Listen to this when: you’re pretending to be ok, and self-care isn’t working | Ask Kalyn

How to forgive the trauma caused by our parents, how to know when or if you want kids, how to find yourself again as a mom, how to navigate your parenting values with a partner and how to give grace to yourself during the lowest, worst times -- these are all of the topics I'm giving advice on today! Thank you to this episode's sponsor! • Shopify - Go to shopify.com/kctalk now to grow your business–no matter what stage you’re in. More about the show: • If you want early access to videos, bonus checklists, join the yoga studio, come to community events, enter monthly challenges or have more cozy/motivational content be sure to join the Kalyn Nicholson channel & become a member. https://www.youtube.com/@KalynNicholson • To watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@KalynsCoffeeTalk/ • Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening or by using this link: http://bit.ly/KalynsCoffeeTalk Follow Kalyn: • Kalyn's Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/ Kalyn's Books: •Catcher [dystopian fiction]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE •Dancing With Elephants [poetry]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF •FEELS [self-development]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1 Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today’s chat came on a day where I was feeling super low energy. So I took that feeling into our chat and shared the full-proof ways I like to push through on days I’m not feeling overly motivated along with some other inspiring ideas to keep going when the going gets tough (or tired).  Thank you to this episode's sponsor! • Marley Spoon: Head to MarleySpoon.com/OFFER/TALK and use code TALK for up to 25 FREE meals! More about the show: • If you want early access to videos, bonus checklists, join the yoga studio, come to community events, enter monthly challenges or have more cozy/motivational content be sure to join the Kalyn Nicholson channel & become a member. https://www.youtube.com/@KalynNicholson • To watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@KalynsCoffeeTalk/ • Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening or by using this link: http://bit.ly/KalynsCoffeeTalk Follow Kalyn: • Kalyn's Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/ Kalyn's Books: •Catcher [dystopian fiction]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE •Dancing With Elephants [poetry]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF •FEELS [self-development]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1 Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

How to stop aiming low and start believing in yourself again, after feeling down for a long, long time.  Thank you to this episode's sponsor! • OneSkin: Get started today with 15% off using code TALK at oneskin.co.  • Trumeta: Go right now to Trumeta.com/Coffee and you will get a FREE electric mixer and 40% OFF the coffee. More about the show: • If you want early access to videos, bonus checklists, join the yoga studio, come to community events, enter monthly challenges or have more cozy/motivational content be sure to join the Kalyn Nicholson channel & become a member. https://www.youtube.com/@KalynNicholson • To watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@KalynsCoffeeTalk/ • Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening or by using this link: http://bit.ly/KalynsCoffeeTalk Follow Kalyn: • Kalyn's Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/ Kalyn's Books: •Catcher [dystopian fiction]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE •Dancing With Elephants [poetry]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF •FEELS [self-development]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1 Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today’s talk is about the journey, changes and transitions of womanhood and going into motherhood without that presence of a mother figure.  Thank you to this episode's sponsor! • Marley Spoon - Head to https://marleyspoon.com/offer/TALK  and use code TALK for up to 25 FREE meals! •Trade Coffee: For a limited time, enjoy a free bag and up to $15 off select plans when you visit my link drinktrade.com/talk. • Liquid IV: Get 20% off your first order when you go to LIQUIDIV.COM and use code TALK at checkout. More about the show: • If you want early access to videos, bonus checklists, join the yoga studio, come to community events, enter monthly challenges or have more cozy/motivational content be sure to join the Kalyn Nicholson channel & become a member. https://www.youtube.com/@KalynNicholson • To watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@KalynsCoffeeTalk/ • Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening or by using this link: http://bit.ly/KalynsCoffeeTalk Follow Kalyn: • Kalyn's Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/ Kalyn's Books: •Catcher [dystopian fiction]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE •Dancing With Elephants [poetry]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF •FEELS [self-development]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1 Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It's been 3 years since I first posted 'how to practice non-attachment'. Today, I'm revisiting the concept and seeing how my life and thoughts have changed in that time. Check out EP 1 of Ask Kalyn: https://youtu.be/assEcfWBssg Thank you to this episode's sponsor! • Trumeta: Go right now to Trumeta.com/Coffee and you will get a FREE electric mixer and 40% OFF the coffee. More about the show: • If you want early access to videos, bonus checklists, join the yoga studio, come to community events, enter monthly challenges or have more cozy/motivational content be sure to join the Kalyn Nicholson channel & become a member. https://www.youtube.com/@KalynNicholson • To watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@KalynsCoffeeTalk/ • Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening or by using this link: http://bit.ly/KalynsCoffeeTalk Follow Kalyn: • Kalyn's Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/ Kalyn's Books: •Catcher [dystopian fiction]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE •Dancing With Elephants [poetry]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF •FEELS [self-development]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1 Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Channel the new season of spring with this talk about renewing your state of body, mind, soul and goals. We’re talking about finding balance, thriving in our old granny spring era, starting new projects and hobbies, and ultimately, deep cleaning our lives. It’s out with the old and in with the new, so grab a coffee and dive in!  Thank you to this episode's sponsor! • Trumeta: Go right now to Trumeta.com/Coffee and you will get a FREE electric mixer and 40% OFF the coffee. • Trade Coffee: Right now, Trade is offering up to $15 off select plans -- and you get your first bag of coffee free. Just visit drinktrade.com/talk. More about the show: • If you want early access to videos, bonus checklists, join the yoga studio, come to community events, enter monthly challenges or have more cozy/motivational content be sure to join the Kalyn Nicholson channel & become a member. https://www.youtube.com/@KalynNicholson • To watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@KalynsCoffeeTalk/ • Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening or by using this link: http://bit.ly/KalynsCoffeeTalk Follow Kalyn: • Kalyn's Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/ Kalyn's Books: •Catcher [dystopian fiction]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE •Dancing With Elephants [poetry]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF •FEELS [self-development]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1 Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Welcome to my new spring series: Ask Kalyn! Every other talk over the next few weeks will be giving advice sent in anonymously by listeners. Today's topic is how to stop pretending to be ok, despite doing all the 'self care', and actually feel your not-okayness. Thank you to this episode's sponsor! • Marley Spoon - Head to https://marleyspoon.com/offer/TALK  and use code TALK for up to 25 FREE meals! • Trumeta: Go right now to Trumeta.com/Coffee and you will get a FREE electric mixer and 40% OFF the coffee. • OneSkin - Get 15% off OneSkin with the code TALK at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod More about the show: • If you want early access to videos, bonus checklists, join the yoga studio, come to community events, enter monthly challenges or have more cozy/motivational content be sure to join the Kalyn Nicholson channel & become a member. https://www.youtube.com/@KalynNicholson • To watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@KalynsCoffeeTalk/ • Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening or by using this link: http://bit.ly/KalynsCoffeeTalk Follow Kalyn: • Kalyn's Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/ Kalyn's Books: •Catcher [dystopian fiction]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE •Dancing With Elephants [poetry]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF •FEELS [self-development]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1 Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Talking with Jessica Baum, psychotherapist, speaker and author of the book Anxiously Attached about attachment styles, dysfunction, healing our attachment wounds and learning to thrive in an insecurely attached society.  Find out more about Jessica here: https://www.beselffull.com/  Jessica’s Book ‘Anxiously Attached’: https://a.co/d/45zHGjT  Thank you to this episode's sponsor! • Quince - Indulge in affordable luxury! Go to Quince.com/TALK for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. • Shopify - Go to shopify.com/kctalk now to grow your business–no matter what stage you’re in. • Trumeta: Go right now to Trumeta.com/Coffee and you will get a FREE electric mixer and 40% OFF the coffee. More about the show: • If you want early access to videos, bonus checklists, join the yoga studio, come to community events, enter monthly challenges or have more cozy/motivational content be sure to join the Kalyn Nicholson channel & become a member. https://www.youtube.com/@KalynNicholson • To watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@KalynsCoffeeTalk/ • Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening or by using this link: http://bit.ly/KalynsCoffeeTalk Follow Kalyn: • Kalyn's Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/ Kalyn's Books: •Catcher [dystopian fiction]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE •Dancing With Elephants [poetry]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF •FEELS [self-development]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1 Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In today’s talk, I’m discussing a lot of the hard learned lessons that come about moving through the decade of our 20s. Everything from failures, relationships, passions and growth. To end the conversation, I share a few things that I’m excited for but also scared about moving into the next decade of the 30s. Pour up a cup and come join, no matter your age!  Thank you to this episode's sponsor! • Trumeta: Go right now to Trumeta.com/Coffee and you will get a FREE electric mixer and 40% OFF the coffee. More about the show: • If you want early access to videos, bonus checklists, join the yoga studio, come to community events, enter monthly challenges or have more cozy/motivational content be sure to join the Kalyn Nicholson channel & become a member. https://www.youtube.com/@KalynNicholson • To watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@KalynsCoffeeTalk/ • Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening or by using this link: http://bit.ly/KalynsCoffeeTalk Follow Kalyn: • Kalyn's Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/ Kalyn's Books: •Catcher [dystopian fiction]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE •Dancing With Elephants [poetry]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF •FEELS [self-development]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1 Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Join me for a healthy debate over whether or not the terms 'masculine' and 'feminine' have become outdated or not, including listener input! Thank you to this episode's sponsors! • Trumeta: Go right now to Trumeta.com/Coffee and you will get a FREE electric mixer and 40% OFF the coffee. • Vegamour - For a limited time, get 20% off your first subscription order by going to VEGAMOUR.com/TALK and use code TALK at check out. More about the show: • If you want early access to videos, bonus checklists, join the yoga studio, come to community events, enter monthly challenges or have more cozy/motivational content be sure to join the Kalyn Nicholson channel & become a member. https://www.youtube.com/@KalynNicholson • To watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@KalynsCoffeeTalk/ • Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening or by using this link: http://bit.ly/KalynsCoffeeTalk Follow Kalyn: • Kalyn's Instagram ▹ https://www.instagram.com/kalynnicholson13/ Kalyn's Books: •Catcher [dystopian fiction]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G7QSGM2/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_ND2283Y3PSS6R819JGYE •Dancing With Elephants [poetry]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415132/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_1YY0TYZ5KT9TE6DM1HQF •FEELS [self-development]: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999415124/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4EJ7S7CFYBGE1K68GGW1 Disclaimer: I am not a mental health specialist, just a Canadian gal with an old soul who likes to crack the ice on deep conversations that can foster personal growth and positive change. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices