fraudulent purchases 💥 How to legally and professionally respond to piracy 💥 Why refund policies and terms are your first defense 💥 The emotional rollercoaster of being exploited online — and rising above it 💥 How this event lit a fire under her current launch and deepened her conviction This episode isn’t just a story. It’s a rally cry for entrepreneurs to protect their work, trust their gut, and show up with unapologetic leadership. If you’ve ever had your work stolen, been hit with a chargeback, or felt the sting of being taken advantage of online, this one will hit home — and leave you more empowered than ever. Sign up for Designed to Lead Masterclass Series - June 24th, 16th + 30th (replays available for al limited time) Join Signature Program by Design - DOORS CLOSE JULY 6th. Make a Copy of: 🛡️ Piracy Response Guide - ChatGPT Prompts Check out Kehla's website Grab Kehla’s Complimentary Resources Follow Kehla on IG

In this episode of Living in Fierce Alignment, Kehla is joined by Andrew Colombini, a BioType Sales & Marketing Expert who helps coaches and entrepreneurs align their business strategies with how people naturally trust and buy. Together, they dive into the fascinating world of biotypes—how your physical makeup reveals your dominant hormones, brain wiring, and natural rhythms, and how this impacts everything from your energy and decision-making to your ideal clients and sales process. Andrew shares how he uses BioTypes and behavioral science to remove the guesswork from marketing and sales, helping business owners sell smarter, not harder. Kehla and Andrew also explore: The six biotypes and how they form in the womb Why knowing your dominant hormone gives you a business edge How biotypes complement Human Design and Gene Keys The surprising link between body type, brain wiring, and sales style What it looks like to market and lead in alignment with your biology Whether you’re a coach, creative, or entrepreneur craving more ease and alignment in your business, this conversation will leave you feeling seen, validated, and deeply energized. Andrew also shares a powerful free resource to help you identify your ideal client and refine your messaging using biotype wisdom. Follow Andrew on IG The BioType Blueprint Guide Join Andrew's FB group   Check out Kehla's website Grab Kehla’s Complimentary Resources Follow Kehla on IG

In this unapologetically real and radically transparent episode, Kehla sits down with business mentor Annie Whitney to crack open the often glossed-over realities of online entrepreneurship—and the hidden cost of scaling without integrity. What starts as a casual chat between two coaches quickly turns into a fiery, heart-led exploration of what it really takes to lead in this industry—beyond the screenshots, beyond the hype, and beyond the seductive promise of proximity-based transformation. Together, they unravel: – The illusion of “the transformation is in the transaction” (and what’s actually in the transformation) – How pedestal dynamics undermine trust, power, and true mentorship – The energetic difference between chasing strategy vs. choosing integrity – Why the obsession with 10K months is burning entrepreneurs out – What most leaders aren’t saying about failed launches, ghosted DMs, and navigating slow seasons – How to lead (and invest) from discernment, depth, and devotion—not delusion Whether you’re a seasoned coach or rising entrepreneur, this episode will have you questioning the rules you’ve been told to follow—and returning to the values you actually want to build your business on. ⚡ This is the kind of conversation that usually happens behind paywalls or in private Voxer threads—but Kehla and Annie are bringing it into the light. 🎧 Tune in and walk away with a renewed sense of power, presence, and possibility in how you lead, scale, and show up in your work. Follow Kehla → @kehlag Follow Anne → @annewhitney_ Check out Kehla's website Grab Kehla’s Freebies Follow Kehla on IG

In the final episode of The Truth About Building a Business That’s Real, Raw, and Still Rising, Kehla brings us into the present—and gives us a powerful vision of the future. After sharing the chaos, collapse, and identity crises of the past few years, this episode dives into what it really looks like to rebuild a business from financial rock bottom and still choose to rise—again and again. Kehla unpacks the journey from 30K in debt to crossing her first six-figure year, the creation of Signature Program by Design (her most successful offer to date), and the behind-the-scenes refinement that made it all possible. She gets radically honest about the cost of building a business—emotionally, financially, spiritually—and why she’s still not profitable, even after years of momentum. This isn’t a story about overnight success. It’s a story about staying when it gets hard, being of service when no one’s watching, and owning your power when everything around you says you shouldn’t. This episode is the permission slip for the spiritual entrepreneur who’s ready to finally stop waiting to feel ready—and start building from exactly where they are. 💭 Question to sit with: What if you stopped waiting to feel ready… and started building from exactly where you are? Let me know if you'd like a shorter version for Instagram, or if you want an email written with this episode as the feature!   Work with Kehla: Check out Kehla's website Grab Kehla’s Complimentary Resources Follow Kehla on IG